16/f
i want to be more outgoing when it comes to making the first move and telling guys i like them. there's nobody in perticular that im talking about right now but just in general. when i had a boyfriend i made the first move as far as kissing him but that took 3 months for me to do that. going out for someone for 3 months without kissing them was getting to be rediculous. the thing is that im normally really shy. i don't like to draw attention to myself and i don't like when random people talk to me. i don't want to be outgoing in a whoreish way just more adventurous i guess. help?!
tabby14 answered Sunday October 7 2007, 10:31 am: being outgoing isn't such a hard thing to do. just talk more and random people can become some of the bestest friends you will ever have. your right to wait 3 months because if he can wait that long he surely likes you. but if you want to make the first move like on kissing wait about 3 weeks and it won't seem whorish. but sometimes guys like to make the first move so you'll know when the feeling is rightl. just be your self around guys. being out going shows confidence and guys love confident girls. Hope i helped. [ tabby14's advice column | Ask tabby14 A Question ]
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