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hmm i really dont know what to say about myself, i love to give advice. meaning, im not just using advicenators to entertain myself. i simply like to help people out. i try to answer all questions to the best of my ability...im not going to tell you im "great at giving advice" because im sure theres people who dont think that, but there might be some who do...but what im getting at is everyone has their own oppinion and if you like my advice thats great! and if you dont, send me something in my in box because i would love any pointers or things i can improve on when i give advice. love ya!
kayla xo
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What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!
I'll rate honestly.
yeah..you pretty much just say yes..theres not alot too it.
Okay so i like this guy and he came over tonight with 2 of my other friends. and they left early and it was just me and him alone. but he didnt even try to kiss me. How do you like you all of a sudden start making out. i mean what do you just out of no where start kissing i mean. what are some ways if your siting close to get him to kiss you.
Hey,
If he was alone with you..and he didn't try anything..then he probably wants to wait a little bit. You may not think so..but guys aren't always thinking about making out. Sometimes they just want to cuddle and be cute with you.
Next time he comes over just like rest your head on his sholder or something. He will most likely put his arm around you (eventually if not right away). Hopefully by getting close to him he will kind of realize you're ok with being touchy.
ok , i like this guy . he knows im there but where not friends . he's talk to me but not real conversations . he is sort of a smart ass with really good jokes and sarcasim but i still like him . saying oh ilove you is someting he would laugh at . i need to become cool to him then get into the i like you stuff . any suggestions ?
Hey,
Just be really outgoing and stuff around him. So he doesn't think you're a boring person. Try and get to know him a little more so you can figure out when its ok to say something serious around him.
I knew the answer to this riddle when I was little, but I can't remember it now.
Here is the riddle:
What is greater than God
worse than the devil
the poor have it
the rich need it
and if you eat it, you'll die?
nothing is greater than god
nothing is worse than the devil
the poor have nothing
the rich need nothing
if you dont eat anything you will die..
Okay, I'm definitely not in a very good shape and up until a couple of days ago, I had been pigging out and just being normal but now I've started to work out (I'm doing very little cause like I said, I'm very out of shape) and today in gym class we had to run 3 laps. I did horrible, of course, but when we were done.. I could NOT feel my feet at all! I got that feeling like when your foot falls asleep! It was so scary and it took like 40 minutes to go away. I could barely walk.. and now I just got home from my aunt's house and I had to walk.. it wasn't even a very long walk and I got that feeling AGAIN! What does this mean? What should I do? I'm sure we have to run again tomorrow, and my gym teacher won't let anyone sit out. HELP PLEASE! ANYTHING!
Hey,
Well, since you probably aren't used to running around alot [seeing how you said you are out of shape] you're body just needs time to adjust. Try running around you're neighbor hood..or go on a treadmil for a little while and slowly increase the time you spend working out. You should get used to it fairly quickly and you might not have as many problems doing laps in gym.
Also, you might want to talk to you're doctor about what happened to you're feet. I dont think any advicenator has the exact answerr to why they did what they did. So make an appointment. Who knows, it could be serious [i doubt it though]
is there any way to get rid of double chins? i rate 5s for NON dumbass answers
this isnt exactly a NON dumbass question..so i guess im not getting a five??
how do you scrunch hair so it becomes wavy? my hair not really thick but its usually straight
Hey,
I dont know what other people do..but i scrunch my hair after i get out of the shower. you just put some gel on you're hands..work it through you're hair..scrunch it up and spray you're whole head with hairspray..
=( This has been really bugging me; I really like this guy. I've only known him for 2 weeks, and talked to him a few times, but I can't stop thinking about him. He's such a great guy, and I'm happy for any girl who gets him. But I can't get him off my head.
What's wrong with me? :(
Hey,
Dont let those kind of feelings fool you. Im sure you do feel like you're in love right now..but you have only known this guy for two weeks..you couldnt possibly know too much about him..get to know him better..and sort out you're feelings. Maybe it is love at first sight..i doubt it..but its possible. So get to know him and if you feel like you love him..you do!
my mom keeps telling me to do chores like take out the trash, do the dishes, and other stuff.but when i ask her to help she says it's not her job. so i ask then what is your job. and she says to be the mom. and so after that she orders me to do the dishs. and i say you do them. and she says you have to earn your keep. and so i say you dont earn your keep you dont even have a job. so i get grounded. why sould i work when my mom dos'nt. i dont think i was put on this planet to do dishes. and im not her robot. but i dont wanna be grounded. should i alpolage and destroy my pride or should i hold my feet down and stay grounded.
sorry it was so long.
i'll rate a 5 no matter what
Hey,
She is you're mother..i mean she brought you into the world..you should respect her a little bit more. I know you feel like a slave when she gives you an ongoing list of chores..but we all have to do them..I mean..sometimes my mom makes me stay in my room for hours and clean it till its spotless..and yeah i complain..but i dont make a big deal about it.
Parents..wont be defeated..they tell us what to do and we have to obey..suree occasionally there will be times where we feel rebelious and go against them..but we get grounded.
You wherent put on the planet to do dishes. But you need to help keep you're house clean. Its not a one man job..the whole family needs to contribute.
sucks huh? but anyways..you should apologise to you're mom. Just tell her you dont want to be cleaning 24/7..
hi, what do most girl/women use during their period to sleep? pad or tampon?
Hey,
Most women use a pad..you cant keep a tampon in for more than a couple hours or you could go through toxic shock syndrom..so it wouldnt be a good idea to wear one to bed..
Do you think its okay to teach your child to hit someone back if they hit him first?
Hey,
Only if you explain to them that they are only suppose to fight for self defense and not go picking fights with people just because they know how to punch..
I just started a brand new highschool & I hate it. I live in Texas, I was wondering if it were possible to get internet schooled? If anyone lives in Texas and is homeschooled or internet schooled, could you please give me the link to the websites.
Thanks.
Hey,
Im not too sure about the whole internet schooling thing, but im sure that its out there..but you should definitly give highschool a little more time. after all you just started. Dont make you're descision too soon..
okayy ! well i went out with this boy for almost 3 months and he was short .. and he knew it.. well we had an argument like a niqht before we broke up cause i didnt see him for like 3 weeks then if we didnt hang out today (the day of the argument) i wouldnt get to see him for another week .. soo anyway .. i got mad cause he wouldnt hang out with me ( am i right about getting mad ?) and i made steph my friend talk to him .. but i was sittinq on the floor rockiinq back and forth and then i was whisperinq i can do better i need to dump him because he treats me like ass.. but anyway then he heard and got mad so i forgave him about not hangin out but he didnt really forgive me but i talked to him the nxt day when i was babysittinq and then he said that he was ten like messinq around and i was like suuureee ..and he goes why do you think im soo short .. i said i dunno maybe you have growinq problems then he said what do u tell your friends you go out with someone whose short and i said nahh i say i go out with a short kid & he got mad and hung up so i called him back and he said dont fucking call me again bitch ! so i didnt...
what should i do .. oh yeah by the way im 14 and a Female
Hey,
Wow this guy totally isn't worth it.. hes totally taking advantage of you because he knows you like him alot. If he really liked you he definitly wouldn't say that shit to you on the phone..but i suppose that he's confident enough that you'll crawl right back to him.. so he can act like a totall ass to you.
And you're right for being mad at him.. he seems like a little (literally?) jerk..
kick him to the curb.. you might have heart break for a little while, but you'll get over him soon enough.. dont let him play around with you anymore!
i know this is a stupid question but whats emo ? like when someone says .. very emo .. something like that. or thats a emo picture what does it mean ?? ill rate the first 5 people to answer
hey,
emo means emotional..or something like that..
i was with my friend at the beach in july n somethings happened now my friend n me arent friends while i was down there last night a boy felt my boob n im dating my boyfriend for about 4months n i told him it didnt happen bc he found out by my friend so i lied to him and now i dont know what to do my friend said she has pic to prove it im scared plz help =[
hey,
if she does have pictures you're gonna have to own up to what you did, just explain to him that you completely regrt it and you hope he can forgive you because you dont want the relationship to end over one of you're goolish mistakes.. or something like that..
ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 years and he thinks im going to leave him. everyone hes gotten close to has left him but i never will. i dont know how to make him see that i wont. i love him way to much and if i was going to leave him then i would have when he lied to me about something. but its also getting me nervous because i dont know if he wants to take a break or anything, and i dont want to ask because im afraid of his answer. what should i do? please help. i rate.
Hey,
Im sure you are afraid of his answer, i would be too..but if you want to know what kind of grounds your relationship is standing on you're going to have to. Just say that you have no intentions of ending the relationship. And ask him what his oppinion is and everything. two years.. thats a long time..you must really love him.
I'm going to be a freshman this year, but a few years back, when I was a sixth and seventh grader, I was constantly teasted by this boy who called be bighead (ok, so my head is bigger than normal). During eigth grade when he left for high school, it was the best year. He used to tease me, and when I told him to stop he'd just laugh. Ignoring him didn't work either. Now I'm worried he's going to be up to his old habits again. How should I handle this? By the way, there is no way I can go to the guidance counselor or tell an adult, I just can't, so please tell me how i can handle this myself.
I'm female/ 14, and no, he doesn't have a crush on me.
Hey,
Well i think that he's probably matured more now. The whole "big head" insult is most likely an old joke to him.
But if for any reason he does bother you again, you can't just tell him to stop. Be assertive and tell him to shut the fuck up. Atleast thats what i would do. I know everyone always says, "two wrongs dont make a right" but sometimes it works to give them a taste of their own medicin. Find something bad about him and totally exadurate it and make him feel horrible.
I honestly think that he should be over it by now...hopefully he's matured.
im sure everygirl has the problem but i am confused me and my bf were at a party on the golf course and there was the bench like away from everyone he asked if i wanted to go up there with him and i said yes...so we went up there and all he did was sit there and barely even talked...i was kinda let down if u know what i mean.. but finally he started to talk and all of our freidns came up there being there nosey little selves........it seems like im making the first moves ..... i know he likes me but how or what can i do to make him come out of his shell
Hey,
Ive had boyfriends like that before. Maybe he is just keeping his distance. He could be worried that if he tries to make any moves on you, you'll push him away or something. I think that if you start putting some moves on him...he'll realize what kind of things your ok with and stuff and he'll feel more comfortable moving in on you.
Is it abnormal for a guy to like Full House? Like, from the first season to the end, having seen nearly every episode? I've only seen one other guy who watches it, so I don't know whether it's something to discuss... thanks. And if the answer is no, please don't me a smartass about it. I know that I may be metro. I don't care.
Hey,
In my oppinion i think that it's totally alright for a guy to watch Full House! I mean, its not like a chick show or anything...it's just most guys aren't interested in it.
my bf and i just broke up. i think i like him still but he's treated me badly the whole time we've been together. i found out that he never really liked me in the first place and was juz doin that till he got another gf. what should i do about my feelings for him?
Hey,
Well there isn't anything you can do about you're feelings...if you like him...you like him. Your going to have to wait for those feelings to go away. Just keep telling you'reself what an asshole he is and how he doesnt deserve you and hopefully that will help your feelings depart a little more quickly.