Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
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Location: Pittsburgh
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Age: 15
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i just got asked out by this really tall guy. like really tall. i dont kno if i like him, but n e ways.. im gunna c.
so, about kissing. iv never kissed anyone let alone someone so much taller than me. what do i do? (link)
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Well as for kissing, I know it sounsd corny and everything, but it really just comes naturally. It depends on what you mean by kissing, cause you didn't say, but for the first kiss, you could just make it a long peck, you know? Since you're not even aware of your feelings for him yet, just make it a nice longish peck.
But as for the tall factor, I'm sure if he's kissed a girl before, he probably knows what to do in this case unless he's dated a taller girl than him, lol which I doubt. But he'll probably just bend towards you a little, and then you could always just stand up on your tip toes if you have to.
I hope I helped.
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Argh i hate my brother so much!! everyday he reminds me more and more of my dad..its so crazy.
My mum and dad split up, my dads not a very nice man, he disowned me so i consider him dead.
But now, it's just me, my mum, and my brother and he's acting like he owns the place. It's so annoying, just to get back at me...he'll reboot the whole computer so i lose all my pictures...my songs..and my coursework :|
I hate him so much i am actually considering taking off leaving a note for my mum telling him i can't live in the same house as him ?
what should i do ?
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well first of all, realize. he's your brother, he's going to be developing some of the same genes as your father, just like you have some parts of your father in you, and your mother. and so your brother is going to too.
but also, he probably feels he needs to be the man of the house. he's the protector now, the strong one, and he probably felt he had to take all the responsibility inside the house. which is perfectly common for sons to do whenever the father ups and leaves the home and leaves them by theirselves.
he may not realize he's doing this stuff and being this rude to you. have you tried talking to him about it? if you haven't, tried. let him know everything he's doing to you and how it's making you angry, and see if he tries to improve the situation.
if you've already tried taking it up with him and nothing worked, i would have a serious conversation about it with your mother and try and get her to resolvve this issue wether she's telling him to calm down or what.
other than that, the most i can tell you to do for now is just stay out of his way and leave him be. you can't get angry at him if you don't talk to him, look at him, or anything.
if you're really not able to stand it, if you have grandparents or some other kind of relative living near you and you and them both are willing to live with eachother, maybe talk with your mother about living with them cause you honestly just can't stand living with your brother any longer.
i hope i helped.
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Any website besides google where I can get cute Christmas quotes ? (link)
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http://www.famous-quotes-and-quotations.com/christmas-quotes.html
http://www.quotegarden.com/christmas.html
http://www.inet.ba/~admahmut/quotes/Christian-Quotes/
http://sweet_stuffva.tripod.com/quotes.html
i hope i helped.
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ok i no this sounds like evry other question on here but... i like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me. he found out and e mailed me asking me if it was true i liked him. wat do i tell him? do i lie and say no or say yes??/
PLEEEEZE HELP SOON! QUIKLYY! (link)
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If you're pretty positive that he likes you back, say yes. Take a chance. I mean we DO only live once, and you never know. He could ask you out! But you'd never know unless you told him the truth.
I would just be like,"Yes, I do like you. Why do you want to know, though? And I hope this doesn't make anything awkward between us. :l" And just see what he writes back.
If it turns out that he doesn't feel the same, then it's not that huge of a deal. There's always other fish in the sea. :) Just don't let it get awkward between the two of you. Keep conversation flowing. It'll only BE awkward if you LET IT be awkward.
But go for it!
I hope I helped.
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Alright, I'll be waiting in line for this concert for about five hours. I live in San Diego. It's still really cold here at this time. So I'll be waiting in line int he cold. However, once we start getting inside and jumping around on general admission and for those of you who go to rock concerts and knows how crazy and hot it gets...it's going to be the total opposite of the weather outside. Advice on what to wear?? (link)
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Me and my friend just recently waited in line for a concert and this is what we did:
We brought along semi-big bags ( which we just dealt with and held onto tightly during the concert so we didn't lose anything ; but maybe you could have someone you know drive to where the concert is if it's not too far and find you guys in line and take your bags as you're going inside ) but what we wore was a semi-warm shirt and jeans and everything, and we just packed inside our bags a nice little blanket that's easily foldable so it'd fit in our bags, and we also packed some gloves and maybe a beanie kind of hat just to keep our ears warm.
What I might suggest also doing is just start thinking of stuff, and keep having a conversation with your friend. Whenever you tend to have conversations with people who have thoughts continously, it can get your mind off of the cold and you'll seem to get warmer, and as the advicenator said below, thinking of math does help you keep warm also.
Also, before you leave, go to a starbucks or wherever you want to go and maybe purchase a couple of coffees or hot chocolate or something to last you a good while and then as you're going inside the concert place, you can just dispose of them, cause I'm sure they're going to have a garbage can SOMEWHERE inside the building.
I hope I helped.
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hello, my name is Jackie. I am 14 years old. (haha I'll be 15 on the second) Well this kid Jordan, he's my friend but I like him as more than that. I thought he might feel the same way, or something more than a friendly thing for me. He would do things like, link arms when we walked, lie on my bed with me, lightly bump into me and stuff. He was advising me to go back out with my ex. (who he is friends with) and then it came out that he knows that I like him. Yet, he continued to advice me to go back out with the ex. This upset me, because I assumed that he doesn't like me. The next day he says to me in this kind of shy way "you make me smile" and now I'm extra confused. Do you HONOSTLY think that he likes me. (and again, please be honost, dont worry I'll rate well even if you say he doesn't like me)
thanks
*jackie* (link)
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I think it sounds like he likes you.
If he's acting shy towards and everything towards you and telling you you make him smile, it sounds like there's defintely some nervousness there, which may be resulting in some feelings.
Also, linking arms and bump into you and everything, not many "friends" do that to eachother unless you're being really silly and joking around with eachother. Which in that case, most girl and guy friends still don't do that together.
I think the reason he was asking you to get back together with your ex is because maybe your ex wants to get back together with you, and he's using your friend as a sort of bait. You know like, get the close friend to butter up the guy to the girl and make him seem great so she'll go out with him? So he may just be being a good friend towards his friend.
I think you should try and flirt more than you usually do and see how he reacts and see if he flirts back. Get the message across to him that you like him - but still don't be discouraged if he doesn't notice, sometimes guys can't pick up on signals as easily as girls can. But sometimes whenever girls want to see what a guy might be feeling & thinking they have a friend help them out. The next time you two hang out and have a few friends with you, you should have a friend mention how cute you guys would look together as a couple, and see what he does. See if he smiles or gets nervous or blushes or what. Those'd definetely be signs of him liking you.
But if he sits there and goes,"Really? Haha, nawh. She's a great friennddd, like my sister." Or something like that, obviously, you can tell what that means there.
But like I said, I definetely think this guy has some feelings for you.
I hope I helped.
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im 16 and my bf will be 17 on his birthday.. which then we'll have been together almost 7 months. we go to different schools and i wouldnt be able to really hang out with him that day because right after school he goes to work until late, but he says that his birthday is always just like another day and he never has parties or anything like that so i want to make it a good one for him. so i have two ideas:
1. get checked out of school about 30 minutes early and go to his school and show up and wait in the lobby or something about 5 minutes before the last bell rings so that when he walks out ill be there and have his present and maybe a balloon or rose with me to give him [btw would a guy like a single rose or is that more of a chick thing?]
but then today as i was leaving school i saw this really sweet sign someone hung on a stop sign for someone else that gave me another idea..
make a sign with his initials or nickname or something on it that has a message for him [i wont use his full name or anything tho incase itd be embarrassing or something!] and then sign it. and then unexpectedly go to his work and wait there with his present and balloons or w/e and then eat there with him if he can (he works at a restaurant).
soo yeah. which one of these sounds better? im not sure if ill be driving but if not my mom already kind of knows the plan so maybe she'll help me lol. advice/opinions on this? (link)
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I think that waiting for him after school would be such an adorable idea. And I would definetely use the rose ; I don't find it more of a chick thing, because a rose symbolizes love, and a girl can love a guy obviously and a guy can love a girl.
Plus, that's the thing. Is girls hardly give guys roses or anything because they THINK its a girly thing - so it'd be something that most girlfriends probably don't give their boyfriends, which'll be a nice suprise for him.
Maybe even have the balloon tied to the car, and just have the rose sitting on it where he can find it, and as he's just looking at them ( and hopefully smiling! who wouldn't smile, though? ) then you can just come up behind him ( you can stand behind another nearby car ) and be like,"happy birthday" and give him a kiss or something and his present. It's like a double-whammy suprise, haha.
Whatever way you do it, I think that the car idea is adorable, and I'd love it if someone ever did that for me - especially right after school cause school never really puts someone in the best mood, I don't think, haha.
I hope I helped.
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Well at first my friend was asking me who i like but then i said i dont wanna tell her but im just gonna tell her bestfriend-shes my aquintance and my other friend is good friend. they are both good at keeping secrets but i didnt tell my other good friend because she used to like him so im unconfortable to tell her. But she doesnt know why i dont want to tell her. one day when i was trying to talk to my friend cause she didnt wanna talk to me cause i didnt tell her who i like and i tried to talk to her and i said"you hate me huh? you dont talk to me anymore i said it in a joking way and she was like" i dont hate you i just dont have anything to talk about" and i was like wtf and then when after lunch when i had a class with her she just said my name and said hi to me but that was it
what do you think about this situation? do you think shes mad at me for not telling who i like? (link)
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I don't think she's like MAD MAD, I just think she's upset and feeling a little hurt.
Like you said, she doesn't know the real reason why you won't tell her, so she's probably thinking it's her or something. You don't trust her, you don't think you guys are friends enough to tell her, she's probably thinking alot of different thoughts and she feels bad.
I would just tell her.
I would just sit down with her and be like,"Look, the real reason I didn't want to tell you is because you used to like him, and I just feel really uncomfortable letting you know I like him. I didn't know if you'd get mad, or what so I figured it would've just been best to keep my mouth shut and not say anything to you about it. But I can't stand us not talking or anything, so I felt I should just let you know." And talk to her about it, you never know, she might understand and then everything'll be good again.
I'm sure she will understand, cause I'm sure if she was in your position, she'd want to do the same exact thing and not say anything.
I hope I helped.
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I'll assume some people know how to play secret santa here, so I'm going to get straight to the question. I have to buy a gift for somebody I barely know. Shes short and asian, shes smart and that's all I know. What could I get her that's beetween 10-15 dollars? Thank you (link)
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Well something that I do all the time for secret santas and I don't know what to get the person, I result to something that'll benefit them and that they really can't hate. It's just not a hateable gift.
Just purchase them some body wash, or bubble bath, or some body lotion that smells really pretty adn that they can enjoy and whenever they need to relax, they could just soak in the tub and enjoy themselves.
Another present I've found which they really can like is a gift certfiicate. I know it's not really an ACTUAL present, but this gives the person you're giving it to a chance to get what THEY want, something THEY'LL love and it'll take away the pressures of getting something else and wondering "did they like it?!" "do they hate it?!" "are they gona use it?!"
Also, do you know what her culture is? Even if she's not deeply into her culture, you could buy her something really pretty. I'm not sure how much those little paper lamp things cost, but those things are really pretty and it'd be great for her room.
Here's a site:
http://www.garden-gifts.com/paper1.htm
See the very first two pictures? Those ones. I think those big circular ones cost alot more, but you could always check those out too.
I hope I helped.
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I broke up with myboyfriend of 6 months after things were getting really serious and I felt I just couldn't cope with it all.Even after he cheated on me after a week going out. I have never been scared of commitment in my entire life and thought this guy was the one. But it freaked me out so much, and i couldnt forget the fact that he cheated on me with the same girl that i warned him bout that I hated because the same girl did it to me before. So i decided to break up with him. I really hurt him as he felt the same way and he had just broken up with his gurl for me again.. I dont know if i did the right thing?? Help me please (link)
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You totally did the right thing.
If this guy is cheating on you with another girl a WEEK into the relationship ; this obviously shows that he has serious commitment issues, and you can't have a good relationship without commitment. It'd eventually have failed anyways. I'm not trying to sound negative, but like I said, you can't have a relationship without commitment.
Also, if you two had continued to be in a relationship together anyways, once a cheater, usually always a cheater, and you don't deserve a cheater, and they don't deserve your time. If you two were to continue seeing eachother, you could never fully trust him ; and a relationship needs trust too to survive. You'd never know if he's out cheating on you once more, or what.
Trust me, you'll find a guy who'll want to be with you and only you and you'll be able to trust him, and he'll just be alot better than this guy here.
I hope I helped.
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there's this kid in my grade who i've had a crush on for a long time in middle school, but now that i'm in high school i can honestly say that i don't like him anymore. i mean if he asked me out i'd still get kinda excited and say yes, but i dont feel butterflies in my stomach when i see him in the halls or anything like that anymore. i'm over him. but somehow EVERYONE knew i had a crush on him in middle school, and they still kind of joke about it sometimes even now.. like this one girl asked me RIGHT in front of the guy.. "do you love each other?" in a joking way.. but it still kind of hurt me.. and i just say "yeahhh.. " in a really sarcastic way and walked away. this kind of stuff keeps happening to me and i want it to stop! :( but i can never get good enough comebacks that actually sound like i DONT like him anymore and not like i still like him but im trying ot hide it. thanks so much for your help (link)
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i know that you said if he were to ask you out, you'd still get excited and say yes, but if you're seriously over this kid, you need to tell people.
even though you may not like someone else yet right now, you can always tell a little fib ; jsut to get everybody off your back. tell your friends that you like somebody else, but you're not going to share with them who cause you don't want him finding out like the whole school did before with this other guy.
knowing kids and knowing their love for gossip, and since they'll probably be shocked that you like someone else, it may start to spread around the school ; if it doesn't just yet, help it along and tell a few other people.
and also, the next time someone asks you if you two love eachother just jokingly be like,"haha well i don't know if he loves ME, but i have my sights set on another now." and just laugh and say it in a joking way so you don't sound like you're being serious and like "i dont like him anymore wtf" cause that may hurt his feelings.
i hope i helped.
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What's that one movie with Jim Carey where he meets God or something? PLEASE LET ME KNOW! (link)
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Haha, I love that movie.
It's called "Bruce Almighty."
I hope I helped.
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well lol my friend is gunnah introduce me to this guy... he's a quarterback on the football team and yeah i need some tips for when i first meet him.. i mean like should i be flirtyy or jzuz friendly or what? what should i say? like for instance what are some good conversation starters? (link)
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Well if you're interested in this guy and think you want to try and pursue something more than jsut friends, flirt. It'll for one show you're outgoing and friendly, but that you could be something more than a friend.
Well, a good conversation starter is always asking the person about them. A person likes to talk about themselves, and it's also a good way to learn about that person and get to know them better and show you're a good listener and you want to hear about them.
Just ask him how many years he's been playing football, what does a quarterback exactly do, etc. Then just slowly go and blend off into other subjects. Like does he play for his school, I'm guessing? Your school? Then just start takling about school, classes you like/hate/are taking, teachers you like/hate ( make funny remarks about them ).
Like I said, just blend off into other topics and try and keep the conversation flowing. It doesn't have to be flowing every single second, but it's good to keep it from lagging.
I hope I helped.
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OK, im 13/F. Theres this guy at school that I think im starting to well like. All my friends say I do but when I try to say I dont like him to them as I say his name or the word dont I get this big smile on my face or start to laugh so my friends dont believe me. I havent really liked liked a guy that much before so im really confused. I talk to him all the time and when im not I think about him. I trust him with anything (like i tell him so much but he keeps it secret) and I go on msn waiting for him to come on. I used to think of him as my best guy friend but now im not so sure. I email him and he emails me and I notice I get mad at him when he doesnt reply withen the next day. My friends say that on the busride I say his name at least 20 times each day. Do I like him? Please say no its just to weird..... (link)
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I know you want me to say no, but you want my opinion, and it sounds to me like you might have some feelings for the guy.
Because I have quite a few guy best friends and I trust them with everything I have to, but I never sit there and wait for them to sign on or get mad if they don't reply to me the next day. Those are things girls usually do when they've developed a crush on somebody.
Even though you may like him, and find it weird, it doesn't mean you have to act upon those feelings. If you find it'd be too weird to be with him, then don't tell anybody, and just don't make any actions about it, and just try and not think about him in that way, and just wait and see if the feelings subside. Now, don't get impatient if they don't go away right away ; they might take some time. But whenever you guys hang out, just imagine you two being best friends and nothing more, and sooner or later the feelings'll pass. Trust me, I speak from experience and me and my best guy friend are best friends still and everything's great.
I hope I helped.
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There's this boy in my P.E. class(I'm in the 7th grade, and I just turned 13 last month), and he's constantly annoying me. At first, he just snuck up on me from behind and poked me on either side of my rib cage. Later that day he poked me once more and tried to two more times, but I dodged him. He kept calling out my name randomly in wierd voices, and I just gave him wierd looks.
Then, when out class was in the gym the next day, he kept on calling "lauren sucks!" during class. I just ignored him.
The the next day, he's friends with my best friend, Jenna. At break I'm hanging out with her and my other friend, karly, and he's standing with his friends near by. He turns around and says hi to Karly and Jenna, the turns to me, points, and says, "Look it's Lauren!"
I just raise my eye brows and he turns to his and nudges him, saying, "Hey! Look it's lauren!" I roll my eyes and say sarcastically, "No really? Where?"
Later that day, at P.E. (which is our last class) he poked me once more, and tried to throw pebbles at me. At first I didn't know he was aiming at me, but once he said 'ah, I missed!' I knew he was aiming at me. I turned at looked at him, and he threw another pebble then asked, "Did it hit you?" and I said no. He threw a couple more and none of them hit me.
When I was walking back to the number I'm supposed to stand on, he passes me and tries to steal my headband. I smiled and say playfully, "Oh! You like that ninja reflexes!" he shakes his head and says, "Ninja? Please..." He smiles and walks away.
Jenna says he likes me. But does he like me or is he just being immature. Another thing, I noticed he started to notice me when I go my new hair cut and started straightening my hair everyday. (link)
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It sounds to me like he likes you!
Well, see, you guys are only 13, right? Guys are going to be immature at this age anyways, so no matter what, like you or not, he's going to be acting that way.
But it looks to me like he seems to be flirting with you quite a bit there. Whenever guys like a girl, they tend to tease her and give her a little more attention then they do all the other girls. Sometimes, yes, the teasing can be annoying and everything, but it's just their way of showing they like you without having to really say it.
See? One example as for the more attention thing. He just says hi to all his other girl friends and everything, but for you he has to exclaim it and point to you and give you more attention and sound a little happier to see you and everything. :)
And there's the annoyance part shortly after it. All the throwing things at you and poking you. Whenever guys like a girl, they feel the need to flirt by taking something of theirs ( your purse ) which then tries to get you to chase them down for it or sometimes they'll grab it and since they're taller hold it up in the air so you have to jump to get it and everything.
So like I said, it definetely sounds to me like he likes you!
If you like him back, keep it going and start to send signals his way too. :)
I hope I helped.
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I'm going to a lingerie party this weekend with my boyfriend and it Christmas themed. I'm wearing this with a santa hat -- http://www.fredericks.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=Holiday2002&category%5Fname=Corsets-Lingerie&product%5Fid=50640
So I have the outfit down but I need opinions on the shoes. I was either going to wear white heels or red heels. The red would match the santa hat and the white would match everything but i dont want to go overboard with the white. Youcould also say that if I wear the red ones, i wouldnt have enough red on to match well but i'd wear red earrings and a red necklace. What do yall think? (link)
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I think you should wear the red shoes and the red necklace and earring and everything.
Even though you wouldn't have enough red to match with the outfit and everything, it's still some red, which is christmas-like so it's cute.
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I hope I helped.
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well do they or not?just wondering... (link)
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Well really,
it depends on the girl.
AND the guy.
If the girl feels safe with him and trusts him,
she might feel more comfortable with him driving at faster speeds and everything.
But if she's not, she may be clutching onto the seat, fearing for her life.
Me, personally, I do find it kind of a thrill seeker sort of thing and do like it when people drive fast sometimes if I'm comfortable with them ( like I said ), but I remember once I was in the car with someone and they did it and I was watching out for all the cars around us and everything.
So like I said, depends on the girl and the guy.
To really answer your question though, I think most girls would prefer to be on the safer side and the alive side and go with slower driving.
I hope I helped.
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what are external and internal problems? (link)
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External problems - are you usually problems like, outside of the body. Like, whenever two people get into an argument, and they may start to fight with eachother and hit eachother. That's an external problem ( external means outside ). So like I said, outside of the body. Man vs. Man.
Internal problems - are things like mental problems, emotional, etc. If you're having a problem and you're not feeling good and you have a crush on a guy and your heart feels like it's aching and whatnot. Maybe if you're afraid of something and if that obstable comes around, you get really scared and you're freaking out. Like you know how sometimes whenever people are trying to pursue a goal and their in deep thought, motivating themselves, and talking to themselves inside their head? Something like that. Man vs. Self.
I hope I helped.
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today i was walking into the girls locker room and there was this guy behind me walking into the guys locker room and all of a sudden he started like singing so i turned around to see what he was doing and he was liek.. you like my singing? and i was like.yeahhhh... im really shy so its hard to talk to guys and like i dont know what to say. and then he kept saying stuff to me like come on give me a smile just a little smile and stuff like you like my singing. really random weird and even sounds a little creepy now haha. but like yeah then when i came out i saw him again and he was like come on smile so i was like i am and hes like let me introduce myself im tommy whats ur name so i told him my name and then he shook my hand. it was sooo weird but i didnt know what to do you know? then his friend was there and like laughed at him kinda..so idk if like he actually wanted to talk to me or was just being an idiot and doing that to make fun of me. what do you think he meant by it? by the way im 14/f and a freshman..i think he might\'ve been a junior.. yeah help? thankss. (link)
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Haha guys are silly and random like that all the time. I think he was just joking around and being goofy, but not making fun of you.
Guys are always trying to catch the attention of others, so they usually wind up cracking jokes, singing weird songs, and whatnot.
He almost just might've found you cute or something and was trying to introduce himself and be social with you.
Even though you may find it weird, maybe keep talking with him and who knows? You could make a new friend, or if feelings develop, a boyfriend.
Maybe for a laugh tomorrow, whenever you're walking by him, you should just go over to him and be like,"are you going to sing me a song today? : haha" and just see what he says, and try and make conversation.
You never know the meanings behind boy's actions.
I hope I helped.
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what's the name of the song in ' a walk to remember'
it's in other movies, but i just noticed in AWTW
it's like.. 'dare you to loooove'
or 'dare you to moooooove'
something like that, haha i know that doesn't help much, but its a guy singing, and it's not a really new song.
please help.
i know i didn't give ou much :D
thanks in advance! (link)
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It's "Dare You To Move" by Switchfoot.
It's a great song isn't it?
I think it's so pretty.
Haha, anyways.
I hope I helped.
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