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hi everyone im katelyn. I love giving advice and taking some too! im a very open person and a very nice person. Well i think im a very nice person but thats up to u to decide wat i am. I think i am a very loving, caring, and honest person. I have my bad days but who doesnt?!?!? I am very trusting and u can tell me anything. I will try to help anyone i can and anyway i can.
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~katelyn~

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16/f
a few days ago i got a brazilian. and it was like prickly after. like there was still prickly hairs sticking up. and i dont mean for this to sound slutty or anything but if a guy is gonna finger me i dont want it all prickly and stuff. is it supposed to be prickly after or did the lady just do a crappy job?

thanks.

i think the lady did a crappy job because im pretty sure its not supposed to be prickly

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i alredy have my period....but i havent got it this yet this month and im thinking i might be pregnant. and yes there is a chance i could. its only 3 days late so far, but im scared to death. im crying all the time and i have this feeling of worry all the time, i cant stop thinking about it and im stressed and depressed. if im not that could just be making it later right? should i be worried yet? its only been three days, except the thing is im always on time every month. is there any ways to make your period come faster or force it to come? im so worried its like all the time. should i get a test and when? also if a person is pregnant and they take birth control will it kill the baby?
im scared please help me.

i think you should take a test after its been 10 days late and bein stressed and depressed makes your period late thats what happened to me before but if you want to be on the safe side take a test and then take another test 10 days after the first test if you dont get your period because sometimes those tests are wrong and you should take 2 well let me know how things go and if you have any more questions message me in my inbox k bye

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So I got this new boyfriend. We've been going out for two weeks. I asked a question before about sex, with my other bf. We broke up and now i have this new bf. I was so used to having sex with my other bf and I havent started having it yet with my new one. I dont wanna sound like a slut, I don't wanna ask for it. There has been opportunities, but i don't know what to do? i don't even know if he wants to!!

Please help!

well i would wait a little and just get comfortable with him for awhile first because its not always good to start having sex with your bf so soon. talk to him about it and see how he feels about it because thats all you can really do is talk about things and see how both of you feel about everything to make sure you are both on the right page ya know?? talking is the best thing to do because you dont even know if he really wants to at all well he probably wants to because hes a guy lol but like if he just wants to get to know you more or whatever just for know. ask him these quesions. then you will feel better about things and then youll know what to do and so will he.

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how do you curve your cravings?
i can never do it and i end up bingeing and stuff thats not good.

any advice would be awesome thanks :D

ok when you diet dont completely stop eating sweets eat less of them or any food that your not supposed to eat and then youll slowly just stop eating them because your body will get used to not eating them. like my mom is dieting and she eats something shes not supposed to like 2 times a week or so but she started with like everyday but little and then worked herself to eat less of it each time like as shes loosing more weight. the reason why you shouldnt stop feeding yourself certain cravings is the craving will become stronger like when you see certain foods your not supposed to eat then youll end up binging and whatever else so just start to work yourself off of the foods and your cravings should not stop but you wont crave as much. because when you diet or if you just want to try to eat healthier its always good to treat yourself so when you go to a party or something you dont end up eating an entire cake or something because you havent had it in awhile well ihope i helped and try that and see if it works for you it worked for my mom.

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Me and my boyfriend dry hump a lot nowadays. and last night he had boxers, and some athletic shorts on.. and i had just a thong on. and after we stopped i was really wet down there and his shorts were wet... im thinking that i just got wet and it got on his shorts cause he said he didnt cum.
is there any way i can get pregnant? i want to do this a lot but i dont want to get too risky. any advice, i rate high.

umm i heard that if he cums then the sperm is smaller than the fibers in your clothes but it dies before if would go through yours so the chances of that is very small.. i just learned that in health i asked that question lol.. but yeah the chances of it happening are very very small so dont worry about anything.

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ha alright so the other morning me and my boyfriend woke up and we had sex and after we were just laying there like cuddling.. and all of a sudden hes like oh damn do you have your period and i was just like uh no.. and then i looked down and i was like oh damn i do ahh and i got it a week early so idk i was getting it and we both had blood on us and we ran to the shower and took a shower and then we also realized after that the condom was broken and that he probably came inside me .. so now were both kinda freaking out because im only 15 and hes 18 and so we dont know what we should do.. should we just wait it out and see if i get my next period.. or since i had it will i not get pregnant?

take a test 10 days before your next period and then it will tell you dont wait to long. and its possible for you to be pregnant even though u just got your period because you got your period while having sex and so he still came in you so that period basically doesnt count kinda if you got pregnant it would show the next period. your greatest chances of getting pregnant is before you get your period and after your period thats when your ovulating but you can get pregnant at anytime but the chances are lower. well if you have anymore questions write in my inbox and il help you out with anything..

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why do you have to drink a lot of liquids when sick? how much is a lot?

the reason they say to drink alot of liquids is to keep u hydrated because the certain medicines you take when your sick make you dhydrated. you should drink water too because it wont make your tummy upset with the medicines.

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so if a mother has cancer will her daughter get it?
is there any chance at all
if so what types of cancers?


PLEASE ANSWER IF YOU KNOW!!

well u can carry the gene of cancer and it can be carried down to your kids yes but if the dad doesnt have that gene of cancer then most likely your kid wont get it because the dad is the dominant gene most of the time. but theres a chance im pretty sure of they kid getting it or carrying it it might not become cancer if their just a carrier. like for example you know how people say a certain cancer runs in their family thats how it happens like people carry it from generation to generation. well if you need anything else write me in my inbox if you have anymore questions.

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all the guys in mygrade hate me. they think im a whore cause i dress slutty but i dont mean to. I have no idea what i am doing wrong! i am so sad. please just help all you can

dress the way you want to and dont listen to what they say. who cares if you liket he way you dress thats fine and if you like the way you are then great. But dont get down because of assholes sayin shit to you like that...they dont know you dont take shit to heart by peopel you dont even really know..if you dont think your a slut then thats all that matters all that matters is what you think about yourself it doesnt matter what people think about you.. ok.. hope i helped ya.

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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and we are totally in love. He's 17 and is still a virgin because he wanted to wait for a girl who's still a virgin also and has all the other qualities he wants(which is me). In the beginning of our relationship he told me that he would never ask for sex but things are changing now. He'll be 18 this month and he wants us to have sex on his birthday. At first i was fine with it because there was no way that either of us would catch anything since we've never done anything. But I've realized that I want to wait until marriage and he is kind of mad but tries to hide it. He said that he still loves me and nothing will change. But i know he is extremely disappointed. I want our relationship to be awesome without sex. so I just dont know what to do....any advice would be helpful

do what you want to do and if he loves you he will understand your decision and respect it. having sex isnt all that great you dont have to do that to prove that you love eachother. my friend for example told me that she was goin to have sex with her boyfriend because she says that having sex means you really love that person. So she means you have to have sex after you have sex with your bf/gf then that means you truely love them but i think that you can love someone without having sex with them. Everyone thinks that having sex seals the deal with things but it doesnt you can be in love with someone and care about them fully before having sex with them..sex is just an act like showing that you love someone isnt bein physical with them tell your bf that and see what he says. tell him how you feel about it and talk to him maybe he will realize why you dont wanna have sex right now. if he gets mad over you not wanting to have sex with him then he doesnt truely love you like he says he does. and dont just do it because you wnat to keep him as your bf because you might regret having sex with him in the long run. i hope everythin works out and dont do anything you will regret in the future...think long and hard about everything and i hope i helped out a little bit because i regret having sex before marriage and id ont want people to make the same mistakes i did...if you think your ready then have sex but if you have any doubts about anything which i think you do since your asking for adive you shouldnt..well let me know how things go for you..


write me in my inbox if you have any questions...

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So awhile ago I met this freshman guy. We're both in high school, just to clear that up.
And he's way cool, and I kind of liked him.
And I'm a junior.
So I was wondering if it was weird to have that kind of age difference?
It's actually not that big. I think he's almost fifteen, and I won't be sixteen for like 8 more months. I'm a young junior, hehe.
Anyway, a lot of people tell me that that's weird.
So is it?

i dont think its weird. Your a junior but your 15 theres only a year difference in age thats not bad at all...i cant believe that your a junior and your 15 lol. but go for it i know alot of people that date younger guys just dont listen to what people say who cares what people think. :]]]

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My girlfriend wears clothes that are pretty revealing, which I like, but she also wears them to school in front of other guys (I don't go to her school)
She's very attractive and I don't want other guys staring at her when im not around. What can I do?

well tell her how you feel about her wearing those type of clothes and see what she says but you also cant tell her what to wear. Guys are always goin to look at other girls and how their dressing and everythin but that doesnt mean that shes goin to do anythin and im sure if those guys try hittin on her she will tell them to back off because she has a bf. you cant stop guys from staring at her but just remember your the one who has her not them. And maybe try telling her like to wear nice clothes and kinda revealing but not too revealing because i know i dont like when my bfs tell me what i can wear and what i cant..i dont know how she is but no one likes a controlling bf/gf. talk to her about it and see what happens from there but remember shes yours no those other guys at her school so dont worry too much about it!!! :] i hope i helped if i didnt im sorry..

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15 ½ \f\ virgin

okay I wanna go on the pill, but I don't know how to tell my mom! I know i'm young... I just don't know what to tell her.

Please, what could I tell her? Or any excuses? like bad cramps becuase of pms....

thanks in advance!

I say just tell your mom the real reason why you wanna go on the pill. Most moms might get mad at that and asks tons of questions but just answer them because that will show your mom that you can trust her and thats what most parents want their kids to do is to trust them and to tell them things. I know its hard to tell your mom or dad or whoever in your family about that kind of stuff but getting close to your mom and talking to her is better than lying to her because if she finds out the real reason she might be even more mad at that than the fact that your having sex. But do what you feel comfortable doing.

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14/f. I have started talking to this boy G, I've always thought he was cute, but then I started talking to him and his personality is great! I really really like him, I have hinted around about be more than just friends but he laughs like its a joke so do I so I won't look stupid, but my question I want advice on is "How can I tell him I want to be more than just friends?" I am really good friends with his brother if that helps. Thank you guyss and girls haha

just go up to him and tell him how you feel and everything and tell him that your bein serious about it and that he should be serious too and not to laugh. BE very straight forward and tell him very direct so he listens to you and doesnt laugh or anything. Ok well tell me what happens and dont worry about it dont be nervous or it will show and you might end up sayin something else. K well tell me what happens and how old is he?

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im still confused

i thought this was a movie..

they show it in theaters (stage) too? and the audience dresses up and brings props??? has anyone participated in this? please explain.

its a movie but they show the movie well peopel perform it live somewhere like the people at home watch the movie and some people can go to the place when they have it and dress like them and watch it live. My dads friend went they all do the dances and everything its pretty fun.

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i am 4m india. mujhe muth maarne ki aadat 4 saal se hai.jiske kaaran mein bahut weak ho gaya hoon .age-18 . plz give me a suitable advice.and how to enlarge my testis and penis yo normal size?

umm.. i cant read it but the normal size of a penis is 4to 6 inches

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Hi, i have had a girlfriend for a couple monthes now and i think it is time for us to move a little further in our relationship. So i wanted to get her wet and give her some pleasure, but how could i do this outside of the panties? And i am seeing her soon i would like to try anything new next time i see her. So any suggestions on how i can give her some pleasure?, anything will help, thanks, prefered experienced answers

well make sure she wants you to do it because if you spring this up on her she might get mad or watever but, rubbing her would be best i know i like it slow because going fast kinda hurts and you want to enjoy the moment and not make it go so fast. and you can rub her boobs a lil bit i know i like that alot!! lol and alot of girls do. You can also kiss her neck a lil bit. Well i hope i helped and tell me how it goes!

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OK, so I'm 18/m,

Here's my problem, me and my gf are in a long distance relationship. Thing is we love each other but the distance is hurting the both of us and she's still in school. Now, pretty soon here I have some time off and I want to surprise her and show up and do something nice for her. Only problem is that I'm tapped for ideas. Any help would be awesome.

Thanks in advance.

P.S. All answers will be rated.

well i would get her, her favorite flower of course then i would like plan a nice night like goin out to eat. you could leave flowers and a card at her house sayin to go somewhere and like surprise her at the resturant. Or if you guys like to stay in make her dinner or something nice and watch a movie. Idk where you live or where she lives but i would like go somewhere romantic and look at the stars together thats really cute and alot of girls like that stuff. Just doin cute lil nice things makes a girl feel special so do something you know she will like and enjoy to make the surprise of you bein there something she will never forget. Im sure she will be happpy no matter what you do because your there and i think thats all she wants. I hope everything goes well for you and i hope in the future things are still good between you and your gf!! :] let me know how things turn out! hope i helped ya?!?

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I know...its long, but PLEASE HELP!!!!

Okay...I dont know what to do. Im really really really into this guy, but I dont even really know him. He was friends with my ex and i added him on myspace. We only talked once on myspace and thats when he asked me who i was and we sent a few messages back and forth sayin what we were doing. but after that night (two or three weeks ago) we never talked again. Im always thinking about him though. I even had a dream ((no joke)) that he asked me out last night. Its getting crazy. I've never even heard his voice before. I see him around school all the time though. I know its all just lust but I feel like Im really in love with him. I've had a crush on him (if thats possible) since I first saw him based on how extremely cute/hot/sexy he is. && I've talked with friends who are friends with him and they say hes really nice and everything but hes kinda shy. Hes exactly how i pictured my "perfect guy" to be. I really want him to notice me but we have no classes together, and we never talk on myspace and I always get so nervous when Im the one to break the ice with someone, and honestly i dont know how. I dont know what to do. I know i should get over it or do something about it but I cant. Im just stuck with these feelings and I hate it. Please....any kind of advice will help...anything. i really need some help.

i say just go for it dont be afraid of what he might say or anything because what if you dont go for it then you coulda missed out on something good. But you will never know unless you try it out and see how it goes. I used to be shy and i never used to go for things but life is too short and you need to take charge and go after him girl. Get to know him more hangout with him and get his number then you can see if you guys are able to be in a relationship together because as of now you dont really know everything about him and how he really is. Let me know how things go im dyin to find out!! :]

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My boyfriend and i have been going out since june but a couple of weeks ago i broke up with him bc i heard he was flirting with other girls but then we stated going back out like a week later and the night we started going out again i heard that this new kid...(who is really hot and the smartest kid in our grade and the best at all sports) likes me and i really like him but idk what i would do if me and my bf broke up again because i really do love him and idk what to do because all these guys start liking me this year and i have no idea what to do!!

dont break up with your bf because some hott guy came around thats really mean to do to him esp. if he loves you and if you love him. If your even thinking about doing that then that means you really dont love him or your confused. just because all these guys start to like you doesnt mean you have to go out with all of them and if you like this new kid and you break up with your bf that you love it might turn out a mistake like he might turn out something that you dont like and then you have no one because you let your bf go. You have to think that threw and see how your feeling. Like are you willing to take a risk by dating someone else? let me know how things go and i hope i helped you

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