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hey,i'm Nicole. I'm 23 years young. I'm from New York...i do the best i can on giving advice on this site.drop one in my inbox n i'll get to it as soon as i can.i like spending time with friends, shopping,and playing soccer. my interests are music, singing and dancing.

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Okay well I had this boyfriend and we were only going out for two weeks and then he called me and said that we cant go out anymore. I wasnt that dissapointed because we hadnt been going out for too long. But then my best guy friend sent me their conversation and the kid that dumped me was really mad he did. He only did it because someone told him it would be weird to go out with me. He just asked me out again and I know that he will dump me again because that is what he did last year too. What should i do

don't even bother with this guy. it's absolutely pointless to take this risk of getting hurt if you know what's going to happen. and from the way you talk about him, he sounds predictable and like he'll do whatever his friends and others say. pretty sad. hope i helped

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Does anyone know any good quotes. They can be from songs or just really cute ones. They can be about anything. Like love, friendship etc.. Thanks

*Dance as though no one is watching you
Love as though you have never been hurt before
Sing as though no one can hear you
Live as though heaven is on earth

*you can kiss a fool, you can let a fool kiss you, but dont let a kiss fool you

*Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down

*be fun, be true, be wild, be you

*I'd do anything
Just to hold you in my arms
To try to make you laugh
Cuz somehow I can't put you in the past
I'd do anything
Just to fall asleep with you
Will you remember me?
Cuz I know
I won't forget you

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ok... well i just recently like a week ago lost the best girlfriend i have had in my life and the best thing that was in my life at the time.. all i think about is her.. doesnt matter what im doin something reminds me of her.. what do i do to get her out of my head???





nick 16

don't bother to deny that you're still in love with her. if you try to get her out of your head, you will only make it worse. you have to realize that you're not over her and get out with some friends, and dont burn the bridges.

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home remedies to clear up pimples?

toothpaste. and use a cottonball with mouthwash on it. it'll clean it and dry it out.

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I'm falling for this guy in my class quick and I have to know how to get his attention somehow! But everytime I talk to him I get completely tounge-tied! How can I stay calm around him?

think of him as just a friend now. eventually exchange screennames or phone numbers, talk then, get to know him, start hanging out, and if its meant to...things will happen on their own. just relax and thing of him as one of your guy friends for now. hope i helped!

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Everyone tells me that glow in the dark tampons are a bad idea. Am I the only one that thinks I could make millions off of it?

you could make millions off it...but there are cons that would make it not possible. in order to make them clow in the dark, you would have to use a certain substance that it somewhat toxic to humans and is not meant to be mixed with bodily fluids. so basically, they could poison anyone who uses them.

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ok well,im 15, there is this guy that i have a crush on, but he has a girlfriend. Me and my boyfriend just broke up. I know that i didnt like it when other girls liked my bf. So do you think it is wrong that i like someone elses boyfriend? This has been bugging me for a long time.

it's not wrong that you like someone elses boyfriend. you cannot help the fact that you have feelings and are attracted to that person. it happens.

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Hey! Me and my ex boyfriend of 2 years broke up about 1 month ago. And since then I have moved on to sometime else that is wayy better for me. But I feel like something is holding me back from loving him. Could this be because I sill am not over my ex boyfriend? What should I do?? Thanks for the advice

yeah, it's normal. you probably will have feelings for this ex boyfriend of yours for a while. i've experienced the whole feeling like something's holding you back. and it sounds to me like you need some time before you jump into a new relationship and that you wont be over your ex for a while. hope i helped!

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My mom recently got remarried over the summer and my step dad and I do not get along at all. I've always loved my mom and loved living with her but I cannot stand her husband and he doesn't think too much of me either. I tried to make it work with her but I can't keep trying.


Yesterday we were in an argument and he suggested that I move in with my dad. At first I just got really up set that he said that and called him an asshole. But then I realized that it might be a good idea.


My dad is great and he is a good parent--I'm just used to living with my mom. My mom refuses to let me live with him. But they have joint custody of me so can I still move in if my mom says no?

well it kind of depends on how old you are.
you can tell your dad you want to take it to court, and if the court says you're old enough to make the decision on your own, you tell them that you want to live with your dad and why.
((i went through the same things with my parents)). hope i helped!!

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I have use pads ever since I first got my period and I have never even thought about using a tampon. I think I want to try them, but I have heard very bad things about them. I heard they hurt when you put it in, and that they can give you diseases. I am really confused on what to do. Should i just stick to pads?

tampons cant give you diseases. you can get TSS (toxic shock syndrome)but that's only if you leave them in for too long.

if you use tampax pearl, they dont hurt at all.
and dont stick w/ pads because you'll need to use tampons eventually

hope i helped

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What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!

I'll rate honestly.

when a guy asks you out, you just say yes. there's nothing else to it. when the time comes, you will naturally know. something along the lines of sure, yes, or yeah will come out, and it won't sound dumb. hope i helped!

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I have a quiz tomorrow in math and I dont know really understand how to find something from a cirle graph. Okay so lets say that the cirle graph is called Persons Living Alone by Age and the pieces of the cirlce are ages45-64 is 33.4% Ages 25-44 is 14.8% and Ages 65 and older is 46.7%. Lets say they ask If the total of 10,851,000 people were living alone, how many in each age group were living alone? How do I find it out? Please help and thank you! Sorry its so long!

you do x over 100 = is over of. so for example,

for ages 45-64, 33.4% out of 100% = x out of 10,851,000. you would then divide 33.4 by 100 then multiply times 10,851,000 and that would be your answer.

you would do the same equation for the rest, you would just replace 33.4% with either 14.8% or 46.7%.


hope i helped!!

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do u think its ok for someone who is fourteen to hide a boyfriend from there parents i dont have one yet but in the futrue is it ok because i think my parents dont want me to have one but is it ok because its wut teenages do

no one ever said you had to tell your parents. but as parents usually do, they might eventually find out. i think it'd be okay, but they can't control you anyways, so what's the point? hope i helped!!

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What does it mean to "fall for someone" i get the general idea but could anyone explain it better for me please? thanks i'd appreciate it!

when you fall for someone, they're all you think about. you want to be with them and around them and talk to them all the time. it's like you cannot stop thinking about someone because you either want to be with them so bad and just want to know them or are madly in love and want to marry the person. hope i helped!!

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I've always loved government and law. But, I don't wnat to be a lawyer. What other jobs have to do with law?

there's law enforcement. like a police officer or judge or something like that. or a probation officer. those are all more on the law side. hope i helped!!

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when ever I like a guy my friends HATE him or just really like him that much, why is that? and when ever Im around them and Im dateing a guy they dont like they give me awful looks and it bugs me... why???

if your "friends" can't handle the fact that you're dating a guy that they don't like, they really need to grow up. they might just be jealous or they might feel like you might leave them behind. i cant exactly tell you bc i dont know your friends, but i hope i helped!!

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what are common expressions that you say to the person you love or husband/wife

something like,

You are the _______ in my ________.

or

You put the _______ in ________.

Ive heard those before but I cant remember what the words are.

I need something like that to say to my boyfriend for our anniversary. THANK YOU

i think one of them is "you are the fire in my heart/eyes" either of them will work. i cant say which one, but they both sound fine to me. hope i helped.!

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ok thers this boy i like, hes rele nice, and he knows i like him and i sorta asked today of he liked me through a note and here are some things i noticed:
1. he anwered the note quickly, like he knew exactly what he was gonna say
2. when he was leaning in his chair, he said that if he fell he would hold onto me (it sounded so romantic when he said it)
3.when the bell rang, he waited for me in the stairwell
4. when we were walking down the stairs, he was wlaking close to me, even though there was plenty of room
5. in last period, he offered to switch seats with the person next to me and kept touching my hand the whole period, he kept saying it was an accident but i dont think it was.

does it seem like he like me? i have a really strong feeling he does but i need it to be confirmed. will rate! nellie

well, it sounds to me like he likes you. if you really like him and you think he has the same feelings back, take a risk and find out how he feels. have a friend talk to him. the worst thing that can happenn is that he says he only likes you as a friend, but you'd rather be a friend than nothing right? good luck and hope i helped!! ((i think he likes you))

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My boyfriend and I are going to a holloween party and we are dressing up as babie and ken. Does anyone have any good ideas to makes us look like that? Thanks so much!

straighten your hair and slick his hair back like kinda poofy like ken's, but use hairspray in his hair so it stays. for clothes, you guys can wear pretty much anything. just make sure it's wholesome so you guys will look just like barbie and ken!! hope i helped!!

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the other day i got a cut at the bottom of my lower lip (in the inside where the lip connects to the gum on the left side) it really hurts and turned white! anyone no what it is or how i can get it back to normal?

that happened to me before. the white stuff means that it's healing. you can help it not get infected by using mouthwash and keeping your mouth clean until it goes away. hope i helped!

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