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My name is Sami.♥ Wherever life takes me, you'll find me with a smile. Feel free to ask me anything, I will give you the best advice that I can :)
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Like Taylor Swift says "I got tired of waiting, wondering if you were ever coming along...my faith in you was fading"
well anyway my question i guess is how many of you out there still have faith in love... and i guess what are some of your theories on finding it, keeping it, and losing it. feel free to rant and leave long philosophical answers... i wanna hear it
I am a big believer in fate, if you are meant to be with someone then it will happen somehow, some way.
Finding love is something everyone wants to do. And its not an easy thing to do. Once you find that someone it is really hard to let go. But people fall into love and fall out of love. You can fall in love more than once.
Keeping it is a whole other story. It is really hard to keep a loving relationship going. If you care about someone enough you are always worried about what they are doing and how they are doing and you get jealous really easy which causes fights. Couples do go through stages and eventually get over this.
Losing the one you love is the hardest thing to do. I believe that once you love someone you will never forget that person. If you date other people you will compare them to the person you loved, and so on. It is really hard and takes a lot of time to get over.
Hope i helped
Okay, I am 15/pregnant and I told my boyfriend that stress can cause a misscarriage and he still fights with me all the time. And I ask him what if the baby is with me (since we dont live together) and he says his first word and my boyfriend says, well i mean oh well im not going to be upset,it doesnt really matter. And then I finally see what my baby looks like (like a picture on the internet) and I tell him that the baby now has a head but no arms or legs yet and he says "ew thats nasty". I mean it's like he doesnt even care about me or the baby. What do I do?
Im sorry hunny but 15 is young and he probably isnt ready for a baby. The best years of his life are ahead of him and now your telling him that you have a child. I bet that he is freaked out, and in his mind he knows that he should be there for you and for the baby, but he knows that it will ruin everything.
Talk to him and ask him how he feels. Ask him if he wants to be in your childs life or not. and if he does tell him its a full time thing, not something he can just brush to the side when he decides he doesnt want a kid anymore.
Hope i helped =]
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What's the difference between a vegetarian and a vegan? I heard about celebrities being vegans now and I am confused. Is being vegan the same as being a vegetarian or are they completely different?
A vegetarian doesnt eat meat. A vegan doesnt eat or use anything that comes from an animal.
I know this is way stupid but how do you tell your bra size right? I know you have to measure under your bust but I don't know what happens after that :\ My mom says I'm a 34A but she's never measured me or anything. I've always worn the 34A since I figured my mom knew what she was doing but then I watched something on TV that was saying that women really need to have an accurate bra size and that what we think might be our bra size might not be after all.
Anyway...does anyone know how to calculate your bra size properly?
You can get fitted at many stores. Like Victorias secrets, you just go in there and ask to get fitted and a girl will measure you and tell you your exact bra size. And its free.
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i need everyones opinion. i have seen commercials about proactive, clean&clear, and skin Id.
if anyone has tried any of these, can you please tell me which one works best? just opinionated answers will suffice. if you actually know which ones work better, but havent tried them, thats fine too.
thanks so much!
I have tried proactive and it works really well, but its not cheap and once you stop using it your acne comes back pretty heavily. So be careful. Good luck!
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Hello people I need your help i am having these symtoms:Sleepyness,Stomick cramps,Brest tenderness.i Dont know if i have pms yet and i get white discharge and little red drops in my under wear there very small.
Please help me
love gam906e
These are usually signs that you are getting ready to start your period. Just make sure that when you go anywhere to take a pad or tamp, Whatever youp refer with you, becuase most likely when it first starts it will be really heavy.
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I've been on Advicenators for a few years, on and off, and this hasn't been a problem so far.
I received a very hurtful feedback to a question that I tried my darndest to answer well! I know we can file a report, but it wasn't exactly hateful. The person who wrote it was obviously upset, and directed that towards me, even though I obviously put a great deal of effort into my response.
Now I'm seriously thinking of leaving the site. Honestly, I'm only here to help (just like everyone else here) and if people aren't grateful, what's the point in wasting my time?
Rant's over. My actual question is, how do you guys keep from getting upset over hurtful feedback? I'd try not to take it personally, but it is personal. My feelings are hurt :(
Honestly some people just are never happy, and no matter how hard we try to please them, they dont realize it and they are rude.
I know that may have hurt you but stay with advicenators, its an awesome site, and your a hard working member, dont let one person, who was rude for no reason, make you leave this site.
There is nothing we can do about that and we just have to move on and realize that most of the people we help are happy that we helped them and they needed that help.
Hope i helped =]
If you need anything else feel free to go to my column and ask me =)
im 13 years old i need help because i went out with a girl and we dated for a little while we were friends before we went out but then when we broke up things were not the same i kept wanting to be her friend and she did too but then one dayshe suddenly
stoped talking to me. i want to be her friend but she does not return any of my textmessages what should i do?
A lot of guys would rather be friends with a girl they still care about, but for girls its a lot harder to be friends, and its easier to just forget you even exist. Especailly if they still like you but know that it wont work.
But talk to her and ask her if you could please still be friends. You would rather have her in your life as a friend than nothing at all. Tell her that you dont have to hang out all the time or anything but you would just like to talk to her once in a while.
Hope i helped =]
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ok ive been going out with my girlfriend for exactly a week now and we hold hands but mine get sweaty alot and she said that i do haha so i'm like.. worried that she wont want to hold hands with me as much because of that so does anyone know of things that i could put on my hands to stop it sweating too much
btw we usually hold hands when were walking around school and we also do it when i sometimes walk home with her
thanks
Well this is a new relationship and you might be nervous. It will calm down once your more comfortable around her. If she really likes you, it wont bother her that your hands are sweaty.
But if it really bothers you you can wash your hands with cold water and soap, or just dont hold her hand and put your arm around her or something.
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hi ive been liking a girl that i known since the 6th grade now im in the 8th grade and im wondering how to make her fall in love with her me and her have been very good friends since then but i want to be more than friends with her.
what should i do?
Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Just be talking to her and be like so how do you feel about me??? and see where it goes from there. If she doesnt like you dont push it because that can ruin a friendship.
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I am so scared! My mom just was diagnosed with anemia which is loss of red blood cells or something like that and she is going to get more blood tests done. I was reading some causes of anemia and one of them listed on a website was cancer. Do you think my mom has cancer if she has anemia? I mean, is it a rare thing that anemia comes from cancer or is it very, very common to be anemic because you have cancer? Confused.
If she has cancer they will find out in the blood tests, but no being anemic does not mean you automatically get cancer. Im anemic and it means that you dont have enough iron in your blood and it can be really bad. The doctors will tell your mom what the best thing to do about it is. There are pills and there are diets to help this.
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My boyfriend and i broke up.
we broke up on sunday and it was really weird how he explained it. We broke up because his mom thought we were geting to close. He said that we could still be friends, hang out., adn go on dates. He said that we could still do everything we were doing whenever we were dating but we aren't going to be dating. He still tells me he loves me and calls me babe. BUT! he hasn't called me in 2 days nothing at all. idk what to do. he broke my heart but i still want to be his friend but not with benifits im not a slut..
A lot of people go throught this but their parents usually wont let you act like your dating so thats kind of weird.
Talk to him and ask him if that is what his mom really said, or if he just wants to see other people.
Tell him that if he wants to see other people thats fine but your not going to be here forever, and your not just going to be his little rebound girl for when he decides that he really wants to be with you.
If his mom really doesnt like you two going out then maybe talk to him about talking to her because you really care for him and want to be with him.
In my book being friends with benefits doesnt make you a slut, but i do think its wrong if he is off with other girls.
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I'm trying to make some new friends and I was told that I should find some common things between us to form a link, which should spur more conversation and positive attitudes between each other. I'm not entirely sure what to ask to get to know these people though! What are some really good questions to ask to get to know someone?
Ask them favorite music, food, movies, things to do, past relationships, family. Just those simple things to bring you all closer.
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Okay well my lifes pretty good. except for the fact that my mom is on and off with smoking. how do i get her to stop?! or at least try to stop?!
Smoking is a really hard habit to break. You cant tell a person that they have to stop smoking, it scares them. They have to want to quit smoking for them, not for anyone else. But maybe print of statistics on how many women die a year from smoking and show her. Say that you know people that have had to grow up without a mom and you dont want that. Just ask her if she would try to stop.
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Where is your favorite place to put your hands, and body, while you're making out?
Ive never had a set place but i usually put my hand on the back of his neck and just kind of hold him and pull him closer.
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Do guys like it when the girl takes charge sometimes? .. like where to hang out for example.
Most guys dont like it when a girl is indecisive. So if you are like i want to go to the movies, instead of oh i dont care. But it depends on the guy. Maybe try making a decision together so you dont end up wanting to do something that he doesnt want to and vice versa.
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how do you know if you are in love with someone?
i cant stop thinking about him. and cannot ever stay mad at him even though he is a jerk alot of the time.
and i think that its only one way..im feel more for him than he does for me...ALOT more.
Honestly no one can tell you when your in love. A lot of people will try to but im telling you that when your in love you will know. And by what you described you sound like your getting there, or maybe you are, im not going to be the one to tell you that.
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I tend to like slow songs, and they tend to be the only ones I listen to a lot of the time. Is anyone else like this? I don't know it just seemed kind of weird.
I listen to a lot of things. But i notice that what i listen to depends on my mood. If im sad i listen to slower songs. I dont know if thats how you are, but maybe your always sad??
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I'm 13(m) and I might be going over to my crushes house this weekend and I want to find out if she likes me the way I like her. To do that without asking her anything, dont give me don't do it, it's wrong, I want to read her diary to see if she talks about me or not, but I need to know where some places are that she might keep her diary. What I'm trying to ask is, what are some places girls hide or put their diaries and if theres a key to it where are some places girls hide or put that key?
Well if you read her diary, and she does like you, she wont after she finds out you read her diary.
But ill still help you. Look:
1. High shelves
2. Under Pillow
3. Under Bed
4. Under dresser
And the key in her jewelry box, or in her pillow or it could even be in the pages of her diary.
Good luck and hope i helped =]
my da malested me a long time ago but i still love and want to talk to him i still keep in contact through facebook but my mom found out and now we argue everyday i told her that i would not stop talking to my dad and the other day we got into this huge arguement what should i do..
Talk to her and tell her that you know what your dad did was wrong but she needs to accept the fact that he is your dad and every child needs two parents.
Tell her that you promise not to see him, but you would just like to talk to him.
I hope this helps =]