my name is Nat .. ppl call me Noodalie =) um. and i can help you w. some problems your having =)havnt been through everything but i have experienced it through muah friends. im sure i can help in anything. most of my friends come to me anyways. =)
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Okay there is this REALLY nice guy and I like him a lot.. and he REALLY likes me.. but then there is my ex bf who also likes me.. This new guy chris I havnt gone out with yet.. and I went out with my ex steven 6 times already and it didn't work out.. I am thinking Chris but a lot of my friends r picking Steven.. Please help me..
Chris or Steven?? (link)
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i think you should go with Chris. if you and steven havnt worked out then dont even bother again. try some new guyys. thats a good thing. dont stick with the same guyy for forever
~nat~
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Okay I really love to swim and cheelead but next year I will be a freshman and I will need to chose.. I love both.. but which one would be better for me?? I am 14 and I have a pretty busy life.. my sister is also a cheerleader and she quit swimming.. plz help me out.. but now i got to go to 7th hour in school.. thank you..
Kaydee (link)
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YOU ROX!! i love swimming. i think its the best sport ever. cheerleading and swimming both give yoiu a good workout. it depends on what your heart is set on right now. also if your friends are into it too. if i were you i would choose swimming just because i love it so much. im not trying to tell you shich one to pick just pick the one you think you are best at!
~ nat ~
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Okay my question I had posted was
Okay... i am 14.. and I was just wondering how old do people think is TOO OLD??
and I didn't mean.. "am i too old" i meant how old is too old for me too go out with.. so if u answered my last question wrong I am sorry I didn't state my question clearly and if u wanna answer again.. just do it!! (link)
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no, your still a really young teenager. there is nothing wrong with that if your asking
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ok i want to hook up with my one friends cousin.. hes hot.. but he thinks hes ugly.. he has a girlfriend but he seems pretty interested in meeting me.. but im afraid of what hell think when he sees me.. i mean if hes hot and thinks hes ugly what will he think of me? im not very confident with my looks.. and i really want him to like me.. how do i get him to like me and think im hot? (link)
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you shouldnt care what you look like. i think its about your personality instead of looks. if he likes you for who you are then he's a keeper. if he doesnt then dump him. you dont want a bf that just cares about looks
~ nat ~
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Okay well there was this guy I use to like. He was nice and cute ect.. well I was sick one day at school and my best friend (his ex) was like "will you go out with Casia?? she likes you alot" and he was like i dont know.. then she was like "please!! for me?" and he was like sure. When she told me that I was like wow I go out with him?!? then I was like wait.. for you??? I dont want to go out with him because hes only doing it for her.. am I doing the right thing?? (link)
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no offense but that was kind of rude of her. not to be mean or anything. i think you should talk it out with this guyy and tell him what you would have said. talk to your friend to if it is really bothering you.
~ nat ~
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ever since i moved i've felt misserable and depressed... i moved to africa a little ova a month ago and left a girl that ment the world to me... i would do anything for her... but i might never get to see her again... all i can do is hope shes on-line when i am... all i want is to be with her and i cant... so idk wat to do but talk to her whenever i can... wat can i do to talk to her or even see her again? i'm not goin to give up or forget about her. shes the only thing keepin me alive... (link)
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wow you sound really depresed. im sorry to hear that. um i dont think you can really do anything. i guess you could try to keep a relationship on the computer or try calling her just to chat. i dont know. maybe you'll meet an even better girl. just give it time.
hope i helped!!!
-:- nat -:-
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ok well theres this kid i like, and i just realized i like him, and he hasnt been picking up his phone and he hasnt been online, and i miss him so much, and it really got to me last night because i almost started crying, and its depressing me because i havent talked to him yet. (link)
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i guess your in love. why dont you try talking to him at school. maybe you should tell him how you feel too. i know that sound geeky and all but i think it would work unless you are shy. if your depressed try talking to a friend that you know will understand you and maybe they can give you some advice. hope i helped!!
~ nat ~
p.s. i read your rating for me and thats so sweet if he gave you a rose. i think he's a keeper!!
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Okay well there is this guy named Tony and I really really like him. My friend also really likes him, but she is very shy and doesn't talk to him a lot, and Tony said that he doesn't think he would ever like her because they dont talk at all. Tony flirts with me a lot, but also flirts with other girls. We talk all of the time, and with him I feel like I can just be myself. One of his friends told me he liked me, and I really want to ask him out, but I don't know if my friend would get mad. She said it would be okay if he asked me out and I said yes, but she never said it would be okay if I was the one asking him out. I really don't know what to do because I REALLY like him.. and like you said in your post before how if he looks into your eyes when you are talking he likes you.. well we always look into each others eyes and I just can't really explain the feeling I have. I haven't felt this way about a boy in a while, and I don't want to let him go. Please help! (link)
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this situation is hard. if your friend doesnt understand that you and this guyys have something then she is not a true friend. whoever your friend is she would want the best for you. i dont think she would get mad at you if you asked him out because it would still mean you would be going out no matter who asked each other out. i hope everything works out for you and Tony and plus your friend, if you have any other question feel free to ask!!!
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Ok, there is this boy named Eryc, he's in 4/6 of my classes. My friend thinks he likes me, and I kind of believe her, kind of don't. Sometimes he can be such a bastard! But then when I need help he stands up for me. My friend is only in 1/6 of me and Eryc's classes, so she wouldn't know at all what I go through with him and what he does. But in the one class she is in, she thinks he likes me. My question is do you think he has a crush on me? (link)
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depend on if he thinks of you more then a friend or just a friend. you should have your friend ask him and find out the truth. you dont have to tell him but just act cool if he does. things should go smoothly. hope everything works out!!
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um. i didn't know were to put this under. but anyways.. im a 13 year old girl. and i have hair .. down there. am i supposed to shave it off. or just let it grow? thanks for the help! (link)
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ummm wat am i supposed to say to this...lol...you can if you want.. i mean like it doesnt matter.. do what ever you want
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i really like this boy, and he really likes me to, and i guess he's soposed to ask me out really soon like tomorrow or somthing. Well this is new for me because i just got over a long relationship and i've been trying to move on and i'm hoping that he wil make me happy and it will be great =D .. so am i making the right decistion with this new boy?.. oh and what are some tips to make him like me a little more.. like things to spice it up ;) thanks so much (link)
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well if you follow your heart then you know your making the right choice. here are some tips i like to use when grabbing a guyys attention....
1. wear a simple fragrence so whenever he smells it hes thinking of you
2. always flash a cute smile....a guyyy will always love to see that he brightened your day
3. Poimk is a soothing color that will give you a very realaxed look...guyys like that too
4. never be the mean girl...always be as sweet as possible..they just get old...no one will ever get bored of a nice girl
hope i helped!!!! rate me ande i hope it a five!!!!
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Well there is the girl at my school who i like but i found out today that she dosent want to go out with me and i still have feelings for her and i just cant seem to get her outta my head even though i know she wont go out with me i am still crazy about her and i dont know what to do please help i reall cant stop thinking about her no matter what i do i just cant stop thinking about her like right now i am and i just dont know what to do. (link)
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um the best thing to get a girl to like you is to act really nice and sweet. try to just be friends for now untill you guyys get closer. umm thats all you can really do now.. just go with the flow and dont push her
hope i helped!!!
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i really dont know what to say theres this girl i know.. the thing is i still have alot of fellings for her but one of my friends are with her.... the thing is my frind is going out with her but the catch is that shes best frineds with his ex and i think hes just useing her what should i do........?????????
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i think you should talk to your friend...if he really is your friend then he'll understand you. umm nothing you can really do...just be nice and stay out of their business. just always be nice. im sure this girl will end up liking you. hope i helped!!!
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I like this kid jeremy alot. i just need him to notice me. he knows who i am i just want him to want me. any tips? (link)
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um.. wat ever you do just act really cute and be yourself. guyys dont want a girl who is totally fake. here are some suggestions
1. always smile. guyys love it when you show your pearly whites. lol
2. always have a good style
3. lots of guyys are attracted to girls who wear a lot of pink. try it
4. laugh a lot because a guyy loves to see you having a good time
5. use a simple signature fragrance like vanilla or peach so whenever he smells it he thinks about you
hope i helped
p.s. talk to him and if he stares right into your eyes when he talks to you its a sign he likes you
hope i helped!!!
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i got bangs the normal ones that cover my whole forehead well im kidna getting tired o them but i have a big forehead so i need them there what should i do? (link)
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let your bangs grow out to your jaw bone. it looks realy good and you should feel more comfortable
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Hey, I'm a really good student and everything, I'm also real smart. I'm in a gifted school, but I'm just not motivated. I really need some motivation!! thx =) (link)
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i no im smart to. i like to feel smart so try and answer a lot of questions in school. people will be amazed if they no your that smart. trust me its fun when you know your smarter then everyone else
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oo you make me want you! i want you so bad! i just wanna have kids w. you! oo you make me horny. i love you. i want to see you in bed! (link)
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umm whoever you are i want you to come and talk to me....its so not kool to do this online.....i dont' know who you are so i won't be able to tell you if i like you or not... unless i kno who you are
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i think you are sexa. i know you don't like me. i mean..im really nerdy, and ugly. but i think that im in love with you (link)
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ummm.....you are starting to scare me who ever you are......stop it and come and talk to me
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i think i love you .what should i do. you dont like me. im ugly (link)
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Please talk to me who ever you are. I don't bite and I want to know who you are. Ummm....wow...just tell it to my face then....umm....if you really like me then talk to me cause i most likely will not reject you.
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The first time I had my period it was from the 19-22 then it became 25-29 then 3-7.Wat is wrong?Is this normal? I need advice and i rate very high.thanx (link)
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if you just started it is normal. it has happened to me too so you should be fine. nothing to worry about
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