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Hey,my name's Stephanie, 16 years old and i live in the UK. If you want my advice then i'll happily give it. If you don't agree with it then that's just tough, i say it how i see it.
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okay well my ex boyfriend danny and me went out for 2 months..well we were going out he started to hang out with his ex all the time and ye i did get jealous..n then one night he was telling me how he only told me he loved me becuase he was confused about her..so the next day which would be 2 months he dumped me for her..he asked her bak out and she said nobecuase she cant see them together..now danny is asking me back out..and i said yes i will give him another chance..he says he wants to be with me forever and he aid evryday he sees me he is falling in love with me even more and he said when i turn 18 he wants me to move with him..he says he will do anything for me and he is always here for me..i want to go back out with him because i do still love him but i dont want him to hurt me again..n i told him that n he promised me that he wont and he thinks we can last.
do you think i should giv him another chance???
i realli love him alot...he means evrything to me.... i mean wat if i dont n it would have worked out...n then later in lyfe i am wondering wat could have happened
It seems to me that you've already made your mind up and you're just seeking reassurance from other people. Take a risk and if it doesn't work out then at least you can say you tried. You'll have to learn to trust him again and although it means you'll be putting your heart on the line, there's no way a relationship can survive without trust. I hope i was of some help. Good luck.
Whats the best type of cleaner to clean
dishes?
wood tables?
tile floors?
dishes - washing up liquid & sponge
wood tables - spray varnish & cloth
tile floors - soapy water & mop
thanks to all who answered my first question, except Gooky of course (oh sorry,I meant Mooky). Beleieve me if I had any idea what it was, a huge load would be lifted off my mind.I failed to mention that it was a reply to a message he had sent(actually I had hoped to get a simple explanation without having to go into more detail.)Weve been together for 11years but are on the rocks at the present-something major is going on but he refuses to tell me what. I dont know if hes seeing someone else or if theres way more to it than that. Its not out of the question
that he's -well- im not going to go any further but please if anyone can tell me how to decipher these messages(there are a couple more)maybe it will shed some light on things and i can deal with it and get on with my life
It's just spam! He probably sent an email to them telling them to f**k off. If you're that worried about it then ask him.
Alright... So I just held a party which started about five hours ago and ended around 11:00 pm. 8th period today I invited one of my guy friends at the last minute. I told him that he couldn't bring anybody but himself, since there were already going to be a lot of people and my mother would flip if someone she didn't know, showed up at our house uninvited. He told me his friend whom he hasn't seen in a long time was coming to visit, but I told him that he couldn't bring him for reasons I already stated. It was basically an open invitation, if he could come alone, then he could come, but if he couldn't, then that was too bad. So, a little bit before the party after a few early people arrived, he called me and said he was in the neighborhood and was wondering if he could come a few minutes early. I said it was fine, and he came... with a friend in tow... I was a little pissed, but I let it slide for the time being. Well, a little while later after basically everyone arrived, he "pretended" to steal some of my DVD's and lots of food. Then, a few minutes later, he calls me over and says he's got a "shitload of alcohol" in his car. Now, my friends and I are not into that kind of stuff, and it made me really uncomfortable. I basically told him I thought he should leave. He got a little pissed but agreed to it. His friend was kind of just sitting there the whole time, not talking. So they got up and stood at the food table for a while and just hung out. I was really pissed and worried at the time, cuz one of my other freinds was threatening to leave (the alcohol comment made her really uncomfortable), so I said "Are you just going to loiter there?". He got really pissed then, and then left with his friend. A few minutes later he called all heated and was saying "You were really rude to me, and the alcohol thing was just a joke" which I didn't believe, because he only said it was a joke after I expressed my discontent. So then I told him again why he had to leave, and he was just like "yeah whatever, fuck you" and hung up. Now, I've thought about it over and over and my friends say that he's a jerk and I have every right to be angry. But I'm not sure... Was any of this my fault? I feel I made it very clear that he wasn't supposed to bring anyone, and that if he wanted to spend time with his friend, he should do so. We could always hang out some other time. It's not like he's doing me some huge favor by coming. I just need to know, for my own sanity, do I have the right to be angry? Thanks... Pom
How can you call it a party without alcohol? He was probably trying to liven the party up and you went and freaked on him. If you stay angry at him it'll just make him worse.
ok well my dog's eye is like leeking some yellow stuff and her eye is shut...when she opens her eye hey eye color is all blue like a blind color I just want to know is my dog going blind or does she have pink eye cause I'm really worried
hope you can help
My god what are you sking a bunch of amateurs for? Take her to the Vets like any normal pet owner.
Ok this is gonna be long- ish, but I hope at least a few ppl at least read it. Here goes...
Alright, the boy I like, Nick and me were like friends-ish last year. Like we would talk and joke around after classes and stuff and I was majorly crushing him. Hes adorable and funny and REALLY smart and nice and has this laid-back, sarcastic kind of sense of humor. But he hangs out with the nerds, kind of, so it felt like he was within my league.
So we come back to school this year, and he isnt in any of my classes except band, and he plays another instrument so i have no reason to talk to him or anything. I have told myself to just stop likeing him, its useless, etc. But I CANT STOP! I havent spoken a word to him since last year, but I cant get him off my mind. I am pretty sure he knows i like him, since i check him out alot (:-D)and he catches me. BUt I figure if he hasnt done anything about it, he doesnt like me back. So whats the point? But yet, sometimes I see him looking at me. Its really weird. I cant get up the nerve to ask him out :( i was thinking maybe I should slip a note in his locker?? BUT IM TOO FRUCKING NERVOUS! I think that his kind of humor, around his friends, would make it SO easy to make fun of me if he thought I was stalker-ish or whatever. I need help... I need help... :(
I wouldn't leave a note in his locker as that's a little weird. My dvice is just to find a way to get talking to him again and keep throwing him flirty smiles. If after a while you still haven't got the courage to ask him out and he still hasn't said anything, it's probably best to move on.
Is it ok for a guy to stay out late partying if his girl is sitting at home waiting for him?
yeah, it's a guy thing
I am having a hard time meeting people at the university I go to, and I'm not sure why. My friends say I walk too fast and that I'm unapproachable because I don't always speak first. I am a little shy, but I would really like to make some friends because most of the people I know recently dispersed to schools in other states/cities. I do talk to people when I can, but it just doesn't seem to develop into a friendship where we could hang out anywhere but school. Is there anything more I can do? Thanks.
If you smile friendly and try to feel happy then you'll look more approachable. You could also say hey to the people you recognise from classes and stuff. Other than that all you can do is be yourself and make an effort to get to know people.
hi everybody! hehe. okay, so how exactly do you get strech marks? and how can you get ride of them (without buying any products)? please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
xokatie
You can't get rid of stretch marks and most people get them if they're fat, pregnant or growing too quick in certain areas.
Well, theres this guy that i used to like and i still kinda like him. hes awesome and sweet and hot and stuff and me and my friend shannon decided to go to teh movies and i invited him to go with us and he went with us and he started liking her and now they are kinda "talking" and it makes me very sad bc idk what to do. i dotn want to tell him or her that it makes me sad bc he thinks i dont like him anymore and shannon says that she wont do anything with him unless i say its ok but still i dotn like it and me and him were talking about it today online about how i didnt like him anymore and there was no point for me to bc he didnt like me and then all of a sudden he started talking about shannon adn how theyre hanging out on friday and stuff .. and it makes me sad. what do i do?
Do the right thing by your friend, you and this guy obviously aren't meant to be together. Accept that and move on, there'll be other guys. Guys that like you, not Shannon.
I really need your help so please do not delete this.
Ok, I have been dancing for 8 years. I am known for dancing by friends, family, and neighbors. This year, I hate it! I dread it. I mean I whine to try and stay home. ONce I get there it isn't that bad, but I still hate it. Well, I costs my family ALOT of money so I can dance. They have to pay like 100 dollars a week practically. My mom thinks I should quit and she said I could, I mean I don't like dance so I am bascially wasting all our money. There are reasons why I wnat to stick with it, one of them being my friends there and I'm almost all the way down to my split, and you obviously know why I may quit. I am on the Field Hockey Team at school and love it. Please help me, should I quit? Would you quit? Thanks a million!
Sorry it was a bit long.
Yeah i'd say quit,you're wasting so much money and it's not like you don't have another hobby.
i need to get a halloween costume for halloween but my mom wont buy one and she wont take me somewhere to buy one! i don't really want to make my own costume because nobody will help me and i can't do it by myself without it looking really bad! i don't know what to do!! Should i just keep trying to convince my mom? Or make my own,really bad-looking, costume?
Why bother with a costume, be a character out of a film or something. Then you could just wear the clothes you've got, do something with your hair and stuff like that. Good luck!
ok is there a way u can get ur arms like..more strong like more shape cuz mine have fat that needs to go..like wut helps? dont say pull ups..lol cant do those ..but if neone knows ne work out ways like explain it ..um that would help thx
You could try weights or a sport that involves the arms like rowing or boxing.
Ok Im seriously not a cutter. But i got scratched up by my pet rabbit and i dont want ppl thinking im a cutter at school 2morrow. Im not gonna wear a hoodie all day tomorrow or a long sleeve shirt so what are some good ways to cover it up?
You could try sweatbands but hiding it will just make it suspicious. Your best bet is to be honest.
hi does anyone know a good quote i could put in my profile about : me and these girls became friends and i wanna have a quote about how happy i am that we became friends then under it put there initials! please help!
Try searching for some on www.google.com
Well this girl who I'm good friends with has invited me to watch some DVDs have have pizza at her house tomorrow night. There will be some other people there who I know but I don't have much in common with them and we aren't great friends. I want to go but I don't want to be left out of the conversation. What should I do?
I was going to say you should go but if your ex is going to be there then it's just not worth it. You'd be inflicting pain and awkwardness upon yourself. Ask your friend if she wants to hang out some other time, just the two of you.
hey u guys im a 15 year old male, and i was of course playing truth or dare with mostly grls and a few guys, and a grl dared me to go in the bathroom right then and there and SHAVE MY LEGS! well i wasnt gonna turn down a dare so i did it, but im wunderin if i should like wear pants to school until they grow back cuz usually guys wit shaved legs r gay, or do grls think is hot??
Well i much prefer shaved legs on a guy and if anyone asks about it you just tell the truth. If you're that worried about a few pathetic gay comments from the guys then cover them up. It all depends on who you care about the most, what the girls think or what the guys think.
HELP i really fancey my paper boy danny but ive liked him for ages but the problem is that im really shy and cant seem to speak to him i always stare at him and he looks back and smiles, once he even waved help me to get him please ill rate you.
roxie xxx
Well you could smile and wave back so he knows you're friendly. Maybe you could just say small things like 'thanks', 'how are you' and then once you've built up your confidence you could try having a real conversation.
Me n my friend want to write something to the mayor of our town about how we want buses and/or taxis in the town. but we arent sure what to do.. does anyone have any suggestions of what we can do/write to the mayor?
i rate all 5s..
-jules
Well you could start a protest and get the local papers involved, that would be cool. If you're going to write a letter i would just express my opinions clearly and amicably as possible. Oh and run it by someone who's good with letters and literature before you send it.
this is to all the girls is it norrmal to masterbate, if i dont am i weird, i mean is it like the guys if u dont jack off ur gay
Ok it's perfectly normal to masturbate but if you don't want to then that's just as normal. It's your body and it's up to you what you do with it. Oh and just because a guy doesn't jack off doesn't mean he's gay.