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Okay, this was the same question as before, but more imfo.

I like this Boy. We're on different teams. I have 2 connection classes with him. Which are going to change in a week. I dont know if we'll have connections together after that. But, we're both shy. He doesnt seem like the kind of guy that would have a lot of friends that are girls.

So, Im shy. I can talk to boys that I dont like that are just my friends, but not to ones that I do like. I always say Im going to go and talk to him, but I never do. He seems like if i did, then he'd just smile and look away or something.


How can i overcome my shyness? How can I start a conversation with him? and become his friend?

if you see him on your lunch period or in connections go up to him and asks him if he want to talk or could join him

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okay so im 15/f and my boyfriend is 18. we started dating about a week ago. well hes older than me hes just a lot more experianced than me. we make out all the time and hes really like "fast" with it but its been fine with me. but i let him finger me last night and it was the first time someone has. well he was really fast and when it started to hurt i told him to slow down and he would just whisper to me that "ill be fine and he knows what hes doing" and he kept going just as fast. so i finally told him to just stop and he didnt and so i closed my legs and he just pushed them back and held me there until he was done.. im kind of scared now cause we've talked about having sex but im scared he'll hurt me a lot more and i dont really know what to do cause i dont want to break up with him but it really scared me when he was basically holding my legs apart when i was telling him to stop. what should i do?

you should never let someone do somthing you dont want them to do the next time he tries say stop or ill scream

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is it okay to eat egg everyday? at least one EVERY dAY?

not really eggs cause gas

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ok i know this probably sounds stupid but i have to go and buy condoms but i dont exactly know what size to get by guy hes black so hes pretty big lol but then again im not a dick expert so what size do you think would be the safest for my man

get him trojan four different sizes small,medium,large, and extra large you cant go wrong with that

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Well, I saw another post somewhat like this, And I have a few questions.
So, My dad is in a wheelchair from the shoulders down he will never be able to move. He's paralized. I live with my mom and he lives at his own house, But about 2 years ago are 50 year old cousin moved in, All she does is use him, She doesnt pay rent. And she uses his moeny for stuff. And she's not poor eother. Also, He has a call bell so that if he need something she can come up, Well one day he couldnt get his water and he became dehrated and he rang it and she ignored it. Now, When he gets sick its a bad thing. And, Now she's saying she has scabbies and she left another quad that she works for alone at night and he has seziuers. She says she got scabbies from his house, The guy got an extermantor and they found none. She still thinks she has it, And she always claims to be sick.
I really want her out of the house, If my dad gets sick, He ughh could go to the hospital.
Als, We have a really nice care worker who was a pregnat teenager who needs a home, And she WOULD come to the call bell and help him out.
Also my dad's diabetic and needs someone to be there for the call bell.
How do I get my cousin out of the house?Any ides.

yeah me personally i would try insults but you could try practical jokes

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I babysitt for a small group at our church. What I do is, the parents, have the bible study upstairs, and I watch the kids downstairs. I do not have any help. I usually babysitt 13-17 kids each time. The age ranges from about 18 months two 8 yrs. Most of the kids are in the 3-5 ranges, with a few 6-8 yr olds, and two babies.
I babysitt for usually an hour and a half to two hours. I get paid around $30-$35. Is that too much? Too little?

its just right because i would charge ten per kid

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Okay well there's this guy and i used 2 lik him in 6th and 7th, and he knew it and he never liked me. Yeah but weve been GREAT friends!!! Now we're in 8th grade and its wierd, i have a bf now, one that he doesnt know cause he goes to a diff skool and my friend seems wierd. we used to NEVER get in fights or anything we were chill and kool. But since ive been dating this guy my friends been acting wierd. He's always making fun of my boyfriend, which he doesnt even know and he's always now playing w/ me hair more and stuff. lik he just started going out w/ this gurl a week ago, and im not jealous but i feel like hes jealous of my bf. he makes fun of him, he's now getting mad at me ova nothin at least 3 times a week, and he's always messin w/ me, hair and stuff. IS HE JEALOUS OF MY BOYFRIEND

yeah he's jealous because now that you have a bf he wants you. but you wanted him and he did'nt want you now thats someone else wants you he wants you its just a case of one jealousy talk to him about it

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Does anyone know a way to like become part of a program where you can become sort of like pen pals with a poor or orphan child in other countries? Like where you send letters and pictures back and forth... I know you can sponser children but most say that they cannot write you back and you can only send one letter per year or something.

yes you should visit a site called www.interpals.net that should help

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i really want a new hair cut. i have light brown hair thats like medium length.. maybe like 3 inches past my shoulder or something. anywayss idk what kind of haircut i should get! i had bangs before but they kinda grew out.. any pictures of cute haircuts?

thanks!

i reccomend that you get your hair cut in layers it will make you look hot

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So I'm extremely liberal, but can any one give me a website that shows views that liberals have. Such as pro-abortions, etc. Also, I'm really into saving the environment, so anything like that.
Thankss =]

you should go to ask.com it really helps !!!!!

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I'm in high school, and i'm looking to start some projects to impress college...
I was thinking of starting a cheerleading group at a school, i have a school, but my question is...
Do you have to be in a cheerleading organization in order to compete in compititions, and how do you sign up for compititions??

Thanks!!

get like all the people involved the it to sign a petition then have ten teachers to sign another piece of paper saying they support it then take both of the petitions to the principal he or she is nice they should alow it best wishes

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im 14, and overweight, andc thinkikng of joining lucille roberts, my mom friends goes there and loves it, im gonna go with one of my friends, has anyone gone there before? can you tell me more about it? does it work well?

my god sister went there it really works you should try it it'll make you happy

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my high school's homecoming dance is coming up and i want a really cute dress this year. does anyone know any places in the mall or wherever where i can get a really cute one? pictures would be great, thanks so much!

you would'nt happen to go to tara high would because me and some of my readers go there oh an you should go to burlington coat factory their dresses are gorgeous

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okay well ever since i first got my period
it was irregular
like i had gotten it june summer 06
and then i only got it maybe 3 or 4 times since
My mom decided to put me on birth control
so ive been on it for 19 or 20 days
and i got my period[which i havent gotten in a good 7 monthes maybe]
on the same day i got my period,i had un protected sex
[it was before i started bleeding]
But yes i have taken my pills at the same time for all of those 19 -20 days
so are the chances of me being pregnant slim?

yes but be sure you tell your guy
If you slip between her thighs, be sure to condomize . It will be sweeter if you wrap your peter .Especially in December, gift wrap your member . glove, no love! The right selection will protect your erection if he does'nt understand that just tell him if he does'nt use a condom he wont get any

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i have brown hair about an inch past my shoulders. its thick and doesn't straighten easily but when it curls its random. i'd like to grow it out around to my mid back but it takes so long. also i had side bangs but they've grown out to the point where they're too long to be bangs and they're too short to fit in with the rest of my hair. i think i want to cut my hair short, around a little past my chin but i'm not sure. any suggestions? any haircuts that will make it easier to manage?no dye i like being a brunette.

you should get your hair cut in layers so it's comfertable for you to manage my mom had the same problem

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16/f
i want to be more outgoing when it comes to making the first move and telling guys i like them. there's nobody in perticular that im talking about right now but just in general. when i had a boyfriend i made the first move as far as kissing him but that took 3 months for me to do that. going out for someone for 3 months without kissing them was getting to be rediculous. the thing is that im normally really shy. i don't like to draw attention to myself and i don't like when random people talk to me. i don't want to be outgoing in a whoreish way just more adventurous i guess. help?!

thanks in advanced
: )

its really farely simple you should be more forceful like taking charge and marching to the beat of your own drum follow your own path is what i mean by be more assertive

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Okay so i got my cartalage peirced and i got it on my right ear ( im a girl) . I heard that it has to be on a certain ear or soemthing. like Gay or lesbian for both genders. Im totally confused; does that go for gilrs or just guys??

just guys sweetie

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Ok well i have curly, poofy-ish hair.

it's golden brown, and long-ish.
i'm getting kind of bored with it, and i have a round-ish, heart-sh shaped face. it's kind of skinny an my eyebrows are thick-ish but not like bushy ha.

how should i get my hair cut?

layers?
idk!

help?

thnks.
xx

cut it in layers

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I am interested in making my soccer skills better. I am looking for any soccer drills that I can do on my own to make my dribbling, passing, kicking and such. I am also looking for any advice on things I can do to make my stamina better, and improve my physical fitness in general for soccer. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

you should try i you can you should jogging in the morning befor school it really makes your satmina better and running really helps to strengthen your leg muscles so your pass and kick would be more effective

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theres a boy, we like each other.
idk we peck inbetween classes, but his best friend i find so attractive. i've made out with him before, and want to again, so bad.

this is bad, and wrong considering me and the boy could possibly date.

yes its normal you are just a teenager

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