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Please help... I don't know what to do.
16/F
I'm a very observative person, and I'm not a total recluse, I have a ton of amazing friends. I'm actually really popular at my high school. I'm a cheerleader, student body VP, drama club president...
But... I have a really bad habit of watching people and growing attatched to them even though I've never spoken to them, or spoken to them maybe once. I just like observing people, I don't act stalkerish or anything. And say they move or graduate... and I miss them terribly.
I feel like I know them even though I don't, then I don't know how to handle losing them because I can't just say "Hey! Call me! Keep in touch," because they barely or don't even know me... What do I do? I don't know how to handle this... I know it's unhealthy...
I still miss people who I haven't seen in years that I never even talked to...
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im like that.im an ovbserver too.i think the reason why you miss them even though youv never spoken to them is because you have an attraction to them.you feel a connection.it happens and the more you see them the more you feel for them.
sometimes you may think that you have a connection wtih them but once you talk to them theyr not what you thought they were.the best thing you can do is forget about those people from the past that you liked and to move forward.next time you observe someone and feel soemthing for them you should just go up to them and talk to them.you say your popular so you must have plenty of self esteem.just talk to them get to know them and become their friend.the most you can loose is that person rejecting you and even then you just get back on that horse and find someone else you like.
:)hope it helped xo
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I think you do this because you see something in them that you like i think the only way to stop this is by staying busy and just not thinking about them because the less you think about them the less you'll miss them or maybe see a school counsellor or doctor or even a pyscaiatrist or something im sure they can help you out more then me but hope i helped a little :)
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