Well, don't bring makeup. What good would makeup be at the beach? You should only need one bathing suit...whichever one you like. And you need sunscreen, lots of it. And lots of towels...and some food. Also, a beach umbrella wouldn't hurt.

Listen to music, draw with sidewalk chalk, stomp on some ants, read fanfiction, write fanfiction, read some more fanfiction, read a book, draw in a notebook, ride a bicycle, go to school, open an umbrella in the house, sing, take a shower, swim in a swimming pool, swim in a pond, swim in an ocean, go to the zoo, go to the mall, go to the Asian market, pretend to be a pirate, watch a movie, climb a tree, play with kittens, watch Charmed, drive around, pet a cow on the head, catch lobsters and I have to go look for an umbrella now (it's raining), so I'm gonna stop here.

No. Actually I think it turns them on even more! Lol...they like innocent girls...kinda sick when you think about but whatever. Most guys would love to give you your first kiss!

You don't truly love her. If you do, you have no respect for yourself. You need to respect yourself before you can be involved in any loving, normal relationship. The first step is...forget about people who treat you like shit! This girl doesn't care about you at all. She might even strongly dislike you! You can do so much better. Back off and leave her alone, it's what's best for both of you. It's time to move on.

Violent. Yes, you'll probably get hurt.

She probably just wants attention. Being a kitten, she needs attention just like a human baby. That's why it's sometimes better to get older pets from a shelter.

If you did not consent, it is rape. But how do you know he even did it? He might have been lying to you. Don't worry sweetie, it's not your fault. If you're feeling violated, depressed, etc. try looking at http://www.rapevictimadvocates.org/, or (and this is better) see a psychiatrist. You must tell an adult you can trust about this. Don't say "John raped me in my sleep.", because you don't know for sure, so say that he told you that's what he did. Good luck, and the next time he tries anything funny with you, punch the little bastard.

Haha. No don't steal his phone. If you call people with it his family will still get the bill, and even if they don't figure out it's you who has it they'll cancel the plan and then you won't be able to use it! Plus your boyfriend will probably be grounded forever because he lost his phone (which since it's so cool probably cost a LOT). Plus, he's your boyfriend and he needs to trust you. Don't betray his trust like that! Besides, if you end up married, he'll probably buy you a house with an in-ground pool and a ferrari and all sorts of awesome stuff, plus ten of those cool phones. If you steal his phone, he won't want to marry you.

I think you're right. He's just a horny kid. He might have on and off feelings for you, or just be really shy about telling you how he really feels, but he doesn't sound worth it to me. Continue to be his friend, but I'd leave it at that, though in the end it is your decision. Try your best to get some honest answers out of him before you do anything sexual, though.

It's really none of their business. I guess I have it lucky...my parents see it as my choice to make, they have no control over it, so they don't "allow" me to have sex but they don't forbid it either. I understand that many parents would be worried about their children having sex, or would be in denial about their baby growing up, but they really have to get over that. Especially if you are eighteen. You are legally an adult so you should be able to make your own decisions. Don't even tell your parents about it. It's absolutely none of their business, they have their own sex lives. Have fun, be safe, and check out http://www.scarleteen.com/, I find it is very helpful.

You leave the end a little lose so there's a little pocket for the cum to go into.

What does he like? Get him a movie he enjoys, or a book. Or make him something special like a picture frame with a pic of you two in it, or a cake, or a pillow or something. I'm sure he'll love whatever you give him.

I think you should just accept your body the way it is.

Talk about whatever you normally would, like what you want to do in the future, where you want to go to college, if you ever want kids, if you think you wanna travel. But don't do that at the movies. You're not allowed to talk during movies.

It sounds more like he's just really shy and wants a friend. Don't get too worked up over somebody smiling at you. Get to know him better and then start thinking about a relationship.

Try leaving it in a bit longer. My facial masque says it takes five minutes but it actually takes a good hour before the results are satisfactory. If that doesn't work, get something better. Or talk to someone at the hair salon next time you get a haircut, they will be able to tell you.

Personally, I'd rather have straight hair...curly hair really sucks.

Yeah. And all the other times, too.

No, they can't tell. Usually they won't even look if it's a regular physical, and I don't think they would if you are under eighteen. If they ask you about your sexual history, well, you don't have to tell them the truth I guess. And they probably will ask you. Lying isn't really in your best interest. But don't worry, they're not gonna arrest you for admitting that you're sexually active. They're doctors, not police officers.

It should be 5-7 days, and it will probably hurt, and you should be using pads or tampons.

You can makeout with him if you want, but I think that you would be doing it for all the wrong reasons. You want to be like everyone else, you want to be popular, etc. But making out with this boy will not fulfill you for very long. You are human; you will ALWAYS want more than you have. You are quite young and have the rest of your life to makeout...I am seventeen and I have only kissed a boy once and never even dated (unless you count cute little preschool "dates", which I usually don't) Many people do not do anything like dating or making out until late highschool or even college. Try to rise above other people's expectations. So they call you a prude. There are worse things that can happen. You are who you are, and you don't have to do what everyone else is doing to be happy. Always be true to YOURSELF. Think about the consequences...they get you to makeout, they realize they can get you to do ANYTHING. And this boy will most likely makeout with you once and then never want to talk to you again, or spread rumors about how easy you are. Not everybody you know has madeout, and many of them could be lying. You can take the chance and make out with the boy if that is what you want, or you can decide that you would rather not at this point in your life. In the end it is all up to you.

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