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my boyfriend
I have been dating my boyfriend for alittle over a month and we are starting to fall for eachother alot. Last night he told me that he was scared because I have so much power over him and that he was scared that I might lead him somewhere wrong. What does this mean? I really don't understand!
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he means if ypu smoke or do drug or something,you could convert him to use it too
i think he rlly loves u then if he thinks u got so much control over him =)
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It's just his way of saying he loves you.
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well i think it means that he is scared to love you because he doesnt want to get hurt. this could have happened to him in the past or to someone he knew well. he thinks your to good to be true. hope i helped plz rate me high thanks!!! ♥ terri!!!
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This is very normal. I feel this way with my boyfriend sometimes. His feelings for you are so strong that he trusts you completely and will do anything to make you happy. He knows this and it scares him because he's afraid that he may do something for you that is against his own beliefs or values. What you should do is talk to him about it and tell him that you would never do anything to hurt him and that you always have his interests and feelings in mind. This is not a bad thing unless of course you start using him, which I'm sure you won't so no worries. I hope everything works out for you and good luck!
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- Either he's looking for an excuse to break up
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- You come across a bit over-powering and it feels that you're wearing the trousers on the realtionship and being forward with him.
Main thing is to ask him how you can stop having so much power...see what he says! :)
x Steph x
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If I'm interpreting what you're saying right... I think it means that he's afraid you could convince him to do something he doesn't really want to do. That could mean almost anything, actually. From something like drugs he doesn't wanna do, sex, stealing.. whatever. I'm not implying that you do those things, but that could be what he's afraid of. This could possibly be the first time he's ever fallen for someone the way that he has... It sounds like he's in one of those phases where he could easily be persuaded. In other words, he gives in to peer pressure easily.
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Sounds like you can probably get him to do anything that you want.. He`s scared you`ll ask him to do something that he don`t want to or something.. i`d ask him to get a more clearer answer.. ♥ Dez
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He cares about your relationship. He wouldn't mention it if he didn't want it to last.
You should talk to him and ask him what you can do to let him have a little more power. Maybe his personality's just like that.
But give him a chance and it will work out!
Kylie:)
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He cares about you very much. He's afraid you might be leading him on and ditch him later for somebody else. He's worried that you're going to break his heart. Just reassure him you love him and that he means a lot to you. Let him know you aren't going anywhere, and you should enjoy the time you have together while it lasts. Good luck.
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