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I'm 18 and about to enter my sophomore year of college. Feel free to ask me questions about anything- I'll try to help in the best way possible! :)
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How do you ask a guy for his cell number?
I like this boy at my camp, but he doesnt go to my school or live in my town. I want to ask him his phone number but i'm not sure how i should go about asking it. We are friends, but he flirts with me ALL THE TIME. Camp is over next week (July 20) so i have to get the number by then. He's been saying stuff like "My ringtone is beautiful girls" so i think he wants me to have it. I dont know how to ask though. PLEASE answer by the 20th.
P.S. we get autograph books but i'm not ending camp until August some time so i wont get my book until then, so i can write my number in his book but he cant write his in mine.
*sorry it's long!*
but thank you SO MUCH!
You can take out your phone and just start playing with it. Then be like "Heyy, what's your number? We should still keep in touch after camp's over"
Or .. you can be texting somebody and then ask him if he has texting and be like "You never text me!" and if he says well you don't even have my number or something say "Well what is it?"
Or if he's playing with his phone, ask to see it, put your phone number in it. Be like, there now you can call me whenever you want to! And then be like, oh yeah, I need your number too!
im 13 and im going to see a movie with my girl friends. im not sure which one would be the best for us.. but we are thinking of going to see either evan almighty, harry potter, sicko, or transformers. what do you think we'd find the most entertaining? thanks :)
I saw Transformers and it was pretty good. I also heard that Harry Potter was AMAZING ..I'm not really into those kind of movies, so I haven't seen it. I heard that Evan Almighty was pretty stupid though. I haven't heard anything about Sicko. I'd stick with Tranformers, it's getting really good reviews. =]
Can anyone please tell me what songs are the most popular or the best by from first to last? Have any been on the radio which I would have heard?
thanks
"Note To Self" is probably one of their most popular songs. I'm pretty sure that I've never heard FFTL on the radio before.
well i'm going to give my boyfriend a hj... but it'll be my first time and i was wondering what kind of position is good for that. i dont think im ready to see it all yet. so how can i do it so that im not looking at it and what is a comfortable position for both of us? thanks!
Lay down right next to him. It'll probably be the most comfortable position for both of you. When I wasn't ready to see it yet, I just put a blanket over us.
REALLY LONG, AND IM SORRY..
but i had to tell the whole story so you would understand it.
16/f
At the end of my freshman year I became friends with this girl Katelyn. Me and Katelyn became really close, and she was my BEST friend. We Spent everyday in the summer together!!
I always had a boyfriend, Katelyn never had a real relationship.
So during the summer I was dating a kid name Bradley. He was great, and he always took me and Katelyn to the movies(of course katelyn paid her way) But I wasnt allowed to go, so i had to sneek. And I ALWAYS thought she liked that i took her along.
So comes 10th grade and we start out close, best friends, nothing is wrong. Then I start dating Marcus, I REALLY Liked Marcus, so I didnt sneek to the movies or anything with him. So I spent everyday with him(bad move, i know) So me and Katelyn start to loose our closeness. (i;m still with Marcus) So come Feb. we get into a BIG fight. Mainly bc i would sit with her at lunch, but she wouldnt say one word to me the whole time.(bc she got other friends, which are the fakest people in my school.) So we got into a fight.
Now I was in class with her old best friend. (Long story sort, Betty was a hoe our freshman year and said some guy raped her, when he really didnt. And it was at katelyn's party. ) So Im in calss with her ALL year. So when me and katelyn get into a fight, i start talking to Betty more. And I start saying things about Katelyn that at the time i would thing to myself and say "shouldnt say that" but Katelyn was my main friend, and I didnt have one after her. And I wanted a friend sooo bad. So i would talk about Katelyn behind her back(fake i know)
But now she wants to be friends again. I want to so baly bc i miss her soo much. She was like a sister to me. But i dont want to go back to school and people think Im fake and all bc of the things I said this/last year.
What should I do? Be friends with her again and not care what people say or think bc i have my best friend back.
Or not be friends with her bc of the things I said??
Please help me!.. =[
I really think that you should be friends with her again. You were mad, you said some things that you didn't mean, so that shouldn't hold you back from the one thing that you want so bad, your best friend back. Just make sure that you NEVER make a guy your number one. My friend does that, and she's always with her boyfriend. We're not close as we used to be, and it's not the same. We used to be inseperable, and it's definately not like it used to be. Always remember that she was there before you had your boyfriend, and she'll be there AFTER you have your boyfriend. Just apologize to her, tell her you were mad and you had to vent to somebody, even if it wasn't the best choice to vent to some girl you're not so close with. Say that she was your one true friend and you've been lost without her, and the one thing that you want back is her friendship. Good luck
I got a digital camera today and tomorrow I'd like to take photos :) Photos of anything really...but the subject I'm having the most troubles with is myself. Where should I take photos of myself? And what pose should I pose and stuff?
Haha thanks.
I lovee pictures that are taken outside with the grass in the background, it looks really cute. You can lay on your stomach and take a picture like that. Or if you hold the camera up and face the sun, your eyes look really pretty. If you have a beach nearby, beach pictures are always adorable.
I'm not sure if I'm still sick or not so what temperatures will tell me that I'm not? my body temperature measurement goes by Farenheight.
98.6 is normal body temperature, but if you're around there by a degree or two, you should be fine. If your temperature is above 100, then you have a fever.
me and my boyfriend have been together for a couple weeks
but weve been talking for like 2 months. i trust him and everything but should i have sex with him?
or should i wait?
im not a virgin so its not like my frist time.
what should i do?
Honestly, the only advice I can give you is, what do YOU want to do?
Even if it isn't your first time, you shouldn't throw sex around like it's nothing. If I were in your position, I would wait longer.
hello. i recently had sex with my boyfriend and he took a viagra. (just for the hell of it, its not daily) well he had sex with me once and quickly pulled out avoiding getting any sperm on me. About 30 minutes later we had sex again (without condom) but pulled out just like the first time. this continuesly happen about a good 3 times. giving about 15- 20 minutes in between each time we had sex. (no condom was used in anytime) Well i am extremely afraid that pre-cum got me pregnant. i spoke to my boyfriend and he told me that he is really sure that i am NOT pregnant because when a guy takes viagra its hard for the male's penis to go soft, and since that happends no sperm or hardly any sperm can come out because he was still hard and that only happends when a males penis goes soft. TRUE OR NOT? PREGNANT OR NOT? **(HE ALWAYS PULLED OUT BEFORE HE CUMED)
Sorry, but your boyfriend was definately wrong. Just because he took Viagra, and he said it kept him from going soft and producing precum, that's completely wrong. Sure Viagra does that, but if the penis is hard, wouldn't that produce more precum than if it were soft? You really do have a risk of being pregnant. Even if he took Viagra, pulling out is NOT a form of effective contraceptive. Even if he pulled out, there's always precum, and like you said, you could be pregnant.
How do I stop my friend from having sex with the same guy over and over?
You can't stop her from doing what she wants to do. Just let her know how you feel, and tell her of the risks. If you think about it, it's better her having sex with the same guy over and over, than her having sex with twenty different guys. Tell her that you're worried about pregnancy and if the guys even clean. Tell her that you want her to be careful and you're just watching out for her. You can't control her life, all you can do is show that you care and hope that she listens to your advice.
I need some new books to read.
I'm 15/f.
I enjoyed Sarah Dessen, the Twilight series, and Gossip Girl.
I would prefer books that aren't in a series, too :]
The Perks of Being a Wallflower //Stephen Chbosky
Prep //Curtis Sittenfeld
So everyone says fingering yourself gives you EXTREME pleasure. Anyways, I've tried it and...nothing. Could someone please tell me what to do?? Thanks!! %%
Yea, usually just 'sticking fingers up there' doesn't really feel like anything. Some people like that, though. Everybody likes different things. You just have to expiriment until you find what you like. Go to www.solotouch.com ; they have a ton of different techniques that people send in, and I'm sure that you can find something that works good for you.
ok my period started last saturday and tomorrow's friday so its been almost a week and its been heavy the whole time, and ive had bad cramps. is this normal? i dont want to go to the doctor so should just wait?
I sounds like it should be okay, but I'm no doctor. It's only been 5 days, and I've had periods that have been really heavy before. If you're CONSTANTLY having to change your pad/tampon like every 15 minutes, and you're bleeding through your clothes, then you should definately go see a doctor. This happened to my friend, and she lost so much blood she could barely walk down her stairs. But if it's just heavy, and not lasting for like two weeks, it should be fine. Take some Midol and take a hot bath to ease your cramps.
alcohol?
why do so many people drink it. i've tried it && i hate it alot. do people just not like it and drink it anyways or do they actually like it?
jusst wonderrring :) thankss for readingg
There are TONS of reasons why people drink. Some people like the taste of alcohol. Some people just drink to fit in with a certain group of people, since so many teens drink. Maybe people drink to loosen up and feel more comfortable. Also, some drink because they like the feeling of being drunk. Some people drink to deal with their problems. There are tons of reasons, and it really does vary from person to person. I can guarantee that some people that drink alcohol don't even like the taste of it.
is it a myth that shaving makes the hair grow back more and coarser?
Nope, it's actually true. That's why if you're a girl & you have hair on your upper lip, you should never shave it, because it will just come in thicker and you'll have to keep shaving it. If you shave, it'll come in thicker, darker, and coarser.
Is there a way to delete your history on your internet? LIke i deleted the actual history section...but when i go to the address section like it still pops up? Is there anyway to fix this?
Go to tools, and click on " Internet Options "
Click on Delete Cookies, and then Clear History
okay my parents keep looking at my pictures on my desktop and they always find something wrong and get all mad at me so is there anything online that i can upload my pictures from my camera onto and then delete my pictures on my desktop
pleasee help anything will do
www.photobucket.com
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i only have eyelner in the color black. when i wear them together, i look like an emo kid and i don't like that look! i want to find colors for eyeliner (or mascara?) that will make my VERY dark brown eyes stand out against my (black) skin.
Try using shimmery+metallic colors in gold, silver, teal, pink, white. You'll have to mix and match with a lot of different colors before you find something you like. I used to wear black eyeliner with my brown eyes, and it's just too blahh. So I use a shimmery white. But our skin tones are different, so just try it out!
hey everyone. does anyone know who sings that remake of time after time? thanks in advanced ♥
The newest one that plays on radios now is by Quietdrive, but there are tons of remakes.
I'm in middle school and well I started going to that school about 3 or 4 months ago and we were on a break for this month and we are going back Monday. I'm pretty nervous. I made friends that are really awesome and I have good teachers too. My friends welcomed me in like that. But my problem is I really don't feel very smart. I feel like I'm not going to pass this year and my fear is getting held back. I'm taking art and Spanish but math is killing me. I don't know anything of it. Because I was homeschooled so I really can't understand this. Any advice how to survive school?
Ouch, math is tough. If you don't ask for help either, it'll keep getting tougher. If you're uncomfortable asking questions in class, go up to your teacher at the end of class and ask if you can have help. Ask if you can come after school, or if you can come during your free period, because you don't really understand. Also, my school does this, but I'm not sure if yours does, if you have a guidance office, go there and talk to somebody about a tutor. High school students volunteer as tutors for younger kids, at my school. If you're not positive if that is offered at your school, it's worth a try to ask. Make sure that you ask before it's too late! I had trouble in math last year and I stayed afterschool almost everyday with my math teacher because I had a bad grade, and my average raised atleast 10 points. Another piece of advice is, ALWAYS do your homework. That shows that if you ask your teacher for help, she knows that you really are trying and you really do care about your grades. If you don't do your homework, then she'll assume that you're blowing off class and she doesn't want to waste her time if you're not doing the work that's neccessary. Good luck, and I'm sure you'll do fine!