I'm a cool chico, and I try to help others to love themselves. It's a rough world out there, but grawr, I can handle it.
Since this comes up so often, let's make this very clear: You can not pick and choose where you want to lose fat. Exercising your abs will make your abs strong - but losing tummy fat is dependent on your body fat percentage and genetics.
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I am going ahead in my math book, and I completely forgot something... If you were to plot the graph Y=5/3sin(-2Pi/3)x+1, how would you do it? What do each of those numbers mean? (link)
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Deceivingly simple. -2π/3 is a scalar. Sin of that is a scalar. Multiple that, and it's still just a number. Sin of -2π/3 is negative sqrt(3)/2. Pays to know your unit circle.
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My sister-in-law *Chelsey* is just turned 18, her husband is 24. She has a 2 year old and a 4 month old. Her husband beats her, and everytime someone helps her she lies and says "I fell down the stairs." He's been in jail, has no license and is on probation for known violence. We want to help her when she asks, but how do we help? Can we help? We're at the end of our rope, and are about ready to call SRS, those children don't need this life. She doesn't need him, but those kids need HER! Please help? I don't want to take those kids away... (link)
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Like many problems, being upfront won't be fully effective in getting her to realize just how bad it is unless you bitchslap her a few times. It's a trick to go in through the back door and get her herself to really *understand* how bad it is.
But the children? Do whatever is necessary. Time is of the essence for them.
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how do i become popular just how (link)
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Be yourself, be cool, and be nice to everybody.
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i really wanna lose some weight cuz i dunno i want 2 hehe but i dont really have alot of time please help me....maybe some diet type tips or some kind of workout please im desparate
luv fatso lmao (link)
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If you want to lose weight and KEEP it off, then you have to change your lifestyle. This includes a healthy diet and moderate exercise. It doesn't get any simpler than that. Eat three square meals a day, and get off your ass.
Yeah, I'm a pain in the butt.
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Hey, I'm pretty skinny (95 lbs), but I want to get abs. If I did 100 crunches a night, would that do it, and if it would, how long do you think it would take? Thank you!!! (link)
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Actually, an easier way is to GOTO a gym that has abdominal weight machines. They're out there. A few reps at high weight is more effective than killing yourself doing crunches.
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i've been shaving down there for about a month now but like it doesn't always look great like i go over it once but it always starts bleeding not wear ive court myself just like as though i had a spot and i've like gone over it and the top has cut off, my friend said it could be cause i have really tough hairs i dont know though got any suggestions what i can do?? btw i did use soap but i tried shaving cream aand neither did any difference i also changed the blade and used an older blade didnt change anything :S (link)
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Only a month? You'll learn in time the best way to shave your vulva. Let the spot heal. Don't shave it for a while. Examine it closely, it could be an ingrown hair. If not, well. *shrugs*
And I'd seriously recommend against using soap consistently. I find soap dries everything out. When I shave my scrotum, I always used a bit of shaving cream and my mach3.
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Is semen and sperm the same thing and if not whats the difference? (link)
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Sperm are the male gamates which seek out The Holy Egg. *nodnod* Semen is the fluid within which they are in upon ejaculation. Semen has all the nutrients that should allow sperm to live long enough to reach The Holy Egg.
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Where is the clitoris? Everyone says "at the top of the vagina." On the upper right side of mine is this pink thing about the size of a calcium tablet. Is that the clitoris? (link)
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Saying it's at the top of the Vagina is actually a misnomer. Vagina is internal. A better word would be "vulva". The glans clitoris is at the top of where your inner labia means, under the clitoral hood. Spend some time rubbing around. It's there. Trust me.
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i have a boy friend and i really like him he is nice and cute i really like him but the thing is i try to talk to him and he dosen't really talk back like ill be like how was your day and he would be like good and thats i asked him why and he didnt answer i write him notes never back im not trying to be a control freak im just trying to get to now him better! he is so quite but his faces are so loud how can i get clsoer to this quitley loud man?
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It could be a lack of chemistry. Yeah, we hate being told that. I just remember being with girls, wanting so badly to try and have a conversation, and coming up empty-handed.
*ruffles beard* Consider taking a latent interest in whatever he likes. That is, try talking about things he would talk about "normally".
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Ima 19 yearo ld female.. I'm lookin for some suggestions lol :), .. This weekend me and my man are stayin together, so on friday night I know he always needs me to be agressive cause he does all the work usually.. :X So Im gona make it up to him, I wana know suggestions on starting it off.. then I'm going to give him head ( and yall how do most guys like it? on knees or layin down? ) the rest I pretty much have down but please, suggest.. Thanks I appriciate it
-- Also if you could give help on giving head right.. I cant even deep throat that wellll cause the size is pretty hard.. Any suggestions? Thanks yall I rate back 5's
this is an embarrasing question lol but thanks for your time..
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You'll probably hate this intro, but I find the best head is when I know a girl is into it. That said, enthusiasm is key. This doesn't necessarily mean oogling his size, but it can be. This doesn't necessarily mean telling him how much you want to suck his cock. It means showing him how much you want to be with him as a person. We are more than a penis, after all. Anybody can suck a cock, it takes a talented lass to really make love to a guy.
That said, consider what spots on yourself that you enjoy being touched. If it turns you on, there's a good chance it may turn him on. I know how easy it was to turn on my ex by kissing her neck and whispering her ear while grabbing her breasts/ass. Guess what. That works wonders on myself.
Sexual tension rules. If you want to prove you're "taking control", blindfold him and tie his hands behind his back.
Don't forget his balls. If you haven't mastered that, slow down and talk to him while you're trying different things.
Tease him by kissing his inner thigh.
Deep-throating? There's hardly an overnight course for that. Girls I've run into either have no gag reflex, or learn to disable their gag reflex over time. Don't be too hard on yourself. Popsicles? I guess.
Ironically, I'm probably not the best person to ask for fellatio advice. I've never even orgasmed during fellatio!
-Timmy™
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I have a VERY personal question that i find embarrassing to ask friends. When a girl is giving you head, are you supposed to tell her when you're going to ( you know ) To me this is what you should do, but is it normal to do that. How do girls feel about this?
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Fellatio is an intimate act and there are absolutely no guidelines. You can vocalize your desires if you want. Or you can let her do whatever she wants. It doesn't matter. Just try to enjoy yourself. : )
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Yea this question is probably been like said a million and a half times. But I'm almost 17 years old and i wear a 36 B Only within the past year have my boobs become pointy. Like when I had an A bra they were perfectly normal. Is there a method of getting your boobs to a rounder shape...so that they are round when you are naked? (link)
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Your breasts kind of are the way they are, genetically, and won't change shape much. You should appreciate them as they are!
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ok so theres this guy that sits behind me in all my classes and he always pulls my hair, and i was wearing a thong and he noticed it.. and kept pulling up my shirt, he hit my butt one day. and it seems like hes always flirting with me. i asked his friend who sits next to him why he always does that, he said " i think he might like you" i dont know if its true, hes cool and all , but he went through alot, his brother just died in september, and i donth think he could handle it, plus my bffl likes him too and they went out but he never liked her, he felt bad for her. im so confused
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Just because someone's going through something doesn't mean he's void of feelings. Though, it's my personal feeling that his style of flirting is a bit of an intrusion. Guess it depends on what YOU are like, as well.
So what if your friend likes him? How do YOU feel? If there's a conflict, discuss it with her.
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(I'm 14/f)
So, I've liked this guy for like a year...and my friend Ashley started liking him and no one seemed to care anymore that I liked him...it was all about her.
Last night when I found out that he was going to ask her out, I started crying...then he came over and asked me what was wrong...I kind of blew up at him and told him that I liked him, then walked away.
After that my other friends who were hanging out with us there told me that the guy kind of disappeared and I don't know if he askeed her out or not...
I don't want to face anyone in school on monday. If he didn't ask her out, and it was somehow my fault, Ashley might not speak to me anymore, and if he doesn't like me back, ESPECIALLY if he's going out with ashley now, I don't think I can face him...I sit next to him in two classes.
Imean...we're friends and everything, but I'm afraid that this will change our friendship that I came out and said I liked him like that...
I don't know how I'm supposed to talk to him when I see him. I'm actually considering faking sick so I don't have to go to school.
And I don't know how to approach Ashley either. Before, I was just going to let it be, let her be happy if Nathan and she got together, but when it actually happened(or was going to, at least), I couldn't be happy for her because I wasn't happy for me.
I don't know what to do. (link)
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Pause for a moment. Think about where you were last month. Think about where you were last year. There were probably things happening, but do you remember them? If you do, are those things still bothering you?
Life goes on whether you're charging forth into battle or being drug by your feet across gravel.
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ok things have gotten really stressfull in my life right now and i need soem help. the only way i have found to handle my stress is smoking. i have smoked for 4 years offa nd on. but never as much as i smoke now. about a year ago a pack would last me almost a week. now it barely lasts me over a day! i want to slow down, but i tend to get grumpy and really super stressed when i do. any ways i can either cut down with out freakign out or just take away some of my stress? i know smoking so much is only harming my body not helping, but i dont know any other ways to handle my stress (link)
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You stated your problem right there. You use smoking to "deal" with your problems. It's no different than someone drinking to avoid their problems.
Don't run from your problems. Deal with them head-on. Recognize WHY you get stressed. Write it out, talk to something, anyway. I tend to make mountains out of molehills, I can only fathom what your stress is like.
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whats the difference between the nvidia 7800 GT graphics card and the 7800 GTX? i currently have a 6800 (not an ultra, or gt) and I want it to be a worthwile upgrade. which should I buy? (link)
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An extra wad of cash and maybe some extra heat. Nobody needs the high-end ubernew video cards. In two years they'll be spare parts to whatever's current; I prefer buying behind the curve. I'd say stick with your 6800. Hell, I have a 6600 and I'm content.
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What is the BEST energy drink for me to buy? (link)
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Bawls. You need Bawls in your mouth. I got it at 7-11 until they stopped carrying it.
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whenever i talk to someone i cant really look at them in the eye and i look around.. what can i do so i can acutally LOOK at them in the eye when im talking to them? (link)
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*shrugs* Why do you feel uncomfortable looking people in the eyes? I prefer to make eye contact so people know I'm paying attention to them.
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Okay, I'm like SO sad because my best friend in the entire world moved! It's not just something I can get over, because she has been my bff since 1st grade, and we're in 9th now!=
She moved about an hour away. I know it's not THAT far, but it seems like it. I used to go to her house EVER night, and now we only see each other about 3 times a month. Not only that, I don't want us to grow apart from this. I couldn't stand to lose my bff to another person. Any advice? I rate 5's. (link)
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Your relationship has changed. Whether it lasts is up to whether there's a mutual interest in seeing that it lasts. Initiate contact and communication, whether it's spending weekends with her, writing letters, or simply chatting on the phone. If you put in the effort, it's ultimately up to her whether it'll last.
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One of my best friends is this guy rite? well i dont like him as anything more then just a friend.... but he likes me. He asked me out the other day and i told him that i just cared about him too much to go out with him. That i didnt want to ruin our friendship over something stupid like a highschool romance. He still keeps grabbing my hand and yesterday he kissed me on the top of the head. its getting really wierd and its depressing the hell out of me, plus its giving everyone the wrong impression. He's the sweetest guy ever and i dont want to hurt him. i dont want to tell him that i dont want a bf right now because i DO, just not him. And im hoping this other kid asks me out. Its getting really annoying, like hes being really clingy, i cant even hang out with other people without him just coming over! He hangs out with me before school, at break, at lunch, after school, calls me everyday, and now im going to be going to church with him. Hes sweeter then any guy ive ever met, but i feel like i cant breathe.
I need help! Please, ASAP, give good advice and ill rate high! (link)
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High school friendships fade fast. You care about him too much? If you want to spare him a broken heart, let your actions match your words. By letting him be affectionate with you, you're saying, "You're allowed to be affectionate with me." Push him away, or the behavior will continue. Be firm.
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