Ok one of my best friends is cool in all but shes kinda of a really big flirt..and i mean i dont think she means to do it but she flirts with like every guy..and i mean she flirted with this one guy that i liked and she knew i liked him n then he stoped liking me and started to like her..it got me really upset and im over it now but now i think its happening again with a differnt guy ...shes supposively talked to him about me and he said that he liked me and that he wanted to ask me out.. but the last couple of days i have seen her go and flirt with him and she will come into our class and talk to him as if she liked him..and im like wtf i dont know what to do! PLEASE HELP ME!
melissaleigh answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 10:29 pm: Girls like this are a lot of times really insecure and getting guys to like them (especially if she knows you like them) gives her a good feeling, like she is important and special.
If she keeps doing it, put some distance between you two. You deserve friends who love and support you. Try talking to her about it and if it doesn't work, leave her behind. You'll be better off for it in the end. [ melissaleigh's advice column | Ask melissaleigh A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 9:27 pm: You sound angry and sad, and since your best friend has been hurting you with flirting towards guys, she needs to hear that sad and anger you've got locked up inside. You need to tell her to stop and if it doesn't, shes not worth to even call or have her as your best friend. She knows shes hurting you, nobody is that stupid, so you need to make sure she takes your anger seriously, make sure she knows that if she keeps hurting you, that means your friendship. I really consider you telling her, thats the only way to get her to quit.
Manulo answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 7:18 pm: Being that she is one of your best friends, you need to communicate with her how you feel. Maybe she doesn't know what she is doing or maybe that's her way of not being insecure..by talking to as many guys as she can. Anyway. talk to her and see what a real friend she is. Instead of thinking just do it because you will know if she cares or not. [ Manulo's advice column | Ask Manulo A Question ]
hElpiiShErE answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 5:35 pm: i would confront her and be like it seems like your flirting with him..and see wat she says if she doesnt stop then talk to the guy, flirt with him and maybe he'll like you for hoo you are instead of your friend woo sounds like she is flirting too many hope i helped xOx risSii [ hElpiiShErE's advice column | Ask hElpiiShErE A Question ]
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