Question Posted Wednesday January 26 2005, 4:35 pm
i'll rate 5's!! PLEAZZ HELLP MEE!!
I like this kid a lot. My friend is on his bus and they are both friends, she helped us become boyfriend and girlfriend. I think she may like him because she always talks about their inside jokes together. It started to annoy me, but i didn't tell her that. Then her and I started to get into fights for no reason but we always made up. One of the fights my friend michelle told her i was mad because i thought that she liked eric (my boyfriend.) She said she didn't though, so we made up. We haven't been getting into fights lately, but her and eric have recently gotten in a fight where they told each other they weren't going to be friends anymore. My friend was cursing about him behind his back and saying all these bad things about him like how rude he was. That upset me. Then one day on the bus she sat with him and when she came into school she said to me that she wasn't mad at him and then in a very dreamy voice she said "We sat together, we talkedm, and we laughed." I told my boyfriend about this and how i felt like she liked him and he said that he only liked me and i didn't have to worry about him ever liking her. I don't want to talk to my friend about it because we will get into another fight and i can't stand that. Now they are friends again. My friend told me that she had a dream that a really hot guy who looked like eric liked her and then today she told me that in the game sims she made me and eric be married and that i cheated on him and he turned out to be gay. Do you think my friend want likes him and wants him to like her? Do you think my boyfriend likes her? What should I do about this situation? I can't tell my friend how I feel and i won't dump my boyfriend because i like him too much. Please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sexiibrunette answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 5:32 pm: i dont think that your boyfriend likes your friend, but i think that your friend likes your boyfriend. she probably hasn't told you so because she didnt want to hurt your feelings or for you two to get in a fight. you cant tell her who she can like and who she cant, her heart does what it wants. since shes your friend and all, i dont think that she wants to take him away from you, but she can't help liking him. imagine being in her position. lets say that your friend is the one going out with your boyfriend and you secretly like him. would you tell her about it? you probably wouldn't because you wouldn't want to hurt her feelings and you probably wouldn't want to take him away from her. I think your friend is just trying to be a good friend by not telling you so that you won't get mad. If the fights you have been getting into lately were about your boyfriend, try to stay away from that topic. Don't worry about her liking him, he doesnt like her and people can't control who they like. hope i could help!
hElpiiShErE answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 5:05 pm: ok, i understand wat your saying..yeh i think your friend does like your boyfriend and no i don think your bf likes your friend, dont start a fight with her friend i think you should not worry about it cuz if your boyfriend likes you he wont do anything about your friend..if your friend doesnt do anything about liking him and she juss keeps it that she has a crush on him and doesnt try anything else i dont think you have anythin to worry about. it is kinda mean that your friend is telling you about all this stuff in dreamy voices and stuff but i think she wants him for herself and is trying to annoy you but juss dont take it seriously if you trust your bf then dont worry hope i helped please rate xOx risSii [ hElpiiShErE's advice column | Ask hElpiiShErE A Question ]
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