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my names kayla, i am 15, i`m turning 16 this week, on the 22nd. i am pretty young, but i`ve been through a lot more than most girls my age have so i find it easy to give advice. i do my best to answer every question. and if i offend you, or give you an answer you aren't happy with, feel free to be totally straight forward & give me some feedback. :) hope i can help you!-kayla
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what are some ways to make my eyes look sharp ..not all smudgey?
use liquid eyeliner, for the top because it makes a thinner line than regular eyeliner does, and it stands out and stays on longer, put on mascara, and maybe light beige eyeshadow, colors tend to look tacky, (the only eyeshadow brand i would recomend is the almay eyecolor intensity, it comes with three colors and shows you were to put them so that your eye color stands out more) .. use regular eyeliner on the bottom because liquid eyeliner is really hard to apply there.
I have a really huge fear of showing up in the same dress as someone and it happened last year! I know it's almost impossible to find a dress that 600 other girls won't wear but I want to get one at a unique store. Not Macy's, JC Penney, Kohl's, Jessica McClintock, or Windsor. I just want to know some stores with good dresses.
Thanks.
haha i know exactly what you mean, buying your dress at a store from the mall is one of the worst things you can do. i ended up showing up to one of my dances in the same exact dress and shoes as this other girl and she made a huge deal about it. but anyways, try shopping online, or at a store you know people are less likely to look in that still has pretty dresses(:
i know when your drinking, you first get tipsy/buzzed and then that eventually leads to being drunk. but you can still sort of know whats going on around you right? any other info you have would be great :]
i always remember what happens when im buzzed. and then when i'm getting drunk i still manage to remember things but just not in very good detail, you usually don't remember anything once you get completely wasted.
okay people tells me secrets and stuff but at the same time they question me if they can trust me because i dont tell anything that much or tell them a secret why is that?
that doesn't make any sense at all. you actually do sound pretty trust worthy because you DONT tell secrets to people you just keep them. usually people who gossip to you will gossip about you. & if they are willing to tell other peoples secrets to you they are most likely telling your secrets to other people, so these people aren't making too much sense in my oppinion :)
Okay i swim most of the summer and i have a really big problem. Like a lot of kids from my class just hang out all at the pool all summer too. So i really want to look OKAY but i have wavy frizzy hair. Like really bad. When i put products on it it looks fine, but when i swim they wash out and when we are getting snacks or taking a break and my hair starts to dry it is reallly embarrasing. Is there anything i can do besides put it up? Because i hate swimming with my hair up.
Also, I saw in Seventeen magazine this stuff that you put over your makeup to make it all waterproof. But it was kind of expensive ($30) and i was wondering if there was a cheaper version of this stuff? And does it work?
I have the same problem. first of all they sell waterproof makeup, like mascara & eye liner, which usually works as long as you're not constantly going underwater. you can always re apply your foundation. I dont usually have a problem with that in the summer because being out in the sun gets rid of my acne so i don`t wear much makeup. for the hair issue, just bring some frizz control product with you & reapply it every once in a while, & comb your hair out. you shouldnt expect to look perfect when you are at the pool, because people don`t expect you to look perfect either. you're not going to be the odd one out. so just have fun & enjoy yourself, its summer..makeup shouldn't be an issue =)
Can you still tan if you put sunscreen on? I need to make sure I don't get a burn, but I hate being so freakishly white!
for the first couple of times you lay outside or go to the beach or whatever you should definitly wear sunblock, you can still tan, its meant to prevent you from burning, not to cause you not to tan. once you've been out in the sun a lot just switch over to tanning lotion and use a brand that has a little spf in it to protect you from burning still.
im 14 and ok im kind of a prude and believe no sex before marriage and you should wait for someone special before going out with them... especially when you're young... and my best friend is turning into a hoe. she got her first boyfriend, and i was reaally happy for her, but then on their first date they made out, and other people were around. they werent even going out for a week, and they didnt even kiss normally before that. then she wanted me to grind with her at the last dance, and i was like NOOO. i would only grind with a guyyy and if i had been going out with him for a while.
i know this is how like old people think, but i want a guy who cares about me, not just a guy that wants to do stuff with my body. and i dont care if i wait for that. but my friend is alwayss bringing up her bf and its soo annoying. she hasnt been a good friend for the past year either, although she says im her bff... shes been ditching me for her other group of friends a lot, but hangs out with me mostly in schol.
i am really sick of her and im afraid shes going to do something that she regrets... should i keep being friends with her, try to help her, or ignore those problems?
ok, 14 was a big year for me, and i`m assuming that its probably the same way for everyone else. everybody changed when they get out of middle school (i`m assuming your in highschool). you mature, & everyone gets curious. highschool relationships are nothing. you don`t have to wait for someone special. sweety, you're thinking like you're twenty years old or something. i mean when you get older you should wait to date the right person, but in highschool.. your supposed to date all different kinds of people so you can learn what you like & dislike in a boyfriend and what kinds of people you'd like to stay away from. its all part of the learning experience, because trust me.. you're not supposed to be looking for your soulmate when you're in highschool. second of all.. making out is nothing. i`ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now.. i madeout with him before i kissed him & i was infront of all of my friends. ( i`m starting to think me & your friend are pretty similar so maybe my point of view will help you to understand hers) i don`t blame you for wanting a guy to care about you..but being intimate doesn't mean he only wants you for your body because sometimes that can actually bring people closer together. if she's bringing up her boyfriend a lot just try to block it out, be supportive of her if you value her friendship because trust me, she'll learn from her mistakes, & if you really do care about her you need to be there for her.. not judge her. you need to focus on yourself.. let her do what she wants, because her mistakes shouldnt have to impact you. & you shouldn't have to deal with them. & if shes blowing you off constantly, maybe she isn't worth worrying about to begin with.
well i know this is gonna sound stupid but anyway... whenever me and my bf get together, we look at each others cell phones to see who the other person has been calling/texting. (we dont actually admit thats what we're doing, but thats what we do). well yesterday we got into a fight over it. he got mad because these 2 guys had been texting me. ok now these 2 guys are really nerdy and theres no way i'd ever like them, and my bf knows that. so it was stupid for him to get mad. on the other hand, my bf had made all these calls to this one girl amanda. amanda is really pretty and shes also a big slut, so that made me really mad!! he said he was just prank calling her, but whatever. he said i have no right to be mad at him for calling girls, when i text other guys. well, i guess... but there's a difference here, right? the guys i texted are harmless, but the girl he called is anything but. plus those guys texted me first and i just answered to be nice, whereas my bf is the one who called amanda first. am i wrong to be mad about this?
This really doesn't sound like a healthy relationship at all whatsoever. i was the same way with my ex boyfriend & that never turned out well. If hes constantly calling this girl hes most likely not prank calling her.. especially if he didnt dial *67 before he put her number in, because, nobody prank calls from an unblocked number right? you have all the right to be mad about this because he's lying to your face. explain to him that you don`t tolerate cheating and that if he wants to get with amanda, he'll lose you.. & he needs to choose instead of playing games & lying to you. i`ve dealt with this same situation before, you really need to let him know that you won`t let him walk all over you & that you won`t accept being lied to.
Like this is kinda gross but i want to know.
Okay on my outer lip (down there) and near my thigh, I have this like little bubble. Today it like popped, but is still there. The stuff that came out of it was blood and some like greenish white gooo-ie stuff.
Any ideas
thats either a boyle or an infected hair. i actually have one of those right now it's really sick.. you definitly need to get that checked out,but if it does puss on its own then the only thing you can do to get rid of it is by soaking it in hott water about 3 times a day & putting anti-biotic ointment on it.
okay, im 13 and i this guy switched over to ourr school and i guess i kind of like him. i hang out with the guys a lot b/c they are just fun to be around especailly his guy friends. but i still act like a girl. idk for sure if he likes me but he has me the highest girl on his top(3) and at parties we hang out alot gives me random hugs, and quick arm around my shoulder/waist. but i want to get him to for sure like me and ask me out, atleast make out. what do i do to get totally out of the friend zone!?
you just need to realize what the difference between a friend and someone you would consider being with. you need to try & show him (not too obviously) that you don`t want to be just friends. flirt with him like crazy, that should be pretty easy because he hugs you anyways, just hold the hug a little longer than usual next time. & when you do go to parties make sure you focus your attention on him & hopefully he will do the same. if he still doesn't get the picture just talk to him about it & tell him straight out exactly how you feel.
Ok I just broke up with my boyfriend and he hates me. Should I back of and let him chill or should I keep trying to talk to him?
well i think you should definitly give him some space. he just lost you & he's probably trying his hardest not to think about you. & its kind of like a tease that your talking to him but he can`t be with you.. so give him some time to cool off and then hopefully he'll get over it and be your friend. it really depends on how long you've been together and how close you were.
lately ive been noticing my dark circles under my eyes get worse everyday and i hate them! i go to sleep around 10 or 11 and for some strange reason been waking up around 4 am i know strange anyone got tips on what to do?
definitly try going to sleep earlier. sometimes you'll get those bags no matter how early you go to sleep, i get them. so just use a good foundation and that should help cover them up a little bit.
Ok i wanna know how exactly the SAT tests are cuz im really worried about taking them.Was it hard for you people that took it?What are the questions like and how many are there?Id like to know anything you know about it plz
hey i`m the exact same way. i don`t know if they offer this in your school, but in 10th grade they give us a PSAT. which is like the SAT but the grades really don`t matter. You have the option of putting them in for colleges to look at, personally mine kind of sucked because i really didnt care what i got so i didnt send them in. My friend did and now she gets brouchures for different colleges in the mail almost daily. The PSATS do give you a feel of what the SAT's are like, and there are books you can get anywhere that help you prepare for the SAT's and they have information that will probably answer all of your questions.
so my boyfriend came over yesterday and i was mad at him for something that i really shouldnt have been. i always think hes cheating on me. i get alot of my thoughts through my mom because all my life my mom has accused my dad of cheating when he never does. well when my bf came over i got really pissed off and starting hitting him like smacking,punching,i grabbed his hair and threw him on my bed and continued to hit him. i have NOOOO idea what so ever how this was happening. it was like someone was inside of me controling my arms. well after that happen my bf just held me and i started crying the hardest i have ever cried. i think i have anger problem..ok i KNOW i do. but i dont know how to help it. i was thinking about starting to do yoga or something. my bf thinks i have huge problems and i need to see a therapist not only because i hit him but because im alwaysss thinking hes out sleeping with other people but we havent ever done it! please help me!!!
i go to a therapist. i have anger problems, but nothing like this. i definitly think you should make an appointment with one. you have no idea how much it helps to have someone to talk to, knowing that its completely confidential. yoga sounds like a good idea too. its very calming. even if you dont go to a therapist you definitly need to talk to SOMEONE about this. whether its a parent or a friend, just let someone know whats going on with you.
hope i helped!
-kayla
iv have big trust problems ever since my ex from like 2 or 3 years ago has cheated on me multiple times. and now ive been going out with this really great guy for over a year and i still have trust problems. i always think hes going cheating on me or if he stays an hour late at work hes doing something. i also hate it when he looks at half naked chicks on tv because i get jealous. can anyone help me become... normal?
i have the same problem. i`ve been cheated on plenty of times by my ex. i havn't met anybody new but i`m sure i`ll be dealing with the exact same issue you are once i actually do. i think you should sit down with him & have a talk. explain to him that in past relationships you'd been cheated on, and you have a hard time trusting him. be sure to mention that it has nothing to do with him & ask him if he could just have a little patience & help you overcome this fear of being cheated on. about the "half naked girls on tv." issue.. just try & ignore it. all girls feel that way. i know i do. when you see a good looking guy on t.v you don't sit there obsessing over it. guys are the same way. they might think to themselves "oh that girls hott" but they aren't sitting there comparing you to her. if thats what bugs you. So make sure you talk to your boyfriend about this whole trust thing, & hopefully you two can figure out a way around it.
i hope i helped!
-kayla
today i got with a boy and he has no gf and i dont have a bf..we made out twice. and then we decided to just be friends. now everyone is calling me a whore for getting with him when we werent going out ! ugh what do i do, its not lke i make out with someone everyday; that was my first time. what do i say ot people when they say that ? ah thanks
obviously you don`t think your a whore so don`t let other peoples oppinions get to you. you're right, all you did was makeout with him. & on top of that it was your first time. so i don't know what everyones problem is. just tell them to mind their own buisness.
i am thinking about letting my boyfriend finger me,but i have really long large in lips on my "lower area" will he get freaked out? or should i do something about it, or not let him finger me, do guys think that is weird ?
guys don`t really pay attention to things like that. every girl looks different down there. guys look different too. so just don`t worry it. if he's fingering you he probably won`t be staring at it anyways. just let him finger you as long as you feel like your ready sweetie!
-kayla
i have scars from my zits and i really want to get rid of them but how can i ? plez help mee!
-marissa
they'll go away eventually. you only get scars when you pop them. so don`t pop your pimples. that will just give you more. ask your dermatologist about what kind of creams you can put on your scars to help make them go away faster.
i am 21 and i still didnt get my period!!! it's really weird can anyone help me out? *stephanie
you should definitly talk to your doctor about that. you should have gotten it by now.
ok well this really isnt about sex but i didnt know what it was really classified as..
anyway well on Valentines day a guy and i were talking and walking around town in the dark. Well we stopped in the park and were sitting on the stage, he asked me if i'd flash him. I told him no a million times but then he was like ok well i will kiss you if you do it. Well it was like my first kiss and i really wanted it soo well i agreed, We kissed and after i was thinking about it and said i dont know if i can do this soo he stuck his hand down my shirt and pretty much took my boob out and looked at it ((awkward (SP?)moment))then he put it back and then we got up and well we were just like glaring at each other in the eyes and well he kinda came at me real fast and kissed madeout with me.
He told his best friend about it and well now im scared the whole school will find out and i will be called a slut..
do you think that makes me a slut or a whore or anything like that.
I regret it soo much!
he also told me that he cared about me and was thinkging about going out with me..and would tell me the next day but he didnt and now he wants me to do even more and i really dont wanna do it
what should i do.?
and does what i did make me a slut?
he sounds like a real asshole. excuse my language. i can tell right off the bat that he's the type of guy that only wants one thing. and i`m pretty sure you know what that is. he just wants to get in your pants. if he cared about you, he wouldn't have pressured you to flash him. don't ever let a guy get the best of you. if you don`t want to do something, be assertive about it. he has no right to make you do anything you don`t want to do. you have to make that clear to him.
-kayla