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MY dads a predator but i stll want to talk to him
my da malested me a long time ago but i still love and want to talk to him i still keep in contact through facebook but my mom found out and now we argue everyday i told her that i would not stop talking to my dad and the other day we got into this huge arguement what should i do..
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Your mother is right to be concerned. This man violated you and no doubt it hurt her terribly as well. It's natural for her to fear what this contact could mean for your wellbeing.
My suggestion is to ask your mom to go to family counselling with you. Together with the therapist you can discuss this issue and find a solution.
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Explain to her that you understand the depths of what he has done to you and how bad is truly was, however, it does not change the fact that he is your dad (with or without talking to him), and you would like to just and ONLY talk to him on facebook and you will not be meeting with him.
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Talk to her and tell her that you know what your dad did was wrong but she needs to accept the fact that he is your dad and every child needs two parents.
Tell her that you promise not to see him, but you would just like to talk to him.
I hope this helps =]
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