hi ive been liking a girl that i known since the 6th grade now im in the 8th grade and im wondering how to make her fall in love with her me and her have been very good friends since then but i want to be more than friends with her.
what should i do?
The more you try to force her to be into you, the more she'll push you away.
I did something like this to my friend in 8th grade, and it's because of that we didn't talk for a few months; not one word to each other for at least three months.
So, if it's meant to be, it will happen. But, if she's not into you like you're into her, then you can't change that. I'm sorry.
Sami143 answered Friday June 12 2009, 7:04 pm: Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Just be talking to her and be like so how do you feel about me??? and see where it goes from there. If she doesnt like you dont push it because that can ruin a friendship.
christina answered Friday June 12 2009, 2:04 pm: You can't make someone love you. Life doesn't work that way. You need to hang out with her or take her out places. Tell her that you like her.
You'll never know how she feels until you tell her how you feel. However, if she doesn't like you, it isn't the end of the world. There are a ton of other girls out there. For now though, just hang out & when the time is right, let her know how you feel about her. :) [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
jpar answered Friday June 12 2009, 1:39 pm: That is tricky. First you can not make somebody fall in love with you. Okay if you tell she may not feel the same way but would still want to be friends. I don't know if she would just wan't to end the friendship cause you love her. She may even say it back. Can you go on with her not knowing? Can you stay friends with her just because she does not feel the sameway. Try telling her. Its better then not knowing right? Hope things work out. [ jpar's advice column | Ask jpar A Question ]
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