HI!!! MY NAMES RAUSHELLE AND I LIVE IN TEXAS... god im such a loser... WELL IM A LOSER WHO CAN ANSWER YOUR PROBLEMS.... putting my talents to use.
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Location: Texas
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I cut myself. I've been cutting for about half a year. I've never had a problem hiding it or anything. Just recently I've been trying to stop. I know its bad. My problem is that I have P.E. starting 2nd semester (in January) and I don't know how to hide the scars (I'm going to have it 2nd period if it helps). My parents don't know, and I don't want them to know either. We have to wear uniforms so I don't know how I'm gonna pull this off. Also, bracelets and jewelry aren't allowed. Any ideas? Thank you. (link)
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Im sorry I don't know what you could do.... but I just had to say that most you people are wrong. She probably does not want to die early. People who cut themselves DO NOT cut themselves to die.... If you don't do it don't say shit.
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I'm 15 year old girl. I dunno what I want anymore. I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 and a half months 2 weeks ago. And I cried 3 days afterwards. And my mom kept telling me that if I was so upset and depressed.. I should go call him and get him back.. Then I was talking to my best friend and she said she did that too when she broke up with her boyfriend.. But the thing is.. EVERYONE hates him. They think he's annoying. Sure, he says he's sorry way to much.. and repeats himself a billion times.. But when I was with him.. and no one else.. I was happy.. So happy.. :sighs: And then whenever we were at a party or something. We'd drift away and I'd go with my friends and him with his.. But then sometimes we'd see each other, exchange some "I love you"'s and stuff and we'd be set for another hour or 3.. Then there were times when I was kinda embarassed to be around him.. I'm more shy and timid but he's so loud and random.. I mean.. I'm random too.. When I'm hyper, but it's different somehow. And I saw him for the first time yesterday and I wanted to jump on him and cling to him or something. XD Because I miss him.. A lot. I don't wanna change him but I just want everyone to like him.. And it's so hard when your best friend and everyone else hates him.. What do I do. I'm so confused and whenever I talk to anyone about it.. They all hate him so it's like.. why bother.. ;.; (link)
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By the sounds of it you both werent exactly ready for the relationship, or maybe your heart wasnt in it the whole time. And who cares if everyone hates him. Its what you think that matters. They obviously dont know him as well as you do and shouldnt judge him before they do. And I think that the fact that you guys wouldnt be together at partys and such says a lot .... and if you were embaressed to be around him you shouldnt have been going out. Maybe you should talk to him about his annoying habits... You obviously want him back but you cant expect him to change just so you can go back to a meaningless relationship. But if they really were your friends they would see how happy you are when your around him and wouldnt say those things to you.... This is a hard situation but MY opinon is that you shouldnt go back with him because if your friends opinons mean more to you then his feelings, and being around him, then its best if you take some time away from each other.
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ok i went out with this kid but it turned out that it didnt work out so i brook up with him. but the very same day the kid i have liked 4 a long time asked me out. so now im going out with him(but its not like i planned to dump one guy and get asked out by the other it just happened that the day me and one guy break up another one asked me out) so ne way. now the kid that liked and still likes me is calling me a ho and a whore and he is getting all his friends to call me that 2. thay r like y do u give bj to every guy u see and stuff like dat. BUT i dont! hoiw can i stop this i already told them its now true and that i would really like it if they stopped but they still do it. and school is starting and i already have a reputation. and i also told the kid that we could still be friends but he is still sayin shit bout me! plz give me some advice on what i can do. I RATE U REALLY GOOD! (link)
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Just ignore him. Hes trying to get a reaction out of you. But if you ignore him then things might change they might not. But after awhile he'll give up. And if not something else is gonna come and theyll forget about whatever they THOUGHT you did. There imature and chances are no one will believe them anyway cause most people will have the sense to know that hes just jealous and needs to get over you and do it fast cause hes being a bastard. Next time either tell them off, yell at them, or ignore them. There jealous. And hes just mad cause he aint gettin any.....
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okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do? (link)
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One side of me says try it just cause who knows? You know? But the other is like no you shouldnt change... wow im sure thats helping you alot. But its not really like your changing to be with these people its more like your trying something new and experiencing new things but I would say dont. Because like theres lots of health risks and There still gonna like you whether you do it or not. Just dont feel preasured to do anything that you dont want.
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whats the best liguid eyeliner that comes out thin, doesnt smudge, and lasts long? (link)
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maybeline
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Can Sex keep you in shape? (link)
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Not that I know of..... WEll I guess it could if you kept at it alot.... LoL but having a lot of sex does increase your risk of STDs and Pregnancy.... I wouldnt recommend it... Try the old fashion way. Run.
Hope i helped
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hi. i dont have a boyfriend and i want one and ive never had one bc im ugly. ive been really sad lately bc i want one. i feel lonely .. what should i do?? =( (link)
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uhm just wait for the right guy... there really isnt that much to say about this.... And dont say your ugly cause guys love confidence.... Hope I helped**Raushelle
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is it bad to want you parents to get a divorce? because you dont really like your dad or something? cause i feel bad, but i kinda want them to split up :( i feel really bad... (link)
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Sadly, I want that to. But I think It's fine if like you're not doing anything to like completly sabatoge there marriage. lol. I wouldn't recomend telling your dad or w/e how you feel cause that would just be like very awkward whenever you saw him again. So yeah. Lol.
HOPE I HELPED
[[raushelle]]
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Ok..just a couple minutes ago my friend told me that she saw my boyfriend smoking with his friends. Sure I think that him smoking is a problem..but what really makes me mad is that he told me that he stopped smoking. And the other day his friend walked up to him and goes "omg dude! you were like drunk last night" and he told me that he didn't know what he was talking about. But now that my friend saw him smoking I don't know what to think. Should I believe her and just ask him about it..or what? Dang I'm so confused (link)
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I dont know how much this guy means to you. Probably alot. But if he lied to you, there maybe many things he'll lie to you about in the future.
Anyways. If he was smoking with his friends ask one of them, even though they will probably cover for him. But you could go through his things ( I know it sounds horrible) and see if you find anything.
This same thing happened to one of my friends. But she believed him. Then she found cigarettes in his locker at school. He said he was just 'selling' them. But if he sells them, he does them. But yeah she stayed with him and, he cheated on her, he continued smoking, continiously got drunk, and much more.
If this happpend to me I would stay with him. Believe him. But ask him about it. If the same situation came up again I would probably not stay with him.
HOPE I HELPED
[[Raushelle]]
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Hey..
I like this guy n i think he likes me too. Im scared to ask him out cuz my friends will maybe b mad at me well i hope it will all work out and im really scared..thank u! (link)
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If there your real friends I dont think that they will make you chose between a guy and them... and if they do just talk to them. Explain how this guy makes you happy and you wanna be with him, but you also want to be with ur friends to. If that doesnt work then they probably arent good friends and you dont need them around. But make sure you REALLY like this guy before giving up your friends for him....
HOPE I HELPED!
[[Raushelle]]
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okay well im not bi but like i've thought bout it n like.. i look at my friends as if i like them n u know wanna make out with them.. does that make me bi? I rate high please help?
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I dont think it makes you bi. Because your not thinking (as far as i can tell) about having a relationship with these people. Personallly I think of it as an experiment (sorta). I mean its kinda hard to explain but no i dont think that makes you bi. You may also just be THINKING about it and not actually WANTING it.
My thought on it is NO.
:: ASK AGAIN ::
RAUSHELLE
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does anyone have any good makeup tips? (link)
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Well i dont know what kind of make up you mean lol. But yeah here i go.....
Blush- sorry i dont use it lol....
Cover up- ok! here is a REALLY good cover up... thingy. try- AQUASMOOTH cover up by COVER GIRL.
its awesome...
and then if you have redness in ur face like get red easily... i suggest some kind of green cover up ... sorta.... like idk helps prevent redness...
but for eye shadow i sugest
Its kinda like powder eyeshadow duets almost by avon... and if you put the lighter color down and then the darker and blend it it looks really good.
like they already give you two colors that match perfectly....
but yeah i dint know what kind of makeup tips you meant so here goes.... hope i helped. Drop one in the inbox....
RAUSHELLE.
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oK wElL..my room is soo small i have a huge bed and a dresser and chest and a very tiny bit of room to walk in my room looks just so small and i wanted to paint it and get a theme but i dont know what to do to make it bigger and what kind of theme cuz my mom wont let me paint it or gett anything for it cuz we dont have the money plez help! (link)
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Ok. Well I don't know if this will help you. I hope it will. But like for my room it was all one color at first and it looked SO SMALL! ((it was blue by the way)) ... and well it was one solid color. It sucked. And it looked totally small.....
But then me and my mom painted it all yellow and then put a orange stripe with one lime green stripe on each side of the orange stripe.... the orange stripe went all the way around the room but it was like in the middle of the wall you know? K... lol stay with me.
It made the room seem so much brighter (cause it was with the light shining threw)... and it also seemed open and bigger.... and you could also decorate with oranges and the same color green and even white... it looks so good right now... i know this is long but i had to get all the details in...
Drop one in the inbox if you have more questions...
((raushelle))
by the way i hope i helped lol.
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well i broke up with my ex boyfriend twice. reason being we didn't really go anywhere with eachother or have the chance to. well after the second time we broke up, we were talking online and he was saying some pretty rude, mean things to me. i told my friends about it and none of them really like him for what he said. then a few days later, he asked if we could get back together saying how he would be a better boyfriend and stuff like that..
i have been thinking and i really do like him still, but do u think i should give him a THIRD chance?? and if so should i care what my friends say..
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Well, lets see. If he apologized for the mean thingz and you were/are pretty sure that he meant it. I'd say yes. Give him another shot. But otherwise probably not. Ask yourself how much he means to you and how much you like him.
About your friends. I would say DONT care what they think no matter what happens... well for somethings you could... lol i know this is confusing but yeah.
What I would do would be give him another shot. If it doesnt work, the third time, you probably werent meant to be.....
REMEMBER--- THREES THE CHARM? WAIT IS THAT HOW THAT GOES? OWELL!!!ITS SOMETHING LIKE THAT.
LOL HOPE I HELPED.
[[RAUSHELLE]]
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hey! i was just wondering if anyone who's willing would give me ONE sentence on what the best part of being a teenager is for them cuz i want to make a list and i think it would be really cute!! thanks
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growing up, memories with friends and sitting back watching everything change ((inn a good way))
[[raushelle]]
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Hey. I'm friend with a lot of guys in skool. they hate ehrn im not around. all they do is talk to me and stuff. i dont like any of them but, im a girl. should i hang out wit otha girl or stay friends wit the boyz? (link)
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Totally stay friends with the guyz. I have all guy friends but one. There so much better though cause they dont sugar coat everything and stuff. And plus they dont play childish games like most girls play. I dont knnow .... i just think that like there more real with you if you know what i mean. Stay with them.
[[raushelle]]
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i feel like guys only like girls for their bodies, so i reject alot og guys. what should i do? (link)
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stop being so self absorbed. Ur missing out on some good guyz. Just get to know them as friends and then youll like actually know them before rejecting them. lol. sorry but yeah.
[[raushelle]]
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Ihave areally hard time falling asleep at night night. Iget all nervous about murderer's breaking in, and it really scares me! I know thiz soundz childish, but does anyone have any advice on how to fall asleep quicker and it would help if you had advice on how to be calmer and not think every little noise in the night is someone breaking in. (link)
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I use to have the same problem. What helps me is I would say to my self, ok my dogs will hear them and bark. or, my daddy will come to my rescue (lol). And then like i would try sleeping with my tv on but that doesnt help. i remember just thinking alright now i cant hear them when they break in. You just gotta trust that no one will do that (i know it seems pointless) but i dont think that theres anything that you could do. The only thing that helped me was my dogs lol.
[[hope i helped somewhat]]
[[raushelle]]
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Hey, I feel really stupid asking this question..But I have been having a hard time trying not to cut myself. I've been trying to find other ways to cop with it and I picked a bad way to to it by taking pills. Does anyone out there know any ways to deal with it? Is there somthing I can do to take it off my mind?? I'm already seeing a theripst and it doesnt help it all. If there is any advice u can give me I would really appreicate it! -Jenny (link)
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Ok... heres something that really helped me. I wore a rubber band around my wrist and whenever i felt like cutting i would snap it. hard. lol. uhm yes i did take this from a tv show but trust me it works.
[[raushelle]]
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my friend always tells me im her best friend, but she tells everyone else that too. im never in her info on AOL or nothing @ all! in her xanga its all about these other people like how much she misses them and stuff. what should i do about this problem?? (link)
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You seem clingy. I know shes your best friend and all and you want it to stay that way but yeah. Talk to her about it. Maybe she just feels sorry for those other ppl and tells them that. Talk to her!!
[[raushelle]]
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