Hey ok so im really good friends with this girl.. and well i kind of did stuff with her brother uhm yeah and he went back and told her what we did.. so now she hates me! But i couldnt help it.. i really like him and now she gets on my case about lieng to her and i cant stand it because she doesnt understand because she thinks that she is the only one that can feel strongly to her b/f!.. And even her mom tried talking to her about it and i still think she doesnt understand.. but ive also went out with her brother before and she didnt care.. and i dont know what to do or to say to her.. and its making me mad that i cant even talk to her about it and the fact that she doesnt trust me either!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? shortiebebe021 answered Saturday April 30 2005, 12:09 am: i can understand how she could get a little mad, but she sounds like she's overeacting. you even went out with her brother before, so why is she getting so hyped up now?? did you do A LOT of stuff?? if so, that's probably why she's mad. she might find it really creepy that her brother and good friend are doing it together (if that's what happened!!!).
if you didn't even do that, and didn't really go far, and she still hates you, that's sort of weird. maybe she's afraid that if you and her brother hook up, she'll be left out. it's possible that's what she feels.
i think you should talk to her about it, tell her that she's overeacting, and just tell her what you just told me right now. yeah i know she refuses to talk about it but you have to let her know! if she's truly your good friend, she'd talk to you. just give her some time to cool off and then talk to her. good lucK!! [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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