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A few weeks ago my brother and his girlfriend were over at our house and he had left the room to go to the bathroom. While he was gone my brother's girlfriend started leaning on me and saying things to me that she shouldn't have been saying to her boyfriend's younger brother. My brother eventually came back into the room and it didn't happen again. The next week she came over again and did the same thing while my brother was out of the room. But this time she tried to reach her hand down my pants. I stopped her and asked what she was doing. She told me to just relax but I still didn't let her, eventually my brother came back in the room and ended it. She didn't come over the next week and I hand't talked to her since so I thought it was finally over. But last week she IMed me online and started saying the same things she was saying to me in person like she wanted to have sex with me and stuff. Don't get me wrong, I would love to get physical with this girl...she is really hot and she has a great personality. The problem is as clear as day though...she's dating my older brother. The other thing is though, my brother and I have never been close even before he left for college. We have also been getting into tons of fights in recent weeks. However my brother really loves this girl and I even overheard him telling my mother that he thinks she is the one. Should I hook up with her? Please help me out...

NOOO!Do not hook up with her...that would be sooo wrong..I really think you should tell your brother about this...or confront this girl and tell her that she needs to stay away from you since she's dating ur brother..I hope I helped..Email or write me to tell me how it turned out please...k?I hope I helped!GOOD LUCK!

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Hi...ok i just got 2 baby turtles and i have read a lot of aticles (like be4 i got them and everything so i would know what 2 do) and stuff but i was wondering if anyone with turtles would reply 2 me when they got there turtles and how big there tank was and how they took care of them and how long u have had them and anything else...ok thnxxxx!!!!! :)

Hey!I had two turtles a while ago..I set them up a little place in my backyard around one of my trees...I just put like chicken wire around it and i put some rocks in there and i fed them lettuce and stuff. GOOD LUCK W/ THE TURTLES!!I HOPE I HELPED!

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well me n my friend have been friends since kindergarden and i just moved to a diff. school in 6th grade..even though i went to a diff school we saw each other litterly every weekend and went to the mall or movies and even that summer we did like everything together but lately shes hasnt been calling me to do stuff or calling me just to talk or n e thing...shes been hanging out with another friend a lot. and like whenever i call her which is like every weekend the other girl is over. and i mean thats not a bad thing but shouldnt she still kinda hang out with me to or am i being stupid?

No your not bein stupid..yea its kinda rude to just leave you out of everything...tell her how you feel..Tell her how you wanna still hang out w/ her and how you miss her...I hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!!


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i need advice on what to do here... i am 14 and there's is this guy i like that is also 14...before school ended we went out for about a week. but he hardly ever talked to me. when we broke up he told me "that he liked me, but he like me, like me..." then he sadi he just wanted to be freinds...so i thought i could get over it, but we live on the same lake, so just about everyday i see him and i just think about when we went out. i still really like him. i dotn know what to do. help plz!

Tell him you still like him and if he says he still just wants to be friends then be like "i just wanted you to kno that.." and maybe he'll change his mind..If he doesnt then eventually you'll meet someone else..ur only 14 so theres PLENTY of time..I hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!

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ok well here's the thing i think my best friend likes my ex... and honestly i have to be straight up but i obvioulsy still have feelings for him and still really care about him but i kno my bestfriend likes him because she keeps talking about him and keeps saying how sweet he is and i kno the both of them flirt... and also if the both of them went out i would b really shocked and i guess upset.... but haha here's the other thing my ex's gf is kinda not into him that much and well i mean i dunno wut to do... sumbody help!!!!

Tell your friend how you feel..If she's really your friend then she'll let it go and respect your feelings...Also talk to your ex.Tell him you still have feelings for him and maybe he still has feeling for you too!If he doesn't then oh well..atleast you have that off your back..I hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!

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okay so i was at the usa cup this week and this boy approches me and he was all askin me for my # and i kept tellin him no and he wouldn't leave me alone then i told him "im not interested so will you please leave me alone" and he never did so then my mom finally came to pick me up so i was safe and then i went back to the cup today and he was THERE! and he was fallowing me and my friend around and we kept tell him to back off and he wouldn't! then we finally got away from him and we met some guys from south america and we were talkin to them and then as we were leaving them i kissed one of the guys we met (which ment nothing) and the stalker man saw and BLEW UP IN OUR FACES! he was all like "SO THATS Y YOU WANTED ME GONE!?!?! SO YOU COULD GO F---- THAT GAY MEXICAN!!!" and now im really scared to go back to the usa cup cuz he might be there with his gang and he'll prolly jump me or sumthing! so please help me asap!

Hey...Yea it might be best if you didn't go back...And if you did maybe bring more then just one friend.Bring like 4 or somethin and maybe he won't follow u since theres so many other people...hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!!!


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Anna Joe
The kid no one really knows
Just sat
She was kind of fat
Every day people would critize
About her size
I was the only one who heard her crys
Her endless sighs
I never knew
What she was about to do
It was a misty Monday
I wish she found have found another way
We walked in
Right before she commited her sin
They laughed at her and called her fat
And there I sat
Wanting it to stop
I could have fought
Before I could think
In just one blink
She reached in her shirt
Everyone screamed as shots beamed
Up and down each row
Then it came to me and she said no
I was in shock
Then came a knock
Hurried,
In her head
There everyone sat dead
I burst in tears
Because I had no more peers
I could have stopped this all
I heard voices down the hall
Terrified yells
And there i was
Just because
I did'nt call her fat....
But I just sat
I let her cry,
wanting to die
And it just might be
Because of me
Everyones dead
And poor Anna shot herself in the head

www.poetrypoems.com/bleedingeverywhere give me feedback on my site and dont try to copy and paste cuz these are published

I loved the poem!your very talented...


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HELP! I'm going to a party 2nite, and I need 2 get rid of two nasty looking pimples! I already popped them, but blood just came out. HELP!!! I'll rate, just please help! Don't delete this question, please! (:

Okay...If you have 10 bucks to spare then maybe you should get Clearasil Ultra..its supposed to get rid of acne in 3 days or less but i use it when i get break outs..it can get rid of like 2 in about 3 hours...I HOPE I HELPED!!GOOD LUCK!!

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My best guy friend hangs out with my boyfriend. Today he told me that my boyfriend was talkin about how annoying I am because I play mind games with him (I have NO idea what kind of mind games I play..) He said he doesn't love me as much anymore and he might break up with me.

Should I believe my best guy friend and expect the worst... or do I just ask my boyfriend about it and hope he doesn't get mad at my guy friend.

I don't want to ruin their friendship, but I don't want to get my heart broken because I didn't listen to my guy friend... What should I do??

You should definetely tell you boyfriend and ask him whats up...If he gets mad at ur guyfriend then thats his problem..he shouldn't have said anything in the first place..Ihope I helped..GOOD LUCK!!

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i really like this guy but hes gay and hes soooo nice and cute and he likes me but hes neva had a relasionship with a guy idk y he says hes gay???? what should i do

Well thats a hard problem...If he's gay I guess theres nothing you can really do..Maybe someday he'll change..thats why you should stay friends with him and see if he ever does..I hope I helped!GOOD LUCK!!

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Is it nice having a boyfriend or are boyfriends annoying? I'll rate really good, thanks so much!

I think it depends on the person...like if you a HUGE flirt then yea sometiems it'll get annoying becuz they get mad when u flirt *some boyfriends*...But if your the type who likes commitment and all that good stuff then yea its nice..I hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!!

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well... ever since i was lets say... about 7 i wanted a lil sis. but now that my aunt is trying to give us coustudy of my 6 or 7 yr old cousin b/c she is being trialed and can possibly convicted of child abuse. she knows our house hold is better than hers but i don't want a lil bratty girl getting into my buisness. i wouldn't mind if she was like 2 or 3 but then she will get into my buisness. what do i do? She will have to know everything that is going on and i will have to spend the rest of my spare time playing with her! i already hate my older bro! HELP!!

I know what you mean...but your probaly gonna have to be nice to the kids becuz if they are going to live w/ you becuz of child abuse then they will probaly need someone thats pretty loving and nice..just be nice and tell them how its gonna be..your business is your business and then need to stay out..I think they'll understand and if they don't they will when they get a little older and they'll realize what brats they were when tehy were younger..Hope i helped!! GOOD LUCK!!

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is it ok that i like older guys?? they are more mature and cuter in my opinion. i was wondering is this ok??

Its wayyyyyy okay to like the older guys...Me, myself I wouldn't really date anyone like 10 years older or anything but thats me...Its your decision who you wanna date and who you wanna like. Its fine...Don't let anyone else tell ya different...Oh yea,just be careful cuz some older guys have bigger expectations..(more sex and all that stuff) so kno what you want.Hope I helped!!GOOD LUCK!!

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I'm addicted to taking pictures of myself, i have lyke over 400 recent pics. All of my friends lyke always say that I'm lyke conceited or that I'm in love with myself, but I honestly think their just jealous!...what should i lyke do?!@#$^&!?

Who cares what your friends think..If you like takin pictures of yourself then go ahead and do it...If your talkin about how to stop taking pictures of yourself...maybe you could find some other things to take pictures of..like ur friends or somethin...Hope I helped...

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ok i'm scared to go to high school because i hear you have to shower in front of all the other girls!!! i really don't want to do that it's really gross!! what do i do??!?!?!

Talk to your gym teacher *or one of the teachers* about it..i have heard many things about girls being emberassed about taking shower w/ there piers in gym and stuff...usualy they get over it..if you dont then i bet ur teacher can help u work it out..GOOD LUCK!

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Hi, I am Noni and my family hates my boyfriend. Only because he dresses gothic. I mean, he believes in God though. Anyways, I really like him, and he really likes me. My mom refuses to let me call him, e-mail him, and all. He is really sweet. And everyone thinks I should break up with him because he is going to high school, and I'm only going to 7th grade. And I am 13 and he's nearly 15. I am 13 and a female. What should I do?

That is a sad story..I hate how people judge people by the looks...But ok tellyou parents how he is different..tell them how he is really nice and how he belives in god and everything but he has his own style..u mite wanna throw in ur gonna be w/ him no matter what..becuz you shouldn't let ur family break u up w/ someone u like becuz the person u like looks different..hope i helped...GOOD LUCK!

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I have been cheerleading for 3 years now. this past winter, i hurt both my knees, bad. i went to the doctor recently and she said that it was a rare disease that would take about 2 more years to go away. she said if it got any worse, i would have to stop cheerleading. cheerleading is what i do-it's my life. i can't just stop. what can i do to help my knees not to hurt as much? help!

~Injured Cheerleader~

Well, if ur doctor says theres nothin u can do then i guess theres nothin u can do..maybe pray? lol if ur religious that reall might help...i really dont know what else to say..sorry..hope that helped tho..GOOD LUCK!


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well im having a few trust issues lately....ever since my bestfriend and me went out and broke up i havent been able to trust anyone....he told me he'd always be there for me and stuff and then breaks up with me and totaly ditches me as a friend all together and now me and him have absolutly no contact....not only that but thanks to him im having other relationship issues...i cant trust anyone and everone knows that all relationships are based on trust....i dont know what to do part of me says take a chance and get hurt whats there to lose. I've found the perfect guy but im scared to trust him...what do i do?
Sincerly
Confused in Love
Nikki
13-f-Tx

Okay many girls have this problem..but remember, NOT ALL GUYS ARE JERKS!the guy you were w/ must have been a jerk..or it seems like it since he didn't make an effort to stay w/ you.You should definetly forget about the past *with him* and give that "perfect guy" a chance...maybe he'll be different but remember not to think of him as ur ex...hope i helped...GOOD LUCK!

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I'm 15 years old & I have an over protective mom. She makes sure my shirt doesn't show my chest at all and my pants do not show any of my underwear. She barely even lets me out with my friends! I mean, its summer and I wanna stay out late with my friends alot. Its not like I have to study or get up early for school! I just want to have a little more freedom since I'm getting older and have always been responsible and never got into too much trouble. What should I do?

Tell your mom how you feel..Tell her you feel like ur on a leash or somethin like that..Be like..."mom i am 15 and I would really like a later curfew and maybe you can let me wear what I wanna wear" and tell her how you have been being good (lol if u have) and talk about all the nice things you do!I HOPE I HELPED!GOOD LUCK!!

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Me.Boy.my BFF. U do the math. I really like this boy but he likes my bestest bud, but she likes a boy who likes me! Y cant we all just get what we want.? How can I get the boy I like to like me so my bff can have the boy she likes too and everyone is happy?

Tell ur friend to be mean to the one that likes her and nice to the one that she likes. and you do the same for u! It'll eventually work its way out!GOOD LUCK!

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*~tasha~*

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