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rape?


Question Posted Monday June 13 2005, 1:33 am

ok this is really weird but my cousin said he took my underware off and had sex w/ me while i was sleeping (im 13 hes 15) was that rape because i really dont want to have sex now

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gakkuhideto answered Monday June 13 2005, 5:17 am:
If you did not consent, it is rape. But how do you know he even did it? He might have been lying to you. Don't worry sweetie, it's not your fault. If you're feeling violated, depressed, etc. try looking at [Link](Mouse over link to see full location), or (and this is better) see a psychiatrist. You must tell an adult you can trust about this. Don't say "John raped me in my sleep.", because you don't know for sure, so say that he told you that's what he did. Good luck, and the next time he tries anything funny with you, punch the little bastard.

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HyperactiveMiss answered Monday June 13 2005, 2:40 am:
Sounds to me he was kidding. I mean, if he did that, don't you think you would have felt ANYTHING at all? I would have woken up by just having someone walk into my room when I'm sleeping.

Nevertheless, if it bothers you, tell someone like your parents. Even if it was just a sick joke, maybe some adults can get his head straight and keep him from making those sick jokes.

If he really did do that to you, yes it's rape. I highly doubt it he did do it to you though. Unless you were like stoned, maybe then you would have been out cold and he could have done those things to you without you finding out.

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*ashlee* answered Monday June 13 2005, 2:40 am:
i just want to apologize for thinking that your a dumbass, because you cant help it.

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Mackenzie answered Monday June 13 2005, 2:21 am:
Hmm, aRe you shoRe that wasn't his lame attempt at a joke???

If that all Really occuRRed.. yes... that is Rape... =/

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CameronASTB answered Monday June 13 2005, 2:14 am:
your 15 year old cosin raped you? ok, thats a little sick

but he was probolly jokeing... I hope...

but yes it was rape, because if you didn't want to have sex, then he had sex with you while you were unwilling, then that would make it rape, I would make shure if he was or wasn't jokeing, & if hes not or wont tell you, then you should tell his parents or your parents, cos thats a serious issue, & expeshally if its your cosin

-Cameron

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lilly_pads79 answered Monday June 13 2005, 2:07 am:
Yes! It is rape you need to tell you parent or gaurdian even if he is kidding you never know!
Hope I helped!

~*Brianna*~

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russianspy1234 answered Monday June 13 2005, 2:05 am:
yes its rape, you were asleep. its also sick becasue hes your cousin.

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