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Fight with my brother
My brother and I are both 17 and I'm a girl. Yes, we're twins.
A few days ago he asked my dad to buy him something for his car. I don't know what it's called but it doesn't really matter.
Well, I was standing right there when he was asking him and I told my dad not to get it for him because he had one before and it annoyed EVERYONE in my family. Specially me. And I was the reason he had to get rid of it before. We don't share a car or anything it just really annoyed me.
So, of course my dad said no. My brother then went to my mom to try to convince her. He did a great job with that and now she is on his side. But, she couldn't convince my dad.
After a while of bugging my dad about it, my dad gave in and said that if I said yes then he could get it. I thought about it for a while and said no. My brother then told me that he'd give me 50 bucks if I said yes. I thought about it some more and told him that I would say yes if he gave me 100 dollars. With a little bit of arguing we agreed that if he gave me 75 dollars I'd say yes.
And that is EXACTLY what we said--75 bucks IF I SAID YES.
So, I told my dad that I'd be okay if he got the part thing for him. He asked why and I told him about the 75 dollars.
With that, my dad and brother went to the car store (or whatever it's called) to get the part. They didn't find it. They then went to another place and still were not able to get it. After that my dad was tried so they came home.
When they got home I asked where it was and my brother said that everyone they went to was out. He then asked for his money back and I said no. The deal was that if I said yes then I'd get the money. How was I supposed to know they wouldn't have the part?
Well, we got into a big argument and then my dad told me to just give him his money back. I was really mad but I gave it back anyways. My dad then told my brother that since he did that to me, he couldn't get the thing for his car.
Now my brother is mad at me because he says it's my fault (okay dickhead, you're the one that went back on your word).
He's acting like the biggest baby and it's really annoying! How can i get him to just shut the hell up and get over himself?
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I belive you have the words already. Fuck being nice.
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The best thing to do for him is help him find the part. The sooner you find the part he will leave you alone and you get the money back again. Offer to help him and he wont bug you or blame you.
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well it sounds like you guys are usually pretty close. here is what you do.completly egnore him. he may not core for the first or second day, but he will come and be that you stop eventually. hope it works!
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the best thing you can do is ignore him-i know it would be hard but eventually he will get tired of hearing himself and also will be cooled down enough and when he is ready to talk civil then talk--you know with the holidays and stuff the siblings always seem to lighten up--thats how it was with my sister and 2 step borthers--give it itme it will go away good luck
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Wow, your brother seems a little spoiled. He sees that it bothers you and he will keep arguing with you and making you mad. The only thing and the best thing you should do it ignore him ! Just tell him to shut the fu*k up and get over himself. When he trys to say something just walk away or don't say anything. That will bother him even more and he will just stop.
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