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what happens during sex?
i think im gonna be having sex soon. can some peez tell me the steps on what2 do. what will the guy do to me? im ready to have it but i want to know what will happen first. you know... like what happens first and what happens at the end.
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sex isn't something that is planned out.. and it isn't the same for everyone. it will most likely start with making out, touching, etc. the guy will most likely take the lead, so just follow what he does. if he knows its your first time he will be more understanding!
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You aren't ready, don't do it at all. Since other people are saying the age "13" im assuming thats correct - judging from the rest of what you were saying i'd guess that would be correct by that as well.
Nonetheless - you seem young. Sex is an act used for reproduction, if you want to have a child, have sex. If you don't want to have a child - don't have sex. Its not like a cabbage patch kid, it takes a lot more responsability and you can get in quite serious trouble if you have sex (reguardless of whether you consent or not - its considered rape if you are under 18)
While at your age I recommend you don't have any form of sexual contact at all (kissing and the things im talking about are in two different ballparks) if you actually want to do something I suggest mutual masturbation (and if you don't know what masturbation is - you should not even be considering having any form of sexual contact. Even mutual masturbation)
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Please don't do this. you are too young. 13,
before you worry about what to do, you should be worrying about what not to do. Don't get all your information about sex from the boy who wants to have sex with you. Or your 13 year old friends.
Do you know how to prevent pregnancy? Do you kow how to prevent sexually transmitted diseases. How old is this guy. If he is 16 or older he could be arrested for having sex with you. Your parents can have him arrested. And don't think they won't know. Unless they are really lousy parents. Please don't do this. Please wait until you know more about it. I can't tell you everything you need to know on this website.
You should also be sure that you know this guy very well. What if he is just using you. Playing games with your head just so he can get you in bed. I'll tell you one thing.....sex at your age, is mostly just a pleasure for the boys. They orgasm very easy. It is not that easy for many girls. What the girls like is feeling close and kissing and being close. But after the boy has his orgasm, he'll be done and anxious to get out of there. You'll be lucky if he even bothers with you again. Then he will tell all his friends and suddenly YOU will be the most popular girl in school, because you are only 13 and willing to have sex. You will regret this. Please don't do it. You will remember my words and wish you had listened to me. Please don't do this. You could end up with your heart broken, or worse, with a disease or pregnant.
Michele
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i'm pretty positive that it will hurt if its your first time but from my point of view people have different feelings to different feelings so dont worry but make him wear a condom if you dont want kids! and dont let him get away wit that "it dosent feel natural thing" its a bunch of bull and dont let him say "oh i'm sorry i forgot one" its not true be careful you'll be fine!good luck
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