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i was thinking of getting some but i have no idea what they mean. Cuase i dont whant some boso coming and snaping the braslet. So plz im asking what do the color braslets mean?

omg i'm wearing some jelly's but um this is what they mean


COLOR CODES FOR JELLY BRACELETS

*BLACK: SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
*BLUE: BLOWJOB (ALTERNATE LAP DANCE)
*GREEN: CUNNILINGUS; EAT HER OUT (ALTERNATE OUTDOOR SEX, HUG)
*CLEAR: BOYS CHOICE (ALTERNATE HUG)
*ORANGE: KISS
*YELLOW :HUG (ALTERNATE ANALINGUS)
*RED: NAKED LAP DANCE
*PURPLE: ANAL SEX (ALTERNATE MEANING DOGGY STYLE)
*SILVER: FISTING (OUCH)
*WHITE: FLASH YOUR TITS
*PINK: FLASHING
*GOLD GLITTER: MAKE OUT (FOREPLAY)
BROWN: TOSS MY SALAD I.E. ANALINGUS (LICK HER/HIS BROWNIE)
GLOW IN THE DARK: USE SEX TOYS E.G. VIBRATORS, DILDOS

In a game called SNAP, if a boy breaks a jelly bracelet off a girls wrist, he basically gets a sexual coupon to do that act with her.

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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days?

um.. it depands on the girl. like for instince i have mynes for 5 days.But someone else can have theres for 6 or 7 but how long your period last all depands on the girl.

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Im going to get my ears piercing in about a half hour on a 1-10 scale how bad does it hurt? And do you think i should get a double piercing in a few months?

It doesn't hurt that bad but hey that's just me.

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Ok, I'm 14/f
And there is this guy at my church. He is soo funny and he's a really good Christian, which is very important for me, and he has an awesome personality and is very fun to be around. The only problem is, he is really small. He is like 1/2 a foot shorter than me and weighs about 30 lbs less. Beside all this, I really like him a lot because of the inside, which is really what counts, but I'm afraid of what my friends would say if we dated. Because well, I've been known for going for the good-looking guys. So what should I do?

You like him right, so date him. Does it really matter what your friends think about him. all that matters is that you like him.

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i have like all these papers that i kinda get bad grades on what should i do

well this happened to me last year but it could have been avoided if i went to school all the time but anyways i think you should pay attention in class try harder and if you have problems with your work tell your teacher. I mean that is what they're there for to help you and teach you. You'll see the more you apply your self the better grades you'll get.

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Well I have been quite puzzled about this lately....when you're taking the pill, do you have to use a condom to help prevent pregnancy? I don't need it for STD's b/c my bf and I don't have any nor have we been with any other people ever before. So any advice on this matter would be greatly appreciated.

Female, 16

um.. yea because the pill is always effective a condom can be a back up just incase te pill doesn't work.

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im 15 and my penis is about 5.5 inches long
is that about average? im worried what my girlfriend will think.

yes your penis is average size, and you shouldn't worry about what your girlfriend thinks she should like you for who you are.

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I noe this may sound kinda stupid...but..i have neva gone down on a guy...i have done other things but not that and i was wondering if you can give head with braces..? i mean i noe its possible but what about tha wires n stuff??? PlZzZz help..Thanx! xox

umm..... yea you can but you'de have to wrap your lips around your teeth because if you don't than your braces can hurt the guy's penis and ooooo will it hurt.

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me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months and i was at his house the other day and we were getting kind of sexual... we didn't have sex or anything but we were like "dry humping" and my underwear shifted and his penis went in... it wasn't for like that long because as soon as we both felt it we like jumped apart from eachother. he said that he didn't cum but there is still the whole issue of pre cum and he might have a little bit... he didn't go in deep though it was like hardly an inch. is there a chance that he could have cummed a little bit and i could get pregnant? or does he have to go in deeper?

um no not really if pre-cum even get's near your vagina than you can get pregnant he doesn't even have to go in deep.

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what kinda of sites could i go to and get help about sex and teenage pregnancey?

well you can go to planparenthood.com

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Well my boyfriend was here today and we were makeing out and he got my shirt off and then i told him to stop but i love him so much and we could of had sex but i told him to go home and he knows what makes me feel better and stuff like that well he was kissing my neck (which i like ALOT) and then he took my shirt off. I then told him to go home and but i think i am ready (well at least i think so) What do you think is wrong?

Nothing's wrong your just not ready, it's totaly ok if your not ready for sex but rushing into it just because your boyfriend want's to do it kinda seems like a bad idea. but if you are ready and you feel like you can hadel what comes with sex than do it.But make sure to use protection.

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What are all the flavors of condoms? Do they really taste good? What kind taste best?

well there's cherrey, strawberrey,pepsi,venila ice cream and well those are the only ones i've seen but um i don't really know how they taste

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so...i was giving this 1 guy head...and when i was he started pushing down on my head...why did he do that and what does it mean?! Thanx so much!

He just wanted you to go deeper, and if you didn't like him doing that then don't give him head anymore

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hey yall i need some help (16/f/single) well i was with my bff yesterday..and we invited over her bf and his friend who i kinda like!..well my friend and her bf were makign out...and i was talking too the other guy and well he put his hand on my leg no big deal then he was rubbing it you know it was comfortable..well i told him i liked him and he said he liked me! it was great lol then he fingered me...while we were making out...then he asked me out i said ya...then i ono what came over me i took his hand and wa\lked upstairs and we had sex..greaaaat sex...i was on the pill anyways and we used a condom...but am i a slut and was that a bad thing?? im not pregnant or anything...sry that was long..please tell me! PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS IS IMPORTANT TOO ME!!!

NO your not a slut just because you had sex and stuff does't make you a slut at all.

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What does 69 mean?? and what does it mean to be 'wet'?

69 is a oral sex position where the girl is at the males penis and the man's at the females vagina at the same time, and what it meens to be "wet" is when a female get's sexual aroused her bodey produces a natruel labrucan which makes sex less difficult.

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This is going to sound stupid but the term "getting off" does that mean like when a guy "gets off" he gets a hard on or he orgasms??

I think it meens that something arouses him and he get's hard..... um truly i'm not really sure

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hi im in 9th grade right and on fri this boy asked me if i got back. which i have no idea what that meanslol. i know pathetic. but i didnt wanna sound like a complete moron so i said yes i have back and uh he got all happy lol. so my question is what does baby got back mean lol?

lol um it meens that you have a big ass.

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umm.. dont think im stupid for asking this but i just wanna be safe and sure. if a girl is on birth control, does the guy still need to wear a condom wen they do it?

well yes because a birth control isn't always effective, and birth controls only protect you from pregnaces not STD's, and condom's do both. you should diffintly wear a condom even if your on birth control

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what does it mean when u get fingered?

it meens to have a person pleasure by inserting there finger into your vagina

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Ive been goin out wit muh b/f for almost 2 weeks now but we knew eachother like 3 weeks before that and we were kinda close before he asked me out. Well a couple nights ago muh friend talked to him on the phone and they got on the subject of sex n all that. Now I am 15 goin on 16 in 3 months and hes 17(senior) goin on 18 at the end of sept.Well they were talkin and now hes really into wantin to do shit. Before we juss chilled n all we did was makeout and still do.I mean hes not pushin me to do anything I dont wanna but I did tell him I would have sex wit him but not now ya know?! But yeah I wanna but I dont know if Im ready or not. I like him alot and I can see my self bein wit him for sometime now. I have talked to some of my friends that arent virgins and about like when its ur first time n all that. Im juss scared about like the consequences and of it hurtin or somethin??.. Can someone PLEASEEE gimmie advice worth taking..Thankyou:)

Ok um my advice is simpel... if your not ready for sex than your not ready. You said that you'r scared of the consequnces of sex and scared that sex will hurt. Well if your not physicaly ready or mentally ready than don't rush into sex. Just wait until your absoulutly ready.

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