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Hey. I was just wondering how you can become a moderator. Thanks a million in advance =).
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=67
As long as you meet the following requirements it tells you, you can be a moderator!
~ Hope I helped, Depressed_Poet
Hey i am turning 16 at the end of march. Im a girl :)..but I am having a little party with just some of my friends. They are coming to my house and then we are getting in a limo for an hour ride or so. We are getting all dressed up (party dresses) So i thought that maybe we could go somewhere..? But i dont know where. We are coming back to my house..because my mom is making a Sweet/Dessert table and then we will open presents and stuff.. But where could we go with the limo instead of around town? Like i'd like to get out somewhere and maybe take pictures and stuff. I just done know where..dont say go out to eat or the movies!! THANKYOU
Hotel & stay the night, go swimming, go to the mall, walk along the beach (if it's a safe one from where you are), A walk in the park, go home & have a sleepover with a movie marathon and truth or dare questions like..
"Have you ever felt attracted to a member of the same gender?"
Or...
"I dare you to pretend to have an orgasm."
Lol those ones are funny
there's a few main websites i like for porn.
13/f
i think i might be addicted...
i watch it almost every night when i sneak my laptop into my room!!
is there a way to forget about porn if i'm addicted?
does it sound like i am?
i don't ditch school for it or anything
twice i had a dream i was asked to be in porn movies
problem here or am i normal?
i don't have accounts but..i'm scared i'm addicted!!
Ahh... no I doubt you're addicted. It's ok to be interested but... I think you are a little obsessed. You're not QUITE addicted but I advise you just to try & see the better things in life other than the people who try to get attention with such nudity or to make money. Everyone has seen porn from either interest or curiosity etc. but I think you should block those websites.
~ Hope I helped, Lauren
I was told that guys don't like hairy vaginas. So what does that mean...when ever I'm going to a guys house and I know were going to do something make sure I wax it all off or whatever?
If you really want to get rid of it, what I do is shave it. You just get a regular shaving razor and some shaving cream and shave it like you do, your legs. But it's better to do a razor especially for that. You can buy one at Walmart.
how long does it have to be to become a moderator from the time i was banned?
Six weeks. (A month in a half)
what is a cookie? something that has to do with computers i know... but what?
An internet cookie is where you log-in to an account on a website somewhere and you tell it to save your password.
I got my period, but I havent told my mom. Im shy and its weird talking to her. How should I tell her?
Just be natural about it. It was hard for me too! I waited a few days, lol.
Here's how I did it.
"Umm... hey mom can I talk to you for a second?" In a very shy tone and she immediately knew what I meant. If your mom doesn't immediately know, that's FINE! Just say, "Mom, I need to tell you something. I... am at that time of month. Let's just say I've sort of opened a new chapter in my life, you know?" And she'll probably understand what you mean by that! I hope it works out! I know how hard that is, I've been there! But it's really important to tell her due to seeing a doctor, etc. It's gotta show up on your records, so good luck.
~ Hope I helped, Lauren
what kinda of girls to guys tend to like??
Different guys like different girls.
The shallow ones like girls with:
Big boobs
Small figure sometimes while other guys like a girl with a butt
Good-looking, wears make-up, not a tom-boy etc.
Most likely, pretty popular
Really nice guys like girls with the following qualities:
A nice personality
Funny
Talented
Outgoing etc.
Most likely good-looking, I'm pretty sure all guys like that, lol.
Not obsessed with herself, and not vain.
~ Hope I helped, Lauren
15 female i have liked this one dude and nobody else for 3 years. he asked me out when i have only liked him for two years. now i want him to ask me out but i do not know if he still lkes me. how do i know if he still does. he looks at me like always but i think that he alreadyhas a girlfriend.Help! if you can
Talk to him about it.
ok, well...i'm 14/m...and i have an amazing girlfriend that i love SOOO much...but i have a lot of people that i kno that just...don't support my decision to be with her...there's kinda some good reasons for their argument but i hate it when they bring it up...
well, when i first met her, she was going out with this 21 year old, and he was a jerk, but she couldn't get him to leave her alone. this guy was horrible to her- apparantly he thought it was love...he's a weirdo...
well, he threatened to hurt her (and me, for that matter) unless she had sex with him, and of course, she wanted him to leave her alone, because not only was he being a horrible person to me, hejust wouldn't leave her alone...so she did it. and this guy left her alone.
and so everyone calls her a whore and all that stuff and she's not- she's not a slut, doesn't dress like one, is amazingly beautiful...but i feel like i'm the only one who sees that in her...
so i guess what i'm asking is- how can i get other people to see what i see in her? because honestly, none of my friends do...
thnx
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder!
You don't need to prove anything to anyone, as long as she's the one you're interested in, nobody else needs to be involved with your decision. Technically, you can only CONVINCE them to like her, but you can't MAKE anyone. But if you're totally set on it, try this:
-Tell them what kind of a great person she is, and tell them she's your girlfriend and you won't tolerate them making fun of her or calling her a whore.
-Tell everybody they don't know her and so they have no right to say whether she's a slut or not.
-Tell everyone they're misjudging her and if they got to know this girl they'd like her more.
~ Hope I helped, Lauren
what things could i do to look hotter and make guys notice me and be like wow that girl is hot? i know its kinda weird but i wanna know thanks!
1) Wear perfume. Not too much, it will smell really bad. But not like Vanilla, it makes you smell like an old lady, lol.
2) Wear a dark tan shade of eye shadow that goes with your complection
3) Wear some Mascara from Macy's, they have the best make-up!
4) Wear a little foundation that goes well with your skin nicely.
5)Just a **little** bit of eye-liner, & don't get carried away!
6) A light pink lip gloss
7) Wear stuff that makes you stand out in a good way
8) Pretend not to notice when guys stare at you
9) Smile when you walk by a guy you like
10) Curl your hair (if it's straight and you don't like it) and try some cool new styles.
~ Hope that helped, Lauren
does lipton green tea have caffeine in it?
Yes
my dog's stomach is making really loud gurgly noises and shes not eating..she hasnt thrown up or anything but shes just lying here and im like 3 feet away and can hear her stomach..should i take her to the vet?
Sounds pregnant. Has her stomach been growing lately? Even if not, you should still get her to the vet as quickly as you can! I hope your dog's okay. Or maybe she's allergic to something you fed her and she has food poisoning or worms.
~ Hope I helped, Lauren
I love my cat very much. I am crazy about her!! I spoil her with an endless amount of toys, and I treat her to cat treats like several times a day. Now she has that "royal" attitude. So she goes around and drops things from the shelves to the floor by kicking it or hitting it with her paw (thinking it's a toy), and it drops on the floor. I have had numerous drink spills. I learned the lesson of supervising her when I do have a drink in my room but she is always sneaking up on it and spilling it. I get angered, wanting to punish her. I want her to learn a lesson, but yelling at her does nothing. I also tried putting her in the cage for awhile like as a "time-out" - that didn't work. So how can I discipline her without being too harsh?
Since she's a cat, I really don't think that's how she thinks as far as the royal attitude goes. But I don't think she knocks things over on purpose to bother you either. It's to get your attention! She wants to play & my dad read once that cats will treat you like a big cat because they think everything is a cat. Funny, I know. Lol
Anyway, for the discipline squirt her with a few drops of water, it always stops my cats. Maybe spend a little more time with her so she won't have to do that to get your attention. Or gently tap her nose as a little wake-up call that she's not aloud to do that sort of thing! But hopefully, you won't have to do that too, too much.
Good luck with your cat!
is it normal for a 13 year old (normal weight, 5'7) to be a bra size 34 DD?
when does one stop growing?
Ohh don't worry about it you're normal. It's just your hormones, different for everyone! Nothing is wrong.
Okay, so is it a little to old for a 15 year old to go out with a 21 year old? Im 15 and the guy I kinda like is 21. He doesnt smoke doesnt drink just works. He is mexican [which doesnt matter] and he is a sweetheart. He asked my mom for approvel and asked to take me out on a date. He said he will call me this weekend. I dont think he will, Im a little scared. I have told some of my friends and they said, ''You know guys like that just want some booty''. But it doesn't seem like he is that way. I dont know what to do, give it a chance or forget it?
-Confused.
I know it doesn't seem like that, but it is. All he wants is your body. I know you think I probably don't understand but, he's 21 and you're 15. So technically, whether your mom approves or not it's illegal for you two to be dating until you're 18. I strongly advise you to just be friends until you're older and ready for that kind of relationship he wants out of you because I'm not so sure it's JUST 'boyfriend & girlfriend'. But then again, he could go to jail if you two DO have sex, and that would've been statutory rape. So if you absolutely INSIST on dating, do not have sex with him... it's your decision but... I think you'd definately regret it.
~ I really hope I helped, Lauren
okay, so my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 2 months. we hit it off really well & we have a very very healthy relationship. we are both strong christians, and have morals, but the farthest we've gotten is french kissing. Now we have friends of ours that we double date with alot. They've gotten way farther than us. like they haven't gone all the way, but he's like fingered her & she says that they've done things that she regrets. but idk. i don't really have an issue with going any farther with my boyfriend. but is it wrong to do anything? because i just feel like a goody goody.
HELP!
Having sex is a sin if you're a Christian until you're married, but only have sex if you KNOW you're ready! But in this case, it doesn't sound like you're ready if you're asking people if you should. I don't mean to be rude, if you think I am, but you should NEVER have sex or run bases (fingering etc.) JUST because your friend is! And just like she said, she regrets it, so don't follow in those footsteps.
~ Stay true to yourself
~ Lauren
If my question is on the wrong category,sorry. I didnt know what category.
Anyway. I feel sad a lot. But when i'm at school or with friends or their family I try to hide. I have been goin through a tough time. But my dad is doin the best he can to make me happy. He doesnt really know that i'm sad...ALOT !! and i honestly dont know why either. But I am upset everyday. Yeah sure I have fun a lot but sad sososo much...
I dont think i have depression..but doesnt anyone have any idea...why i could always be feelin like this?
please answer as soon as you can
and thank you for readin this :]
Ohh don't worry, it's just a phase! I've been through it and to solve it, I wrote poetry. That's how I got the name "Depressed Poet". Lol. You're probably not depressed, you're just going through a phase in your life where you need to try new things and you're opening a new chapter of growing up. To help you feel better, don't run away from the pain. Just let it out and talk to somebody.
Write poetry?
Draw?
Paint?
Sing?
Anything that makes you happy. You just have to find something that will help you cope through tough times.
It will end soon enough. But if it doesn't for another month talk to your dad or mom, or school counselor, doctor etc.
~ hOPE I helped, Lauren
Well im only 14 as you can tell.
I want a baby because they are soo adoriable.
I have a boyfriend we have had protected sex a few times already.
And would do it again.
We have been together for 2 years.
I love him and he loves me.
He is 3 years older.
My parents know and have known his family our whole lives, blah blah blah blah blahh.
So i keep telling him how much i want one but like he says i know you do but i am not ready to be a father and think about how much it would hurt and we dont have enough money.
So i need someone to try and convince me not to want one.
Because you have no idea how badly i want one.
Please help :\
If you want one but are trying to not one try this:
~ You're only 14! A baby this early? Think of how hard it would be to take care of one at that age
~ You wanna hang out with your friends don't you? There'd be no time because you'd be taking are of your baby.
~ You'd have your boyfriend mad at you for having one because he's not ready & you need to respect that
~ You'd probably regret it. Having a baby, is quite painful from what I hear
~ You're going to make a lot of mistakes, don't let this be one of them
~ Think of the example you're being for your baby
~ You have to not be selfish. Everything you do has to be for that baby! You have to REALLY KNOW WHO YOU ARE! Now, you can't honestly tell me who you REALLY are, can you?
~ You'll fall in love with someone else one day. He's probably not Mr. Right. Nobody will meet their Mr. Right at that age
Sorry if I came off a little rude, but I don't want you to make a decision you'll regret in the future.
Good luck