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Age: 17
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I know I'm going to be kissing for the first time tonight. I'm nervous and excited. I need every pointer on what to do, where to start and so on. What was it like your first time making out? (link)
I have neve madeout but I here it's fun well here is some pointers don't make your lips soggy but moist. open your eyes until you know what side you are going to kiss on I mean what side of the nose.


I hope I helped

JESSICA


Is it true once you get your period that you're breasts start to grow alot more faster? I heard that they grow another 2 inches...is that true? thnx (link)
well It works different on alot of people some peoples breasts start to grow others there breasts don't grow anymore and the others people they grow the same

I hoped I helped JESSICA


sorry if im botherin u or something but what is sist? and how SERIOUS can it get?

because i mean comeon its kinda embarrassing to tell a parents that stuff... or maybe its just me but is it like deadly?

and is there a ointment i can buy? (link)
Yes a sist is serious most of the time. you got to go to the doctor to get them cut off by the way a sist is a bump that appears and well sometimes you don't got to go to the doctors because they start to go away

If you have one well if it doesn't start to go away in like one week then you should tell your mom or dad

I hope I helped JESSICA


well i wasnt sure if i should ask this on here since its stupid and embarrassing. but i guess i should give it a try and since people ask some question like mine...well here it goes...

can someone have herpes when they didnt do IT? or anything sexual for that matters?

well i never ever in my life...did it, or fooled around...infact i never had a stinkin boyfriend in my whole life...(sorry im so pathetic)

but anyways... today i was like about to sit down then suddenly it hurted down there... and well it kept hurting ish ,,,not that much but anyways ...so when i was using the "facility" i HAD to check, then it had this little red (kinda big) bump on my ...uh,...you know what...

can it be just a pimple? because i heard people DO have pimple down there except i never had one and i was wondering if its herpes...

so please someone help... i am scared to death if it is...

and what if it IS? can i Die from it??? or do i have to take a treatment?? because if it doesnt do anything to ya... then i might just well live with it...unless its deadly...

someone help??? (link)
Well what it sounds like is a sist

my sister has had a sist down there before and it can get really serious so you should tell your parents you might half to go to the doctors


I hope this helps



Ok, I'll have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 weeks, tomorrow. I've heard rumors that if his g/f wont have sex with him that he dumps them after a month. And I'm 13 and I don't want to have sex. He is having a party next weekend and invited me to it. Its a pool/birthday party at his house. If my mom lets me go, I'm going. But if that rumors true...he well might wanna ya know. What should I do? (link)
What you should do is find out if the rumors are true yes go to the party and if he wants to have sex with you before he trys talk to him and tell him you are not ready. if he breaks up with you then he didn't love you enough to wait


i havnt started my period yet and i'm a very short 13 year old so how do i know that i didnt stop growing? (link)
Every girl has there period some point in life so don't worrie you want it tell you have it I should know I am 13 and I used to want my period all the time tell I got it now it sucks

you didn't start growing it just takes time


Jessica


ok soo there is this guy i like ALOT...okay well he is more experienced n i really want to make out with him but im nervous when we get the chance to n i ive never mad out n i think i am ready i just dont know i really want to i mean i am goin on 14 n all my other friends have...n we had a chance at the talent show we were in the bak of the school ne he was about to kiss me but i turned my head n he freaked out n got all mad i mean i was crying n everything......is this a sign of sumthing am i lesbian...ahhhhhh PLZ HELP!!! email me if ya want tickl3_m3_pink1@yahoo.com
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TiCkL3m3PiNk!
13 f tx (link)
No I don't think you are lez
here is a website on how to make out

http:/www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool


Whats the difference between, Maxi's, Liners, and Pads? I want to know before I get my period. I'll rate high for all the nice answers! x3 (link)
Maxi's are thicker and liners are thinner

maxi's are for you period

liners are for discharge


Ok here it is, my boyfriend hasent called me in like 3 weeks and i called him 3 times in the past week and he hasent returned my calls. When i called him last Sunday to tell him somthing his mom pick up and i asked for him and she said "who is this Brittney" (My name is not Brittney) I have no clue what to do!!!!! Can you help me? (link)
What you should do is ask him about it or mabey even act like brittany and see what he says


Ok There is this boy Zac and I Like him A LOT! And my friend Emmie thinks he likes me. I'm just going to say what happened to me when I hung out with him last( I haven't before this was the first time ). Well I was just standing in a corner at a basketball game and he came up to me and said, " Who are you? " and I simply replied my name and then he said " Oh okay I know you " and he walked away to play his basketball game( it was at half time ). When it was over he came over to me and said "Is your screen name g-o-i-n space.." and I just said yeah. Then he kept like sitting next to me. It was really funny watching him though because he was like kind of dancing lol. But anyways he kept coming over and sitting next to me and I was talking to him and he was looking at me this whole time. And whenever I looked over he didn't look away he just smilied. Well then I went outside and he I guess was talking about me because he pointed to me and said something to one of his friends. Well then he couldn't find me I guess but he came outside and started talking to me. I was acting stupid...for some reason I do that around cute guys lol...Anyways he was making fun of me for being stupid. And then he went inside the gym and so did I and he was just looking at me the whole time. < Thats what happened...he goes to a different school soo I don't know if his personality is just like that or anything. But I talk to him on AOL and stuff soo yeah. Well I asked a few people if he was really flirtish and they all said yeah...but thats A LOT of flirting he did right? Okay Well I need your opinions does he like me? I rate high and give comments! ^_^ (link)
Yes I thinks he likes you so you guys talk on AOL well just ask him I mean it's not like you guys are going to be looking at eachother when you ask him.
If you see him often and he always does that you should ask him out

mabey he just wants to be friends


would you date someone older than you? (link)
Yes I would date somebody older but not much.


ok well my best friend set me up on a blind date with her boyfriends best friend. well we hugged and we cuddled in the movie and i gave him a hug at the end of the date and i thought everything was fine but his friends didnt think so and hes saying im prude because i didnt kiss him. should i have done more i mean i would have but i mean i didnt want to take it to far on a blind date and i always wanted the guy to make the move i was never to (btw i have never hadeout before)so i wasnt sure if it would go there i was worried i would mess up! please help! (link)
well I can help, you say you need help well I didn't understand on exactly what but I can help you on your kissing here is a website that will help you on that

http:/www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool/

and yes the guy should make the first move thats what I think


My best friend jade is getting mad at me because i am freinds with this girl kayla who she got in a fight with. now she wont talk to me unless i stop being kaylas friend, and then we
stoped talking, now yesterday she called me saying that she wants to be my friend again should i forgive her?
(link)
Yes you should forgive her but talk to her first about how you are not going to give up one of my friends



I hope this helps


Ok, I just learned that my boyfriend has had sex with ohter girls before we started to date. I dont want to do anything with him, but I just feel so disgusted. Im 14, and He's 15 and I cant believe he would do that. Im afraid of what he might try to do to me. He's hasnt ever tried anything before but I cant help to feel disgusted, my friend thinks I can do better than him and give him up since he lied to me so much, but I stil love him. Should I break up with him? (link)
You shouldn't break up with him if you love him because if he really loved you he would wait tell you are ready to do anything what I would do is sit down and talk to him about it and tell him you are not ready and you would want to wait tell you am


I hope this helps


i've met guys when i'm just hanging out at the beach or mall or whatever before... but it's only because they approach me. the guys that approach me are usually older and way too experienced for me and too pushy and "fast". i'm pretty shy so when i see a guy i like i don't know how to approach him. how do just start conversations with random people. but not just coming up and being like "you're hot... what's your number?" cuz thats kinda stupid. no offense to anyone who does that. thanx. (link)
What you should do is be his friend first and then you will get to know them and then ask them out that way you all ready know them and they know you

I hope this helps


My boy friend's best friend is my ex...and he is always over there and I get so mad because duering school he was always at hme on weekends and stuff so that we could spend time together...I mean just us...and now he is always over there nd when I won't to do somenthing with him or when he asked me to do soemntihg his little friend (my ex) has to come along!Uggghh! It makes me so mad! What do i do about it? (link)
What you should do is tell your boyfriend that you think it would be a good idea if you guys had some alone time.


im 14 almost 15 and im a girl alrite well im going out with this guy and i've never really kissed anyone well little pecks with an ex bf and those weren't great but when he went to kiss me he had his mouth wide open and just went for it not a french kiss but ya know wut i mean..anyways i didnt kiss him back cuz i have no idea how to kiss..i need major help cuz i really like this guy and im embaressed to tell him why i didnt kiss him back and i really dont wanna lose him but i do need to know how to kiss..so in that situation how am i suppose to kiss (link)
Here is a way I can help there is a website that teaches you how to kiss and I will give it to you


http:/www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool/

I hope this works


Hi i'm 13 years old and my mom said that I can not use a tampon until I break my hymen or have sex but she said if i have sex she will kick me out of the house and my mom said that i could kill my self if i use a tampon how do you kill yourself with a tampon and do you have to break your hymen to use a tampon cause most of my friends use them. (link)
No you don't got to break your hymen before you use a tampon and yes tampons can kill you it is called TSS and know one has died from TSS in a while so I think it would be alright.


I am 13 to


eveytime after my period I start having a really bad itchy feeling. I have gone to the doctors before and they gave me a pill that worked but this is happening everytime...what should I do or whats wrong with me? (link)
Don't worrie it is normal I know because I have that feeling to.


i am 14F and i want to get a belly button ring. what do you think of a belly button ring? and how do i convince my mom to let me get one because she keep thinking of the future and saying when you get old and decide to have a baby.. it will get all streched out or it will get infected (link)
Here is some advice what I did was made a deal with my mom I think you should do that and mabey she will let you

here was my deal

I asked my mom if I get straight A's in school for on quarter can I get my belly button pierced and it worked we made our deal.




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