ok see .. i go with this boy alex who i am TOTALLY in love with.. and i never wanna be without him uk.. but i used to be serious with this guy victor and we never went out but it was pretty heavy stuff..and then we got in this HUGE fight and ended it and things have been "rocky" between us ever since.. i still wanna be friends with him and now hes tellin me that ill always have a place in his heart.. forever and that i mean so much to him and he misses the good times.. i love alex but victor.. i dont need advice on who to be with cause i know thats alex.. but i need advice on like what to tell victor and how to tell alex about the situation because i dont want to hide anything from him.. well, please help!! *cait*
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? shortiebebe021 answered Saturday April 30 2005, 12:21 am: you have to tell victor that he has a special place in your heart too, but you belong to alex. tell him that he's special to you and all, but you're going out with alex and he can't change that. there's no real way you can say it without hurting victor really, but he'll handle it. if he lost you once, he can lose you again (sorry that line was from the notebook...hehe). tell alex that there's this guy called victor who you really like and all but that you still love alex more. just tell him your feelings. alex should understand. in fact, you may not even have to tell alex, it's not really necessary...but you probably should. anyways good luckk!! [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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