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Should I tell him a teacher or noone? Please answer soon!
13/F
During the past 2 weeks i've been talking to this one guy alot. (we'll call him Jasen) He isnt very popular and has a very low self esteem and during those times I tried to boost it and help him out. We also passed notes. Then one day he wrote about him sliting his wrists. They are only small but STILL. My dad found the note and made me call his parents. I did and I hoped he would get better. Then at school he told me he never wanted to talk to me about this subject ever again. So life goes on. Now he is really mean to me. A few days ago during outdoor soccer when we were bringing the balls in he kicked one into my face 3 times, back of the head 4 times and my chest twice. It really hurt! Hes been constantly tormenting me at school and making me feel bad.
Now theres another guy in this. We'll call him Sam. We used to be so close friends and I used to tell him everything. Now we are again wehave been for weeks. We flirt all the time, we hang out all the time, we trust eachother, he defends me hes really great. But the thing is he loves knowing secrets.
One day when I was really upset I told him about knowing a big secret of Jasens. He really wants to know it. Jasen sees me with Sam all the time and like follows us always to make sure I dont tell him. But hes still really mean to me and seems to be trying to get Sam to hate me. I HATE IT! So many times I want to tell him but I can't. Jasen is still bugging me and Sam is practically all I have and I want to talk to him about it so bad. What should I do?
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i think you should tell a friend,a teacher,and a parent. this guys obviously got issues that need to be resolved and he could get worse. your not his some dummy that he can just beat on. its not ok and you need to take a stand or he wont quit.tell sam about it if sam starts to hate you to then he doesnt care about you.
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ohkay hunny .
if someone tells you there slitting there wrist you have to tell someone else, but not someone that likes to gossip , trust me ive been in this situation before, and now you need to tell yer school counselour or go to his house and talk to him .
and if he follows you, that means he doesnt trust you so make him trust you and dont tell the one other kid . if hes being rilly mean to you then just talk to him about it and if he doesnt want to be yer friend and continues being mean then just let him be ,
hope i helped
much love .
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