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i enjoy giving advice, because i like the feeling of helping people. i'd like to be responsible for maybe helping someone get a little bit of weight off of their shoulders. i can relate to a lot of questions that people have. i try to give the best advice that i have, but i may not be able to help. all i can do is try.
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I think that I want to have sex and have a baby
as rudy said, having a baby at such a young age, wouldn't be very wise. would you be able to support the child? probably not. you may think that you're emotionally ready, but you're not aware of the full responsibility of having a child, nor are you aware of how much you will have to provide for this baby.
ok im 13 and i have only had 2 bfs and they both only lasted for like 2 days they say im really pretty but then y dont they still wanna go out the one i really liked said he wasnt comfortable around me and he had his friend break up with me for him!! and now that he broke up with me i try to talk to him but he never listens!!
give up on him. he's not worth your time. that's the bottom line.
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oh, and he had his friend break up with you for him? you're 13? how old is he? guys did that in third grade.
so i wanna be friends with benefits with this guyfriend..i have feelings for him but he just wants fun..anyways i want ideas on how to be dominant and act more like im in it for the fun also and not for feelings..have any?
any stories of being in my position maybe?
thanks
if you really have feelings for him, why pretend that you don't? tell the guy that you do have feelings for him. and he might actually feel the same way. i just don't understand what the point of messing around with someone is- when in the end, you're the only one that's going to get hurt. i mean, honestly. think about it; you like him, he just wants to have fun. when he doesn't want to have fun with you anymore, and you're left in the dust; hurt. stop trying to pretend you don't have feelings, it's not going to help. he just wants to use you. that's going to make you feel good? that's going to make you feel needed?
ok..theres this guy i like named anthony and he is goin into 9th grade and im goin to 8 ((hes gonna be in a diff school whichs sucks)) and he says im cute and he likes me alittle but since he got left back hes 15 and im 13 so he said it would be weird and im like ok but can we be friends and hes like yea so the year ended and the last day of school the 8th graders had a bbq so i didnt see him to get his sn or # turns out he didnt have and sn and i got his # from a friend of his but its not the right # anymore!!
i really miss him i mean like i no how gay this sounds but i really love him!! what should i do ? should i get over him?
um.
if one of his frineds gave you his number, he probably has the new number, too. and if he doesn't give it to you, the guy might not want you to have it. maybe he wasn't really interested? maybe he was? ask his friend. someone has to know him.
What is the purpose of life? like why are we even here?
for some reason or another, you were put on this earth. sometimes i wonder about that, too. but think about something you've done. something small. it really could've changed someone. plus, as others said, you only have one life. live life to it's fullest. don't worry about why you're here, just know that you are here, and people care about you- that's what matters. :D
I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
if he's dropping hints, why not just talk to him? but since you don't want to;
ask a friend of yours, to hint to a friend of his, that you want to know if he likes you. you could do a long trail of "hinting" to his friends. you'll eventually find out, and if he really likes you, i'd go for it.
you can always find little ways to talk to him, too. like, in school, just ask him a question. or ask if he did the homework. bring up things that're going on, at the moment. "ugh, i can't wait until this class is over." something like that. i'm sorry i can't help more, but i hope that works out for you. :)
i dont no why,but i dont feel "right" anymore i feel sad..and hate between this one specific girl,who talks behind my back,and betrays me,copys my every move,i have a lot of better friends,but i dont no why i feel so sad. Its like i fit the quote "sick of trying ya im smiling but inside im dying" or something like that. And i feel sad/mad when i think about think about this girl,or when shes around me. I dont no why i feel so sad! please help
confront the girl.
it might lighten your mood, a bit- if it's out in the open.
plus, you could hang out with your better friends more often. swing, or do things that you did when you were a little kid. being around good friends, or having fun obviously can make you smile, a bit. :D
i like this boy, and me and him have a really fliry relationship. i slept with him in november while he was going out with my friend. we hang out sometimes and flirt a lot and i really think im in love. but he blows me off sometimes and hes such a jerk. he'll ditch me for a party, and he doesnt pick up his phone somtimes. lately hes been doing this more and more and i dont know what i should do because i like him so much! can somebody help me?
you said he's a jerk for blowing you off?
and you slept with him, while he was dating your friend?
who's the jerk?
enough said.
okay.. this guy who i have been "talking" to for a while.. came over to my house.. like he does everydayy.. and this time.. he asked me for a kiss.. and we made out for a long time.. but then...i went bak inside.. and got on the computer and (i didnt tell anyone!!) everyone was telling me that he got a girlfriend that morning.. and then.. i was on the phone with him earlier and i was like.. " do you know what i hate? i hate it when guys have girlfriends.. but hook up with other girls.. " and he started acting all defensive.. so. PLEASE help me.. i need ur help sooo bad!! i have no clue what to do?
Ask him if he has a girlfriend.
Simple.
If he does, don't do it again. And tell him why.
first of all, my boyfriend and i have been together for two years, and about three months. i love him with all my heart, and i know he loves me as well. well, last month i was going through his sidekick and i went through his text messages. i wasnt looking for anything particular really, i just wanted to read my texts that i sent him. i came across a message from another female, and i guess he was trying to talk to her. i approached him right away about it. he told me that, yes, he hangs out with other girls, drinks with them, etc. im already aware of that, and thats perfectly fine with me. but then he told me that when he sees a cute female, that he does try to get her number for the challenge, and flirts with them. he said he's never done anything sexual with any other girl, he just likes to get to know other people. i let him know that bothers me and that if he still wants to be with me, he needs to stop approaching other females because thats unneccesary when he already has me. he said he'd stop. i really love my boyfriend, and i used to trust him, but after some of this stuff, its hard to trust him. im kind of stuck, and i dont know what to do because i find myself worrying about him cheating on me and things along that line. so.. i'd like to know, what would you do if you came across this situation. thanks. sorry about the length ;\
Ask around.
You can't always trust what other people say- but you may be able to find out that way.
You could ask him again- you know.
Just don't suffocate him- and try to trust him.
Hope I helped.
heu guys! any help would be appreciated... for the past couple months i've been getting really bad headaches, and it hurts to look at light or hear noises and stuff. Well I think they might be migraines. I try to tell mom but she won't listen. Is there anything i can do at home to make them better? and medicine doesn't work...
Why isn't your mom listening?
Ask the school nurse-- and if you do have migraines, she or he will contact your mom.
my bf and i hav been goin out for 2 months or so.then we started to not see each other. also w/ xmas break. but we hardly talk to each other. every1 says hes cheating on me. i dunno wat 2 do. anyway, other ppl says he still likes me. wat should i do?:/...
You should confront him about it, idiot.
If people say he's cheating- it may not be true.
But if you don't even talk to him much anymore, then you should've date him in the first place.
Confront him, and ask him if he is cheating- FIND OUT.
And if you can't/don't want to be together- then break up with him.
Ok, i have a friend that does to much druges and drinks A LOT and she doesn't live inthe same town as me so i can't watch what she puts in her body. And what she drinks. Is there any other why i can tell her that i am afried for her. Michy
Call her. Talk to her online.
Tell her parents.
If she's your friend, and you tell- you could save her life.
She might be mad, but when she's alive in the future, she'll thank you.
okay i dont know if this goes under illnesses, but i couldnt find anything else.. Alright I have a metal allergy, and so I'm allergic to the metal in my belts and I get like a rash, but I can't not wear belts b/c i have to keep my pants up, lol (i'm in between sizes, so the 7's are too tight and the 9's are too big) and I don't know is there anything I could use so my belts like, wouldn't touch my skin or something.. and don't say just stop wearing them, cause I'm trying but theres still that rash.. :-/ ty if you can help me
A lot of belts don't have metal in them.
As people said, look for ones without metal.
And how does the belt touch your skin, just out curiosity? Lmao. Because, it goes in your belt loops, around the waist of your pants. o_o
do you think its better to fit in and go agianst yur own beliefs OR to be a little ""less popular"" and do what you want to do? i am stuck in between.
Do what you want and be a little "less popular". That way, you're being yourself. And it's not like you don't have, or won't make friends.
Don't be something you aren't to fit in.
Ever.
my hair is REALLY wavy and frizzy and cruly to a point were it looks horrible when i let it dry or blow dry it. so i bought a chi iron- if you dont know what that is it's supposedly "the best" stragitener- but when i straighten my hair with it after about ten minutes it starts looking bad! i've had it for about 2 years- so is it just dying? but it happened when i first used it 2! am i just not doing it right or should i use hair spray and how much hair spray? does anyone also know any other syle besides scruncing that might look good w/ my kind of hair? help is really appreciated! thanx!
Buy a new straightener- and buy frizz ease. Or something like that. It's a hair gel to get rid of frizz, and stuff. It'll make your hair feel & look nice.
I really really really hate my moms boyfriend and everyone thinks he's so nice and that im crazy but im not. It's hard to explain but what should I do! Im thinking of moving with my dad is that the right choice? I've talked to my mom but its like she wont listen she always tells me to be open minded but shes the one who need to know that I cry every night and I'm really hurt inside because I dont like him. please help!
My friend has the same problem, except-
It's her step-dad, and she hates her dad as well.
Talk to your mom one last time, just plainly say-
"Mom, I've tried giving your boyfriend a chance, and I've tried to be open-minded, but it isn't working out. I know you really love him, but I don't think him and I can get a long. You love him, but you love me too- please listen to me. I've been thinking about going to live with Dad, I just want you to know how I feel."
ok, i am totally head over heals for this chick.. she is beautiful.. and kind.. and she says to me that she isnt ready for a relationship.. or that she doesnt want to be more than friends.. but i keep getting this feeling that there could be something more! and so i told her to look deep in her heart and see whats there... and to ignore everything her brain is telling her.. then she replies that what i wrote was beautiful and to give her a week to sort things out and not to talk about me and her in a relationship and give her space.. what does all this mean!?!?! by the way most of this is all said in email but yeah.. its the easiest way to comunicate.. plz help!!
What it basically means is-
Shut up. Don't talk to her about liking her for a week, and you have a chance.
Just talk to her like she's a friend- not like you like her for a whole entire week. While you're not annoying the hell out of her, and making her life more stressful, she's going to sort out her life.
The chances are that if you do what she asks- and don't talk to her about being in a realationship with you for a week, and just get off of her back, she might say yes. =)
i have a Question. The guy that beats me. His brother likes me and he said that if i do anything with his brother he will kill me. His brother is not like my ex he is a lot nicer and i really like him what should i do? Michy
You should go to the cops, and a very trusted adult. Secretly tell them that this guy beats you, and he has threatened to kill you- so not let him now.
They'll get ahold of him.
And don't do anything with the brother until they get this guy in jail or something.
Sorry this is long, but i rate high :)
I have liked this one guy for nearly a year. We used to date over the summer, but then some stuff got messed up and we broke up. Well he managed to get over me but i never got over him. Recently he and I have gotten really close (somewhat) and we talk all the time. He has been throwing hints he likes me. And apparently he told a friend of mine he likes me. Well, on thursday he and 2 of my other friends (one guy on girl) went to hang out at his house. They got bored and found an unfinished house. Well, the guy i like and my really good friend (who knew i was head over heals for him) went into the house and made out...Yesterday we went to a new years party and the girl told another one of my friends about it. Who in turn told me. Now my friend (the girl) likes him and asumes he likes her as well. Both of the people who made out have yet to confront me about it. Im so devistated right now and i feel like having a break down...Please tell me what to do because im so frustrated...Thanks.
(Please please please dont delete this!)
Confront the you're 'friend' that made out with the guy you like.
If she denies it, tell her you know. And ask her why she did it.
She probably doesn't have a good excuse and it was just spur of the moment. Which is mean, considering she knew you liked him.
Then, I'd confront the guy. Ask him if he likes you. Say you thought he was throwing hints, and if he was- why'd he make out with your friend?
It could just be he thought you didn't like him back, and your friend isn't a very good friend- so she grabbed him while he was sad.
Nobody really knows but them, so confront them.