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hi my name is sarah. some say im good at giving advise, but i think that it an opinionated thing. if you have any qeustions at all, about anything, feel free to ask me. i cant promise that i can give you the right answer, but i will try my best! you can also im me on aim anytime that i am on..my sn is DrkLilScrt.

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ok i am doing my myspace all over where do i put a layout in what section and what are some websites with good myspace layouts.

im not sure where you can get some good layouts because i make my own but you out it in the 'about me' section.. hope that helped

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alright, i dno if this is allowed, but when i have sex, the guys penis doesnt always go into me where its supposed to go into easily. It always takes quite a while, and it really bothers me, because i love sex, and it takes up more energy trying to do that than anything else. please help w. any ideas and i rate 5`s all the way unless its a smart ass answer

ok, theres nuthin rong with u , ur jus prolly tight or not wet. maybe you should try lube. it could also be because hes too big. but neway, theres nuthin rong with u. hope that helped. 8)

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Hello
i really need an answer by wednesday night becuase i am very scared. im 15/F and i am going to the gyno for the first time and i am not a virgin anymore and i was just owndering if when they ask do i have to tell them and if i tell them will they tell my mom or can i ask the doctor to not tell my mom. or can i jsut say i use tampons? im reaslly scared becuase i do not want my mom to know! PLease help me..i rate high!
thanks

jus tell your dovtor that ur not a virgin but you want to tell your mom in your own time. hope that helped. 8)

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ok so i shaved "down there" the whole thing but after words i got this really itches rash and it hurts so bad i dont understand what i did wrong. i used conditioner to make it softer and after words i put lotion on it
..do you think it could be from the lotion??


ill rate high.
thanks

no its prolly jus razor burn. nothin to worry about. 8)

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Ok so this guy started to like me but i didnt like him...he started to like me the very first day we met and then the second day i started to like him he found out by my friend!!! And well he asked me out and i said yes!!! Do you think i should have waited or did i do the right thing?
Thanks in help!!!

you did the right thing. he likes u an u like him... thatas all that matters. just hope that evryhting works out! 8)

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my best friends boyfriend likes me what should i do ?

jus tell him ur not interested, if he still like you after a while, then you should prolly go an tell your freind. she might not like what shes hearing but it will help her out in the long run. hope that helped an i hope evrything works out ok!! 8)

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Here is my problem my dad and I are kind of a like but that isn't always a good thing. We are always arguing about some thing or another. We try to be nice to each other but that doesn't last long. Does anyone else have this kind of problem with your parents? If so what is your advice.

i've always had problems. when me and my dad used to argue a lot, i'd finally get to the point to where i wouldn't argue back. he seemed to like it better that way. if you just stand there and agree or if you must disagree do it very politley in a very calm voice he will begin to understand that your tired of it. arguing that is. well, thats what worked with me and my dad. i hope i was of some help and that everything works out for the best!! 8)

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ok so i liked this guy and now im over him and when we get back from thanksgiving break i intend to make that clear so he doesnt have to worry im not quite sure what im gonna say tho do yall have any ideas? i dont wanna sound mean but i want to sound like im not kidding...thanks!

just go up to him and tell him straight up, "look, your kool and all as friend but i dont feel the same way that i used to feel about you. i did like you in a way more than friends but i don't any more. sorry it was so random but it was just a thought that crosed my mind!" just say something to that effect. hope that helped and i hope everything works out!! 8)

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is it a sin to kiss before marriage if your a christian?

no its not a sin kiss before marriage if your a christian. im a christian and i've kissed plenty of guys, ((im not married)) and God hasnt striken me down yet!!

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this guy that i went out with for like 3 months and then we broke ...recently keeps talking to me and asking if i wanna hang out.
but i dont like him anymore and i dont wanna talk to him and shit like that but he keeps talking to me and trying to get back together.
i know this is mean but i dont think hes attractive and now since i go to a new school things changed and i dont want him in my life. and i already have a bf and he still wont leave me alone...he callls me , txt me, and even stalk me around malls
what should i do?

jus tell him straight up, look i dont want anything to do with you. ive moved on in my life, and so should you. jus tell him to grow and get a life. if he continue to stalk you and what-not then maybe you should go to the police. i hope that helped an i hope everything work out!! 8)

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i,ve been with my girl friend for5 month.
until now she,s not quite ready 4 serious sexual relation just fleutring
what to do??

if you love her((or like her a lot)), youll stay with her and still wait a while untill she really knows that shes ready. if she still wants to have sex after a while, then go for it. but be safe and use a condaom! 8)

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I'm getting a 6week old basset hound on thrusday and I'm not sure what i want to name it. I was thinking of Mya. any one got any unique names for it. Its a girl

mya is a really cute namebut some more cut names are shaina, bailey, sadey, kiki, an skittles is cute too. hope that helped..have fun with your dog!!

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Does anyone know where I can buy scarves? Rate 5's.

J C Penny has some really soft ones...and theres hats and glove to match lol much

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okay well my best friend is turning into a big pain. she always says that she's better than me and makes me feel bad and everything. she drinks a lot and has sex and everything she shouldn't be at 15. she always talks about sex and she says im a stink at parties, but she's never been to a party with me. she thinks that im stuck up because im still a virgin. what should i do? please answer. 5's for those serious people

first of all, if she is saying all of this stuff to you and about you, shes not your best freind!! second, its a good thing that your still a virgin and dont drink. dont let anyone tell you different. the only advice i can give you is to sit her down and talk to her. tell her how you feel about how shes acting towards you and what shes doing to herself. i hope that helped and i hope everything works out. 8)

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My boyfriends(mike) best friend(Eric) who I am also pretty good friends with told me that Mike told him that he wanted to break up with me and that he regrets giving me a second chance.


He broke up with me a few months ago for reasons I wont say but we got back together. Now, we've been getting in all of these little annoying fights so I guess that would be his reason for saying that stuff to Eric.


But, when I asked Mike about what Eric said he said, he swore on his life that he never said such things.


So know I don't know who to believe. I totally trust my boyfriend so I think I'm leaning towards him. But then again, what reasons would Eric have to lie to me?


I know this isn't a lot of information because you guys obviously don't know me of the 2 guys but who would you believe?

18/f

eric might lie to you because maybe he likes you. if he does like you, he could've told you that to make you brake up with mike so that he could maybe have a chance. i dont know, if i was in that position i would sit them down together and talk to them at the same time but then again i always put my freinds before my boyfreinds. well, sorry i couldnt be that much of a help. i hope it helped a lttle and i hope everything works out. 8~)

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okay im 16/f.
i was in 2 bad car accidents and my leg is paralyzed along with all the other bad injuries. my leg is just "dead" it impairs me. my doctor says i should have it amputated, but i don't know if i can make that descision. can you please help me?

that is a descicion that no one can make for you. its your body so you have to choose what you think is right or good for it. i think that you should just follow your heart on this one because thats really all you can do. i hope everything works out ok. much

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I have a really bad reputation for being mean. I can be, but I'm not constantly.

How can I get people to see me differently over a period of time?

be nice to everyone around you at all times. even if you dont like soeone, be nice to them. do nice things for people just to do them. after a while, people will realize that your not as mean as they thought! good luck

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Im ashley & im a 15/f & theres this guy i think hes amazingly cute & i dunno how to approach him, and im scared of rejection .. like im not the BEST looking girl .. but i wanna get the courage up to talk to him .. what are some conversation starters !? kk thx.

ii rate hiigh !

jus go up to him an tell him ur name. talk to him for a while, get to kno him a lil bit. its not so hard. once u get the courage to say even just a few words to him, ull be able to find something to talk about. trust me. good luck an i hope that helped. :)

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I really like this kid and i don't really know him that well but my friends have told him that i like him and stuff so he knows i have his screen name and everything but im too shy to talk to him about liking him or anyhtingg help

i rate 5's !!

dont be shy, just im him and be like hey and tell him who you are. dont rush into nething like omg i like you and wut-not, just casually talk to him for while and then bring up questiond like 'who do you like' and 'well just out of curiosity would you ever go out with me'. if he says yes, that means he likes u. then u wont have to feel so shy around him anymore. just be yourself, and even if he doesnt like you, dont sweat it, at least you'll still be freinds. hope that helped.

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okay.. I love the song "somewhere in between" by Lifehouse, and I want to put that video in my myspace but there is no video for it... so I was wondering if there was any way I could at least get the song for it so it will play on my myspace. Like are there any websites for that?

thanks.
ill rate.

try going to www.musicvideocodes.com and that should give you songs, im not sure if that song is on there or not but it doesnt hurt to try xoxo much

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