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Break up?!
Im 14, and i have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months. i like him alot, but he seems like hes becoming obsessed with me! he gets mad and yells at me when im not allowed to do something, and it scares me. lately he's really been getting on my nerves with like everything he does...i tried just not talking to him for a couple of days to see if it was just me being on my period...but hes still getting on my nerves. my friends have been saying that im depressed because of him all the time. do you think its time for us to break up? maybe we've just been together too long & were just getting tired of each other.
if you do think we should break up -- please what is a nice way to "break it off"...ive never really been good at this. and hes really sensitive and would probably like be depressed for like a month! =(
PLEASE HELP ME
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that is sort of creepy, i think your boyfriend is a bit too overprotective... :( i think that you two should break up because if you're getting so depressed over him, then you might as well break up. yeah you'll be depressed when you break up too, but you'll probably be so much happier after a while that you finally broke up with him after all. plus if you find that you still love him, you can always try to get back toghether with him, if he's not too bummed that is.
i know i'm making it sound easier than it really is and i'm really sorry but you should talk to him about his yelling at you. tell him taht if he continues to do that, you'll break up with him. since he's sensitive, he might stop yelling. but on the other hand, it could make him yell at you even more. if that does happen, you should break up with him, because that obviously is saying that he doesn't truly care about your feelings. every good boyfriend should care, right?
if he's depressed for a month, try being nice to him and everything, you could tell him that once he stops yelling at you, you two can get back toghether. if you really don't want him to get mad at you, you could make up something like "my parents don't want me dating"...but you probably shouldn't because once he finds out you lied, things could get ugly. anyways if you have any more questions just ask!! good luck!
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