Hey everyone,
My name is Kelsey and I am so glad you are reading my bio. This means you're interested in my advice. I am a straight A student and I enjoy reading, writing, playing soccer, excercising, hanging with my friends, and helping people with their problems, which is where you come in. I am on the newspaper committee and I plan to join it's academic. I hope to play tennis this spring. I am very friendly and fun to be with. I hope you enjoy my advice and ask me more questions dealing with your problems. I promise to respond ASAP. L8r
E-mail: kpearson91@yahoo.com
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i want a bra that doesnt give me any padding, but i dont want a sports bra. wut kind should i get?
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In a society of push up plastic, it is nearly impossible to find a bra without padding that still forms to your figure, unlike a sports bra. There really is no answer to your question other than to search around. You will not find what you're looking for easily, trust me I've looked but you can with some patience and the nice thing about bras is once you find some, you're good for quite awhile.
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Is there anything that i can eat every day to loose weight?
I tried the cereal thing, but it doesnt work at all!
Please help!
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Unfortunately, I must say that there is no food that will achieve the goal you want. If there was, everybody would be using it, including me. I know you're going to hate to hear this, but the only real way to lose weight is the old fashioned way, diet and excercise. Let me explain what this "really" means though because so many girls have it construed anymore. By diet you need to not cut back on food but rather make better choices. Also, water is key to weight loss. Try drinking a glass of water before each meal and you will eat considerably less and feel fuller faster. Also, drink at least 8 8-ounce glasses a day because most "hunger" is really a symptom of not having the daily amount of water. As for excercise, start small. Test yourself to find your ability (# of sit-ups, time to run a mile, etc). Then make a work-out based off that information, and test yourself every so often to see your progress. Again, don't workout like a crazy person because you won't stick to it and in the long run, you achieve nothing. Hope this helps. Good Luck! :)
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im 15/f and ive read some of your advice and i can tell that youre good at helping people. i have a problem theres this guy that i know that has been my friend since we met last year and he listens to my problems really well. ive always thought of him as a friend until just recently when i started to like him more than a friend but i dont think hes interested in me hes never had a girlfriend and is more the "just friends" type. what should i do? (link)
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First off I'll say that I hope when you say "just friends" type you aren't referring to a guy who avoids relationships because of committment and rather screws around with everyone. If he is, DO NOT go for him. It will only end up in pain. If you aren't sure what I mean, ask yourself this. Would this guy feel up a girl or totally lead her on and then do the next thing to another girl the following day? If not, continue reading. I actually have had a friend go through the exact situation you are going through right now. First you must consider the consequences. If you admit your feelings, you risk losing what you describe to be a strong friendship. He could however admit the feeling is mutual and then you both live happily ever after. Unfortunately, this is not always the case. If you don't admit your feelings, then you avoid losing your friendship and feeling embarassed if he turns you down. At the same time, you risk taking it to the next level if he were to like you. I would suggest that if you value him greatly as a friend, do not make the move. Afterall, guys do have the tradition of making moves when necessary so make him make the move. If you really feel, however, that you would rather risk it to allow the possibility of you two hooking up, then go for him. As I said, it depends on your friendship. Good Luck and hope this helps! :) Feel free to ask for further advice if you feel I didn't totally answer your problem.
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Who do you think will win the world cup draw? any predictionas at all, about who will lose, get close to winning ? or just anything? (link)
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Honestly I have to say I have no idea. I know you're gonna flip when I say this but I don't watch the world cup and I don't even know whose playing. Pathetic? I'm sure. Sry that I can't help. Good luck with your predictions.
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i just ruined my friendship with a girl i know because she found out something i said...i mean, she still is my friend but she knows something i said that i didn't want her to. she pretty much knows i said it but not for sure...what do i do to make it up to her even though she is not mad i still want to do something nice
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I think it's great that you want to make up your end, even though you say your friend doesn't seem too mad at you. If I was you, I'd invite her out somewhere where yall can just hang and have fun like the movies or bowling or even shopping. Then, while yall are out, I would tell her that your sorry for whatever you said and just move on together. She'll probably be happy that you not only apologized, but tried to make it up by showing her a good time. I hope everything works out. Good luck:)
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hi everyone its me kate! im back! and i need your help! so nikk (u should rm him if you read my last question) is telling me how he feels everyday and its wonderful but a lost love is coming back into my life. chris. he was my first true love and then he and i split up and i told him i never wanted to talk to him again and just recently i realized how i told him everything and ever since i stopped talking to him i became depressed so i told him i wanted to be friends again but now im having feelings for him again. and he keeps telling me how much he missed my beautiful voice and all that jazz. i dont know what to do because all ive ever wanted is him and now im getting him back but i dont want to break nikks heart. what should i do? someone help me im starving for answers!
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I didn't read your question you asked previously, but I still see where this is going, and I can totally relate. The solution is simple, but the process is not. I'm not going to lie to you, it's going to hurt nikk. You can't change that, but you can change how much it hurts him. The longer you try to pretend you no longer have feelings for Chris and hang with nikk, the harder it will be in the end for both you can nikk. I suggest telling nikk asap (as long as your sure you still like chris) and just say hey, I can't change the way I feel and I just am not feeling it anymore. I understand it's my fault, and I'm sorry, but we can still be friends because I like you. He's not going to be happy, but if you waste time denying yourself chris and you really like him, you're going to want him and want him till you have him, so you might as well get him soon. The only other solution would be to tell Chirs you have a bf and separate yourself from him. You have to decide Chris or Nikk, and then go from there by either letting nikk loose, or pulling him close and letting chris loose. Hope this helps and good luck :)
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I'm 15/f. I just moved states & I miss my friends a lot! The problem is, I feel really left out. I talk to my one of my best friends two times a week. The problem is, she'll never tell me her secrets. We were like the "quad" I had 3 best friends, and we'd tell each other everything. Now it's just them three. I don't know what to do. Does anyone have any advice? They never tell me anything. (link)
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Everyone loves to hear a sure fire "fix" to their problems, and even if there isn't one people will try to juice up some sorry idea so the person recieving the advice will go off, try the idea, and find out it didn't work. Well, I'm not one of those people, and of course, as you are aware, you could talk to them and tell them what you just told me, but the truth is something I just recently found out. Life goes on, people move on, and long distant relationships aren't the same at all. I don't mean to burst your bubble, I mean yall can and should still be friends, but they're probably not going to tell you everything and be the same friends you were best friends with. Throughout your life, you meet people and then separate, meet people and then separate. This is why you need to be able to work on meeting new people to hang out with. Again, don't forget your old friends, but you can't hope that they're not gonna move on, because moving on is natural. I understand this is hard to take, but this time next year you'll be fine. Just make new friends, meet new people, and find happiness with the people you're now around. Hope this helps and good luck :)
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I am 13 year old boy in the 7th grade and I met this incredible girl over the summer. I had asked her out, but she wasn't allowed to date, yet I got her phone number. I still wasn't sure if she liked me as I liked her. Because as school came around I felt closer to her.I asked her out again during school, yet she still couldn't date!!!!!!! We have our last period together and we sit next to each other. Neither of us are very social at that time. I don't know if she feels the way I feel because I can feel this in no crush... I am in love with her. I need advice on when to ask, her where to ask her, what to ask her to, and if she can go how should I dress and what should I bring. (link)
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First of all, not to burst your bubble, but can she date? You might want to worry about that first before you ask her out. If she can, then I think you need to tell her a lot what you told me. Maybe send her a poem and do the anonymous thing if you're too afraid to be revealed right away. I'm a girl myself, and girls love a guy with a sensitive side who really cares about them. If you do ask her out, ask her during that period yall have together but make sure no ones around to sway the answer. If you're too afraid to ask her face to face, then call her. Considering you're only in 7th grade, I'd say ask her to dinner and a movie or just one. If she can go, wear something nice but casual. Trust me, she's not going to be too dressed up so it'll be awkward if you are. Also, this girl is really lucky to have a sweet guy like you so into her, and you're right, I think this may be your first love. Good luck and hope it goes well. I'd be interested to see how it turned out. :)
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ive been in love with my boyfriend and hes in love with me for about a year now. but now were starting to fall apart, over the summer we used to hang out everyday now we hang out like once a month. and hes the kinda guy that flirts with alot of girls, but i trust him. yesterday i told him i was mad at him (because i was infront of him talking to him nd he was ingoureing me and ran to another girl) and he was like i dont care. that hurt alot... then today i was asking him why he said this and he was laughing about an inside joke. then he came online, and this was ower convo.
HIM: do you think its time time for a change?
ME: what do you mean...? 'change' of what
HIMME: no tell me
HIM: nvm
ME:k
ME: well your really acting like ur gonna break up with me... just get it over with if you r gonna.
HIM: jump to conclusions muchh?
ME: umm... well your acting like your gonna
HIM>: how does somone act like there gunna break up with somone
ME: they act like they dont like them....
hIM: well
>HIM>: do you wanna break up?
HIM: or take a brkeakk
ME: if i wanted to break up.. i would of broken up with you already....
HIM: o
ME: whatever
HIM: k?
ME: if your gonna break up with me then just do it now cuz im leaving soon...
HIM: fine
ME: fine what..?
HIM: uhh i dont no
then i signed off. but i dont no if i should break up with him, i love him to death and i really dont wanna break up with him. but it seems like were falling apart.=( should i? or no?
--confused.
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I know this is hard to do, but it's time to let him go. You are absolutely right when you say the relationship is falling apart and from what I just read, it shows little to no hope of ever recouperating. The sooner you dump him, the sooner you can get over him and move on to someone who you deserve. Also, a word of advice, don't date guys who flirt with all the girls no matter how much you trust them. Flirting is showing his interest in someone else so how can you sit back and know your boyfriend is fooling around with someone else. Never let a guy do that to you. If you aren't his one an only, kick him to the curb. Again, I understand this isn't going to be easy, but getting him out of your life is the best thing for you. You need to find someone who deserves you cause I can sure say he does not. Good luck and hope this helps :)
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hey, i'm a sophomore in high school and i attend an all girls school. I've been at this school since freshman year and it's a really great school. It's great academically and the activities are great, but their's one problem.. and that's the social aspect. I've been thinking about transferring because I really don't fit in at school at all. I am in honors classes and i take an AP class and i've been in class with basically the same girls and i don't fit in with them at all. They are so different from me and i've given them a chance and it doesn't work. I've talked to a lot of people that aren't in my classes that i'm in theatre with, but it isn't working for me. THeirs another school in my area thats a boy/girl school that i coudl transfer to. i don't know if maybe that would be a better option, i could start over and make new freinds .. i just don't know if its worth risking my good academic standings at my current school and the awesome extracurriculars. does anybody have any advice?? i seriously dont know what to do anymore i've been crying all week. it really sucks and it just wears on me not having any friends at school. please please please help... and let me know what you would do in my situations. thanks. any advice is appreciated-- all advice will be rated a 5. (link)
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I totally can relate to your issue. I attend a Science and Technology school far away from my house and it's brand new and has great academics and extracurriculars as well. I too am not fitting in as well as I'd like and many times, including today, I just want to quit and go to my zoned school. The reason I don't, and the reason you shouldn't, it remember, you pay now or you pay later. This school you are attending now will get you into a much better college, resulting in a much better job. Also, you don't know for sure you'd even fit in at the other school either. To make some new friends, I would suggest joining something outside of school. Something like a sports team or like a youth group would be good. Other kids with your interests will be there and chances are, they'll be more your taste. I just wouldn't pass up the education you're recieving now, because before too long, high school is gonna be over and no one seems to realize that the future holds promise, even if you have to tough it out for awhile in school. Again, if friendships for a year or two matter more to you than the rest of your life, go ahead and transfer, but if you pay now, the REST of your life will benefit. Good luck and hope this helps :)
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I movewd to my town about a year and one half ago...the first year was pretty cool..always having fun.The summer of that year,i never saw any of my new friends...and the following beginngingyear (this year..) almost all my friends turned on me..andnot many people like me..im quiet when you dont really know me..im small and un-noticable..its like the people on this team dont care about me now,all of them are mean they pretend to be nice..my friend(i tihnk..) told me that some people dont like me cause she asked and she was sorry about it..im so sad that things turned out this way,most of the time i just get my work done and leave people alone..because im not sure whos real or not..i hang out with my other friends sometimes (from the town i lived in befor) and im really really sad..i just want to move back..but now that i've changed and im so quiet how will i be like there now? and my real question is,How can i tell if a friend is true,or just pretending to like me? (link)
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I totally understand what you mean about the whole "who's real, who's not" deal. All I can simply say is that most females are lying, manipulative, mean, people. You and I are exceptions and that's why we find issues with friends. We aren't fake so we don't just play along with the "I hate her, she hates her, she hates me" etc. There really is no way to tell whether someone is real unless they just seem different. My advice is to do what I do, make a bunch of guy friends because guys are never fake. They're straight forward and I can see that's what you are searching for. I understand how you feel about wanting to move back, but you need to realize that in life you can't always "move back". Just remeber one day, they're all going to be nothing and it's gonna kill them because that's the only thing they have going for them. You on the other hand seem to have the power to go places in life, and high school and middle school are only important know. Sooner than later, you're going to be doing your thing while these "friends" are bumming society and feeling worthless. Things will get better. You gotta work with time. Also, as for your dream. Don't try to be something just to say "Ha, look at me now". Be something you have a passion for and if you pursue it, you will be known. It doesn't have to be something as rare as wanting to be a singer, but could be something like I want to be which is a neurosurgeon. One day, I will be known if I am a good surgeon and I could even find cures or come up with new surgical techniques and be found regularly on the television. So, I give you no tips on getting famous because that is simply who you know. It's also not the life you'd imagine and you'd probably end up miserable. So, try meeting new people and not just guys but maybe girls who are interested in the same things you are. Also, remeber that "obstacles {the friend issue} are the scary things you see when you take your eyes off your goal or destination". Maybe you'll have to wade it out alone now, but everyone has their "time in the spotlight" and yours is bound to happen sometime. Good Luck and hope this helps :)
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My friend and I like the same guy and she made out with him in front of em so I was kind of mad but I got over it because I went and talked to her ex boyfriend.He got all mad at her because he said that was wrong of her to do that to me.But I told him I was over it and he is still mad and now she cant figure out why.Any advice on how she can talk to him with out getting him even madder.Ill rate high (link)
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Chances are, he's not only mad because what she did to you, but what she did to him. Remeber, he used to be her boyfriend so it's kinda a stab in the back to know she's making out with some other guy. Also, why do you care if he's mad at her? She tried to take this guy right in front of you, with yalls relationship on the line. She selfishly put herself first and left you in the dust. Don't worry about her problems, she deserves them. She should be on her knees that you aren't the mad one because if I was in your shoes, I wouldn't have gotten over it. Girls are not supposed to mess with guys their friends like. What ever happened to that rule recently is beyond me, but personally I think you should talk to her about that and worry about this guy later. Hope this helps and good luck :)
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well on monday this guy told my friend that he liked me. i really really like him to. my face lights up and it just makes my day when he calls. sometimes i wait up all night for him to call, but when he does its totally worth it. anyways, tuesday after school i was talking to my friend paul. I told him that I like ryan. Its kind of a secret, but I think ryan already knows. So on the phone yesterday ryan really wanted to know what the secret was. I said to guess. He guessed that i liked him. Well that is the secret, but I was really stupid and said that it wasn't the secret. I really want to tell him because then mabye he will ask me out. I dont know if I should thought because it might make things akward. Do you think it will? should I tell him? (link)
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I definately think you should tell him because if he wasn't interested, not only would he avoid you, but he'd never guess if your big secret was a crush on himself because that's bringing on more in yalls developing relationship. Just casually say something like, 'I kinda lie about that secret' and then when he goes 'y, you like me?' say something flirty like 'maybe' and give him the eye and smile. He'll know and he'll almost surely make the move. Good luck and hope this helped. :)
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Okay i like this guy who is in one of my classes and i like him alot but i dont know what to say to him since i am shy around guys i like!!!please help (i rate high) (link)
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Begin by making the step most girls forget, friendship. This way, God forbid he doesn't like you, you still get something out of it and you will wind up with a much better relationship. Just act friendly with a little casual flirt and as time goes by, up the flirt level abit. This way you not only take it slowly, but you have time to get to know him "real" well and you can be sure you like him before anything serious happens. Talk to him alot. Ask him alot about himself. Comment him on a shirt or something. Find out what he's interested and what yall have in common. Then, after awhile, if give him some stronger hints until he makes a move that says "I'm interested" or "I'm not". Good luck. Hope this helped. :)
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ok well this is going to sound weird but i have sorta a large area down below my belly button, it sticks out alot i wan't to know if there are anyways i can "slim down" please answer quickly!!!
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You can try ab excercises such as the crunch and another stretch to work on that particular area where you lie down on your back, lift your legs so your knees are bent and above your chest. Then with your hands flat on the floor above your head for support, lift you hips slowly and controlled off the floor keeping your knees still. This one should help alot and the more you do the better. Hope this works. Good Luck :)
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tomorrow is the halloween dance at my school. i dont have a costume. my friend suggested being a school girl because its hott and i have the things in my closet. good idea..except i dont even have a plaid skirt or knee socks :( and my mom can only go with me to get them if my dad comes home from work early tonite..
any other ideas that dont cost a lot AT ALL or i could maybe just get with the things in my closet. it has to be hott/sexii!! but anything too derastic. i just wanna wow them ;)
im in 7th grade & i am a girl.
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Well, you could go as an athlete and wear a cute sports outfit or you could try a retro look. Ask your mom for help in that area. Something like Madonna or someone else from the 80s, very cute and heavy on the make-up. For the athlete, you could paint your face or something like they do for games and stuff. You could try the cowgirl look with denim and a bandana. This is hard because I'm looking at my closet, and I have to wonder what you own, lol. Well, that's all I can think of but again I think the cutest would be the retro look with big hair and make-up. It you have cowboy boots, the cowgirl look it sexy too. Good luck. Hope this helped :)
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I have this friend. She has been my friend all of my life literally but lately we've been drawing apart. :( what do i do to get this relationship back togeter? (link)
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As you're realizing, life sets even the best of friends on separate paths. The best way to reverse this is to spend time together. Go to the movies, just hang out, anything to keep contact. Lack of contact is what works with time to pull relationships apart faster than you realize. Also, do little things to bring yall back together like a cute cheap "thought that counts" gift saying that you want to pull yalls relationship back together. Hope this helps and good luck :)
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this is the girl that asked u about the whole mike thing(about us hanging out and what not) but anyways i wanted to start out by saying thanks for the help..it meant a lot! but anyways i have another problem! well last night i talked to him and it went HORRIBLE! i imed him and was like this is a little weird and hes like yeah i know what you mean..so then i was like what do you mean, why do you say that? and he was like same reason as you probably, why do you? and i was like well all my feelings came back and he was like its just weird thats all (well if his answer was gonna be the same as mine and he knew that..i know..why was it totally different..doesnt make sense..dunno if he was hiding something or what) well then i asked him why he did it and he said i suck and i was like well why do you say that? and he was like cause i do i wanted you to stop me..i was like what the heck you wanted me to stop you from kissing me when you know i love you..it just didnt make sense to me..how could you seriously do that to a person? so then i was like do you like doing this to me and he was like no no no no no and i was like why do you? do you like me crying all the time? and he was like no actually i find it kind of annoying! so i was like you know what fine sorry for being annoying and sorry i came into your life ill just leave! well he ended up blocking me for like 30 minutes and took me off his friend on myspace! i know i reacted a little harsh but after him being like this for 9 months and even telling me 6 months after we broke up he loved me..it causes a lot of pain!ive told a lot of my friends i give up and im done cause i know i deserve better! but they keep saying we know he loves you, you can tell he just doesnt wanna admit to it! but no one knows but him! i told them hes not the one crying all the time but they said you dont know that..and i guess they have a point! i guess my question is what do i do from here? do you think hes playing hard to get or scared to tell me his feelings? should i give up or what? sometimes i just think it isnt worth it anymore! thanks so much (link)
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You couldn’t be more correct, he totally isn’t worth your time. Whether he likes you or not isn’t even the issue but rather the fact that he’s playing mind games with you. Playing hard to get doesn’t seem reasonable because he knows you like him and that’s only good to try to turn a girl on who doesn’t necessarily have the extremity of feelings as you do for him. He knows you want him, so if he wanted you he’d take you. Your friends are wrong and remind them when they get in a similar situation, “O, but he loves you on the inside”. Tough, if he’s too dumb to make it obvious and stop hurting you, then he’s a loser. You deserve a guy who gives back what you are giving. You want someone who’s as into you and as emotionally mature as you are. The more I read of your issue, the more I come to realize this guy may very well be trying to emotionally satisfy himself at the cost of you emotional stability. He seems like he wants “someone” and is trying to use you for satisfaction of having “someone”. Basically, you just need to move on and find someone who makes you happy, not sad. Believe me, any relationship worth being involved in should show you much more happiness than sadness. Hope this helps and good luck. :) And again, email me whenever issues arise, I enjoy giving advice.
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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much (link)
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At first when reading your question, I was sent back to the days of my x, Drew. It's really nice when there's a guy who wants to "cuddle" with you because it creates a very caring feeling. Until the very end I was all for you going back with him, but it does sure seem like he's avoiding you. I can't imagine that he's afraid because he seemed very bold that night yall spent in his truck. If I was you, I'd let him go because any guy who leads you on like that and then leaves you hanging is totally not worth your time. Plus, chances are if he's your first love, he's not gonna be the last one so go out there and find someone better. It may not happen right away, but when it does, the wait will have seemed totally worth it. If you still can't move on, talk to him and tell him what you just told me. Then, he may have some explanation, but I'd just advise you to move on, and I know it's not that easy, but the sooner you start moving on, the quicker you will "move on". Hope this helps and email me back if you stil need advice. :)
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I CANT TAKE IT. My grandma is such a neat freak and when i set something down in one room and go to another, next thing know the things got moved and I hate it when my stuff gets moved. Oh. and another thing is shes bitching all the time.
She babysits this one kid named jordy and it seems like she likes him better. What should I do? (link)
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You need to politely talk to your grandmother about the issue. I get a feel yuu aren't crazy about her and I'm sure if I can sense that through a paragraph of your words, I'm sure she can tell while living with you. This probably explains the reason she seems to favor this Jordy kid. Maybe he likes her. You need to respect your grandmother and be thankful she's still around. Both my grandmothers have been dead for years now and I sure wish they were still here. Like I said, try to talk to her and work with her, not against her. Hope this helps :)
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