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My friends keep getting angry at me for being with the guys!
Im 13/F
Ok my friends all have boyfriends but I dont. The guy I like (lets call him Sam) is really nice and we are very close. Now I have about 5 girl friends and 15 guy friends. I talk to the guys all the time but when I do my friends get angry and call me a flirt. Ill admit I flirt a bit but only with Sam. I understand how one of them can be mad cause she is the only one other than me that doesnt have a boyfriend and she likes him. Im always with him and coincidently always with the guys. I talk to them all and they trust me, bug me all that. Every time Im with a guy for more than to minutes my friends call me nasty names and wont leave me alone about it. I hate it so much! What should I do?
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Well, probably your friends are just jealous of you because you always talk to guys. Second is since in your question you said that you talk to guys a lot, so maybe they feel like you're trying to avoid them. So if that's the problem try to balance talking to the guys and the girls.
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- Dorkalicious
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I would confront your friends about it. They may not liek that you get along with the guys better, and are jealous. I have had the same problem, I personally preffered hangingout with guys, there was always less drama and we got along better but on the other hand I had to change around my female friends, if they didn't accept me having and hanging out with my guy friends I would quit trying to explain it to them and make new friends. If friends don't accept you being close to the guys then they don't really care about the way you feel.
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--Syd
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wow .
mmkay there prolly just jealous that you get to talk to all the guys and that they dont .
and if yer talking to yer friends and they dont like it then there not irlyl yer friend .
there being so dumb, and starting drama that you dont need .
my friend is a big flirt to and she has all guy friends, all the girls at my school are seriously rilly jealous because she hangs out with there boyfriends more then they do .
so yah i just think that there jealous and you need to consult them about it .
hope i helped .
mucho love
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if their calling you nasty names then their not your friends. maybe you should just stop hanging out with those girls and find new girl friends or just hang out with your guy friends. as for the other girl if hes not dating her then there is no problem with you flirting with sam. you should cut the people who make you feel negative out of your lives..if they cant accept the real you then maybe your not meant to be friends.true friends dont call eachother nasty names or try to dictate what you do. you can talk to who ever you want and you dont have to answer to them. in a couple of years these so called friends probably wont even stick by you.so dont worry about them.
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