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when ever I like a guy my friends HATE him or just really like him that much, why is that? and when ever Im around them and Im dateing a guy they dont like they give me awful looks and it bugs me... why???
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♥ Hm. Thats weird.
Maybe its because you spend more time with him then them. They may a little jelous. I would deffinetely ask them & tell then exactly how you feel.
If after awhile they still act this way. Then I would reconsider your friendships. ♥ Good luck!
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Your friends need to grow up-
tell them to get out of your personal life. because it's not there opinion to act that way. confront them and talk to them and see what's up..
because if that would have happend to me. i don't know what i would do..
but this is you. just ask them. maybe they don't want you to go out with a guy that they don't like..
idk.
ask them .. that's the only way to find out.
love. =]
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Ah, been there. It gets pretty annoying but only your friends have reasons why they don't like them. Maybe you should talk to them about this next time and see what's up. Perhaps your friends might be a little jelous? Have you ever ditched them for your boyfriend. Maybe they are afraid that you won't be as close friends when you get a boyfriend. A lot of girls get caught up in the idea of keeping the perfect boyfriend. It's normal for friends to do that. They don't neccesaraly hate him, they just don't want to see you get hurt, or maybe that guy has been mean to them before. There are many things why it could be, but only they would know why. Don't worry though. Everything will be fine.
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if your "friends" can't handle the fact that you're dating a guy that they don't like, they really need to grow up. they might just be jealous or they might feel like you might leave them behind. i cant exactly tell you bc i dont know your friends, but i hope i helped!!
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Generally, your friends are very much like you. You and them share many of the same personalities and thoughts. However, opposites attract. So, you are attracted to guys with completely different personalities than your friends. As a result, they don't like him, because he is different from them. They want you away from him, so they give you dirty looks, so you want to leave them. He is considered an "Impurity", and they want their friends to be purely the same. For every date runs the risk that you will change to be more like them.
Just some socioanalising, it may or may not be true...
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