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i am not !!
today i got with a boy and he has no gf and i dont have a bf..we made out twice. and then we decided to just be friends. now everyone is calling me a whore for getting with him when we werent going out ! ugh what do i do, its not lke i make out with someone everyday; that was my first time. what do i say ot people when they say that ? ah thanks <3
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obviously you don`t think your a whore so don`t let other peoples oppinions get to you. you're right, all you did was makeout with him. & on top of that it was your first time. so i don't know what everyones problem is. just tell them to mind their own buisness.
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Well first of all, guys like kissing, so he may have thought it was a mistake or whatever, but he wasn't going to let himself not kiss you some more. So that's why he came back. You're not a whore, people use that word way too often, and you really did nothing wrong. Like you said neither of you or attached, but some people are just jealous, and try to make other people feel bad. Thats why they are doing it. When people call you a name, you should just ignore them. Don't shrugg it off because then they think you know but don't care. Just nodd, and pretend it only bothers you a tiny bit, and that it isnt going to make you quit what you are doing, but it doesnt make you feel good to hear them say it. In a few days it will blow over, all you have to do is wait it out. In a few days another girl will make out at a party and everyone will say she's a whore. So it's all okay.
But I have a suggestion, I don't think it's wise for you to randomly go around kissing guys. It's not that big of a deal, but kissing is kinda important, and if you're wise, you want guys to have to make a commitment to you in order to "get the goods" (hehe). Sure kissing may not seem like much to you, but if you think of it as something thats worth a lot, then maybe when guys want it, then they'll have to make a commitment, and that way you can get a great boyfriend, and you wont be known by any bad names. I hope I answered your question. Love ya,
Angie91
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Personally I would say things like "Bitch your just jealous." or "It's none of your business " or "it's not like he likes you, so chill" haha i know they sound mean but it's funny how jealous girls are. Girls will always call someone a slut/whore ect. either because their jealous, prude or dont like you.
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They are probably just saying that becuase they are jealous. But you are not a whore. Just let it blow over. If you show that it is not affecting you then they will stop sooner or later :]
Also,you should try telling them that if they think that your a whore for making out 2 TIMES in your WHOLE life, then they DONT know the def. And tell them to look it up !!!
I hope I have helped :]
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