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Ok I started this advice site to help out others. My friends say I give good advice but they could just be saying that to be nice lol. Tell me what you think by rating me (1-5, 1 l worst, 5 best). Good or bad, your rate will be appreciated!! Thank you!!
About Me
Basically I'm 13 and i love to draw, swim, play volleyball and soccer, dance, sing, and hang out with friends. i love collecting purses haha, i have this huge purse collection in the back of my closet, most of them i never even use lol. i also like the shop and travel. i make madprofiles and i LOVE movies haha. i pretty much like anything non-academic related lol..god i'm so glad summer's started. anyways that's pretty much all about me!!
How do you rate me?
I think you have to be an advicenators member..i'm not really sure, so you have to ask me a question and when you log onto your username, under My Questions, you see my response and you are given the choice to rate it from 1-5. I think that's about it, cyass!
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E-mail: sappyacorn2@yahoo.com
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how do you smear poop on a green sweater? (link)
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hahaha VERY funny. just poo on a green sweater and smear it with your hand...i mean DUHH. and i'd like to congratulation you on asking me the most random question i've like ever heard lol (j/k!!) luv ya :)
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Dear shortiebebe021,
do its almost summer and i use pads..but i hate them! they get so sick..anyway i want to use tampons so i tried two times and it hurt. so i cant use them.what should i do? its almost summer and i want to wear my bikini.
signed,
summer sweetie (link)
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either you just learn to deal with pads or learn how to use tampons. i'd want pads more since they're more comfortable and all and tampons hurt...but it's up to you. ask someone to help you learn to use tampons. you'll have to learn how to use it sooner or later anyway. and you can totally wear your bikini without either one of them, i don't know i don't know a lot about tampons really lol. sorry i sort of failed at giving advice for this one...sorry :(!!
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ok like my friend dosent know what like 1'st base and 2nd base and 3rd base and stuff means and shes depending on me to tell her i mean like how do i tell her and i mean i cant belive she dosent know... (link)
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well i think you should just tell her, but if you don't really want to say it exactly, maybe you could show her a website that explains it all? or you could email her and tell her instead so it's a little less uncomfortable. try to tell her in ways where you don't have to see her reaction or something, if you feel that uncomfortable... well it's fine if she doesn't really know, she's just curious that's all. i would be too if i didn't know what the bases were anyway. good luck!!
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okay well i really like this guy nd he likes me. one of mii friend thinks that i should go out with him bcuz he asked me out but another said i shouldnt .. she said "i could only see u guysz as friends not a couple" but omgg this guy i dream bout him night nd day, i like himm soooo much!! its juss i needa chose.. should i go out with him nd upset one friend that i am or should i not go out with him nd upset myself?? please help me omggosh this guy is like mii life.. but i feel like i realli should go out with him since i always havfta follow MYY heart.. but i need advice.. can u help?? thanxx (link)
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you should totally go out with him! he likes you, already asked you out, and you love him with all your heart! one of your friends even thinks you should! dont let that other friend get in the way of what you truly want!! plus she didn't even say THAT much, just that she didn't really think it was a good idea. it's not like she's going to hate you suddenly if you go out with him. and if she does, that's way immature and stupid. girl, follow your heart and go out with him. trust me, if you don't, you will regret it SO MUCH and it will haunt you in your sleep. if you go out with him, at first you may feel bad about your friend, but then you'll love yourself for making the right decision! good luck!!
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haha hey sappie ! im in this musical .. and we have to pick something formal and nice .. for this one song - and i don't kn0w if i sho0d weAr this like pin-striped pink long sleeve (not like a sweater) with a white tank top on.. or a red .. ? let me know !! lol
byee sappie !!!!
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haha hey!! i think you should wear the red tank since red blends in more with pink, and the white may stand out too much, unless it's light pink? lol well personally i like the color red better than white anyway, but i have no clue what your outfit even looks like so i wouldn't know which one you look better in...byee!! x3
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like everything you see, it has to do with sex! i wanna do it too =[ .. but i know . it wayyy wrong /\/\ i couldnt ever do that !! almost all of my friends have had sex.. and like done 69 .. and got all that badd stuff dun to them .. i feel like i have to do that to fit in.. :'[ i just duntno what to do !!!
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p.s.- okay, one of my friends .. everyone calls her a stuffer (someone who stuffs their bra) and everyone wonders if she does because she wears a tank top to get dressed for gym .. she wants to cry everytime someone calls her it b/c she's been called it for 2 years straight!! i think it's hard to believe .. ppl in 8th grd. she barely knows comes up to her and goes " u stuffer !! " and i feel rele bad for her..
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ok first of all, how old are you? do it if you want but don't lose your virginity over something as stupid as "fitting in". if you really want to, just say you did it or something...when you really didn't. i don't know, sex isn't something like clothe, if everyones wearing this certain brand, it's fine to wear that brand too. but if everyone's doing sex, it's not exactly the same.
that's so mean of everyone! doesn't she wear padded bras? dude a lot of girls wear padded bras and some girls just have smaller breasts than others, everyone's different! maybe she could just stop stuffing her bra? that could probably make people tease her more. and that's just the most immature thing to do, go up to someone and go "you stuffer!" ugh just tell her to ignore those people and next time someone prank calls her, she needs to tell them off. need more advice? IM me at sappyacorn2
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yeah, umm, I've liked this guy Andrew for two weeks now, but he keeps ditching out on plans, so I was at this party tonight and my really good friend Alex and I were walking in the woods for an hour, we didn't kiss or anything, even though we both wanted too...everytime we go for a relationship it doesn't work...but now we have a chance..but what should i do with andrew? any ideas?
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this is what i think you should do: in my opinion, you should probably go out with alex instead. you've only liked andrew for 2 weeks, so it's not like you're calling off a long-time relationship. and he keeps ditching out of plans too, which isn't exactly boyfriend material. alex, on the other hand, is your really good friend and you both like each other. you say you two have a chance now...so you should take it! andrew shouldn't be too hurt by the break up, you've only been with him for 2 weeks anyway. good luck!
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hey. i really like this guy, and he said he likes me too. but he`s not dating until summer. what if he doesn`t want me in the summer? there`s a party tomorrow night, and i was supposed to go, but my mom found out that the girl`s parents weren`t gonna be home. but they guy i like is going and i want to see him!
summer love?
overprotective parents.
HELP! (link)
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that sucks :( well sneaking out isn't really the best thing to do especially when your parents WILL find out, unless they're very gullible or something. you COULD try going to a friend's house and go to the party with your friend, but then your parents will get really suspicious. never mind, i'm giving a bad example here lol.
even though you can't go to this party, you could probably have your own party and invite him too. he likes you after all so of course he'll come!! or maybe one of your friends is having one, and invite him along too...or just see him somewhere else
summer is only in a month so he probably will still want you by summer. just make sure you don't lose touch with him or anything, and try to make sure he doesn't fall in love with some other girl lol. good luckK!
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hey!! i have these to friends named lindz n nicole..ive known lindz wayy longer so nicoles kinda new n the group n nicole kinda likes lindz more than me cuse shes always havin her over n stuff but idc...neways lindz is always talking about nicole behind her back then wehn were all together she acts like shes nicoles friend wehn i soo knoe that she really hates her..n nicole buys it! n has oover all the time n vis-versa**how evr u spell it :\**m now wehnever i try to hang out nicole lindz gets mad @ me!? so please help me oout :\ --shawtee lee (link)
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ok so it seems as if there's a three-way friendship battle going on. well if lindz hates nicole so much, she should just quit hanging out with her. she can't keep on pretending to like her forever...she may not be able to take it anymore after a while. lindz shouldn't get mad at you because she hangs out with nicole more than you hang out with her! you COULD lie and say you hate nicole too but that's not the right thing to do. tell her that you want to see what nicole's like and if you end up not liking her, you'll stop hanging out with her (since nicole's kinda new). or just tell her straight up that you like nicole, and if she suddenly hates you for that, she's a bad friend. true friends are by your side no matter what, and you should do whatever you want to do. don't let your friends control your life. good luckk!! :)
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ok see .. i go with this boy alex who i am TOTALLY in love with.. and i never wanna be without him uk.. but i used to be serious with this guy victor and we never went out but it was pretty heavy stuff..and then we got in this HUGE fight and ended it and things have been "rocky" between us ever since.. i still wanna be friends with him and now hes tellin me that ill always have a place in his heart.. forever and that i mean so much to him and he misses the good times.. i love alex but victor.. i dont need advice on who to be with cause i know thats alex.. but i need advice on like what to tell victor and how to tell alex about the situation because i dont want to hide anything from him.. well, please help!! *cait*
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you have to tell victor that he has a special place in your heart too, but you belong to alex. tell him that he's special to you and all, but you're going out with alex and he can't change that. there's no real way you can say it without hurting victor really, but he'll handle it. if he lost you once, he can lose you again (sorry that line was from the notebook...hehe). tell alex that there's this guy called victor who you really like and all but that you still love alex more. just tell him your feelings. alex should understand. in fact, you may not even have to tell alex, it's not really necessary...but you probably should. anyways good luckk!!
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Hey. K, well just last year me and this girl, Mariah, were best friends. Like we were inspereable and did everything together! We loved Halloween and would dress up in home made costumes and then go trick or treating around her nieghborhood. And over the summer i pretty much saw her every day and the two of us were like two peas in a pod. Well this year for Halloween we planned to be fairiess =P lol but yeahh and we planned it like months in advanced and we made them at our house and we were so sikedd for halloween. So halloween came and we showed up at school in our costumes and everything was going greatt. But then on Halloween night we were supposed to go trick or treating and i was online all day and asked her to leave the times to go to her house at on my away or to call my cell while i was at ccd. So when i came home she didnt leave any messages or never called. I was kinda bummed b/c she went to the party we were gonna go together with with some other girl. I callled her house , but she was out with some other kids. I sat at home all halloween and just watched scary movies and cried =( and after Halloween this kid started a pettion about me and then he told me mariah hated me and siad all this stuff..and stupid me i believed him..but i guess none of it is true =\ so now i lost my biffle and i really miss her. like i walk through my barn sometimes and just reminice b/c i miss the old times just me and her. Like this year has been so rough for me..everythings been going wrongg! Any ideas on how to get my best friend back?? Please help! (link)
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omg that's so sad, i'm sorry :( that's such a crappy way to spend your halloween!! well that was pretty rude (and insensitive) of her not to leave any messages or call at her, and just leave you behind. i don't know what happened, but basically she just started ignoring you and started hanging out with other people? maybe she's hanging out with the so-called "popular" people??
i don't know why mariah would just hate you all of a sudden when you two were just so close!! have you talked to her at all since halloween?? i think you should just go up and talk to her about it, be like "what happened? like we used to be bffs and now..." stuff like that. or have one of your friends talk to her. you can't get anything out of her without having someone talk to her about it and get information out.
i'm really sorry!! that must be really hard on you :( but like maybe you should try looking for a new bff? but if mariah doesn't become friends with you again, you might as well just make friends with someone else, so you won't spend the rest of your life being depressed over someone who doesn't want to be your friend.
sorry, that wasn't exactly something you wanted to hear. well i hope i helped out somehow and you can IM me anytime you want!! good luck with mariah!!
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ok....i have a problem...im in tha 7th grade and this 8th grader and meh are "talkin" but he is knoe to beh a player and like muh best friend has dated him before meh and like he lied to her alot...and then there is a 7th grader who likes meh and he is sweet,and cute, and awl that but like i reallie like tha 8th grader but i dont knoe if it will last between meh and him...on the other hand tha 7th grader i like alot too and idk im just so confused
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who do you like better, the 8th grader or 7th grader? if there's an actual choice, choose that one, and if it doesn't work out, choose the other one. if you like them both the same, here's what i think you should do...
i think you should go out with the 7th grader because as you said, he's sweet and cute. plus he already likes you anyway ;). on the other hand, the 8th grader is a playa so you don't know if you can trust him, plus he lies a lot too. just try the 7th grader and if you break up, try going for the 8th grader. good luckK!!
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Hey ok so im really good friends with this girl.. and well i kind of did stuff with her brother uhm yeah and he went back and told her what we did.. so now she hates me! But i couldnt help it.. i really like him and now she gets on my case about lieng to her and i cant stand it because she doesnt understand because she thinks that she is the only one that can feel strongly to her b/f!.. And even her mom tried talking to her about it and i still think she doesnt understand.. but ive also went out with her brother before and she didnt care.. and i dont know what to do or to say to her.. and its making me mad that i cant even talk to her about it and the fact that she doesnt trust me either!!! (link)
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i can understand how she could get a little mad, but she sounds like she's overeacting. you even went out with her brother before, so why is she getting so hyped up now?? did you do A LOT of stuff?? if so, that's probably why she's mad. she might find it really creepy that her brother and good friend are doing it together (if that's what happened!!!).
if you didn't even do that, and didn't really go far, and she still hates you, that's sort of weird. maybe she's afraid that if you and her brother hook up, she'll be left out. it's possible that's what she feels.
i think you should talk to her about it, tell her that she's overeacting, and just tell her what you just told me right now. yeah i know she refuses to talk about it but you have to let her know! if she's truly your good friend, she'd talk to you. just give her some time to cool off and then talk to her. good lucK!!
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hey i thought its really nice that your making this to help other people =] well anyways i'm really good friends with this guy.. i like him so much & we're best friends.. he's been in a reliationship w/ my other best friend for like 3 months & they broke up becuz he checks out other girls.. like only one time i got the currage to ask him out and he thought i was joking and hes like your going to dump me tommorow but no matter how hard i try he'll like never understand how i really feel about him =/ i want to ask him out but i dont know how to say it to him w/ out him thinking i'm just doing it for a joke help me! ((o & im a girl and im 12)) (link)
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ok this is your conversation...
you ask him to go out with you
he thinks you're joking AGAIN
tell him that you're not joking and just to go out with you and then you can prove that you aren't going to dump him tomorrow or anything. if he still thinks you're joking, just say to try it out. if he STILL thinks you're joking, tell him you're give him $10 for him to go out with you * omg haha i'm just kidding, don't do that!! unless you wnat to?* if he still thinks you're joking, tell him with a serious face and everything, explain to him how much you want to go out with him, and make it sound like you mean it. if he STILL thinks you're joking, wow then i think he might just be purposely trying not to go out with you then... (sorry!!!) it won't really hurt to try right?
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Hey. Everynight i make myself throw up..so ya i guess im belemic *cant spell it* and i really want to stop..but no matter what i think im a fat pig! Its like when i look into the mirror i see some1 so worthles$! I dotn know wut to do. It makes me scared to sleep at night! I have other problems but People found out and they are helping me with them and i was wondering if i should tell some1 about this?? Or keep it to myself? Thanks x0o (link)
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i think you should see a therapist. i know, it sounds sort of creepy to do that, but that's their job and they were trained to help people like you. well you should at least tell SOMEONE. if you keep it to yourself and nobody knows anything about it, then you could be in serious trouble. you have a disease and no matter how skinny you are, you keep thinking you're fat. hun, please stop throwing up, it's so bad for you and even though it does make you skinny, it's so unhealthy. you could DIE from doing that. i know, you may WANT to die because you hate yourself so much (thats what some "belemic" people want) but it's not worth killing yourself over. so what if you're fat? you probably aren't even fat anyway, you only THINK that... but there are so many good things about a person other than their looks. even if you're the hottest babe in the world, if you have a bitchy attitude and have an IQ of 60, being a fat, sweet, and smart person is a whole lot better. more people will like you. try slowly to stop yourself from throwing up, i don't know how that works, i never made myself throw up before, but just try doing something like that. good luck!! :)
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Im 14, and i have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months. i like him alot, but he seems like hes becoming obsessed with me! he gets mad and yells at me when im not allowed to do something, and it scares me. lately he's really been getting on my nerves with like everything he does...i tried just not talking to him for a couple of days to see if it was just me being on my period...but hes still getting on my nerves. my friends have been saying that im depressed because of him all the time. do you think its time for us to break up? maybe we've just been together too long & were just getting tired of each other.
if you do think we should break up -- please what is a nice way to "break it off"...ive never really been good at this. and hes really sensitive and would probably like be depressed for like a month! =(
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that is sort of creepy, i think your boyfriend is a bit too overprotective... :( i think that you two should break up because if you're getting so depressed over him, then you might as well break up. yeah you'll be depressed when you break up too, but you'll probably be so much happier after a while that you finally broke up with him after all. plus if you find that you still love him, you can always try to get back toghether with him, if he's not too bummed that is.
i know i'm making it sound easier than it really is and i'm really sorry but you should talk to him about his yelling at you. tell him taht if he continues to do that, you'll break up with him. since he's sensitive, he might stop yelling. but on the other hand, it could make him yell at you even more. if that does happen, you should break up with him, because that obviously is saying that he doesn't truly care about your feelings. every good boyfriend should care, right?
if he's depressed for a month, try being nice to him and everything, you could tell him that once he stops yelling at you, you two can get back toghether. if you really don't want him to get mad at you, you could make up something like "my parents don't want me dating"...but you probably shouldn't because once he finds out you lied, things could get ugly. anyways if you have any more questions just ask!! good luck!
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Wow .. idk how to say this but im a very heavy girl. everyone makes fun of me because in FAT! i hate my body and i wish i could change. ive tried diets but they never work. anyway .. i like this really hott boy but im fraind to ask him out because im afraid that hell laugh at me. wat should i do??
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omg i am so sorry!! i think that's like the meanest thing ever, people making fun of others for who they are... you shouldn't let them get in the way. maybe you should keep dieting, even if it doesn't really work, at least it helps you gain less weight.
does your crush make fun of you along with those other bitches? if he does, don't even bother asking him out then. sorry but if he makes fun of you, he won't be a very good bf and plus he'd most likely laugh at you anyway [sorry :(]
if you really want to ask him out, go for it!! is he the type of person to laugh at you? does he even talk to you? are you even friends with him? if you don't even talk to him, it may be really sudden if you just ask him out right away so just try to be friends with him first. if he makes fun of you while you're trying to be nice and all, he's not worth going out with, even if he's the most gorgeous and hottest and most popular and most athletic guy alive...
but as i've said before, it's your decision, not mine to make for you. i just told you what i thought. hope it works out fo youu!! :)
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hi im trying to get advice on how to make
my dog stop poop it just runns out non stop will u plz help me (link)
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i don't know, try taking your dog to the vet lol. i don't know anything about the pooping cycle of a canine lol...
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ok so there is this boy his name is Cory and i like him ALOT but we went out like a week ago and now he's calling me and saying i still like you and i never should have broke up with you i don't know if i should go back out with him or if i should just move on my sister said that i shouldn't because its like when ever he want's a girlfriend he can just come to me and then keep breaking up with me cause we went out more then once but i dont know if i should go out with him or if i should just move on (link)
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exactly how many times have you went out with him and then been dumped? if it was 3 times or more, than forget it. i know its hard but if he's done it that many times, he's not a loyal person and you've already given him enough times. if it was less than 3 times than you can go out with him again, but if he dumps you soon after you start dating him again, then forget him! it depends on how much you want to go out with him. it's a risk but it's worth it if you really want to. good luck!! =)
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OMG HEY I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!! SORRY I'M NOT REALLY ASKING YOU FOR ADVICE, I LIKE THE rainbow background here lol!! you're the most awesome and prettiest girl ever! you looked so pretty in that glitter tank and green striped miniskirt, i DIED! haha you are the greatest friend alive and never change!! i love youu!! xoOxo sarah!
oh yeah i need advice. should i wear my blue strapless dress to caroline's barmitzvah? or the weird princess looking one but that still looks sexy? should i wear my mink coat with it? haha ok i love youu, you have the cutest dresses!! i need a life, sorry i dont know why you're even friends with me. i'm such a loser!!!!!!!!!! i love you!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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hey sarah!! whats up! i love you too x3!! are you kidding me, i looked HIDEOUS in that outfit! ugh i can't believe you made me buy it! that thing cost A FORTUNE...its called VERSACE! ahha well you can make me do anything, i'm a slave for you =)! and you're the best and greatest and most awesome and most wonderful friend EVER!! if you ever change i will kick your fat ass!! sorry i just totally copied you, see i really am a slave for you! lesbian hotties!! OH YEAH!
wear the princessy but sexy one. the mink will look so hot with it, you are so girly. out of all the things, you just HAVE to ask me that!! wow, you could have just asked maddie that or something!! even your mom!! whatever it's ok i'm just as big of a loser as you so we fit together! siamese twins! except you're like 2 feet taller than me!!! oh yeahh sisters!! you're my older sister and i'm your baby sister, which is exactly why i'm your slave! i love you!!!!! x33
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