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My parents are sooooo retarded theyve blocked almost every site known to man, im surprised this site aint blocked, but anyways the block is a
Library Web Filter by DansGuardian, this message pops up:
"B L O C K E D
Access to
WHATEVER SITE
has been denied.
You are seeing this error because the web site or file you attempted to access contains material, links, or language that has been deemed to be inappropriate for viewing at the library.
Block Reason: Weighted phrase limit exceeded OR
Banned Regular Expression URL found
Please contact a librarian if you think there has been an error."
DOES NE ONE HAVE NE IDEAS OF HOW TO DELETE OR UNBLOCK WATEVER IS DOING THIS TO MY COMPUTER.
when your parents set up the program, they must have been prompted to create a master password.
you can't do anything except talk to your parents about how you are responsible enough to not go on bad websites and do stupid things. don't yell at them. if you yell, no point in arguing. this isn't a debate. just explain to them your side of the situation, and then ask them what they think about at least being a little more lenient about the blocking of specific websites. don't get angry with them. prove that you can act your age & you can have an adult conversation with your parents.
heybbylovee
hey well me and my bestest friend just got out of a disagreement and everything is great!! well we kinda dated be4... he is soo sweet to me. but he lives far away and my feelings are just as strong. he just got out of a bad relationship and he is dealing with it... he still has some feelings for her and well you see...she kinda played him in a way...but i care alot about him... we have helped eachother through everything....he has thought about us getting back together but he isnt sure..its not something we can just talk about..knowing that we both know he has feelings for someone else to that he isnt completely over...but is trying to be....he calls me cutie,sweetie,babe,baby(mostly), he says i make him laugh, that i am always open minded with him and dont judge him for his opinions and beliefs, that i understand him, and alot more... well this is kinda a long distance thing and well i talked to him on the phone for the first time....i think i love him more than i know i do...i dream about me and him...all that stuff...how do i deal with these emotions without telling him..i dont want him to know until i know that i can see him and that he really loves me to...hes been the most real and true friend...and i think i am IN love not just loving him...
hey
hmm. well how far away from you does he live exactly? can your parents drive you to his house every few weekends & visa versa or is that not possible? if he lives further than driving distance, it's going to be very difficult to spark a relationship with him.
circumstance one: he is in driving distance. -- keep talking to him through the internet & phone. stay in touch with him, but don't get obsessive. talk every couple of days so that he doesn't get bored of you. it's better to talk for 10 minutes every 2 days than 20 minutes everyday. the conversations are more interesting. then, try to hang out with him more! maybe every couple of weekends, one of your parents could drop you off at his house, visa versa, or you could meet somewhere near both of your houses, like a restaurant or movie theater. the more you hang out with him, the more comfortable he will become with you, and it'll be easier for him to get over the other girl.
circumstance two: he isn't in driving distance. -- at this point, he still likes his ex, right? so the worst thing you could possibly do is to force him into a new relationship with you, especially since you guys aren't in driving distances of each other. you wouldn't want to purposely put him in an awkward situation, right? be supportive right now. help him through his break-up and then -- it might take a couple weeks -- keep talking to him. my suggestion for this circumstance is to not tell him at all. you'll get over him eventually, and it seems -- from what you've told me -- that a relationship would just not work out if he's not in driving distance. there are other girls that go to his school, other guys going to your school. there's so many temptations, and you wouldn't want either of you to get hurt. appreciate the close friendship you have now. the second you tell him you like him, he'll stop telling you things that he used to tell you back when he didn't know. stay close with him as friends and you will get over him eventually. isn't that better than creating a mega awkward situation and losing him as a friend, and maybe even one day losing him as a boyfriend? it's not worth the urges. you won't like him this much in the few months to come -- keep it to yourself.
feel free to inbox me for further analysis :)
So i have these weird bumps around my privete area.
I have went to the doctor and asked about them , she said they were in grown hairs and my mom also added my underwear might be tight.
I was on medicane for about a month or two, and even got some special cream, but nothing has happend! A few have left, but some keep coming back!
I dont know what to do.
Any ideas, plus i want to get rid of them before summer, I have had them for around a year maybe.
xoxo - Jessica [14,f]
hey
the bumps might be a result of shaving your bikini area. my suggestion would be to stop shaving your bikini area and moisturize the area around the bumps everytime you get out of the shower.
in addition, keep applying the cream. it takes several doses before some medicines start to work.
if they don't go away after you've used up all the cream, go back to the doctor because no one on advicenators can help you any further.
heybbylovee
15f
i have this guyfriend and he's a year older than me and he wanted to hang out with me over spring break. he doesn't want to hang out at his house, and my house is REALLY REALLY REALLY boring. does someone have some ideas?
also -- i know we can hang somewhere else, but it's not like as fun in public places. we don't have anything going on but i've never hung out with him beforee and i'm worried he's gonna comeover and be like, "so... now what..." and i don't want to be in that position.
can someone help us think of something to do or ANYTHINGGG? my basement isn't finished and board games are dumb. i wouldn't know what movie to rent and i wouldn't want my parents walking into the kitchen / living room every five goddamn minutes if we did rent a movie.
i suppose i could limit it to like 2 hours or something so that if we get bored time will pass quickly, and if we're having a good time we could extend it.
i'm not that close with him, either.
PLEASE anybodyyy? something GENERIC that can be done in most american households... and i don't have a trampoline... and i'm not allowed to go to the yard....
okayyyyyyyyyy;;
so, one of my best friends that ive known ever since the fourthhh graddeee is hanging with one of my ooothhheerr best friends.
like they met from me- how do i explain it.
but they hang out all the time now.
like my fourth grade friend lets call her - Lily- and my other best friend- Mary-
Lily would seem to be more excited when she sees mary.. like lily would be all dull with me.. and voice her opinions with me and sometimes even treat me like crap; but its really normal because she can be a selfish person.
but with lily; she lauughhhs, she goes with whattevver mary wants with out an opinion on it.
Lily lives right across the street from me and i always invite mary over;
so when mary is over shes like ": want to hangout with lily?"
im like " uh.. ? uh sure?"
-_-
when theyre together me and mary always get in fights because shes always so FAKE when shes with lily.
BOTH OF THEM ARE.
ughhhhhhhhhhh
so to prove my point more;
theyre hanging out together right now.
and i wasnt invited.
....
its always like a three thing
i dont know whos taking who away.
lily is taking mary away
and mary is taking lily away.
like; when im with them.
i just feel like crap.
nothing i could do to make them interested.
im nothing.
they seem so happy in "their" world...
i try not to think about it because it just makes me so made and depressed because i dont think i can really do anythign about it?
any advice?
ok first of all, i'm so sorry you're in that position. i gotta admit, girls can be the best of friends and the biggest bitchess in the whole world.
if i were you, i'd just try to take some time to think it over and if you REALLY still want to be their friend (or at least one of them!) then you NEED to talk to them and voice your opinion. you can't just keep going on ignoring it as if though it's not a big deal. you have feelings too, and they can't just push you around and treat you like dirt.
talk to each of them separately. but i mean TALK. not email, IM, wall post, message, comment, or text. if you can't get together in person without initiating a hang out (you wouldn't want her to be like, "uhh she invited me over to talk about THIS?"), then PLEASE call her. like make sure she's not doing anything one night (like if you have a mutual class with her, just casually be like, "do you have a game / practice tonight or a lot of homework?") and if she says, "nahh not really" then call her at like 7 or 8 (usually when most people finish homework and are relaxing, chilling out) and talk to her. just be like, "look i know you and lily (if you're talking to mary) are really good friends, but sometimes i feel a little left out and hurt when you guys ignore me. could we possibly make a compromise?" try to avoid saying "you" as MUCH as possible. stick to the words "i" and "we" (or preferably "WE" all together). if she seems not to care, she's not worth it.
try it with both, but not in the same night. don't make it a big deal. don't get into an argument. if she starts fighting, say that it's not what you intended. tell her how much you value her friendship and would prefer if you guys could just find a solution.
i have a t-shirt and it's like plain
it says something on the front and back but besides that it's like a regular t-shirt.
well i want to style it and stuff, and i saw this thing were you can take you t-shirt cut the side of it then re tie it...and i was wondering how exactly to do it.
and there's another thing kinda like the one above except...you cut it about half way..and you make hole on the side of a t-shirt and and you stick ribbons through the holes and tighten the holes or just leave it with the ribbon
****so my questions are how do i really do those styles, cause i don't want mess up my shirt
****and wat other styles can i do??
hey
ok so regarding the tshirt tying question, i know exactly how to do it except i can't really explain it without a video but i found this:
http://ph.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080313150954AAodFu1
you pretty much make a bunch of slits perpendicular to the seamline and then cut down the seamline and tie the strings back together. make sure the shirt is really large and make the slits pretty big so that the shirt is super tight when you tie it back together. if it's too tight, just wear another shirt underneath to avoid exposing skin.
if you add additional details, maybe some other people could help you with the ribbon question? i don't understand what you meant.
How and why do guys get over breakups so easily?
hey
that's a misconception... you'd think that they do but they take just as long as girls do. they're just not as open about it. they like to keep it to themselves. and also, their friends help them find new girls to move on. they do get hurt though -- sometimes more than girls
I'm a girl. I have hair on my upper lip. Most girls do, but I have black hair, and it's getting to be obnoxiously noticeable. I don't want to wax it though, because I don't want it to grow back all super-dark and thick and stubbly. That would be worse!! I don't know what to do though.. prom's coming up!
hey
try nair.. it's easy, it's clean, and it doesn't hurt. it lasts like a good few weeks. just buy the regular bottle (no need for all the fancy waxing papers and such) and dab a little on the area (don't rub it in.) and wait until it feels tingly.. then IMMEDIATELY wash it off. don't eat / taste it either.. like when you wash your moth don't open your mouth. if you still see a little hairs left, just rub them off and they'll come off... don't leave the nair on if it's tingling for more than 2 minutes
my "best" friend, who has been my "best" friend since 5th grade, which is about three years, moved somewhere else last year. she and this girl named sarah weren't close, until this year, when they started talking. they are now really good friends, and they both seem to have so much more fun together than she would with me. like, sarah is into guys, and so is my "best" friend, and they talk about it a lot. sarah has a boy friend so i guess it makes their friendship more interesting. also, ive told her so many times, she either denies everything or just says sorry. but nothing works. im really jealous, like seriously jealous. its making me hate sarah for no reason at all. i dont know what to do. PLEASE dont tell me to talk to her, well, if you do tell me to, please write out exactly what to say, because ive tried so many ways. i dont wanna tell her im jealous, unless i really have to. and i always send my "best" friend emails telling her how i feel, but she seems to not care. i wanna tell her, "okay, this is why i dont talk to you much. please dont get mad at me. nina (nina is my "best" friend), im jealous of your relationship with sarah. and i think that its been causing me to treat her differently. ive tried so many times to have a friendhsip liek you guys, but i dunno, i feel like our friendship is fake. like we have nothing left of us anymore, or hardly anything. you may not feel that way, but i do. i know that ive sent you so many emails telling you how i feel, but ive been being honest about everything. i cant let this let me down, because it is, and it has been. and im sorry, i am, im just jealous, and i dont know what to do about it."
SHOULD i tell her that? tell me what to say please or tell me what to or what not to say from that thing i said up there.
babeee, i know how you feel.
but honestly, there are SO MANY girls out there who could be your REAL best friend. why would you want to fake it? if she used to be your best friend, it doesn't mean she still is. i know it hurts a LOT, trust me, femalefriends can KILL if they wanted to, but if nina isn't going to be a true friend to you and respond to your emails, let alone show any concern at ALL, why should you put so much effort into the friendship? friendships, along with all relationships, are a two way street. one person gives 50% and the other person gives 50%. it's balanced. a best friend is supposed to be there for you when you need her, to help you when you want to talk, to laugh with you when you're happy, and be able to guide you to make good decisions so you don't hurt yourself. ask yourself, "has nina really done anything for this relationship, or am i always the one to initiate it?" people make mistakes. but if she's not willing to admit hers and / or apologize, you need to find someone else.
you've done all you can. you've tried emailing her. no matter what you say, she won't look back... she's best friends with sarah now. don't care about her anymore if she doesn't care about you. don't ignore her or be mean to her or talk badly of her, but don't look to her as your best friend anymore.
best friends are just lies... you think you've found a best friend only to realize you haven't. i know i've gone through at least two or three "best" friends, (all of which i'm still friends with!) but it's not a big deal not to have ONE SINGLE female to always be there for you. sometimes, that's just not possible. yes, it's nice, but i've learned the hard way that no one can be trusted except yourself. so the faster you realize it, the less you'll be hurt in the future. share good times with friends, but don't work up a sweat just cause you don't have ONE SINGLE best friend, cause i know i don't. i have a few really really good friends. and it works out well for me because
a.) no one person knows everything, so no one could backstab me even if they wanted
b.) each person has their own strength. one friend makes me laugh, one friend comforts me, one friend can keep a secret, etc.
c.) i won't lose everything i have by losing one of my friends. i depend a lot on myself, this website (hahahah) and my diary.
i hope i helped & feel free to inbox me, sweetie.
My bf never shuts up about his penis. His jokes center around that. He constantly tells everyone it's big. I'm sick of hearing it. I don't know why he does that so much. Is he insecure or just dirty minded 24/7? Are most guys this way?
hey
well if you haven't seen it yet, he's probably trying to impress youu. he's probably not dirty-minded cause i mean he wouldn't go upto his guyfriends and say "i'm big." -- he's just trying to impress you. don't tell him upfront that it annoys you.. he might get a bit offended. but when he makes a joke again, laugh SEEM like your joking and say, "ohhh shut up about your penis!" and smile.
The lyrics to Slayer's song ''Dead Skin Mask''
http://www.lyricsfreak.com/s/slayer/dead+skin+mask_20126185.html
Could someone explain to me what the song is talking about, and why are the girls screaming ''let me out mr.gein'' and who is this mr.gein?
Thanks..
hey
http://www.songmeanings.net/lyric.php?lid=2569
that might help out a bitt :)
i use loreal true match super blendable makeup in warm natural beige. Its the perfect color and it looks great when i apply it in the morning before school, but by about the middle of the day, it gets rubbed off my chin and its all streaky and blotchy on my checks from touching my face and stuff. what kind of foundation will stay in place all day long and not rub off thats close to that color? i have like combination skin.. oily in places, but dry in others.
only people with experience with makeup, please!=]
hey
i use the same powder! the key about applying any type of foundation / concealer was that the LIQUID is the base first. like the powder is just so that it sticks. but the liquid (aka the actual FOUNDATION) is key.
(what i used to do was i'd apply a little bit of the foundation and a lotttaaa powder and it would look so fake!)
so, i use loreal paris ideal balance balancing foundation for combination skin in beige. it's SO LIGHT, and it stays on allll dayyyy. my advice would also be to apply the foundation with a concealer brush? or some sort of a foundation brush (if something like that exists) cause applying with your fingers... a.) adds bacteria to your skin b.) adds oils to your skin c.) gets rubbed off on your fingers, not your skin, causing you to use more than you need.
:)
youre not supposed to wash your hair everyday, but what if you exercise every day?
yeah you can. it might make your hair less shiny though & more prone to falling out. every other day is a good idea thoughh
is it true that women who are more muscular (like do weight training and stuff) are less prone to have better orgasms as opposed to women who are less muscular?
honestly i don't think it should make a difference. it's not like they do workouts for their vaginas.
all in all, no. it's probably just a myth cause all women climax differently.
is it possible for me to get pregant if i take the patch off before having sexy 3days before i changed patches
if you had sex, there's always a chance you can be pregnant.
yes.
omg i git cramps SOOOO bad. and its to where i cant even walk sometimes. and i get really craby and im really hungry. is there anything i can do about it?
ah, womanhood :)
ok regarding the cramps.. try taking some aspirin like advil or tylenol to help subside the pain. i know several things that can help the pain if that doesn't help..
1.) exercise. i know it sounds crazy, but it helps the blood circulate better throughout your body. nothing major, just a walk or a few minute jog.
2.) a heating pad. it works WONDERS.
3.) a nice, long, hot bath. just relax, and i promise it will help.
for the crabbiness - it's PMS. everyone's a bitch when it's that time of the month. try taking a 15 minute nap when you get back from school before you start your homework. it will help you relax. also, try to get at least 8 hours of sleep a night.
hunger - it's totally natural to get food cravings. let yourself eat what you want :) you deserve it.
Okay im in sophmore year of highschool and right now I have mostly d's in my school work. Last year I didn't do too great, i got by on mostly c's, and im on my final quater(?) in the year. My mom yells at me every night that i won't go to college on these grades, even if i get all a's next year and senior year. Is this true? I don't think it can be because I know people who went to harvard even though they had f's for quiet a while. But can anybody assure me?
unfortunately, your GPA is suffering severely, which colleges do look at.
no it's not necessarily true, but they must have had outstanding SAT scores to go to harvard. plus you wouldn't want to just get away with going to a good college, you'd want to EARN it. you will get into college.. but that means nothing. if you want a good, well-paying job you're gonna want to step it up a lot more, especially considering it's going to get harder and harder. senior year also doesn't really count because most people are already practically accepted into college by midyear.
first of all, what's the root cause of your grades falling? not studying? a guy? friend issues? you REALLY need to start getting back your A's & B's, so figure out what you need help with and act accordingly!
I am in 8th grade and there is going to be an eighth grade dance on may 30th. i need a dress. kind of fancy, and i want no one else to have it. I live in New York, not in the city. I live near commack if anyone knows where that is. Thanks
hey
umm i think abercrombie MIGHT be a little to casual for an eighth grade dance. i know at my 8th grade dance (i'm a freshman now) girls really went all out and got their hair and nails done and everything.
i'd say try mandee's, wetseal, forever21 or swell. (just google them) and take a look at what they have.
shoes don't have to be super fancy. kitten heels would be fine. also i wouldn't bother getting my hair done because all we did at the dance was dance like in a club. all the girls' hair got messed up and it wouldn't be worth it to get your hair or make-up done. just curl / straighten it at home.
prom would be a bigger deal -- save money for then.
okay so i have a 1 gig ipod that i have had for about a year. and i dont know whats wrong with it but everytime i pick an artist to play a song it goes back to the menu it doesnt want to play anything. i have tried everything. i dont have money to get it fixed, has this ever happened to your ipod?. whats wrong? and i already plugged it in the computer restared it and restarted the setting but i dont whats wrong HELP!
yeah this has happened to me.
it wouldn't play because it was a corrupted file. like i use limewire & not iTunes for the sake of how expensive iTunes is and i ended up downloading something that wasn't a song, so it simply wouldn't play. but i'd skip over that particular song and the rest would play.
did you download all your songs from limewire? perhaps most of them are corrupted. try redownloading them & trying again.
if you already use iTunes, i'd say just go to the apple STORE and ask them about it to see if there's anything they can do to help you for free.
Why do guys like blowjobs so much? is it mindblowing?
it feels good to them & they can't do it to themselves through masturbation.