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Well i apologize first hand if this is kinda long but ineed help! 13/f ok so i have this guy friend(13)hes practiacally one of my best friends, like we tell each other everything. So i was talking to him and he says that he likes someone new and hwen i asked he described me and i was just like oh the thing i dont really see us as being more than friends liek were s close i dont want anything to change it we talked last night again so its notlike were not talking anymore and im just really afraid that when we go back to school tomorow itsgonna be awkward. I dont want it to be
different but the hard part was that hes like one of the sweetest guys ever (to me especially)and i feltsoo bad, and i aslo think hes mad a lot b/c before he told me he liked me he asked if i liked someone and i said yes,and wht can i expect tomorow and how can i prevent it?
I think tomorrow your friend might ignore you a little bit. Maybe try to avoid you even. He's just nervous that he might have ruined your friendship. Just try to reassure him that you want to still be friends if this happens. Don't bring it up to him unless you have to, though. It might just upset him. I hope I helped and if you have any more questions, feel free to ask. Good luck.
what do you think it the hottest thing a girl can do while she's kissing you?
It's different for every person, I guess. I'm sure that whatever you like, any boy would like too. If you want to try some new ways of kissing, try here: http://www.kissingbooth.com/kiss.htm
I hope I helped. Good luck.
hey so right now my itunes is down and i am very angry that it will not work AT ALL! so what i am wondering is can i put songs form limewire on to my ipod??? if this is possible plz give step by step instructions.....5's for quick clear answers! or if you no how to fix itunes 6..Thanks!!
Sorry, there's no other way to put songs on your iPod than by using iTunes. I don't know what's wrong with it, but if you haven't already, try uninstalling it and downloading it again from the Apple website. Sorry if this didn't really help. Good luck.
hey awww you are so cute!
so anyways...i need help...i like this guy who is the total opposite of me like he listen to rock and i listen to rap...i know we are completly opposite but im really attracted to him but the problem is that we just say hi to each other and there is no conversation!
helpme!
I mean, it's much easier said than done, but you just need to talk to him more. If this really means a lot to you, you need to put in the effort. He doesn't know how you feel, so it's all on you to make your relationship go somewhere. Talk to him online maybe or just go up to him and make the conversation go farther than "Hi". I know it's really hard to do, but there really isn't any other way. Sorry if this didn't really help but good luck. And if you have any more questions, feel free to ask.
okay well i broke up with this guy a month ago, we were goin out for about 4 months, and i left him for another guy because all he did was create drama and i was completly miserable! now he wont stop bothering me and he keeps sneding my song lyrics about how much he loves me and its really bothering me... are there any song lyrics about how youre over a person and want them to move on? and also what are some ways i could tell him im over him and i dont want him bcak? please help!! i really need him to stop bothering me! thanks! will rate high!!
Over by Jimmy Eat World and Chicago Is So Two Years Ago by Fall Out Boy are some good "I'm over you" songs. Just try to tell him that you don't like him anymore and everything he's doing is just making you like him less. Good luck.
alrighty i'm the 16/f like 4 questions down lol and i have another problem with the guy...our class is taking a trip far away, like technically outta the u.s and i'm not going. but he is...and so is this girl that possibly likes him. now i have my spies (aka best friends) going and watchin out for him, but should i worry about him hookin up with other girls on this trip with the way he's been acting towards me?
Well, before he goes just try asking him what's wrong. See if you can help with anything. Let him know you care. But, honestly, I don't think you have anything to worry about. I think that maybe the time apart could make him realize how much you mean to him or something... but yeah. I don't think he's going to hook up with anyone else. I mean, I could be wrong, but good luck. If you have any more questions or anything, ask.
OK at my school theres this dude. and of corese i like him i have for 3 years but anyways, he knows it and do im just tring to be his friend and he says i need to talk to hiim more. WHAT!!!??? I talk to him all the time and he just walks away. so me and him got in this fight and the next day (like he forgot the whole thing) waves at me like 3 times in the halls *WHATS HIS ISSUSE .......... i just wanted to know if any guy could translate what he's doing. PLEASE *~*Karlie*~*
Well, either he likes you and is just playing hard to get, or he doesn't like you and came up with an excuse. I think he likes the attention you give him and he is just pretending he doesn't for even more attention. Maybe don't talk to him for a little and see if he cares. Becoming his friend is important at first if you want to get into a relationship with him. So good luck.
On occasion I have these wierd feelings and i feel like any noise or music around me is made by my thoughts {probably makes no sense but atleast i know what im talking about} and the way i hear things sorta sound different, kinda like how a home made movie sounds. Everything sounds unreal. It usualy happens when im tired. Is this normal? Can anyone help me?
Wow, yeah. That totally happens to me when I'm tired, too. It's usually when I'm watching TV that I notice it, though. I mean, I don't think there's anything wrong with it at all, but who knows. I never thought it was a big deal. I'm surprised that it happens to others though. Sorry this didn't really help, but yeah. I wouldn't worry about it.
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alrighty so this guy likes me, i like him, i told him that i did and he started acting differently *like not talking to me as much* like we've hung out, gone on a "date", talked on the phone, but lately, he hasn't been the same. like whenever i hug him he just stands/sits there, he doesn't really answer me when i talk to him or he'll just start talking to his other friends, he told me he wanted to go out this weekend and that he'd call but he never did. and i'm still worried that it's all because i told him that i like him. i really don't know what to do because i really care for him and don't want to lose him, but i'm scared that i already have. can anyone please give me advice on what to do?!
I think he's just trying to play hard to get. I mean, I understand that he already "has" you, but he wants to make it seem like he doesn't need you. He might be afraid that you're going to leave him and he wants to look strong and like he doesn't need you. Just tell him that he shouldn't take you for granted and reassure him that you're there to stay. I hope I helped and, if you have any more questions, feel free to ask.
I'm going out with this guy that my friends just absolutely hate! One of my friends even threatened to stab him in the neck with her pocket knife during church! I don't want to break up with the guy because he's absolutely perfect to me. What should I do?
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Tell your friends the reasons why you like him. Explain to them that he treats you well, and they should understand that he makes you happy. They're your friends and they should understand.
I have been dating my boyfriend for alittle over a month and we are starting to fall for eachother alot. Last night he told me that he was scared because I have so much power over him and that he was scared that I might lead him somewhere wrong. What does this mean? I really don't understand!
He cares about you very much. He's afraid you might be leading him on and ditch him later for somebody else. He's worried that you're going to break his heart. Just reassure him you love him and that he means a lot to you. Let him know you aren't going anywhere, and you should enjoy the time you have together while it lasts. Good luck.
what are some exersizes that i can do at home that REALLY do work? and fast? i rate 5's
Sit-ups and push-ups are the things I like to do the most. You can adjust the amount you do to your own needs. As time goes on, you can increase how many, too.
hey !! how can you make writing bold on advicenator ???
i rate !!
Put < B > (without the spaces) before what you want to be bold. Then, when you want it to go back to the normal font, put < /B> (without the spaces).
I have a great life and everything, but it seems like somethings missing. Maybe I need a Boyfriend?.. Like i could get one but idk I'm so confused. and i always wanna cry. please help. ( i'm 13)
I completely understand. Like, sometimes my life is going perfectly and then there's just that one thing that I just can't stop thinking about. It's like a problem that can't be solved. Well, it can, but it won't unless you do something about it. And if somehow it got fixed, your life would feel perfect. It was all about a girl for me, but if that isn't your problem, try asking yourself what would make your life even better. Maybe a sport or a hobby. Or a boyfriend. If you have any more questions or anything, feel free to ask. I hope I helped.
hii. i think i am fat i weigh 141 and i dont like the way i look so im thinking about becoming anerixic for just a few weeks to shed some pounds. But i heard it can be dangerous
Yes, please don't become anorexic. It becomes an addiction and you WON'T be able to stop, even if you promise yourself you will. Find good ways to lose weight like exercise and eating healthy. Eating disorders are terrible things and they will ruin your life even more in the long run. If you need to talk about this more, feel free. And promise me, don't become anorexic. Please?
Well this all started last February...
I met sumone on the internet last January..and she was going to the theater in February.
I thought it would be great to meet her. At the time she went with another boy...her other friends went too. From the moment I saw her that February...ive loved her....so much that i isolated myself for her...What I mean is that her friends liked me left and right...so many liked me at one time it was hard to choose...but I knew it would break her heart to see me going with one of her friends...I rejected all of them and isolated myself for that one person. I have loved her for so long...and I thought it would soon come true that we may love eachother truely..
But we've become sooo close of friends...that she is afraid if we go together that we may break up and lose everything...even our friendship.
Ive told her that i would do nething for her and i love her more than the white hot intensity of a million suns. And ive also told her that i will always love her...i told her this wen i first met her...and here i am...still single waiting on her...ive havent turned down my promise and i was told that i could not keep it...I knew i would keep it...and she is the only thing that i look forward to in my life...she is my everything...
Now im a boy 14 yrs. and i always see these things where there are boys who only has a chapter of love in their lives...but in a girls...its the whole book. Well its a whole vice versa feeling for me...i love her with all my heart and would do nething
I would even let her go with sumone else as long as shes happy...because its as far as i can go...but im trying my best to show my love for her.
I dont want to get over her...shes the love of my life...just tell me what you think i need to do because ive waiting for close to a year now for her...and i know that I think about her until one o' clock at night and wake up at 6:45 just to think about her...im this desperate for her.
She has given me soooo much and i have given her just as much she says...but she just cant get over this one person but he hurts her like shes his slave in life...and i cry for her
I wish it would stop and I kno if we went together right now...paradise will be spread throughout my life because she is all I think about. It may seem that im saying the same thing over and over but I know that if i tried...i could write a book about her..
Someone please help me and i will give you a five if you give me nething..
just please help me
Im desperate for her....and sorry this is sooo long!
I've been close to where you're feeling, so I'm definitely going to try to help. It's good that you want to see her happy, even if it isn't with you. That's important, because, no matter how sure you are that you could make her happy, she might not be. If she hasn't broken up with her boyfriend who treats her terribly, all you can do is be there to support her. Waiting for over a year is extremely unfair to you, and she really is lucky to have somebody who is willing to do that. Hopefully, she'll come around eventually. Just keep in mind that most teenage relationships end relatively fast and you should have your chance soon enough. If it goes on for much longer, I'm sorry to say, but you should either let her know how unbearable it is for you, or try to get over her. Maybe tell her this is her last chance. You're tired of waiting (It's kind of harsh, but it might work). None of this is fair to you, but I do understand how much you care about her. Give it some more time and good luck. You deserve her. It isn't your fault that you aren't together. Here's hoping things work out for you eventually.
ok so i really like this girl how do i impress her?cause i asked er out already but she never gave me a straight answer and she's still thinkin so yeah answer
Give her some space. Try to become close friends with her first. Be there for her and if she doesn't like you right now, she could fall for you later. Try not to come off as desperate, but let her know you're still interested.
hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother she has been acting wierd around us when i am over there adn she doesnt hang out with us as much and she has a bunch of guys that r just friends that r over there all teh time too adn i feel weird like i suddenly become all protective like her bro! please help
I know how much it sucks to hear this, but before doing anything, you need to decide who is more important to you: your friend or his sister because the first thing you have to do is talk to your friend about it. If he's cool at all, he won't stop being your friend or anything, but he probably will say no. From there, you can either just listen to him and try to get over her, or make a move anyway. It'd be smart of you to see if she's interested in you at all, though. Try flirting with her and see her reaction. If she's interested, then you could always ask her to talk to her brother. Of course, if it's cool with both of them, then you're golden. If you have any more questions, feel free to ask.
ok well there is this guy at my school who really likes me and I really like him too. However, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and lately I have been questioning my feelings about him and me. But when I think of breaking up with him i get really upset to the point where my eyes tear up. And this weekend I went over to my friends house on Saturday and he laid on the bed next to me and had his arms around me and he also held my hand....and then I went back over Sunday and he was constantly holding my hand and I don't think we let go for more than about 10 minutes, he would put his arm around me when he was behind me and then later on that night before i left he kissed me. And I kind of enjoyed this but I don't know how to tell my boyfriend. And I want to take a break from him but he said he doesn't do breaks and he doesn't give his ex-girlfriends another chance so this is the only chance I have with him, and I'm afraid that I'm going to regret my decision. What do I do?
Well, you can have either of those guys. They both like you, so the decision is all up to you. You just need to ask yourself how great of a guy this friend of yours is. I'm sure he understands you have a boyfriend and won't force you to leave him. You can continue what you're doing, but there's always a chance your boyfriend might find out. Try to make a list of the good and bad aspects of each person or something. It might help. You should really make this decision sooner rather than later. Sorry if this didn't really help, but good luck anyway.