My name is Kristin. I am here to help anyone who needs it. It does not matter what it's about, I'll help you out. I'm a very nice, and open person. I can tell you what I know, and I will never judge you. You can take what you want from my opinion and leave the rest.
Gender: Female
Location: California
Member Since: September 26, 2007
Answers: 34
Last Update: November 18, 2008
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For my History project, I wrote this letter as if I'm a soldier writing home and I made it look so real by crumpling it and dipping it into tea.
For the project, we must include one picture. i have this perfect one that's already black/brown and white but it won't look that old if I print it out. Will it end up okay if I crumple it up and dip that into tea too?
Or is there something else you can suggest? (link)
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I had a project like this once, I also burned the edges. Makes it look really good when you're looking to make it look older.
Just a suggestion. good luck.
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My boyfriend and i had intercourse last night. he came pretty fast. then he was like let me get another condom. and he asked me to give him head to start him off. well, he wouldn't get hard and he was really embarrassed. is that something i should be concerned about for him? If it is something i should be concerned about, what should I do about it?
And he told me, the longer you go without cumming the faster you will cum. is that true?
Thank you for the help!
I appreciate it =]
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My boyfriend is the same way, the longer you go without something, the easier it is to cum, he's right. It's difficult to get a guy to get hard again after cumming. You have to give it some time. There is nothing wrong with that. Of course not every guy is the same, it's just how his body works.
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okay. well last night was my second time having sex, with my boyfriend. well, it hurt like hell when he put his dick in my vagina again! the first minuet hurt like hell, AGAIN!
is that normal? he doesnt finger me first or anything. we just go right into it.
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Just because it's the second time, that doesn't mean it's going to be any easier. It's something to adapt to that's for sure.
I could highly suggest foreplay before sex, it will definitely feel a lot better than jumping straight into it. Remember this is new to you body.
Good luck.
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how long do you have to wait until you can take a pregnancy test after you have sex? (link)
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They say that they are accurate up to a week before your missed period.
I would try it then. Good luck to you.
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i cut myself and its not deep but it wont heal!! it won scab over just this clear stuff comes out of it. it wasnt bleeding so i left if unbandaged but the puss/clear stuff that came out would stick to me clothes and they became attached. also it hurts really bad if it is just barely touched of when i move or something. i put a bandage on it so the puss would stop adhering to my clothes and the same thing happened to the bandaid. the puss stuff stuck to the bandaid and made them became stuck together. i dont know what to do to let it heal. last night i kept the area open and moved my clothing so it wasnt touching anything and it kinda scabed over a little but the clear puss stuff kept coming out so when i put the bandaid on and then took it off this evening the scab and puss was on the bandaid and my sore is still open, painful, and producing clear puss stuff. it is pretty small and not dee at all so i dont know whats wrong. i had another cut like this one only not as bad and it healed it just took a little longer than usual cuts do and hurt a lot but this one is taking forever. thank you!! (link)
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It seems as if it is infected. Have you tried using peroxide and neosporin to heal the wound?
Normally the only time I see cuts that don't heal is when they are not treated. If you have in fact used these products and it still does what it's doing, you might want to call the local doctor's office and ask them for their best advice.
Good luck, I hope it heals.
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Noone helped me with my question so I will ask again. My face gets super red whenever I see the guy I like. Is there a way to prevent this from happening? (link)
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I agree, it is hard to pin point something like that. It happens to a lot of people. It's just a reaction of your body.
Good luck ok!
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What do it mean when a girl write in a note none of my friends get to me like u do that a gud thing hmm I think.
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It means you make a bigger difference in her life than others do. It seems to be a very good thing. If she says it in a good tone, then for sure.
If I were to tell someone that, it would mean only good. Good luck :-)
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I need help fast.
My boyfriends birthdays coming up and I don't know what to get him. he's turning 16
hes into:
bmx
cars
video games
photography
music
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well it all depends on how much you have to spend. If you have a decent amount maybe go out and get him a video game he's been wanting. If it comes down to it, get him a gift card to the store he loves the most. In my experience guys love gift cards, because they can get whatever they want.
Good luck.
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i'm 14, freshman, i'm going to be 15 in february.
i need a job. my parents have given me so much money lately and i've been trying to get a job since april. i neeeed money for christmas and so i can go out and do things. any ideas? i live in ohio so i can legally work, i know all the laws. i've tried mcdonalds. i also live in a small town where the nearest mall is an hour away so don't say mall please :] so any ideas would be great! :D (link)
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Well, I could try the rest of the fast food places in your town. If that doesn't work out, try Sign Spinning, if that's available where you live. Good luck.
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F/15
Every since the begining of this school year I've been feeling really depressed. There are a lot of different reasons why. First of all, I dont have many friends. I have one close friend who I hang out with everyday, but sometimes she blows me off, which is understandable, to hang out with other people, and I wonder the halls alone, feeling like an idiot, wishing I were at home. I live in a small town and go to a small school so I already know everybody and its hard to make new friends when you're a sophmore in high school and everybody is separated by "levels of coolness".
Last year, life was great. I was a freshmen and I was dating a junior, who I fell for. We broke up after about 4 months and we pretty much lost all contact. Thats what hit me the hardest. I still love him but hes in love with his new girlfriend. I keep thinkin that I'll never find another guy because I've been single for months and everyday I tell myself things will get better but they never do.
I hate waking up everyday knowing that it will just be another sad, pathetic repeat of what happened the day before. I want out of this life. I want to drop out of school. Or move. Or die. I dont care anymore. Ive never felt like this before and Im really starting to scare myself. I keep thinking about killing myself. I've thought about it a couple times before but I always knew in the back of my mind that I would never do it. Now im not so sure.
Usually I would talk to someone about how im feeling to try to work things out but i have nobody to talk to. asking random people for advice on the internet is pointless too....i dont even know why im doing it. I just want to die. I want to stop hurting inside. there are so many other things going on in my life that i cant even explain on here because I dont want to tell anybody. I hate it so much.
please..........does anybody have any good advice. nothing like "try to make more friends" or "you'll get a new boyfriend, just put yourself out there" i need to hear something real. (link)
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I know what it feels like to have nobody that listens, and I've been in some very bad situations myself.
Breaking up with someone you love, hurts! More than anything, and I know that, and I will not try and change your mind about that. But, until you decide that "YOU" are going to move on, it's going to keep dragging you down. I know you are barely hanging on to what you have left, but you have to focus on what you do have. You do have that one great friend, and you do have a life, it's just not where you want it to be right now. Either is mine, and it sucks, but I refuse to give up. You only have one life, and ONLY YOU can change things. Every time I think my life is terrible, and I feel there is no reason to live, I remember that I am not the only one. I do not have it as bad as some. Life is to short for you to want to throw it away, trust me.
I may be a stranger on the Internet, but I am more than willing to help you. If you ever need someone to talk to, write me, I will respond. Sometimes your last resort can be the best option you have. Just take it one step at a time, have goals, and don't let the things in your "Past" drag you down OK!
I do hope that I helped you, and please don't hesitate to write if you want to ok.
Kristin
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if you have sex with your boyfriend, that's not considered as "a whore"... right? (link)
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No! He's you're boyfriend. Here is the definition of a whore...
a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money.
Don't be so hard on yourself.
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I know it, & its on the tip of my tounge.
*$&WETUj its piiisssssssssing me off.
all i can think of is
" cause I know that I am better off alone "
slj
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well, it's hard to give an exact answer with the small amount of lyrics, but ...
there is a song called "Better Off Alone" by 3 different artists,
Avril Lavigne
Pink
Katherine McPhee
look them up, and see if any of these artists sing the song you are looking for.
I hope this helped :-)
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I hope a lot of people read this, because I need a lot of advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for four months, and it's been the happiest four months I've had in a long time. Well, what happened, was before we started dating, him and his girlfriend at the time had just broken up. So, I'd log onto Myspace & she'd send me a bunch of crap saying how I was fat and ugly, and how I stole him from her. I ignored it. Honestly, I think she's insaneeee!
Anyways, I told Alex, my boyfriend when we first started dating, that I didn't mind if he talked to her, because I didn't want to seem possessive. But, like a week into them talking, he told me the stuff they were saying and I just told him he had to choose either her or me. I just didn't think it was fair, plus it made me really sad because she would constantly say how horrible of a person I am, to my boyfriend. So, he listened and stopped talking to her, then everything seemed okay, until..
randomly out of the blue like two weeks ago she sent him a message that says, "I miss you! I'm so sorry that I was mean to YOU! you have no idea how bad I feel. Please just talk to me." Alex said he wasn't going to respond to it, and that made me feel really good.
Yesterday, he had me log on to his e-mail account to send an e-mail to his teacher, I was bored so I clicked the "Sent" folder, and saw he had sent her an e-mail, and it said, "Hey. You've been trying to talk to me, so I'm assuming it's important. I can't talk to you on Myspace because Amy [ME] will see, so get on AIM sometime and we'll talk."
I told him I saw it, and he apologized like crazy, but I don't know, if I'm just getting mad for a stupid reason or what. I just really need to know, if I'm blowing this way out of proportion.
Even if you don't give me advice,
thanks for taking your time to read this.
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I have to say, be cautious because if he went behind your back and wrote her after he already said he was going to ignore it, then he doesn't find it appropriate to tell you the truth the first time. I am not trying to be harsh, because that's not what I'm about but I'd watch him. Most people could swear up and down that they aren't writing someone, or they aren't talking to someone, .. and when you leave they are doing exactly what they promised they weren't doing. Good luck
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16/F
I'll warn you in advance this may be long, but interesting. If it wasn't happening to me that is...
I met this guy, Luke, on a penpals website. Well I didn't actually meet him...but you get what I mean. Anways I sent him a letter and then we started writing, he seemed like a really interesting person and he was. He's 19 and he lives in London and I live in New York.
A year later and we were still writing each other and we had gotten to know each other really well. When my family decided they wanted to go to London for Vacation (It was just the start of my first year at Yale)I told him that, and it turns out he lived close to the area we would be visiting.
When we got there I had a hard time getting away from my parents to go see him because they didn't want me alone in a foreign place so I just told them about him and they said I could go see him as long as they met him first and I called to check in every hour.
We were in London for 3 weeks and I probably spent most of my time with him. We got really close, like really, really close. He showed me his favorite spots in London and took me to a bunch of places. He introduced me to his family, too, even though he doesn't live with them. He was so sweet, he always held the doors open for me, hugged me, once when he came to pick me up he brought me sunflowers (I think in one of my letters I said they were my favorite flowers) I told him they were beautiful and he said "So are you" and kissed my forehead.
One days before my family and I had to leave we were at his place, sitting on his bed, and I was looking at his photo's he had. We started talking and then he kissed me and then kissing turned into making out and then making out turned into...more than that. Something that starts with an S and ends in an X.
The next morning I woke up and I waws in his arms and at first I thought he was only using me. Then I contemplated the fact that I lost my virginity to him and I didn't and don't regret it at all. I got out of bed and left. 1) I was scared of what he would say when he got up. 2)My parents didn't know where I was at.
A couple hours later when I was back at the hotel he called me and wanted me to meet him at this one place, so I went. He said he wanted to be with me and that he was falling in love with me. I told him that I wasn't sure if I could do long distant relationship...I didn't even know when we would see eachother again. He told me I could go to school there, with him, and that he'd even help pay for it. (His dad owns one of the majoe companies up in North London so his family is kind of...wealthy) and he said that if I didn't want to come tom school here then he'd come to school in the U.S. I told him I had to think about it.
The thing is I really like him, I might even love him, and I even got into some schools in London, but Im scared to leave everything behind, and transfer schools if I do at the end of the semester. And if everything doesn't work out I'll be stuck in London without any family or friends...
I honestly don't know what to do, I've kept in touch with him of course, he's still waiting on my answer...I've made pro con lists and thoguht this over to death. I need advice from someone who I don't know.
So...any advice?
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I think you should go with your heart. You only get to live one life, and you have to make the best of it. There will always be pro's and Con's of everything you do, but in the end you have to make a decision. You're obviously a smart young women, and I am sure you deserve an adventure in your life. Good thing is you would be living in a different environment meeting new people, and being with someone that you really like. And as for being away from your friends and family, it would be hard.
No one can make this decision for you, and I only hope that you make the one you truly want. If you trust him, and believe he is right for you, then it's a great decision. If not, I would consider thinking about it a little more.
Good Luck! I really hope all goes well :D
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lately my best friend has been acting different and it's just confusing me and making me annoyed. she comes into school in the morning and seriously acts like a zombie, im not kidding, like i'll say something to her and she won't even answer. i mean everyone has those days- and she's obviously not a morning person, but it's EVERY SINGLE DAY. and if i'm around her in the morning, she just puts me in a bad mood, cause like she'll just pass me in the hall and not say anything and if she does, it's hardly anything.
also, i'm not a mean person or anything but she's also been acting kinda bitchy. of course again, everyone acts like one at some point, but it's just making me not wanna be around her, even though i love her to death and she's my best friend. like today in history, my teacher was handing our tests back and she accidently gave mine to my best friend (it must have been mixed in with her papers) my teacher noticed that she didn't have all the tests to give back and asked if anyone had some mixed in. so my friend had mine, and a few minutes later i JOKINGLY said to her "you stole my test" and she flipped out like omggg no i didn't she handed it to me. then, later, when school was over, i was talking to my other best friend, along with this one, and mentioned that she "stole my test", again, joking-yet she was like stop saying that she handed it to me blaaah. like i've been best friends with her since 4th grade and she doesn't realize i'm joking?! it's not like i said it seriously..idk.
it's just weird and unlike her. when we hang out outside of school, she's usually fine (except for the fact she'll like leave at 9 pm willingly, we're 15 almost 16, who stays out to only 9?) i have 4 classes with her in school, so i see her a lot and half of the time she is in a bad/weird mood, so i try not to say much, but when i do, half the time she comes back with something bitchy, and she ends up putting ME in a bad mood. i'm confused, i wanna say something to her, but i'm sure she'll come back with something, and we'll end up in a fight. what should i do? sorry for the length, thankss. (link)
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You know, something just might be bothering her. And although you are really good friends, she could be afraid to tell you or doesn't want to speak about it. Imagine doing a 360 like she has with her attitude. What would cause you do be like this?? Is there anything that might be making her like this? Do you know her parents, maybe you could ask them. I only suggest that because if she is always coming back at you with sarcastic/rude remarks, then it's hard to say what you can ask her without her being offended or pissed off about it. If I've missed something or you need to ask anything else, don't hesitate to ask, Good Luck.
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i'm a 19 year old female and i like this female in my math class. i attend a community college so the ages are very broad. i saw this pretty girl. i assumed she was 21,22 i was staring at her and she saw me. the next class she's sitting at the table behind the one i sit at. when the teacher did attendance out the corner of my eye i saw her staring at me when he called my name and i responded. the next class she came when eveyone was leaving. so as i'm passing by her i see her turning her head to look up at me, i played it off as if i didn't notice. last week i turned around to look at the guys dirupting the class as i'm scanning the back of the room i see her looking at me and to me it appeared as if she pushed herself outward...? i held her eyes for a a few seconds and then i turned around. i wanted to laugh out loud at the idea of her staring at me the whole time i was turned around. she always stays behind in class and now that she sits in the back near the door i have to pass her (i know) i managed to pass without glancing in her direction which was really hard. the last time i glanced at her but she sat doing her work as if she didn't notice. now i'm wondering could she be digging me too? since i saw her staring at me would it be okay to assume she colud possibly feel the same way? what do you think?
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Well, you're in the same class, and you never know unless you ask! :-) I would suggest just stopping and saying hi, and seeing where it goes from there. If there is one thing I know, it's if you sit back and do nothing, nothing will ever happen, and if you take a chance you'll get somewhere. At least you would know where you stand, and she could be digging you too! Good Luck.
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There's a girl, I'll call her Sara, is really slutty and all she can talk about is how much she likes emo bands and how she flashes her breasts to guys. This is mostly the reason I don't like her, and the other part is that she's kind of punk and I have a clean, preppy style. Well, anyway, she is really nice to me, and I always help her around and stuff because of that. It's really hard, because she's always so nice to me, but I really don't like the way she behaves or talks. I know she tries to fit in, but I feel guilty about not really liking her and venting about how annoying she is to my friends when she acts so nice. Any advice? (link)
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I understand this situation completely. As a suggestion tell her that you really like her, but some of the things she does aren't what you are about. and if she is going to be like that around you, then maybe you need to hang out less, and stop doing so much for her. I realize she is really nice, and you are giving her the same respect in return, but you don't want someone's bad habits rubbing off on you. Good luck.
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my friend she was telling me or well asking me we basically talk about everything to eachother and well yeah you know she said when she peas it burns and then she saids there is like blood rushed to her vagina but idk what to tell her any advice on what this may be like an infection or somehting idk
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It sounds like a bladder infection. It really all depends on the situation. If it's very painful she should go to the doctor.
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how much are stamps nowadays? i have a bunch of stamps from my parents and they saw "USA first class" on them.. no cent value listed anywhere. im confused. are all stamps worth the same? how much does it cost to send a letter? or a packet (lots of paper attached together by staple)? (link)
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stamps just went up to 41 cents a stamp.
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my printer sometimes takes two pieces of paper at once and half of what im printing out is on the top of one page and the second half is on the bottom of the second page. does anyone know what im talking about? what am i doing wrong in putting the paper in the holder??? (link)
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It happens to me sometimes as well. It might be that the two pieces of paper are stuck together. Make sure the paper is separated before you start to print. It happens if you don't fan the paper before you put it into the printer or you haven't printed in a while and they have been sitting. Good luck , I hope this helped :-)
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