hey everyone! i'm from france. i'm in high school. i'm alright at giving advice so if you ever need any help i'll do the best i can! i'll check this pretty often so that i can be the best advice giver i can get, peace and love
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Why are some guys such JERKS? No, that's not really my question, but I would like to know.
My question is this... I have a boyfriend. I think. Thing is, I haven't spoken to him since early December. He WON'T take my calls. How do I know? "Hello Mrs. Carr, is Andrew home?"
"Just a second" *calls his name in the backround*
*Andrew whispers back* "Who is it?"
"May I ask who's calling?"
"Yes ma'am, it's Brandy."
*Andrew whispering again* "I'm not home."
*His mom* "Brandy honey, could you call back in a few minutes please?"
"Of course."
So I wait a few minutes, about fifteen, and call back. NO ANSWER. I call my friend Meg who lives right next door to him and asked if he was there. She said yes. I called him again. No answer. I waited a few more minutes and called back. No answer.
He missed my birthday and hasn't spoken to me at all in over a month. I just don't know what to think. I mean, he hasn't broken up with me, so does he want to be with me? And if he didn't want to be with me, couldn't he grow some cohones and tell me instead of ignoring me?
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i'm sorry to say, but hes a real jerk. if you guys havent spoken since early december and he wont take your calls, then, well, he doesnt have the cohones to tell you. if he hasnt broken up with you yet, then its up to you to step up and show him that you wont be treated this way by your boyfriend. i mean, he missed your birth-day! dump him now before you get too attached. and the signs hes sending you are pretty negative, he probably doesnt want to be with you anymore, and you should want to be with him
good luck, xoxo
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ok im 15, 4 11, 80 lbs, and i dont even fit into an A yet. i wear a AA 30 -32. and it SUKS! my bodys done growing, does that mean my boobs are too? thanks =) (link)
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hey! dont worry, your boobs arent done growing, and they wont be for a while. they still grow when you're pregnant. so dont worry about that. boobs grow for a long time, and they also most likely grow if you gain weight. so just be pacient, they'll grow some more.
peace and love, xoxo.
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ok im with this guy and weve been together for 1 month and i am so ready to have sex with him and i really do trust him and weve spoken about sex so many times but after how many months do u think i should actually have sex i dont want to have it too early..
please answer thanx
ill rate high
xxx (link)
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hey! personally, i would wait longer. i mean, if the guy is worth it, he'll stick around no matter what. i woudl wait atleast a year, but thats just me. jsut to make sure that you guys know each other well enough. like, i believe that you have to go through good times and bad times just to make sure to see who are the ones who care. and if in a year or so you guys are still going strong, then i'd say you guys are ready.
hope this helped, good luck with your man,
peace and love
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would this sentence be correct in french ( i saw that you helped anothe girl, so i thought maybe you could help me with french too..) anyway : Si seulement je pouvais lui manquer ? Il suffirait..
I want it to be : if only he could miss me, that would be enough.
So is that right?
Thank you loads =) (link)
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hey! your sentence is almost correct, except for one word. you wrote "he would be enough" instead of "that would be enough". so to change it, write: Si seulement je pouvais lui manquer, cela suffirait..."
there you go,
hope all goes well, peace and love
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how do u give head blow jobs or hand jobs pleaz help and ummmmmmmmmm hurry!!!!!!
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hey. well there are different ways you can do that. many websites give information about that if you want to know more details. for blow jobs, you can just grab his dick and suck it. and for hand jobs, again you can take it in your hand and then start rubbing up and down his penis with your fingers in a hole form. thats the basic thing, if you want to know about how to get there and stuff, then feel free to write me another question.
peace and love
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Hey. Okey so i tried typing this into a online translator but the sentence gets all screwed up..and it's not like its a homework or anything..i want to let this guy i like know that i like him. And you said you know french soo.. Anyway i thought it would be cute to do it in french since that's how we met..he was tutoring me :) anyway this is hwta i'd like translated : Iäm writing to let you know that i can't stop thinking about you. You are constantly on my mind. You are a unforgettable person with an amazing personality. I'd never be able to describe what i like about you..because that would take me forever.
Can you translate that?
THANK YOU soo sooo sooo incredibly much.
PS.Is there anything else you would like to add to make the letter to him better?? (link)
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hey! yeah i know french. so here is what your wrote translated to french: je t'ecris pour te dire que je n'arrete pas de penser a toi. tu es une persone inoubliable avec une personality incroyable. je n'arriverai jamais a decrire tout ce que j'aime sur tout, car cela prendrai trop de temps.
something else that can write could be like: with you, i can be myself and not feel stupid. you are the one person that makes me feel this way. and it would translate to: quand je suis avec toi, je peut etre moi-meme et ne pas avoir l'air d'une idiote. tu es la seule persone qui me donne cet effet.
so there are you. if you have anymore questions (or translation) feel free to ask me!
peace and love, and good luck with your guy ;)
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Okay well my boyfriend and I have recently been having sex through about 3 months and we have been going out for three years. Not once have I had an orgasm, I always have to fake it and I sort of get tired faking it because I want to experience what an orgasm feels like. And I don't want him to give me oral or finger me or whatever, I want to have an orgasm through intercourse. The sex feels good, but there are times when I cant even feel it in me. Does anyone know how I could achieve this? (link)
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hey! you should stop faking it, cause thats teaching him how not to please you during sex. like many have said, orgasms can be hard to get for woman through intercourse. but try experiencing different positions, maybe making it more spontaneous, i mean, you have to be in the mood. you cant force yourself to have an orgasm, just dont think too hard about having one, and just enjoy. maybe you guys shuld try different ways to get to the actual sex part. by that i mean if you usually do it after a date or something, then try to do it at other times, in different places. it might help, but it might not. something else you could do is guide him sort of speak to your g-spot. so stop faking it, try new things, and tell him what you want him to do to you. also experience with your body so that you know what you like and what you dont like, so that when you have sex with him again, you know what you want and the best way to do it for you to possibly have an orgasm. i hope this helped, if you have more questions leave a message in my inbox. peace and love
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ok.. i am 13 and a female. i already got my period like in march. i usually run like 27 days. and i was supposed to get it last week. like. i know if you miss your period that is a symptom of pregnacy. but i have not had sex or anything or like takin pills. like is it normal for my period to be late. like i just got it but that was in march. so i am so confused. and on thursday i am going to hurricane harbour in six flags. i am scared like will i get my period there? or before. i am so nervous. i mean. hurricane harbour is my birhday party. so i do not want to miss it or get it there. i am going to bring like pads and stuff there. but i know i should wear a tampon just in case but my mom says i am to young to use them. but i could. but i am to scared. so. im so confused.
like im not only asking if i could be pregnant but like... im scared.
rissa (link)
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hey! i dont think you should worry about you period. it can take a year or two sometimes for a girl to fall into her regular pattern for her menstrual cycle. so it might take a while. sometimes you can skip periods, get it too often, it sometimes depends on your surroundings, or it might just be your body getting into its groove. tampons are easy to use if you're relaxed enough. hope this helped, if you have more questions, leave a message in my inbox. peace and love, xoxo
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okay this isnt really a sex question.. but here it is. im 14/f and i dont have that big of a chest. At my camp, the guys are always making fun of me for it. My doctor recently said within the next two years i would be done growing.I dont want a small chest, but im afraid thats what im going to get. When i reach my peak with height, is the rest of my body gunna continue to develop? or am i stuck this way forever?
i'll rate high if i get good answers. (link)
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hey! fortunately, when a girl reaches her peak with height, shes not done growing in every way yet. your boobs will get better throughout your whle high school. i've been my height for 2 years now, and my boobs have kept on growing a lot since then. so dont worry about those stupid boys, in the end they end up not caring all that much about boobs. but your boobs will probably grow, and if they dont, i'm sure you'll still look fabulous. hope this helped, if you have more questions leave a message in my inbox. peace and love xoxo
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okay, i use tampons during my period, but im nervous to go swimming with them in. Im afraid the water will soak the string, making the blood travel out trhough the tampon string. Does this happen or am i worrying for nothing? (link)
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hey! theres nothing to worry about, believe me, i've done it before. cause when you're in water, the blood flow stops. so no blood cmoes out at all. the string doesnt soak or anything like that, its safe. just make sure the string stays where its supposed to be, and nobody will know anything :) hope this helped, of you have more questions leave a message in my inbox. peace and love, xoxo
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OK there's a real problem in our school and it's sorta weird. If you get called a whore, people in my school take it as a compliment. Does anyone think this is very disturbing? Oh yea, and the people in our school who are popular are the sluts and the girls and guys who drink in school. I sorta wanna know how to stop this. Thanks! (link)
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hey! unfortunately, i dont think there is a way to stop it. as disturbing as it may be, you cant do something about it alone. just make sure that you and your friends dont become involved in that kind of stuff and try to get other people on your side too. maybe some of those sluts and druggies would see that you can have fun without being a whore. i hope this helped, if you have more questions drop a message in my inbox. peace and love, xoxo
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how is someone sexually abused? i mean i dont understand.how do people abuse someone sexually? what do they do? my friend told me about someone that was and i was just wondering!
* I RATE * (link)
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hey! being sexually abused means to be forced to physically do something, which can involve touching, rape, and everything in between. it can also mean that people are spreading rumors about you doing sexual stuff, which might not be true. hope this helped, leave a message in my inbox if you need more advice! peace and love, xoxo
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okay i have this guy friend that i'm really close to. were always playing w/each other but is it flirting? like today on IM he said "omg you looked so HOT today! j/p" and i said "yeah you too ;-)" but i mean is he flirting w/me??? were pretty open w/each other and everything. but he asked my bff out and she turned him down and i don't think he's quite over her... is this flirting? thanks (link)
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hey! yeah i think he's flirting with you. when he imed you, he might have said "jp" but he woulnt have said that you looked hott if he didnt think so. also, he's probably scared of rejection because your bff turned him down. i guess now you need to figure whether or not you like him, and if you do, maybe you should wait a little while to make sure that he's not flirting with you just because he got rejected by your friend. i hope this helped, peace and love
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Remember this? http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=318827
It's me again :) Except now I'm much happier. Can you believe that problem didn't go away until months and months later? Well, it's all good now. I dumped some friends, but I'm glad.
Anyway, I just added you to my favorite columnists and I thought you might wanna know. ;)
- HyperactiveMiss (link)
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hey! i'm glad i could help! i'm really glad that its all better for you. those friends didnt deserve your friendship, so yuo'll find other great new friends that wont talk trash about. thank you for your feedback, and i'm really happy that things are good and you're bck to being happy : )
peace and love
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Ok, now get this. I'm a 14 year old male, turning 15 in October, I'm 6' 2", and I weigh 130. I'm not skinny, as most people think when I say that. I do have a 30-31 inch waist, but I also have a large six pack, large chest (100+ lb. bench press, free weight, 180-190 machine), good biceps (35 lb. one-arm curl, 75 lb. two-arm), my forearm is larger than my elbow joint sideways, and my shoulders and neck are worked pretty well (40 pushups are nice and easy). I don't have any stats for my legs right now but I have really large upper legs and calves about the same size. I play baseball and I can run a 4:40 MILE easy (to give you an idea of my legs). But I want some more weight. I have all the size I need but I'm gonna start working with the football team soon for the next season (b/c I'm obviously too small right now) and, well, yeah, I need some more weight. Protein shakes aren't my favorite recommendation, to me they're like a legalized form of steroids. And they basically just build muscle - not the strength with it. But I'm thinking about 'em, but if I did do protein shakes, I'd only do one round. But chyeah, any suggestions on ways that I could go from 130 up to around 160 or 170 within the next few months (before the end of this year)? And hopefully to around at least 200 lbs. by the end of this school year (next May)? Oh yeah, and I'm at least 97-98% muscle and I'd like it to stay that way. Thanks for any and all suggestions I might get. ~All 4 Him 4eva~ (link)
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hey! i'd suggest for you to eat more carbs like potatoes, breads, pasta, rice, that kind of stuff. these foods add up the pounds and give you energy to do sports, so you'll hopefully gain weight and stay fit, as you'll have the energy to stay active. dont eat junk food or whatever else, cause then you wont stay in good shape. just try to eat more carbs and proteins and keep doing all those sports, and you should gain weight. but you know, you dont have to gain weight, or atleast not thar much. you're still young, and your weight will catch up to you some time. hope this helped, if you need some more help, leave a message in my inbox. good luck, peace and love
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ok I know I know I am totally screwed probably and I know I messed up big time but please dont tell me that over and ove...but ok I was raped last week and I didnt tell anyone yet...I cant im scared i dont now why but i feel like its my fault cuz it was my bf and Im the one who went out with him...so ya i know im screwed cuz the evidence is probably gone but I really need help on how to tell someone so thats why I came here..plz help!!
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hey. just because you went out with him doesnt mean that it's not your fault. if you tried your best to stop it, then you shouldnt blame yourself for something that he did. you shouldnt care if the evidence is gone or not, just tell someone that you trust and that will be able to make you feel better and that will be able to help you figure out what to do. tell someone that you know might not freak out, so that you won t freak out either. you could also find those groups where you can stay anonymous and counselors can help you get through this. if you need to talk more about this, drop a message in my inbox and i'll be happy to talk to you. peace and love
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im trying to lose a little bit of weight. im wondering, if i start to lose weight, will my boobs get smaller? (link)
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hey! it depends on your genes. sometimes when girls lose weight they lsoe it everywhere but their boobs, and some start by losing it there, and some lose a little. so it depends, it's different for everybody. but because you will be losing weight, even if you do lose weight in your boobs too, they will still look about the same ony uor body, cause the proportions your body has will stay about the same. hope this helped and good luck! peace and love
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Well my boyfriend and i plan on having sex pretty soon and he wants to use 2 condoms for extra protection just incase... you know but do you think that's dumb and is there any kinds of condoms that are like extremely durable and are like guarenteed not to break or anything... please answer... thanx
-just asking... (link)
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hey! definitely go with only one condom. the friction might cause them to break, and the outer condom would stick to the one below and they could both "fall off". there are no condoms that are guaranteed not to break, cause theres always a possibility, and if they put that on the box an you got pregnant you could sue them. you should try taking a birth control pill, which would help reduce your chances of getting pregnant, even if the condom breaks. hope this helped, peace and love!
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hey! i can relate to what you are feeling, well, not every part of it, but some of it. i too found a great guy, and he moved a week ago to greece. and yeah, high school will be hard to start without him, but you'll manage. your friends are right, do give other guys a chance. even if they dont measure up to him, cause that will determine if hes really the guy. i'm sure you've heard the saying "love is blind," and i hope that this hasnt happened to you. i mean, there is probably a reason why your friends think that hes the player type, and i think that you should find out more about that. cause they may be right, but then again, sometimes friends are wrong. once hes guna move, the distance will determine if your guys are really meant for each other. i know this sounds cheesy, but if you guys can make it through that, then you could probably make it through a lot more. he says he wants you in his future, let him prove that to you. i dont think that doing it with him would be right, if hes guna be able to come every week-end or so to visit you, i dont think that you should do it. cause i dont think you're ready, i mean, its normal to be scared and nervous, but if you're not sure if you want to do it or not, then i wouldnt advise it. you're only 14 and you've got you're whole life ahead of you. 1 or 2 hours away isnt so bad, i have a friend who goes out with a guy who lives an hour away and shes really happy. in my opinion, i think that you should date around a little to see whats out there, if you keep comparing guys to him, then you're probably "stuck on him", but still open your eyes. you never know. i hope this helped, if you want to talk more, just leave a message in my inbox. good luck with your guy! peace and love
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What is the best age for a girl and a guy to get married?
And what should be a good age difference? (link)
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hey! true, when the guy and the girl are ready for it emotionally and financially, then there really isnt a riht age for marriage, or a right age difference. i think that once you fall in love, age really doesnt matter... hope this helped, peace and love
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