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alright so im crazy about this guy. hes 21 and im turning 18 on sunday. im stayin the night at his house saturday night. we have been having sex, i lost my virginity to him. we talked about having a relationship and he says he has a busy schedule and it wouldnt be fair to me and that i am going to college in 7 months and he doesnt want me to miss out on the whole experience. ive known him for a really long time. what are some things i can do to make him want an actual relationship with me? (link)
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It sounds like hes brushing you off dont let him take advantage of you but if you really want to know confront him. if you were having sex with out the relationship then it kind of sounds like he was using you so i think you should get that straightened out with him because if a guy truly loved you he would want to be with you through anything and make it work. I would tell him that and ask him exactly whats going on. if that is the case then hes a jerk and you need to move on and will no better next time. but youll never know until you do some questioning. so talkto him for better or for worse.
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this is kind of a weird, and stupid question..
but what is like fucking
like im not really sure what it is , and everyones like fuck fuck fuck.. and im like yeah..haha
♥ kendra (link)
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its sex when some one uses it as a verb but when some one just says something like the fucking tv went out its just a substitute for fricked. it can also be said out of frustation like saying oh shit or damnit. sometimes people say fuck this person and thats just like forget this person only with more anger behind it.
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ok well i recently asked a question about something, then when i logged on it said somebody answered it. It said (1) so I clicked on it to see what my answer was but there was nobody who answered it. I was just blank.
Also if it helps, I got an email from advicenators (noreply) and it said that your advicenators question has been answered. So why did it say somebody answered my question, but when i look at it, there's no answer? (link)
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the person deleted the answer.its happened to me before.
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Everytime i wear eyeliner( i wear it in the inner lid) it always comes off from blinking or just not doing anything. it will like smudge and make my eye dark underneath. Is therre anything i can do to fix it form not running? (link)
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i put mine on my eyelash line because if i dont it rubs off. ive also noticed that if i use real cheap brands it rubs off and smudges to so now i use that cover girl perfect point its the one where you dont have to use the sharpener you just click the end and it comes out mechanical pencil style but is real soft and smooth so it gos on easy i havent had a problem with so thats what i use now.maybe it will work for you or something simillar.if you sweat alot or your face gets moist you might neeed a water proof eyeliner.
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ok her is the deal im a christian and my boyfriends is not we have promise rings and we really love each other but he is 20 nd im 15 is it wrong? (link)
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normally id say age doesnt matter but in this case it illegal and you need your parent consent.im not going to just assume hes a creep because every one and situation is diffrent...but he could get arreseted. i dont think religion matters either if you love someone..just make sure its love and hes not taking advantage of you. im not going to slap your wrist and say bad girl because i dont know the full situation how you know eachother or how long either but i do know if your not 18 or older you need your parents consent or this could be trouble. if it wasnt illegal id say age doesnt matter but in this case it might.just be careful and if this guy really is a good guy and your really mature enough then it shouldn't be hard to confront your parents. and if they dont like and it really is love then he should be a gentleman and wait until its legal and if he doesnt then its not truly love.
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22/f
Ok I I love to do karaoke and I met this really cute guy *Kurt there a couple weeks ago. He is really nice and is good to have conversation with. when i met him I thought he was like 21-23 yrs old. He looks really young. Turns out he is 31.That didn’t really bother me like I think it should have. We have kissed a couple times but nothing more then that. Is this wrong of me? Am i too young to be doing this? I could really use some advice on this!!!! Please help!!!!!!!!! (link)
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age doesnt matter.....if you care about someone then its not a big deal. i see nothing wrong with it and if any one doesnt like what they see then tell them to turn your head in the other direction.it wouldnt bother me if i really liked someone.
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My best friend is my prom "date" since my boyfriend doesn't want to go. She was going to wear a tux to match my dress (dark red) but another girl im friends with is going with her girlfriend and is wearing a tux! I wanted our outfits to be unique. Does anyone have any ideas besides her going in a tux that we could do to be different from everyone else? Since we arent going to be the only "girl couple" and the only girl in a tux..
I know its kind of immature, but i want to be unique! (link)
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you could get the same dress or the same style in a diffent color or one of you could where a top hat type out fit you guys could find a theme to cordinate to like the 50's,60's,e.tc. you guys could try to find something at a vintage store they usually have one of the king stuff i got a really pretty dress from one for 50 bucks in perfect condition....its not realy immature i think unique is the best way to go.
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my uncle's girlfriend really bothers me. I just don't get why she would control my mom then she makes my uncle different to me. It bothers me and I can't seem to stop it. She just wants everyone to hate me. She is going around each family member like a game then she tries to make the ones closest to me strongly put me away. (link)
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talk to your family about it with out her around its not like they dont have free will. just tell people exactly whats on your mind in a calm way. just be real dont hide your feelings.just make sure you talk to someone whos close to you. some times a calm confrontation is in need even if people dont agree with you have a right to speak to.
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Last year, I was best friends with this kid, Michael. Since August, he's only said maybe five words to me. PLUS he lied to me during that time and it's not just one of those little lies. He posted a bulletin on myspace that was something like, "UGH! I HATE MY MOM. JUST CAUSE I HAVE FRIENDS THAT ARE OLDER THAN ME DOESN'T MEAN I CAN'T HANG OUT WITH THEM! IT DOESN'T F***ING MATTER IF I SMOKE!" A week after that he called me and said, "God, I can't believe she broke up with me. I hate her!!!! I DON'T EFFING SMOKE," and I said, "I know, I know." Now I'm pretty sure he lied to me cause I read his comment on his friend's myspace and it said, "So you got some "candy" for friday," which might mean it's more than just smoking. Anyways, I have an elective with him (PA) and he's been staring at me. (Last year, he liked me but he'd always deny it when my friends would ask him. But one of my friend, his best friend, told me that he did. Plus -- he basically asked me out once or was implying that he wanted to go to the movies with me.) He has a girlfriend though, so I'm not screwing up their relationship. Today he looked like he was waiting for someone and as soon as I walked out, he followed me and was making some weird sound trying to get me to look at him. Last year when he liked me, he did things like this. I'm still mad at him and he knows it, so why won't he just talk to me or at least apologize? And what's with him staring at me and stuff? (link)
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he needs to grow up. I've had friends like that before and i just disconnected from them because people like that arent friends and afterwards i was alot happier. he obviously doesnt value you that much as a friends or that much else either. He probably is attracted to you but that doesnt make him a friend either. yeah he probably does do drugs as well id just leave him alone because he wont change unless he wants to. i think you should reconsider your so called friendship with him. your better off without him. and in a few years you proably wont even see him.
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Ok.... well I am currently checking out gym memberships in my area, but I have also thought about buying some weights and getting an elliptical machine. Which would be the best for me to do? (link)
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going to the gym would be the best if you wanted more of a variety on machines and other ways to work out or were focusing on more then one way to work out. you could even go with a friend.while buying a machine would limit you. if you prefer privacy and only have a specific area you want to work out then gettng the machine would be the best idea.
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13/F
During the past 2 weeks i've been talking to this one guy alot. (we'll call him Jasen) He isnt very popular and has a very low self esteem and during those times I tried to boost it and help him out. We also passed notes. Then one day he wrote about him sliting his wrists. They are only small but STILL. My dad found the note and made me call his parents. I did and I hoped he would get better. Then at school he told me he never wanted to talk to me about this subject ever again. So life goes on. Now he is really mean to me. A few days ago during outdoor soccer when we were bringing the balls in he kicked one into my face 3 times, back of the head 4 times and my chest twice. It really hurt! Hes been constantly tormenting me at school and making me feel bad.
Now theres another guy in this. We'll call him Sam. We used to be so close friends and I used to tell him everything. Now we are again wehave been for weeks. We flirt all the time, we hang out all the time, we trust eachother, he defends me hes really great. But the thing is he loves knowing secrets.
One day when I was really upset I told him about knowing a big secret of Jasens. He really wants to know it. Jasen sees me with Sam all the time and like follows us always to make sure I dont tell him. But hes still really mean to me and seems to be trying to get Sam to hate me. I HATE IT! So many times I want to tell him but I can't. Jasen is still bugging me and Sam is practically all I have and I want to talk to him about it so bad. What should I do? (link)
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i think you should tell a friend,a teacher,and a parent. this guys obviously got issues that need to be resolved and he could get worse. your not his some dummy that he can just beat on. its not ok and you need to take a stand or he wont quit.tell sam about it if sam starts to hate you to then he doesnt care about you.
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i need some advice regarding my 9 year old son.
he wanted a cell phone and a laptop for christmas. he didnt get either and wrote a statement "no cell phone or laptop i want you dead i swear"
in addition he has a facination with guns and knives.all he draws is blood & death useing guns and knives. hes consitantly defiant especially when it comes to picking up after himself
ex: wrappers or soda cans left wherever he decides where he wants to eat. he is always lying about trivial things and constantly breaks or looses possesions and then lies about it even though it wouldnt have gotten him in trouble.
no punishments or rewards work ! at all ! he'll do things right until hes off punishment and he'll just continue with what he does when he gets rewards.
this all started after his father died and i do not believe it is his way of copeing with it .
he has many problems with school and cannot concentrate
pleas help . any advice will do. im really frightened by what he does and worried about how this will all end.
signed by,
concerned perent
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Theres obviously something wrong i suggest you get him some counseling or some other kind of therapy. maybe he would be better off talking to another male.i say male because he might be more apt to open up to a man before he would a woman.try taking him to a psyschiatrist maybe he needs medication of some kind.the medication would be a last resort. he could get really dangerous. so id get him help while hes young because he may be bad now but he could get alot worse.that statement is basically a threat and little kid are easily manipulated he could see something on television or just think of something on his own that could be very harmful. i wouldnt under estimate him.just get him some help.
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Im 13/F
Ok my friends all have boyfriends but I dont. The guy I like (lets call him Sam) is really nice and we are very close. Now I have about 5 girl friends and 15 guy friends. I talk to the guys all the time but when I do my friends get angry and call me a flirt. Ill admit I flirt a bit but only with Sam. I understand how one of them can be mad cause she is the only one other than me that doesnt have a boyfriend and she likes him. Im always with him and coincidently always with the guys. I talk to them all and they trust me, bug me all that. Every time Im with a guy for more than to minutes my friends call me nasty names and wont leave me alone about it. I hate it so much! What should I do? (link)
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if their calling you nasty names then their not your friends. maybe you should just stop hanging out with those girls and find new girl friends or just hang out with your guy friends. as for the other girl if hes not dating her then there is no problem with you flirting with sam. you should cut the people who make you feel negative out of your lives..if they cant accept the real you then maybe your not meant to be friends.true friends dont call eachother nasty names or try to dictate what you do. you can talk to who ever you want and you dont have to answer to them. in a couple of years these so called friends probably wont even stick by you.so dont worry about them.
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One of my friends has really bad body odor.
Its so bad, even our teachers complain about
it when they walk into the classroom. My friends
and I have tried to drop hints like 'Oh I just
got this great new deorderant you should try!'
'What kind do you use?' We've even bought
her perfume, which hasn't helped.
She's sensitive, so we're not sure how to
tell her she stinks. When we say something
smells bad, she just brushes it off by saying
"I don't smell anything"
.. What should we try? (link)
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is there a reason that she stinks,can she afford to take bath and wash clothes? if she can then you might want to just take her aside in private...dont tell anyone about it afterwards and just say listen your my friend and i dont want to hurt your feelings and maybe you dont realize this but you have really intense body odor.im not saying your dirty but im just trying to save you embarrassment because so many people are talking about it so i just wanted to tell you as a friend whats going on. please dont get mad at me but im just being truthful.....if she gets mad at least you tried...if your not willing to tell her or risk hurting her feelings then youll have to either live with it or separate...just make sure its not a money issue or health issue first.
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this guy at my school just asked me out today. i could tell he was very sincere, because he took both my hands and asked me. i told him no. then he just got all mad at me and said,"i was just playin. i didn't want to go out with you anyway." i didn't tell him this, but the reason i said no is because he has a girlfriend, and my bestfriend likes him. i'm the one who should be mad!!! and why would he even say something like that? i could tell from the look in his eyes that he wasn't playing. he should of known i wouldn't disrespect my best friend, or even his girlfriend like that!! (link)
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he was covering up a blow to his ego. he must not be that sincere if hes asking you out and he has a girlfriend. just leave him alone its his fault not yours.
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16/f
I have a job but i only go in(work) between 2 and 6 times a year. I get paid 10$ and hour, is that fair? Cause all my friends who have jobs work almost the same amout but weekly instead of annually but their pay is minimum wadge (w/e that is). idk but should i get another job? (link)
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i would get another job if your only getting paid to to 6 times a year. even if its ten dollars and hour it doesnt seem like it would amount to much if your not getting that many hours. your friends could end up making more in the end if they work more then you do.
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when someone says "do u want to go out with me?"
does that mean they are askin you out...
or they juss want to know if you like them
i feel really stupid asking this.
i think i know. but juss wondering from other opionions.
thanks in advance.
i will rate (link)
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if someone asked me i would think they were asking me out. if they asked me i liked them i would think they wanted to know if i liked them.
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i'm a 14 year old girl. in october, i went out with this boy for 2 weeks & then he broke up with me. we didn't talk for a while, but then we became sort of friends again. well; lately he has been calling me & we've been talking A LOT.
he keeps asking me if i'll have sex with him (not right now, but in the future), i just keep telling me "maybe". well now it seems that all he wants to talk about is sexual things. like, eating me out or me giving him a blow job.
i don't know what to do! i haven't really done anything with him..just made out & he's felt me up. that's all!
p.s. he's always telling me that he loves me, and that i'm beautiful. sometimes, he's so sincere & sweet, but sometimes i think he's bullshitting me.
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EDIT-EXCUSE ME IVE HAD ALOT OF FRIENDS WHO ARE GUYS OBSERVED ALOT OF THEM AND ITS NOT TRUE THAT ALL MOST ALL GUYS ARE LIKE THAT UNLEES THEIR EXTREMLY IMMATURE OR ABOUT 12 OR 13 THOSE WHO SAY THAT ALMOST ALL GUYS ARE LIKE THAT HAVE NOT MET ALMOST EVERY GUY AND ARE PROBABLY JUST AROUND THE WRONG ONES A DECENT GOOD GUY WOULDNT DO THAT.
i think hes bull shiting you to dont fall for it hes trying to get in your pants. if he loved you or really thought that much about you he would keep bringing up sex. hes trying to pressure you.you need to just break away from him he needs to grow into his hormones. well when he wants something of course hes going to be sincere and sweet be cause being mean and hateful would turn you off or mmight intimidate you which he could switch to that tactic as well.
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so i was watching The Wedding Date earlier, very good movie and the guy said
"I think I'd miss you even if we'd never met. "
what exactly does that mean?
THANKS!!
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it means even if the person didnt know the other then that person would still feel like they were missing something even if they couldnt quite put their finger on it.
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So as usual I was rambling to one of my friends and he like out of no where decided to mention that day after the recital...After a violin recital, i was packing up my violin and this guy who was like 50 (his little son plays violin too) came up to me and started caressing my arm going "That was really really good. That was fantastic." blah blah and I'm standing thinking "WTF GET THE H*** OFF ME!" (it took place for like a minute of him touching my arm and ew) and then my other friend who just now heard of that incident was like "Oh remember that one time. We were at the gas station (her dad needed to put gas in the car)." and I was like oh yeah...and this story goes: She was like, "Don't look to your left." and of course, me with my curiosity look to my left and there are two guys checking me out with one of them being the other guys DAD. And I was like erm...can we go now when they like smiled and winked at me. And my OTHER friend was like "HA, older guys are attracted to you." and i was like hmm...that seems partially true considering this dude working at a store was smiling and looking at me the whole time.
has this happened to anyone before and the thought that older guys are attracted to you go across anyone's head...?
14/f btw and I do not enjoy having 40yr olds checkin me out. (link)
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yeah and it wouldnt of been that big of a deal if you were of age then its just a matter of preference but your not your only 14. so that makes it disgusting on their part and make them very close to being pedifiles.i dont mind older guys just not that old, but im also past being of age to. i would like to add that your not quite a woman yet,so its alittle diffrent and although some people might be friendly i still think you should keep your distance because their are some sick people. as for the thought it depends on the age. in this case its not good so just stay away from them if you get that vibe and if they say or do anything to make you un comfortable tell your parents. even if their just checking you out and you can really tell they are tell your parents because no offense but your only 14 and their a little sick.
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