Hey My name's gen. :] My goal in life is not to have an average of a 5 rating all the time.
I'm an overrall nice person, but when it comes to advice, I will be blunt if necessary. I will be harsh if necessary. Just because I can't stand being mean to someone but the fact that I don't know who you are, I can be mean with the answer if I want to. :)
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my little sister {like a sister} is 11 and said she wants to have sex with a guy who is sixteen and is willing to pay her i told her no but she did anyway she is no pregnet and still is having sex she is always been very pretty and a sweet girl but then she started doing drugs like oxy cotten, midol{doesn't need it yet}coke, weed ect. when is enough enough (link)
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Eleven.Years.Old.
I'm gunna be brutal about this.
If your sister is doing this shit, then what kind of sister are you to be on the COMPUTER asking for advice?
Hun, you should be trying to HELP your sister.
Tell her what drugs can do to her and the consquences of sex.
I didn't even know what weed was at 11.
Hell, I'm 15 and don't even know what the fuck oxy cotton is. o_O;
I dunno.. It does kind of sound like you're making this up. But yeah, tell a trusted adult immediatly if you're not shittin about this. If that doesn't work, go the popo o.O; Maybe they can explain to your sister that drugs is ILLEGAL. And what can happen if the condom breaks.
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oh my god, seriously, what has the world come to...? i read a question on here and a girl had sex at 10 YEARS OLD. i was watching the news a couple of hours ago and an 8 YEAR OLD HAD SEX. yes, an 8 year old. i didn't even think 8 year olds knew what sex meant! on the internet news a 12 year old had sex and killed her own child because she said she wasn't ready for a kid. really, what's wrong with the world? why are people having sex at such a young age? do any of you agree that this is absolutatly crazy? (link)
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AMEN, SISTA.
Seriously, what the flying fuck.. >_>
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my boyfriend has a lot of experience with sex and i havn't and he said he wants to do it but i have only kissed a guy and had one real boyfriend should i say yes or no if i say no he might dump me we have been goin out for 4 months (link)
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First, you need to ask yourself: Do I want to lose my virginity?
He shouldn't leave you because you don't wanna have sex with him. That would just show he's using you. Don't let him pressure you.
And 4 months doesn't really sound like that long of time. It doesn't matter if you've been going out for 4 months or 2 years, if you're not ready, then you shouldn't be forced.
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can u put two condoms on for double protection>>>????lol (link)
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You can, but it wouldn't give you "double protection." It'd actually increase the chance of the condom breaking because they're rubbing together, increasing the chance of pregnancy..
Just use one condom and get the girl on birth control.
And I don't know see why you put "lol" at the end of your question, sex isn't a laughing matter. o_O And if you're scared about protection enough to ask a stupid question like "canyouput2condomstogether" then I don't even think you should be having sex.. Dumbo.
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if somebody blocks their number and calls you, is there any way to find out the number they called you from? (link)
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Honestly, no.
There's not. Lol, sorry kiddo
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What does emo mean? (link)
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"Emo" is short for emotional.
Nowadays, a sterotypical word. >_<
An "emo" is just a person who's depressed somewhat
I don't think of it as the music they listen to, or clothes they wear though.
I mean, they're still people. Along with 'preps', 'punks', 'gangsters', and such
But hey, everyone how's their own opinion now, eh?
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so i like this guy..he's in band.. and he's so gorgeous. there may be signs he likes me..and he wanted to know who i like but i was like " :) im not telling" so idk if i should.. should i? (link)
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A lot of the times when a boy asks you who you like, it's because the boy likes you. ((NOTALL the time, just a lot.))
Just tell him. Who currs :]
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Yeah soo theres this guy that likes me a WHOLE lot like an enourmous amount and like its the first time hes wanted to go out w/ someone in a while cuz something tragic happened w/ his ex but im super oober involved with another guy and i have been for a while we just broke up a few months ago b/c we needed like a break from eachother but we're started to get involved with eachother again my question is..
how do i tell this guy i dont feel like that about him?? should i tell him about the other guy or should i just leave it at 'no i dont like you like that'??
I LOVE YOU GEN!!! (link)
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Tell him about the guy. I know you don't want to hurt his feelings or whatnot, but it's better to be told the truth straighton. And if you don't like him like that, tell him that too. Just release your feelings 'cause trust me, you don't want to hold them back.
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so i actually have asked him why hes telling me those things.. and hes like iwant you to be proud of me.. and im like uhh well if grrls didnt like you and guys did.. id be worried. and hes just like no..and he like gets all confused..
but anyways imean idunno. what if im starting to like him now? like idont know cus hes my best friend basically and iwouldnt want things to be all awkward but sometimes i think im falling for him and idunno its so confusing. i mean idont wanna get hurt again. and specially end up loosing him as a friend. but idunno if ilike him or not. idont even know if he lies me.
how can i tell if he likes me for sure?
i love you :] (link)
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Well then.
What if you are starting to like him?
If you're BEST friends with this boy, I don't think you'd want to get into a relationship. >.<
I have a friend going through the same thing, they both like each other and the boy is willing but my friend wants to keep that bond, y'know? And apparently, so do you.
Unless your feelings are x10 strong, then it's not like you can hold back. If not, I'd suggest you wait it down a bit. As for the wondering if he actually likes you,the simplest way without shortcuts&nonsense, is just to plain out ask him, "Do-you-like-me?" Or something of the sort. And tell him it seems like he's hinting you stuff and shizzz.
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i love you :]
but thats not the problem ahaha
kay, so ihave this real good friend
we met like a year ago and we immidiately
became amazing friends
and ever since we like met we talk on the phone
like every single day. i trust him with everything
and he makes me crack up. but the thing is that
lately ive noticed like weird little things
and it just seems like he's droping hints that he likes me as more than a friend, and its makin me real confused. maybe im just imagining it all, but he like always talks about how there are all these upperclassmen that think he's hot and how all these girls like him and im always like uhh okay thats awesome.. but imean i dont really care. and it just sounds sometimes like hes trying to get me jealous. and i prolly shouldnt say this but idoubt he'll read your column.. well like he send me this song like amonth ago and it was really random and he like didnt even talk about it but its called build me up buttercup by the foundations and i heard it and its so cute.. but i was like uhh does this mean something? you should read the lyrics and maybe tell me what you think. but imean i dunno cus he's also in a lower grade than me and he goes to another school and its just crazzyy. sklajdklas so what should i do?
sorry this is soo freakin long
iloveyou bby
ahahah and i bet you can tell who this is :P (link)
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Haha, so it's pretty obvious you don't like the kid, eh? Awe, you heartbreaker. o_o Jk. Um.
Yeah, why don't you just confront him about it? The next time he says something like "Ooh yea, so yadaydada thinks I'm so fine," be like, "And you're telling me this because...?" Haha. Make him spit out his guts. But think deeply, you don't feel ANYTHING for this boy at all? If he's practically throwing himself at you, you should give him a chance. See how it turns out, at least y'know?
xHope I helped.
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I want to get fat, i want to bea huge lard! but its so hard to get fat beacuse of my gay metabolism, im jst way to skinny. Help please? (link)
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Well, DON'T try gaining weight by eating too many fatty foods. Because it can lead to obesity[having excess body fat for one's weight; or weighing more than 20% above your recomended weight] which can lead to:
-heart disease
-high blood pressure
-forms of cancer
-type 2 diseases
-sleeping problems such as sleep apnea
It's not your fault you have a fast metabolism, and honestly, you should be happy you have one. Lol. Try calculating your body mass index[an index of weight in relation to height that is used to assess body weight] and ask your doctor what you think is the maximum weight you think you can be for your age and height.
Sorry, I'm taking health and love getting into these stuff tehehehe. o.o;
xGood luck.
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AJFKSD!!
x Hope I helped =)
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I am about to give up on boys all together. I can never seem to find the right one. Sometimes i feel like i will never get one. I fear that i can never get what i want, and all my friends around me have one. Also all my friends are getting good boys, ones they want. Some are even geting the one i wanted. i have to sit back and watch. I just want to know what to do. Not trying is the best thing i think. Nothing is fair at all. And i hate it. Also, ever sence a few years ago, i used to do it more, but i cut. Even if its one of the most stupied things in the world, i do. Its one thing that makes me feel better when i feel bad. I trust no one at all.
sorry i just read some of your advice and you seemed like you could help me somehow. (link)
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Don't say that. No one finds the "right boy" within a few days. Hun, it's gunna take awhile.
Just give it patience, trust me, you're not alone. There are a lot of girls who wait until about 18 before even having a first kiss/boyfriend. Even older!
I think you shouldn't give up. There's always hope. But don't try too hard either. C'mon now.
xGood luck.
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Is it alright to wear kahkis and a nice button up shirt to homecoming? (link)
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If you're a boy- Yes, that's perfect.
If you're a girl- Let's just say you're going to stand out a little.
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this guy was gonna kiss me but i backed away because i was afraid my breath would smell
or he wouldn't like my breath and embarrass myself how do i make my breath less smelly and how do i know if he likes it (link)
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The guy won't care how your breath smells unless you just ate something very smelly/disgusting like a bean-burrito smothered in onions and topped with fish bits.
As long as you DO brush your teeth regularly.. O_o; And chew a mint after you eat, you should be fine, really.
And if you wanna chew gum to make your breath smell better, don't chew it for too long, I heard it makes your breath smell worse, something about the sweat glands or some shitt. But yeah.
x Hope I helped.
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My best friend is dating this boy who has been with 23 girls. They've been together for about 6 months. She didn't believe in having premarital sex before she met him. She gave it up to him a few weeks ago. He broke up with her a week later. He started talking to another girl. He begged my friend to keep having sex with him, although they weren't together anymore. She said no. He asked her back out a couple days ago. They started doing it again yesterday. Does it not sound like he's using her? He's this very munipulative type person. It's driving me crazy. Should I tell her how I feel? (link)
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Dude, you defently need to get your friend, one-on-one and talk about this. You make it pretty obvious that he's using her 0.0 NO GIRL SHOULD TAKE THAT SHIET FROM A BOY. And vice versa. Don't try to go around it, or hinting it only. Tell her directly. The girl deserves to know your point of view and you should tell her to re-think her decisions. >.<
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Alright, i was wondering if it's normal for someone to go to homecoming alone? do alot of people do that? also what is the right attire for attending a homecoming dance? I'm a freshmen so this is my first one and I don't know a thing.. thanks alot (link)
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Awe lmao.
Yeah, it's perfectly normal for a person to go to HC alone. A lot of people I know are doing that. =] As long as you go in a group of friends, you'll have just as much fun, trust me!!
As for the attire, for girls, it's expected to wear a nice dress. Boys usually wear like slacks and a buttoned shirt. It's more like semi-formal.
Hope you have a great time at the dance!!
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Well, my friend told me that nail polish if you drank enough would kill you. Please don't lecture me or anything....but, recently I have been just really sad and mad at the world and I feel like my world is crashing down. I drank about a third of the bottle about 30 minutes ago. Nothing has happened so far. I don't know what to do. I was talking to my bf at the moment I made the decision and he kept telling me please, no, don't do it. But I didn't listen and I did it. He was mad at me when I told him I did, and he's never been this mad at me before. He won't talk to me now. If I live, what should I do now? I still feel like theres nothing to live for, and what is worth living for, him, everyone keeps me away from him. Or will I even live? And I'm dead serious on this question. This is not a joke, so please give me serious answers, and no lectures, I've heard it all before. (link)
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I don't think 1/3 nail polish does anything but I'm not a doctor, I wouldn't know. >.>
I'm going to respect your wishes and not lecture you. But what you're saying/doing is fucking stupid.
I'm not joking, get help.
And I'll restrain myself from saying anything more.
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ok well i have a huge problem and its that me and my gurl have been dateing for about 5 months now and we are really close i love her more than anything and we are 15 i know i know people say that you cant fall in love when your as younge as us but personally i think thats a bunch of bull shi* but the problem is we are thinking about a kid and we are both really wanting to like BAD so what do you think i should do PLEASE HELP ::..Thanx..:: (link)
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That's really cute that ya'll think you're in love. =]
But anyways, let's face real facts, shall we?
First of all, there are a million couples in their young teenage years that claim to be in love, and ALWAYS end up breaking up. Enjoy it now, but one of yall are gunna change your opinion soon. [I mean this with all due respect.]
And yes, you're ONLY 15. I'm sorry, but a kid? I wouldve thought any fifteen year old would have had more common sense than this. >.> A child requires a lot more attention and care than your goldfish. Trust me, my mom was 35 when she had 2 babys and I was 10-ish when she had the first one. And me, just being the sister was put with loads of responsibility. And only being the parent is tougher. Just dont do it k? Put down the drugs and use your brain.
Here's an alternate idea though:
Babysit together. You'll get the idea SOMEWHAT of how it is to take care of a child[Not in anyway raise one though.]
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how do i get this one girl to like me i mean i see her looking at me so is that a sighn or something what do i do i need help!!! (link)
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Sorry hun, but just because she looks at you doesn't automatically mean she likes you. Lol.
If she stares at you A LOT though, for LONG periods of times, maybe it is a sign.
But you needa give more detail, like how does she act when she's with you? If you even talk at all? To get her to like you: Be yourself. Be sweet. Compliment her. Every girl's different though, you can't ask how to get a girl to like you. But a lot of girls like that so. =)
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