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Hey.
I'm 15/f. I just moved states & I miss my friends a lot! The problem is, I feel really left out. I talk to my one of my best friends two times a week. The problem is, she'll never tell me her secrets. We were like the "quad" I had 3 best friends, and we'd tell each other everything. Now it's just them three. I don't know what to do. Does anyone have any advice? They never tell me anything.
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Show them that they can trust you. Its not like you are going to tell them. Tell them one of your secrets if you have a secret that you just want them to know they may tell you something in return. If you show them that you can keep their secrets even though you are not close by they will tell you everything.
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well, i don't know if i can so much help you it's just that the reson she won't tell her secrets is maybe because she does not know you well enough for her to know you can be trusted, its hard sometimes for people to open up , she might have been through alot and just keeps everything bottled up, but try to find a way for her to tell you these things, it hurts sometimes not being able to tlk to any 1 about things
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Everyone loves to hear a sure fire "fix" to their problems, and even if there isn't one people will try to juice up some sorry idea so the person recieving the advice will go off, try the idea, and find out it didn't work. Well, I'm not one of those people, and of course, as you are aware, you could talk to them and tell them what you just told me, but the truth is something I just recently found out. Life goes on, people move on, and long distant relationships aren't the same at all. I don't mean to burst your bubble, I mean yall can and should still be friends, but they're probably not going to tell you everything and be the same friends you were best friends with. Throughout your life, you meet people and then separate, meet people and then separate. This is why you need to be able to work on meeting new people to hang out with. Again, don't forget your old friends, but you can't hope that they're not gonna move on, because moving on is natural. I understand this is hard to take, but this time next year you'll be fine. Just make new friends, meet new people, and find happiness with the people you're now around. Hope this helps and good luck :)
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