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Well, I absolutely ADORE this kid and he's practically in every single one of my classes..i dont think that he likes me..but you can never really be sure.He is SO nice and like no guy is as nice as he is. Like, he isn't afraid to be nice to me in front of his friends, even though his friends are popular. Could that be a sign of him liking me?..or could it just be an act of kindness?..idk anymore..but one day right before we left school..he came up to me and said..go on AIM when you get home..ok?..i was like okk..i mean why would he say that if he didn't like me?..not even a little..things like that are what make me like him sooo much more..i just really love him soo much..and i can picture us together..because we've gotten REALLY close this year but i dont wanna ruin that by complicating things even more..please help :(
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go for it!i no you dont wanna ruin things but if you like him then wouldnt you like dating him nd actually being able to call him your bf then juss being friends, forever until (if he does)ask you out!? think about that but i say juss ask him xOx risSii
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ok there is this guy he is my friend and he won't stop touching me or saying all this sexual stuff. He's really making me mad i don't know how to tell him because he's my friend, plz help. (link)
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juss come out ans say it wen he trys to touch you or say something sexual juss say stop it and if he doesnt get the hint then keep saying and be like "no! im serious it makes me uncomfortable" and dont hang around him alone if he doesnt stop!hope i helped please rate! xOx risSii
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(sorry for the length, in advance, but i really want advice :)) hey! ok here's the thing. i like love this guy that i know and all ithink about is him. well until like a month ago i thought he liked me (he knows i like him, he asked me, so i told him) because he had all the signs like would sit next to me and like look at me, you know the whole "flirting" type of thing and all my friends thought he liked me and i thought so, too, i have to admit it and i'm very, uh, what's the word oh yeah modest. but then my friends told him i liked him and then he asked me so i told him and he, too, is modest so he wondered WHY i liked him (what's there to like?) so then from then on i was very shy and like a chicken to talk (i still am lol) and so we kind of drifted from talking even though i saw him everyday. ok well everyone thinks he's trying to get to know me more b/c he knows i like him. he said that youc ant like someone unless you know them well so i think hes trying to get to know me,to see what would happen. well, he started now tosit and talk like during a class and sat close. well my friend thinks that he likes me, and that he's trying to get to know me. well, she and i and everyone were wrong before and i just don'tto do. id on't know if i should believe it or what to do. please help! ANY advice of anything. even if its just simple!
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ask him if he likes you or not..thats gonna keep happening until either he does something or you do something..you should ask him xOx risSii
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female/13 see i got a boy friend but mii best friend is a boy and it seems like i havent spent any time wit my best friend lately because im so focused on my boy friend so what should i do ? im scared of losing our friendship
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tell your boyfriend that you think your friend and you are spliting apart and tell him you wanna hang out with him too, maybe with a group of ppl. tell your friend that your sorry that you havent been hanging out with him alot and that you want to..if your boyfriend gets jealous and even after you explain to him that your friend is your friend and you want to hang out with him then sorry hun but idt you should go out with him cuz he has to like your friends too! hope i helped ,please rate xOx risSii
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Ok, there is this one guy at school (Eric) that I think I like. He's in my math class and I can NEVER wait to see him. I think he likes me cuz he talks to me more than most girl.s Here's the catch, my friends BF called me last night (Max)cuz he was bored. Also, I've had this crush on a guy (Daniel) since november and i see him a lot between classes. He occasionaly glances at me. Do ANY of these mean ANYTHIN? I rate HIGH! (link)
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eric seems like he likes to talk to you but dont get mistaken and overreact and think he likes you..asking him is the only way to find out ask him if he wants to do something sometime and if you feel uncomfortable asking that then ask him to join abunch of you for the movies or something. of picking which one, thats hard..which guy makes you feel good about and which one do you think you have the most in common with, which one do you feel more comfortable with? you have to ask your heart. hope it works out xOx risSii
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ok well, in social studies class i sit in the back. And the other day this kid Dan had been absent and we had a test that day. Well the day he came back he had to take it (i sit next to him) and during his test his cell goes off. In my school we r not aloud to have cells phones. And he thought if he reached in his pocket and turned it off then the teacher would think he was cheating. So he wisppers to me to turn it off. So i reach in his pocket about to turn it on when the teacher sees us. She thought that i was doing some thing **else** inhis pocket then turning off his cell phone. Now i have a detention for "cheating" and for doing other stuff wit dan!! wht do i do?!
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wow i think you should tell your teacher the truth..you dont want the teacher to think that the hole year! xOx risSii
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does anybody know how hard it is to get into princeton b/c i am freaking out about getting into it. i am a straight A student but will it be enough? (link)
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im only 13 but princeton is prolly hard to get into cuz its one of the best schools but straight A;s diversity will help nd if theres something unique about you or something else that will help is volunteer work, etracircular activitys, or sports help..is there anything in your school or around your town that you`d be interested in? clubs? sports? school newspaper? if you styll have questions i would go online or ask a school guidance of wat the requirments are to get into an ivy league. rate please xOx risSii
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okay my friend susan started cutting herself whenever she gets confused sad or mad.i mean our friend lisa goes to theropy for it so i wood think susan wood know better. but she does it more now than she used to. i mean its not deep thank god but i mean its still bad. i told her i wodont get mad at her if she came out and told me she was about to do it so i codo help her. cas i got mad at lisa n seh stoped comign to me for advice and i dont want that to happen to one of my closer friends. i told her whenever she thinks about doing it to call me and id always be there for her. i dont wanan tell anyone cas shell get mad at me. n if it gets worse i think im gunna tell someone cas teachers hav been noticeing how depressed she is. is there anything else i can or should do?
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my personal opinion is that you should tell someone..your friend might get mad but its either that or she could make a mistake or get REALLY deepressed and you'll forever feel guilty that you didnt say anything ad get her help she'll prolly thank you later, dont get mad at anyone for cutting, its bad to do to yourself but they cant help it you should tell your parent/guardian or school giudance or mabe try and ask your friend to go to a help place or call a help line..try talking to someone about it, hope i helped xOx risSii
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How do you know when your in love? When i see this guy i get the butterflies and my heart starts racing. I get all excited and hyper. I can never take my mind off him and i get depressed when i don't see him. He's my boyfriend now, but i just wanted to know if i am really in love.
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only you can tell if you love him but it sounds like you do!!congrats, your lucky but you stll have one problem..does he feel the same?it takes both ppl to b INlove but its always nice to feel that way about someone!juss follow your heart and you'll no wat to do!i hope it works it out!!! please rate xOx risSii
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i'll rate 5's!! PLEAZZ HELLP MEE!!
I like this kid a lot. My friend is on his bus and they are both friends, she helped us become boyfriend and girlfriend. I think she may like him because she always talks about their inside jokes together. It started to annoy me, but i didn't tell her that. Then her and I started to get into fights for no reason but we always made up. One of the fights my friend michelle told her i was mad because i thought that she liked eric (my boyfriend.) She said she didn't though, so we made up. We haven't been getting into fights lately, but her and eric have recently gotten in a fight where they told each other they weren't going to be friends anymore. My friend was cursing about him behind his back and saying all these bad things about him like how rude he was. That upset me. Then one day on the bus she sat with him and when she came into school she said to me that she wasn't mad at him and then in a very dreamy voice she said "We sat together, we talkedm, and we laughed." I told my boyfriend about this and how i felt like she liked him and he said that he only liked me and i didn't have to worry about him ever liking her. I don't want to talk to my friend about it because we will get into another fight and i can't stand that. Now they are friends again. My friend told me that she had a dream that a really hot guy who looked like eric liked her and then today she told me that in the game sims she made me and eric be married and that i cheated on him and he turned out to be gay. Do you think my friend want likes him and wants him to like her? Do you think my boyfriend likes her? What should I do about this situation? I can't tell my friend how I feel and i won't dump my boyfriend because i like him too much. Please help! (link)
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ok, i understand wat your saying..yeh i think your friend does like your boyfriend and no i don think your bf likes your friend, dont start a fight with her friend i think you should not worry about it cuz if your boyfriend likes you he wont do anything about your friend..if your friend doesnt do anything about liking him and she juss keeps it that she has a crush on him and doesnt try anything else i dont think you have anythin to worry about. it is kinda mean that your friend is telling you about all this stuff in dreamy voices and stuff but i think she wants him for herself and is trying to annoy you but juss dont take it seriously if you trust your bf then dont worry hope i helped please rate xOx risSii
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Ok one of my best friends is cool in all but shes kinda of a really big flirt..and i mean i dont think she means to do it but she flirts with like every guy..and i mean she flirted with this one guy that i liked and she knew i liked him n then he stoped liking me and started to like her..it got me really upset and im over it now but now i think its happening again with a differnt guy ...shes supposively talked to him about me and he said that he liked me and that he wanted to ask me out.. but the last couple of days i have seen her go and flirt with him and she will come into our class and talk to him as if she liked him..and im like wtf i dont know what to do! PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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i would confront her and be like it seems like your flirting with him..and see wat she says if she doesnt stop then talk to the guy, flirt with him and maybe he'll like you for hoo you are instead of your friend woo sounds like she is flirting too many hope i helped xOx risSii
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My friend is a horrible singer and he wants to be fameus and sing on american idol but he sucks really bad.. i dont know how to tell him
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thats a hard decision..
one*you can tell him your opinion nd say that you dont thaink that he would make it on american idol or
two*you can support him and lie to him..i might be rong but i say you should tell him the truth..if he is really serious about going on american idol then i would say to ask someone if they think he has a good voice to make sure its juss not you then i would let him down easy..first, ask him if thats realy wat he wants nd if he says yes then be like im really sorry but i dont think your strong point is singing, maybe you could try something else and im really sorry im juss looking out for you..i really hope that helps..sorry =[ or maybe you can say something else like that?im not sure..good luck and memba tell him nicely nd make sure to be comforting..hope that helps, please rate xOx risSii
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I'm not a sloppy eater- it's just I drop stuff a lot. I have this dinner at our country club and it's very formal. I'm wearing this pretty dress along with all the other girls going and the guys wear suits and stuff. So, is there any way that I can try to eat neatly so I won't get junk all over my dress or embaress myself? (link)
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haha im also a sloppy eater and i go to out with my grandparents alot and i have to remember to do eat formally and stuff but wat i try to do is eat slower than i usually would eat nd take smaller bites..when you have food on your silverware make sure its not all hanging off it..dont put so much on your fork or spoon..also try to sit close to the table and if it still is dropping then put your hand under the silverware wen you put it towards your mouth, good luck and please rate xOx risSii
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I like this guy that goes to another school and he's older, but really cute and nice and everything else there is to be. I see him at church and if I smiled at him or something, would he get a hint or anything? I look at him a lot and sometimes he looks back but would it be better if I smiled? And sometimes to attract attention, my friends act dumb and stuff but would it be better to act normal and not mess up and stuff? Is there any other tips to flirting or anything else I should know besides all this other stuff? Thanks (link)
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i think you should smile at him..but not TOO often..smile at to him at church like you were thinking of and be urself around him...about talking to him, i would say juss talk about something you might no he nose about or likes or something ur interested in..be urself nd you find out he likes you then great but if he likes girls that mess up then thats his problem and at least you no how he is as a person, hope i helped xOx risSii
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I need a lot of money to get a god straightner because my hair is extremely FRIZZY!!! What are some ways to earn $$$? Or some hairstyles for FRIZZY PEOPLE??
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usually hair straighners are about 60 or 80 for a good one but to juss get the job done i would look at a 20$ one tat you can get at the mall, claires or one at cvs..to get money..i would mow lawns or shovel snow(haha sorry where im from we juss got a blizzard) help around the neighborhood or pick up a job as a newspaper carrier..hope i helped and good luck! xOx risSii
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i'm 13(male). my brother is 10(male).
i've shared a room with him since the day he was born. when i was 7 or 8, we switched to bunk-beds. the ladder up to the top is prety much the only place of privacy i have, other than the bathroom. my family isn't the richest in the world, but we're in a pretty good financial situation compared to others (my mom is a college professer, my dad is a newswriter). my question is, am i selfish for asking for my own room. we've been searching for about a year give or take, and have been outbid in 3 situations so far. currently we're in the midst of bidding.
sometimes i do feel selfish, because my parents are slightly older, and i feel that i'm taking away too much of their retirement funds. (this isn't exactly all for me, the neighborhood we're in now is pretty bad for them, for ex: my view from my room is at my neighbors dark green pool, 10 feet away, and theirs noise pollution from the other side from a stupid bird, which drives my parents nuts.) so am i asking for too much? (link)
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no i think it isnt selfishh everybdy needs privacy all you have to do is tell your parents that you really need it..i think you should ask for your own room, and if your not going to be moving try to compromise with the place you have do you have a basement or an attic or something? xOx risSii
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Okay what is the best way to study 8 pages of history in just 5-6 hours? I need help, and fast please =) Thanks (link)
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ouch history..i would say that you should read it in parts like chapters if there is any and then right down wat you think is important and keep doing that until your finished! then take a break and go over wat u wrote down and see if that sounds right to you..hope that works xOx risSii
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I've liked this guy for a while and now he knows it, I haven't told him but he just figures/d it out. So, next week we're going to a party together and everyone who knows us says we should go together and that Josh likes me and he acts like it and says stuff that makes it obvious he does but when I ask him what stage he thinks our relationship is at he was like "Friendship" and I was like "That's it?" and he was like "Friends..getting closer and closer and closer..to the...top..like dating." He says that he does like me but he's not sure about exactly how he feels and all. He's trying to think it all through a whole lot. He doesn't think I know him that much, that I don't know the "whole" him. So, we talk and he said he wants me to come over his house sometime. We've gotten to be very close/good/whatever you wanna call it friends since school started. We're always ALWAYS talking to each other. In and outside of school. Another thing, he likes to talk about my "bubble butt". One day he even played the beginning of "Baby got back" up to "I like big butts and I cannot lie" and he was like "Thats all about you" and I was like "Why?" and he was like "Big butt". So the other day, we were talking about the party and he was like "How freaky and crazy do you get when you dance?" and I was like "Depends on how hyper I am" and he was like "You should eat a lot of sugar before you come" and I was like "And why is that?" and he was like "I don't knoooo" and I laughed. So then I said, "Are you gonna dance with me?" and he said, "Of course," then he said, "I need a girl with hips" and I laughed. Then he asked me what I was going to wear and I said I didn't know and he said, "You should wear a real tight skirt" and I was like "Why is thaaat?" and he was like "I don't knoooo" and I laughed again.
Me and him are always flirting no matter what, always talking and we talk about anything and everything and he comes up to me a lot at school just to talk to me. Even when we're in a group, we always manage to all behind or go ahead of the group just caught up in talking to each other. One day, we fell behind our group after lunch and we were goofing around in the hall and I pushed him and he pushed me and I pushed him and this boy behind us was like "Hey Josh, quit flirting with your girlfriend and get to class before you're late" and he just smiled slightly and looked from the boy to me, then we kept walking. I don't know, it's like there's some kind of connection between us that everyone else around us sees.
Another thing, I asked him if me and him were locked in a room together(we'd been asking each other hypothetical questions) would he want to make out with me and he said "Whatever you felt okay with" and he asked me "Would you want to?" and I was like "Yeah" and he said he'd want to, too. We also talked about once he got a new bike(not bicycle) that he wanted me to come over and ride with him.
I'm not sure what to do. I really want to hook up with him but I'm just so confused. I'd like to know what everyone else thinks of my situation if you could, thanks so much and I'm sorry this thing was so long. Anyone who actually finished reading it and still wants to reply, you are very patient and I really appreciate it. Thanks. (link)
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omg thats soooo adorable! you sound cute. i would say that you should flirt a lil and if it feels right then ask him if he wants to go out..i think he;;ll say yes and i hope he does i hope everything works out between u 2 xOx risSii
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ok well theres this boy at school that I like and some other people say that he likes me but I dropped a note in his locker and asked him if he liked me and he checked no helppppppppp me plez (link)
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im sorry hun but i dont think its going to happen, if said no then he said no and thats most likely how he feels sorry hope i helped xOx risSii
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ok so i really like this guy and i have liked him for a long time. and at one point i know that he liked me but nothing happened and the christmas break came but the only time i really get to talk to him is in the morning when i go to church before school and i see him at school and all he really does is aknowledge me with like a smile or a nod of his head but i hardly ever talk to him at school. but i do talk to him at church and he is always looking at me during church and then when i look bak he says something like he has been trying to get my attention the whole time. i wanna ask him to the saddie hawkins(spelling?) dance. should i? my best friend thinks that i should?whats ur advice?thanks (link)
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ok so i think that you should try asking him..it wont hurt to ask..if he feels the same then he;ll say yes if he doesnt then at least you no the truth that nothing was there and to move on nd juss be friends that you smile or nod to in the hallway or talk to at church xOx risSii
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