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Did i just waste an entire year???
Sorry this is long, but i rate high :)
I have liked this one guy for nearly a year. We used to date over the summer, but then some stuff got messed up and we broke up. Well he managed to get over me but i never got over him. Recently he and I have gotten really close (somewhat) and we talk all the time. He has been throwing hints he likes me. And apparently he told a friend of mine he likes me. Well, on thursday he and 2 of my other friends (one guy on girl) went to hang out at his house. They got bored and found an unfinished house. Well, the guy i like and my really good friend (who knew i was head over heals for him) went into the house and made out...Yesterday we went to a new years party and the girl told another one of my friends about it. Who in turn told me. Now my friend (the girl) likes him and asumes he likes her as well. Both of the people who made out have yet to confront me about it. Im so devistated right now and i feel like having a break down...Please tell me what to do because im so frustrated...Thanks.
(Please please please dont delete this!)
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You need to just ask him what his deal is. See if he's leading you on, or if he's really liking you. Well, your "good friend" obviously isn't very "good" if she knew you were head over heels and still went off and did that. Maybe asking her why she did that? Seeing if maybe he offered or something, always get both sides of the story. Hang in there.
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Confront the you're 'friend' that made out with the guy you like.
If she denies it, tell her you know. And ask her why she did it.
She probably doesn't have a good excuse and it was just spur of the moment. Which is mean, considering she knew you liked him.
Then, I'd confront the guy. Ask him if he likes you. Say you thought he was throwing hints, and if he was- why'd he make out with your friend?
It could just be he thought you didn't like him back, and your friend isn't a very good friend- so she grabbed him while he was sad.
Nobody really knows but them, so confront them.
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well its sounds like this girl isn't a very good friend! does he know you like him? maybe thats the problem! so try to show him you are interested and if he is too- things will work them self out for you! but if not move on, and as for the girl- i think that was really mean!
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Oh my gosh. Wow. I think maybe you should confront the 2 people because that is wrong. If she knew you liked him or whatever, it would mean to back off wouldn't it??? What she did would totally mess up the friendship. Anyways, I suggest talking to them both at the same time,and see what happens. If you need more help, note me, or IM me on my AIM.
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Wow, guys are so stupid. Try talking to him about whether it's face to face, IM, email, or a note. Also, your really good friend made out with him when she knew you liked him? How rude! Haha, I don't know, try making better friends, because I don't think friends should do that to each other. Maybe try talking to them about it if you still like them. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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thats so rude!! what a weenie, well confront him about it and her, and talk to him about it and see whats up with this dude, cuz thats not right to say something then go make out with some other girl! ughh! guys.. .blah! anyways, talk to hima bout it! x0 Renee
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Omg thats horrible!! You NEED to talk to the guy about it, and ask him why he did it, and if he likes your friend. You also need to talk to your friend. Don't be afraid to cry either, love is always devastating at least once. If your guy has been dropping hints, and then runs off with your friend, move on, no decent guy would ever treat someone that way. Check back with me for that=)Good luck!
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well the truth is that you arent going out with him now so he could do what he wants..i know how bad it hurts but you should move on...theres someone out there probably looking for you..you guys arent meant to be..a guy shouldnt do that to someone when they know they like them
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wow thats gotta be stresfull well insted of them confronting you, you confront them just be like look i have been hearing that you made out wit what ever his name is and be like im not mad but im a little dissapointed because you know i still had a thing for him(say that to ur friend thats a girl)you might wanna do them sepertaly and to say to the guy.ask him about the stuff you have been hearing that he still likes you and if he dose why did he go and make out with your friend.If your still having trubble with them feel free to im me or add somthing to my column i will be happy to help more
-*Tori
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