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Last Update: October 5, 2006
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hey im 22 f,and i jus got engaged wth my bf, we have a healthy sex relation from the past 4 years now im getin maried to him its funny but is there any way i can decrease the size of my vagina.I mean he hasnt said anything rather he finds it funny but i want it for my own satisfaction but wtot any surgery. (link)
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I live in florida and i dont know the age limit law! im dating an 18 year old guy who is turning 19 in a like 5 months. Im 16 and I dont want him to get into trouble by dating me. we have been together for 1 year and 6 months already. so i was woundering what the law is in florida for dating an 18 yr. old when i'm 16? (link)
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im trying to convince my parents to allow me to fly by myself from wisconsin to washington. the problum is my parents say im 2 young to travle on my owne and i could be kidnapped. i was wondering if some people could give me some info. on the safety so i can try and convince my parents. i want to go next year so i will be 14 but they still wont listen 2 me. i heard from a friend that the airport people like, make shure u get from plane to plane and crap. but my parents refuse to even think about it. my mom is preddy much my only hope, and shes a big worry wart. could someone please help me? i rate well (link)
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okay, this mite be weird, especially cuz i can't think of all the lyrics and i mite get them messed up, but does ne1 kno this song..
what would u do if ur son was lyin at home all alone cuz he's hungry, and the only way to feed him is to....
im pretty sure i messed up the lyrics, but it's just been drivin me CRAZY!! thanks in advance!! (link)
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Well i puke whenever i eat sumthin or drink something..Sometimes i totally just do it on purpose..My mom thinks im bulimic..I think im fat and i want to become anerix or belimic or both..What should i do to loose weight and if i should do that..? (link)
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hey well i think you should all read this..just think before you act.
....before you make that first cut remember. You will enjoy this. You will find the blood and pain release addictive. Even though you think you can make a few tiny cuts that aren't deep and will heal easily ...they will get deeper. They will scar. They will take sometimes months to heal!!! And years for the scars to fade! IF you think you can limit the cutting to one area of your body think again...it will spread when you run out of skin. Be prepared to withdraw from others and live in a constant state of shame. Even if you are the most honest person ever to live ....you will find yourself lying to the people you love. You will jerk back from your friends when they touch you as if their hands were dipped in poison. You will be terrified that they will feel something under the cloth of your shirt or because it just plain hurts so much to be touched.
Be prepared to get so out of control you fear your next cut because you don't know how bad it will be. Just wait for 10 cuts to turn into 100....Be prepared for your entire life to revolve around thinking about cutting ..cutting and covering up cutting And just wait till that first time you cut "too deep." And you freak out because the blood won't stop...and you are gaping....and you feel yourself shaking all over. You are having a panic attack and you are terrified but you can't tell anyone. So you sit there alone...praying it will be ok swearing you'll never let it go this far again...But you will and further. Don't worry, you will learn how to take care of your cuts so that you can go deeper and deeper and avoid the ER. And the better you get at treating your cuts the deeper they get.
You will lie to yourself and justify it when you find youself spending 20 , 30 or 50 dollars every time you go the pharmacy. You will feel the flutter of your heartbeat everytime you go to the counter to ring up your order. Butterfly strips...3 or four different kinds of dressings...betadine....antibiotic cream..medical tape..scar reducers.....You will tap your foot impatiently hoping the line will just move and no one will stare at you or wonder why you need all these things. And at the same time secretly hope someone will notice...someone who is standing in line with an armful of the same supplies...someone who understands but of course that never happens.
Medical supplies won't be the only thing you spend all your money on. Be prepared to buy a new wardrobe...longsleeve shirts in summer colors, bracelets, wristbands , boots... gloves..the list goes on and on.
You will start looking at everyone in a differnent way...Scanning their bodies for any signs of Self Injury... just hoping that you might meet someone like you so you don't feel so terribly alone. You wont even think about it ..as your eyes scan their wrists arms...hoping just hoping they will be like you....But they are not. You will see their clean arms and feel terribly ashamed and alone.
You will start doing a lot of things alone. You will always have to wash your laundry in private so know one sees the blood stains on your clothes and towels. You will always be cleaning up the blood..Scrubbing your bathroom floor...wiping the blood of your keyboard....
You won't be able to make it through a day without cutting....Next thing you know you are in a public bathroom somewhere breaking open a scab with a sewing needle that you keep in your wallet for emergancies. When you get really desperate anything will be a cutting tool ...scissors...a car key...a needle ... a paperclip..even a pen. Doesn't matter what it is if you need to cut bad enough you will find something.
Say goodbye to things you took for granted. Like wearing shorts or sandals...pedicures...sleeveless tops.
A normal summer day at the beach or in a swimming pool will become a far off memory for you.
Get ready to itch. Beacuase you will itch and itch ..."so much you will look like you have fleas or a skin disease."
You will become an expert on your body as you destroy it carefully.. You will dream about cutting...you will dream about being exposed. It will haunt you day and night and take over your life. You will wish you never made that first cut because while you absolutely HATE cutting...at the same time you love it and can not live with out of it.
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HeY! Besides taking Midol or asprin, what a good way to realive or get rid of cramps?! ThAnKs!! I really need the advice! =) (link)
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ok ima be a freshman this year n im afraid i wont fit in!!! i was 1 of da most popular girl in middle skool but now its high skool!!! i have friends in h.s but i dunno im just afraid! like the reason i got to were i was, was bcuz of my ex-boyfriend..(the typical bad-ass,hot populat guy)well im afraid of losing everything i have right now cuz like ima be in LA, NY n puero rico for da rest of da summa n i wont be able to be with my friends n stuff.... wut should i be prepared for in h.s? (link)
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I think im addicted to cutting.... and i like it but i want to stop.... how do i stop? (My parents know and im not talking to a damn physcologist)
~Kele~ (link)
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well i have a problem, i think that it is better if i admitt i have a problem. I cut, and i think i know why i cut, i cut to know i am alive and i think its so stupid..but i cant do anything about it. I cut and bleed my problems away. I always wear sweatshirts so people dont really know. But i think it is hurting my friends that know, because one time i cut so deep it was bleeding for like ever. im kind of scared. (link)
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ok so i have been doing gymnastics for liek 2 years, i have always wanted to be on the high schools team but i have never competed before so im kinda scared, and the girls on the team are really intimidating and rude!! help me!! (link)
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There is this guy I really like. Today I found out that he cuts himself. The only thing is, he doesn't know that I know. How can I bring it up and tell him to stop without sounding all maternal? (link)
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ok how do i get bigger boobs without having a boob job? i hwear a size 36A and im 13 but my my freshman yeari wantr at least a 38A or 40A so can someone please help me?? how do i get bigger boobs!!!!WITHOUT HAVING A BOOB JOB (link)
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I'm five feet six inches tall and I weigh nearly 180 pounds. I want to weigh 118 pounds again, maybe less. I have been eating a lot less but it seems like the weight just doesn't want to come off. I don't have a whole lot of time to exercise, but I try to squeeze in a walk around my neighborhood when I can!
I have 3 bottles of those Stacker 2 pills but I haven't started taking them yet. They're the kind without ephedra. Does anyone know if they work and if so how should I use them? Also I am on the antidepressant Lexapro and I heard this can cause you to lose some weight. Does that work?
Any other "miracle" cures you can come up with, well hey I'm willing to try. Just please do NOT tell me to go on the Atkins or South Beach diets! (link)
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All of my friends are really worried about me because I cut myself. My parents don't know I still cut, but they know that I used to. I'm addicted to hurting myself and I don't want to stop. Everyone wants to change me but I refuse to. How do I get everyone to stop trying to get me to change? (link)
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i hate my life its a whirling twirling sprial of doom i dont know wat to do my life is filled with gloom my friend likes vodo i hate it i hate me i dont no wat to do they say to slit your wrist i say i used to i wrote this before to day wat dose it mean besides the fact i wanna die but i also want to help people but i cant if im dead but i wanna die... (link)
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What do you do when all you think about is dying? (link)
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is this a good poem?
i made it up:
once there was a boy
he lived by the shore
he played with a toy
man, he was a bore! (link)
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I'm doing a report on Anorexia and i would like to know what it is so could you please tell me what it is. Thank you so very much!! (link)
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