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Hey...I got the besterest friends ever! You gotta love 'Em! umm...I play soccer, Basketball, and track. I love to Hang Out w/ my frendz~ They're the best! I'm like always on the phone...umm...I hope I give good advice! :) Ask Me anything! ~*Luvins Lauren*~

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okay so .. i broke up with this guy a little while ago. But when i see him i still think about him. My friends say i should go back out with him .. but i dont want to .. i dont think im the type of girl to have a boyfriend but i also like having one too. I dont know what i should do. I dont even know if he still likes me. I think i just still have left over feelings for him but i dont think i could go back out with him. I kinda want to .. but then again im talking to another boy .. so i dont know what to do ..

Screw Him! Not literally... Just go with your first instinct, you don't like him, why would you guys break up in the first place? Your friends might think you should go back out with him, but it's not about how your friends feel, it's about how you feel. Besides you have another guy your talking to anyway...Just forget about the past and get on with the future...Hope I helped!
~ Lauren

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i might be moving to texas, half way across the country. i am really scared because i dont want to leave behind the life i have now and enter a new one. on the other hand there are some good things, but does anyone have any advice on this? if i do move, how can i make it more bearable? does anyone live in texas?

It is very hard to leave the life you have, and are comfortable with, and then enter a new one. I should know. I have moved about 5 times and I have lived in texas for a while. I thought I would die when i frst moved but I learned to bear it. I just went, made new friends, and learned to go with the flow. Texas is really not a bad place to live, even though it might mean being away from all your friends you can still keep in touch with them. Well hope I gave good advice! ~ Lauren

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Ok, so u say u play soccer, basketball AND u do track. And u say u like to hang w/ friends and talk on da phone alot. How do u have enough time for all that and still have time to spend time w/ family and still stay close w/ your friends? Or do ur friends do all those sports w/ u?

Holla Back l8ta!,
Balla #10

Well, First of all sports dont take up my whole life, And they usually are not going on at the same time. But I'd call my family pretty close so we all find time every once in a while to get together...usually on the weekends. And for my friends Ya, most of them do play sports with me, but we always have school together so we find the time to hang out. Well If your question aplies to you, I hope I helped! L8R!!!

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ok i do alot of modeling. ever since i was little ppl told me i should b a model. im like 5'5 and 98 pounds. im not anorexic even tho ppl think i am but i dont care lol. well i spend alot of time modeling and im really tired n dont have alot of time but i dont want to cut back. should i cut back and model a little less or should i just deal with it? thanx much

Well, is modeling somthing you really love and your good at it? You should ask yourslef this... It will really help you out with problems like this...Hope my advice was good!

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Do yall think that there is someone for everyone? because right now im thinking that no one is right for me ... i mean every guy i date or "talk" to isnt the right guy and ive never had a longer relationship than 3 weeks! please answer! -kayla

Yes, There is always someone for everyone... That person thats for you has just not come to you yet....But you stil have a lot of time ahead of you, This guy might not come for a couple of years....But you'll have someone, Don't worry.... Hope I helped!

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I have 2 change schools in 2 weeks and i wont no any1 @ my new school and + ive never been 2 a public school before. What should i do?
from,
Alicia

Hey Take sum advice from me....I've gone to 4 new schools...You'll meet friends....They're not hard to make at all, Just be yourslef and someone will seek you out...Byt the end of your first day I bet that you will have made at lest one friend! well Good Luck at your new school! Hope I helped!

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last spring, i did 69 with a guy i dont even know. i know his name, we go to the smae school, but we havent talked since. i am embarrased everytime i see him, becasue i was drunk when we did it so i didnt really realize what i was doing. he stares at me alot, and his freinds say that he likes me, should i stay away? hes not my type.

Yes, I definantly think you should stay away from him. Who cares if he likes you, you dont like him, you said he's not your type. Plus no offence he might even be trying to get out w/ u to use you. I mean you drank when "it" happened, who knows what he could have thought after that. well, unless you like him and really want to be with him, stay away, stay far away! Hope I could help!

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My best friend was flirting with the guy i really like. What should I do?

Talk To Her About It! Tell her that you really like this guy and you don't like her flirting with him, and if she is really your friend she should understand. Otherwise you two can work something out, like a deal. Well hope I could help!

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Okay so I met this guy online like a couple weeks ago or so. And I really feel like I'm falling for him, I love him so much. Do you think this is crazy or actually possible that I can be in love with him?

This isn't what I'd call crazy but Your probably not really in love with him. Right now your most likley just in that "head-over-heals" stage, for him. Though I guess it may be real love but i highly doubt it. Just keep on talking to him and see how you feel after talking to him. See if your feelings change for him... Hope I helped! Good Luck!

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im going out with this guy since yesterday who i've never talked to. we're in the same health class. tomorrow his friend told me to talk to him. im really nervous because i dont know what to say at all. any ideas? also, how should i make it look like im not as nervous as i really am? thanx!

Well of course you are going to HAVE TO talk to him...You could start off with asking him what different intrets he has, like his favorite sport...etc.... Then just go on from there. Just start out slow and stay easy going and calm. Well hope this was good advice!

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i have this gurl that is in love with me n we broke up a year ago n she is moving back n really loves me but i love some1 else wut shold i do

You should just tell her how you feel. Explain to her that you don't have the feelings for her as she does for you...Also tell her that you may like someone else...But if you don't want to hurt her feelings you can make her seem like you may be open is the future... Well hope this is good advice for ya!

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When you get your first period is it normal if it just lasts for 2 days?

Yes this is completley normal! Every girl is different. Some girls can last up to 9 days and as little as two (like you) but since this is your first period your flow is still irregular, which means the length of your flow will vary among the number of days as you grow. Although your concerned, and if you want to learn more about periods and how they flow ask your mom, a doctor, or there is this really good website on the topic you can reach at www.BeingGirl.com . Well I hoped I helped! Later!

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Well, I've hardly been eating ANYTHING lately. And when I do, it's small doses of like...carrot sticks or something. I've been loosing weight and everything. I don't think I'm fat and all that, I don't even want to be on some stupid diet. I want to eat, but everytime I try, I get sick if I eat too much. Should I see a doctor? Or is this normal for a girl my age?

13.f.

No, this is not normal for an average girl your age. I mean yes lots of girls do this but, thats besides the point. Although...Yes! I think you should see a docter because if you are getting sick from eating it could lead to serious damage, You not eating and all. Well I hope I made sense! Good Luck!

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my girlfriend and i are sort of drifting apart... so its getting harder to like her when i dont see her too much... but my best friend and i have been hanging out a lot and im starting to like her... but i cant break my girlfriends heart but i dont want to be dishonest with her????

You shouldn't have to be dishonest. Your going to have to talk to her about how you feel sooner or later, wheather it breaks her feelings or not. But it might be that she feels the same way too about another person. Well get to talking! Hope I helped!

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OK well, I have two friends. Recently one of my friends has been hanging out with another group who me and my other friend dont like. Well, My friend who is hanging out with the other group always acts like nothing is wrong, but it feels like she is drifting farther and farther away out of the friendship the three of us have. I want to ask here not to hang out with this other group. But how, and how can i do it w/o hurting her feelings? Well I'm looking forward to advice! Thanx in advanced.

Ok, what you need to do is first of all get the three of you sumwhere and sit down and talk about it! You need to talk to your friend and ask her why she likes this group and tell her that you dont want your friendship to fall apart. Once you talk about it CALMLY hopefully she is an understanding friend and will work things out with you and your other friend.I hoped I helped!

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okay. so i like this kid and hes not the hottest kid ever k? but hes so so so nice! and he has like the best personality. I also kinda like this other kid who is my friends cousin and hes fricken hot and he has a good personality too...except sometimes hes mean to some people and like yea...but his personality is okay. SO i have NO clue who to choose. Its SO hard and they are both awesome...the hot one asked me out yesterday and i said i'd think about it and the great personality one asked me out this morning...so what do i do? plz help!!!

First instincts First...It's not all about looks, I know its hard but sumtimes you got to turn the hot guy down. If the one who doesn't look the greatest is really .....the greatest, I'd totally pick him! well i hope this helps...Good Luck!

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I am starting to have feelings for my best guy friend but I don't want to do anything to hurt our relationship. What do I do? I'm in a weird situatuion now. I haven't told him.
xo0x CoNfUsEd xo0x

Well, I have been in the same situation so this should be easy for me to answer... First of all You NEED to tell him how you feel, and if he's a good enough friend he wouldn;t go psyco on the idea. Otherwise you might want to keep your feelings too yourself. But if it ends up that he likes you to, you have to make sure you are both up to the fact of your relationship as friends might not be the same afterwards. Well i hope I made sense and gave good advice!

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Hi. My name is Toni and i'm a girl. My friend has been putting things about me on her profile and they are really mean things. I saw them and they made me feel bad and when i was alone, i cried for hours. I can be a dramaqueen, but who isn't one at one time or another?
Also people in her guestbook were calling me a bitch and saying that i was immature and they dont even know me! Should i tell my friend? Thanks in advance!
Toni

Hey Toni, Yes! I belive you should tell your friend. Friends are not supposed to act this way to their other friends. So if it helps I think you really should talk to her about this. Well I hope I was some help! Good Luck!

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I love my boyfriend so so so much but he's kinda insensitive and he's always busy or wont give me a reason why he doesn't want to meet up or anything. He talks more to my friend (who's in all his classes) and his ex girlfriend (she doesn't live near but he texts her all the time.) I don't want to break up with him even though I know he doesn't love me but I can't keep on crying over him every night..what should I do?

It might be tough but you need to try and talk to him. To tell you the truth it does't even seem like you two would be going out the way he acts twords you. But you should be happy with your life, you shouldn't have to cry over him every night. The right thing May be to break up with him. Good luck! I hope I helped you out.

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ok, I really like this guy that used to go to my old school and we talk all the time, well I think he likes me and I want to go out with him but we live like like hours apart...I am so lost...but I like (maybe love) him too much to just let him go!

First You have to find out wheather this guy like you back. and if he does, you need to see if he is willing to put up with a long distance relationship. If he isnt sorry to bust your bubble, but there will always be guyz waiting for you. So, goodluck with this guy, I hope this was good advice!

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