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This may sound like a stupid question but, what is the difference between a physchologist and a physchiatrist? Thanks -kait

If it helps I want to go into this field as a profession. Does anyone know any good colleges that have a good physchology program? Specifically helping Kids and teens.

a physchologist can give prescriptions-i think tha's pyschologist,but i know only one of them can give prescriptions
lol hahaha sorrry hope i helped

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ok i saw hitch today and it made me think even more of him! i just can't stop thinking of him. its driving me insane too. what should i do... i mean i really like him but im shy, i think hes shy too but i mean is it crazy that i think of him like evey second?
PLZ HELP! i rate high
*me

nah, in n o way at all is it crazy! im thinking of th guy right now and i havent been able to stop thinking about hihm for like 6 months. wow, i'm sooo shy too! tell him you like him, what's the worst that could happen?

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i was messaging my guy friend today and teasing him about liking this chick i know. (he used to like her) he's like "i dont like her. i like another girl but i know she doesn't like me." i was like "ooooh who is it? whats she like? how do you know she doesn't like you?" he wrote back "she's amazing and wonderful in every way. i know he doesn't like me... coz it's you, babe." i was like OMG i SO dont like him that way. what do i do???

girl, give him a chance. go out with him once. this happened to me before but the guy didn't know well enough and so i never knew if anything could of happened. what's it going to hurt? he gets to be with the girl that he really likes and you could try to see what's more in him.
all i'm saying is GIVE HIM A CHANCE

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13/f ..In my group of friends and in school, i am such a prude good girl but all of a sudden now i just wanna be a slut!! like i cant wait to go on vacation and pick up random guys. I really want a bf, to makeout,smoke, drink do all that stuff. Is this normal? I feel so weird because im getting all these urges and i dont know where theyre coming from! I feel dirty and like i wanna be like those girls in the movie Thirteen.. please help! im starting to do things.. i bought a thong, drank my moms wine and wanna do other stuff that i know ill get in trouble for! but i cant help it! what do i do??

it's hormones but don't get caught up in the smoking and drinking. nuh uh. im 13 and i want the hard guy, i want to be all dirty or w/e, but hey it's not me. so just calm down

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ive never kissed b4 except when i was like 4. whats it like and how exactly do you do it??

ive never been kissed either and im 13, so dont wrorry. some people, well actually, all people, say it comes naturally, but i dont' know how it would. but remeber ive never beenkissed. what im going to do is just let the guy lead
good luck

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what happens to the soul who commits suicide? what is life after death?

if you're a christain, then yolu go striaght to hell, so DON'T DO IT! IT'S NOT WORTH IT!

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IF a friend says bad things behind your back and you and her are the bestest friends in the world should you still be friends with them? I want to but i don't know if that is right or not??

still be friends with her.. just like confront her and discuss y'all's problems

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hi
ive got this friend and shes really annoying, she folllows me around EVERYWHERE and i mean EVERYWHERE! even when i want 2 talk 2 my other friends in 'private' she has to come up and listen in. my other friends think shes annoying as well and we dont no what do. and she always leans on my shoulder all the time and when i tell her to get off, she says that shes tired or something like that. PLZE HELP
what can i do/say to stop her from doing it???
luv nickixxxxxxxxx

tell her to bugg off! i have a friend like that and i swear it bugs the HELL of out me! i just tell her to stop listening in on my conversations and that it's private. tell it to her face. she needs to know... and as of leaning on your shoulder... ew tell her say "i don't care if you're tired, please get off of my shoulder" i do that to my friend and now i actually have privacy and she's still like my close friend

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Sorry i didnt know what to put this under;
anyways. i used to have a reallyy good voice.
i would sing in all this all county stuff
and i could sing very high and very well..
but i started to abuse my voice by going to
concerts and yelling.. so i would lose my voice..
and i am just an overall loud person so i always strain my voice from yelling or being loud..
so after all these years of abusing my voice
my voice is now really bad = (
i always sound raspy when i talk and i dont
sound as good as i did when i used to sing..
can this be fixed? should i go to the doctor?
i really want my voice to be back to normal..
my voice has been like this for a year now.
thanks so much in advance!! = )

believe or not, but your voice CAN be fixed. it may cost some money though. there is some type of surgery to even CHANGE your voice completely so there must be something to atleast help your voice! i've seen so many plastic surgery shows and they help. so, yeah, call your doctoror go see him and he may also give you some medicine. water and tea with lemon help, too.

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PLEASE DONT DELETE

I'm holding a handful of pills. I want to die so fucking badly but I'm afraid of destroying my family. They know i've tried to kill myself before*but endd up making myself just really sick* n havent let me see a shrink, i have absolutly no reason to be feelng this way. i had a fine day n now im looking at these things wondering what do to. i've taken a few, slowly. counting. but i jsut wanna fucking go but i dont wanna hurt people. i need to get the fuck out. can i run away for a bit w/o being arrested?
14female

I don't know what you're going through, but I'm sure it's extremely hard on you. Please, please, please PLEASE don't kill yourself! Nothing good could come out of it! Try as hard asyou can to see a shrink and maybe even the cousnelor at school. I think you can run away. And I don't htiknk you'll get arrested, because there's nothing to get arressted for. Just don't kill yourslef, things can only get beetter! Maybe go to the church and talk to the minister or paster for free! They're 1000% better than regular counselors. Stay for not only your family and friends, but sweetie, do it for yourself! People love you and don't want to see you go! Try to get away for a while and get away from whateveryour problems are.

Hope I helped, and I'll pray that things get better for you!

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my sisters are so pretty i just feel like im not and i hate that...then i always feel fat to because there are girls in my class who are like size zeros and im like not a size zero im tall and i weigh a bit but what is the average weight of a 14 yr old who is like 5'3 and how could i spruce up my look ill rate if this really helps me thnx
depressed
p.s. is this low self-esteem and how could i have good self esteem

I don't think I'm that pretty b ut people tell me I am. SOmeties I look beautiful while other time I don't look that decent. OH, and it doesn't matter what size you are, it's if you look good. To have good sself-esteem just try to like the way you look and be confident! If they don't like you for who you are then it's THEIR loss!

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hey i am going to formal soon and i got a dress and its really long down to the floor and stuff but soo pretty. and so then i find out everyone is wearing like shorter drsses like to their shins but mien is past the floor so wat do i do? i dont wanna be over dressed but i love this dress... wat wud u do

DOn't change it just because everyone else isn't wearing what you're wearing. Wear it becauseyou like it.

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is 13 too young to get married. i mean yeah it is but like i mean if you really felt you were ready could someone marry u without a parents consent. or even with one

wiat a couple years! when you're 15 you can go to mississippi and get married WITH OUT your parent's permission! pretty cool, huh?

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Okay, question! How do you ask someone out without being totally obvious? And is there any way to get someone else to ask you out first? (A trick maybe?) Because, I can't be one-hundred percent sure he likes me back, so I don't want to completly embarras myself. We only really see each other in school, and don't know each other very well, but there is some sort of spark. Please help?

well my "friend" used like "man, I need a boyfriend right now" or some subtle comment when you're speaking to him. try something about you wanting a boyfriend and maybe like have a friend ask him! like "do you like *name*" or something like that! good luck

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I have brown hair a little past my shoulders, and I was wondering what are some cool haircut ideas? Does anyone have any pictures?

you could get like the jennifer aniston cut on friends, but a twist. like get maybe 2 choppy layers witht he longest layer being on the top of your shoulders and the second choppy layer being probably an inch or two above it. then if you want like a cool look try getting long angle bangs. also like one of jennifer aniston's cuts. that would look really good. like the bangs could be to the tip of your nose (length wise) and then have her angle it. if you understand what I'm saying. it's hard to explain!

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ok i am in 7th grade. 5 feet tall 13 years old, i weigh 93 lbs is this fat? somtimes i feel like im fat, i wanna be like the models on TV. What can i do to lose weight besides going to a gym. it's kinda expensive. What foods can help me lose weight when i hate all vegetables except carrots and corn, and potatoes. plz help me what excersizes can i do to lose weight on my stomach and up and lower legs. (i play soccer also) :) ok thx thinks she's chubby~ babe

oh my goodness! i HATE it when people say how tall they are and how much they weigh and if they're fat! you can't tell by weight! it's how you LOOK! god

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the other night i had a dream that i made out with this cute guy i know. i used to have a crush on his cousin, and thats how i met him. after that dream, i can only think about making out with him. does that mean that i like him or is it just a dream and im over-reacting or WHAT?? i am so confused?

-nikki

ld4all.com it's just a dream. you may like him a little bit though, because when i started to like this guy i like now i had dreams almost everynight about making out, and more and whatever but your dreams are just your way of keeping your mind occupied during the night.

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Hey everyone. I have an embarrassing problem that's really taking over my life.. it might seems small to some, but it's not at all. I have bad stretch marks, and they're making me majorly self conscious... around everyone. I have them all over, but they're especially bad on my stomache and sides. They're taking hold of me and my boyfriends relationship. Does anyone have any home remedies or in-expensive products I can use?? I'm using palmers cocoa butter right now. Should I use it every day?? Please give me advice, i'll rate high. Thanks so much

OMGsh you are exactly like me! I was heavy and I lost some weight and now I have stretch marks all over my love handle area/sides and legs and omgsh I COMPLETELY hate it! Yeah, use the cocoa butter EVERY day and try to use it over night, also.

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OK I like this guy, and today at an assembly he asked me out and since I liked him, I said yes. Now, I dunno what to do. I like him but I'm nervous and I really don't want to ruin our friend relationship. Basically what I am saying is, should I go out w/ him? I'm just nervous. Thanks!
PS: I kinda have this "sad" feeling when I think about it. Also, since it's near Christmas, I don't want to feel like that.

try to go out w/ him! usually a guy wouldn't drop the friend relationship like THAT! i was SO nervous about telling the guy i liked him because i was afraid that it'd hurt our friendship but now we're going out and he still acts the same! so good luck, dude

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I like this guy, but whenever i talk to him i get shy n think mmore bout what i say. I always do this around guys i like but he is also pretty popular. I am usually loud n talkative but it just doesnt work round him. Please give me advice on what i can do so we can talk more!
I will rate go0od if u try ur best to answer this.

x0x Thankz,
In Love & Lost

do NOT be loud around guys! im a girl and i wa loud aroundguys to try to getg attnetion from him but he told me he hates it when girls are loud! and then he told my friend that i shriek in a certian class and i felt SO bad! so just dont try to be loud around him and tlak

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